The Truth About Narcissism: Dr. Jaime Zuckerman on Abuse, Gaslighting & Healing (The Velvet)

Kelly and Chip are back—well, sort of. After realizing Chip had literally nothing to add to Kelly’s deep dive with sex expert Kim Anami about the female orgasm, we decided to take a different approach. The sexual conversation continues... Kelly and Chip talk to intimacy expert, Susan Bratton, on all things intimacy and sex. Kelly inquires about why sex is the one area of our lives that we don't put the growth work into like we do everything else. Chip discovers new questions about sexual soulmates. Susan also talks about her own journey from being unsatisfied sexually in her marriage and finally speaking up to her husband and choosing intimacy over divorce. She gives tips on taking the sexual growth step solo or with your partner to keep evolving sexually. The purpose of this conversation is to normalize a topic that has become so "taboo" to discuss yet is a fixture in every person's day to day life. Susan teaches that there is beauty in learning together, even if it is a bit uncomfortable first. Socials: @susanbrattonWebsite: susanbratton.com Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] TikTok: @velvetsedge Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why does the female orgasm still feel like one of life’s biggest mysteries—even in 2025? This week on Velvet’s Edge, Kelly is joined by board-certified sexologist and host of the Orgasmic Enlightenment podcast, Kim Anami. Known for her transformational retreats and global work around intimacy, Kim breaks down the myths, mental blocks, and cultural baggage that keep so many women from experiencing their full pleasure. From the reasons society still struggles with good sex, to why women orgasm differently solo versus with a partner, to how menopause and aging shift intimacy—Kim shares her wealth of knowledge on reconnecting with your body and reclaiming your right to pleasure. You’ll hear practical tools for women who struggle to orgasm, advice for men who want to be better lovers, and the empowering truth that sex gets to be better at every stage of life. Website: kimanami.com Podcast: Orgasimic Enlightenment Socials: @kimanami Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] TikTok: @velvetsedge Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Chip and Kelly take the big Virgo–Pisces energy and make it personal. From Virgo’s perfectionism and endless worry spirals to Pisces illusions and chasing dreams, they ask: are we overthinking life, or just not seeing it clearly? They swap stories of the little things they obsess about, times they projected fantasies onto people, and moments when reality finally hit. Lighthearted, relatable, and a little too honest—this episode is proof we’re all just trying to figure it out one worry (or dream) at a time. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] TikTok: @velvetsedge Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Astrologer Marvin Wilkerson returns to Velvet’s Edge to break down the powerful cosmic shifts happening with the Virgo New Moon and upcoming Pisces Eclipse. We explore: What Virgo energy really means—service, humility, and the “womb of time” where transformation begins. How this New Moon calls us to digest life experiences, face self-criticism, and find spiritual clarity. Why Uranus squaring the New Moon could shake up rigid routines and spark intuitive breakthroughs. The Pisces Eclipse and how it asks us to confront illusions, prejudice, and the deeper wounds of humanity. Pluto and Mars—why suppressed conflict can’t stay hidden and how to channel it into conscious action. Marv shares how these energy patterns are pushing us to release outdated habits, balance service with self-truth, and find footing in chaotic times. Whether you’re a Virgo, Pisces, or just feeling the collective weight, this episode is a guide for navigating the next six months with clarity and purpose. Book a personal chart reading with Marv: [email protected] Book: Soul Fusion Healing Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Following up on the conversation with Dr. Z, Kelly and Chip dive into the 9 traits of narcissism as outlined in the DSM-5. Kelly shares her own experience of being in relationships with narcissists—what it looked like, how it felt, and the signs she missed at the time. She also opens up about the indicators she watches for now to know if she’s falling into the same pattern again. Together, Kelly and Chip break down what these traits really mean, how to recognize them in real life, and how understanding them can be the first step toward breaking free from the cycle. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] TikTok: @velvetsedge Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Licensed clinical psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jaime Zuckerman (Dr. Z) unpacks today’s cultural obsession with narcissism and explains why the term has become one of the most overused buzzwords of modern psychology. She clarifies the difference between narcissistic traits and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), offering insight into the clinical reality behind the label.The episode explores the insidious nature of narcissistic abuse—how confusion, gaslighting, and trauma bonding can leave victims doubting themselves long after the relationship ends. Dr. Z discusses who may be more susceptible to these dynamics, the connection between narcissism and addiction, and the psychological mechanisms that keep people stuck in toxic relationships.Practical strategies for recovery and healing are also addressed, including reclaiming boundaries, rebuilding self-trust, and taking back personal power. This conversation provides clarity for anyone seeking to understand narcissism more deeply and insight for those navigating the lasting impact of narcissistic abuse.Website: drjaimezuckerman.com Podcast: Next Up Narcissism  Socials: @dr.z_psychologist Check out Dr. Z's Books HERE!   Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly and Chip get curious (and a little cheeky) about what our bodies reveal without us ever saying a word. From the truth about eye contact to whether “resting face” really sends the wrong message, they explore the everyday signals we all miss—and how to spot them. Inspired by their recent chat with expert Adrianne Carter, this is body language decoded in a way that’s equal parts fun, relatable, and surprisingly useful. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] TikTok: @velvetsedge Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Did you know that most of what we communicate never comes out of our mouths? This week on Velvet’s Edge, Kelly sits down with internationally recognized body language expert and consumer psychology specialist Adrianne Carter to unpack the hidden signals behind our emotions. From spotting red flags in dating and knowing when someone’s lying, to the power of eye contact, confidence cues, and how Botox and filters affect how we connect—Adrianne explains why body language is the ultimate truth-teller. Whether you’re navigating relationships, building trust at work, or just want to sharpen your “noticer” skills, this conversation will change the way you see people (and yourself) forever. Adrianne on: Instagram TikTok LinkedIn Ted Talk:  bit.ly/ACTxTalk Website: https://adriannecarter.com   Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Kelly and Chip follow up on Kelly’s inspiring conversation with Bonnie Hammer—legendary media executive and author of 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work… and the Truth We Need to Succeed. From the leaders who challenged us in all the right (and sometimes wrong) ways, to the leadership traits that inspire us most, we unpack the lessons that stick. Plus, we share our favorite “truths vs. myths” from Bonnie’s book and why they hit so hard in our own careers and lives. All Things Bonnie: bonnie-hammer.com Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bonnie Hammer spent decades running the most high-pressure, male-dominated rooms in entertainment as the former Vice Chair of NBCUniversal — launching hits like Suits, Mr. Robot, and The Sinner along the way. Now, she’s telling the truth about the “empowering” career advice that’s actually holding women back. In this conversation, we dive into her new book 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work…and the Truth We Need to Succeed, breaking down why “just work hard,” “your work speaks for itself,” and “know your worth” can keep women small, silent, and stuck. Bonnie shares how to lead without hardening, the underestimated traits that make women incredible leaders, and what success looks like when you finally choose yourself. It’s an honest, career-meets-self-worth conversation about ambition, boundaries, and redefining power on your own terms. All Things Bonnie: bonnie-hammer.com Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.