[April 2025] The Art of Confrontation—When, How, and Why.

Confrontation is one of the most challenging aspects of leadership, yet it’s an unavoidable and necessary part of growth. Welcome to today’s episode of Lead with Integrity. I’m your host, Tom Durrance, and today we’re diving into The Art of Confrontation—when, how, and why leaders must have difficult conversations. Whether you’re addressing performance issues, navigating team conflicts, or standing firm on organizational values, knowing how to confront effectively can make all the difference. In this episode, we’ll explore practical strategies to help you approach tough conversations with clarity, confidence, and care.

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In this podcast, we’ll discuss leadership and lordship. At what point in your leadership could you start to lord over God’s people as if you own them? Lordship is self-serving and has no place in the Kingdom. If you honorably steward God’s resources (people), then God will send you more. Let’s get back to leading God’s wonderful people with love.

Battle scars can be fatal, but battle-tested can be helpful. In this podcast, we'll explore how to turn your scars into badges of honor. As time passes, you become a highly decorated soldier of the cross. Keep leading, keep marching; you are doing well, my friend.

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Have you ever felt like no one notices you? You work hard, give your best, and wonder if you're making a difference. In this podcast, we'll explore that very thought and feeling. But the simple answer is, yes, you are making a difference.