126. We're Back in the Same House but it Still Feels Cold

Are you ready to be close again with your partner? You and your partner have drifted apart and you’re at a phase in your marriage where you miss your partner, and the closeness you once had.If you’re trying things that aren’t working, it is probably because you're forcing a type of pressure that is unnecessary in your marriage. To get the closeness back, you need to start small so everyone feels safe.In this episode, I outline 3 things you can do to work on the emotional and physical intimacy in your marriage. This work is so important for a healthy marriage and a close relationship with your partner.Click the link to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you!If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book a call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect!P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started!BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves

This episode is for couples who decided to take a physical break from one another, and are now back together. The break could have been for a few hours, or for a few months, but now that you’re back in the same house, it still feels cold.The thing is, you can’t just hit the reset button on your relationship and time isn’t going to heal unresolved pain. You have to be intentional about repairing your relationship.I share 3 steps to take for intentional reconnection. These are very practical steps anyone can take to start rebuilding the emotional closeness with your partner.Click the link to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you!If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book a call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect!P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started!BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves

You might blame yourself when betrayal happens, or something shifts in your relationship. When you turn the betrayal inward, you ask yourself questions like ‘how could I have been so dumb?’ or ‘how could I have not seen the signs?’The problem with this is that it will destroy your self-trust, which will affect so many areas of your life.If this is your current situation, and you just want to know it’s not all your fault, I share three things you can do to start to heal. This exercise will help you stop second guessing yourself and reclaim your confidence.Click the link to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you!If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book a call⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect!P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started!BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves

If you feel like you’re the only one doing all of the emotional work in your relationship, your resentment is probably building. You can start to feel like the marriage therapist of your own marriage.You feel unseen and unappreciated, because you’re the only one holding space for your relationship. You’re the only one initiating serious talks or remembering special celebrations.If this is the case for you, I have three things I want you to do. These three things will help you and your partner understand each other better and work towards a stronger, more balanced relationship.Click the link to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you!If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, ⁠⁠⁠⁠book a call⁠⁠⁠⁠ so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect!P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started!BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves

If you have been betrayed by your partner, and you are going crazy because you don’t have the entire story, this episode is for you.I explain the reasons why this is driving you crazy, and how you can reframe the situation to move forward.Learn why rehashing the details of the betrayal won’t fix your relationship, and what you need to do to heal you both as partners instead.Click the link to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you!If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, ⁠⁠⁠book a call⁠⁠⁠ so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect!P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started!BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves

Are you and your partner at the “roommate stage"? This is what many people call the situation when you rarely argue, but you’re just not really connecting.In this episode, I explain what might be going on in your relationship and why this can become an even bigger issue.I also share the specific actions you need to take, step by step, in order to heal your marriage and bring back the connection you both once had.Click the link to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you!If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, ⁠⁠book a call⁠⁠ so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect!P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started!BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves

Let’s talk about when they apologized, but you still don’t feel better.If you are going through a rough time in your relationship, and you were betrayed, it may feel like no matter how many times they say “I’m sorry” it isn’t enough.In this episode, I tell you why even though they apologized, which is what you wanted, you still don’t feel better.I share the questions you need to ask yourself to create an accountability blueprint to help you and your partner heal and strengthen your relationship.Click the link to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you!If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, ⁠book a call⁠ so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect!P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started!BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves

Welcome to the Relationship Reset Podcast! In this episode I explain why I took a pause from recording podcasts and renamed the show.I share some updates with you and remind you that you are allowed to pause in your life, too. Sometimes we need to slow down, pause something, so we can focus on what is most important.Check out my newly relaunched website, www.karinafdaves.com, done by Brittany of Break of Dawn Studio.And make sure you’re following me on Instagram @karinafdaves. I’m working with Business Brand and Marketing Coach Kierra of KLC The Studio to create new content.I’m super excited about these updates and I look forward to continuing to give you advice on how to repair and rebuild your relationship!Click the link to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you!If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, book a call so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect!P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started!BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves

Welcome to our new podcast series - Through Thick & Thin. This is a 3 part series and the 3 parts are going to be the 3 different instances that I believe hit every relationship at some point. Part 2 is about something that is completely normal in all marriages, when the spark fades. I share reasons why the spark fades, examples from my own marriage, and walk you through 5 things you can do to bring the spark back. The solution for when the spark fades is simple, but it’s a long game. So keep these 5 things in mind to bring the spark back into your marriage. Click the link below to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you! If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, book a call so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect! Or text ‘relationship’ to (208) 943-5363 to get your relationship questions answered privately by me through The Relationship Hotline! P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started! BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves⁠

Welcome to our new podcast series - Through Thick & Thin. This is a 3 part series and the 3 parts are going to be the 3 different instances that I believe hit every relationship at some point.  Part 1 is about when life throws you a curveball. And by this I mean when something outside of your relationship happens that you were not expecting. I explain how you can use the acronym ACE (acknowledge the challenge, create a plan, and emotionally support each other) to make your relationship stronger when you deal with unexpected curveballs. I also share a few examples of curveballs in my own marriage and how we dealt with it. Click the link below to listen, and let me know what you think - I’d love to hear from you! If this episode hits home and you’re ready to work with me, book a call so we can chat. On the call, you’ll share what’s going on, what you’ve tried, and I’ll share how I can help. Can’t wait to connect! Or text ‘relationship’ to (208) 943-5363 to get your relationship questions answered privately by me through The Relationship Hotline! P.S. This podcast is sponsored by ⁠⁠⁠BetterHelp®⁠⁠⁠. Get professional support at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. ⁠⁠⁠Sign up today and get 10% off your first month - click the ⁠⁠⁠⁠link⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠to get started! BetterHelp:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/karinafdaves/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@karinafdaves⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Personal Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.karinafdaves.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqltTvx_7zO5PqgwPle13Gw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Amazon Storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/karinafdaves⁠