Doulas Unhinged podcast

Ep 41: How to Support Partners Through Grief

10/14/2026
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When the unimaginable happens, partners are often expected to be strong, support mom, and keep everything moving. But who is supporting them?

In this episode, Lacey and Alex explore the often-overlooked grief of partners following miscarriage, stillbirth, and pregnancy loss. They discuss how partners’ experiences may differ from the birthing parent’s, why quiet grief can go unnoticed, and how couples can navigate loss when their needs and ways of processing don’t match.

From asking meaningful questions and acknowledging their parenthood to helping with household responsibilities and remembering important dates, this conversation offers practical ways friends, family, and doulas can show up for both parents—long after the initial wave of support fades.

A partner’s grief deserves space, even when they appear to be functioning and caring for everyone else.

Content note: This episode discusses pregnancy loss, stillbirth, grief, and traumatic birth experiences. Please listen when and if you feel ready.

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