Am I Burnt Out… or Is My Job the Problem?

We are so back to chat in between meetings as a little bonus episode! We rant about the drama in the reality TV world, and my (kind of awful) IUD experience! Love you!! What should we rant about next!? Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

You’re not lazy. You’re not “bad at your job.” But you might be asking the wrong question. In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between burnout and a toxic work environment — because they feel the same, but the solution is completely different. If you’ve been feeling anxious before work, second-guessing your abilities, or wondering why a job that “looks good on paper” is draining you… this is your reality check. We’ll get into: The key signs you’re actually burnt out (and how to fix it) The red flags your workplace is the real problem Why high performers are the most likely to misdiagnose this How to rebuild your confidence when work starts messing with your head What to do next (stay, set boundaries, or leave) This episode will help you figure out what’s really going on — so you can stop spiraling and start making the right move for your career. And if you want the step-by-step playbook for navigating this (and everything else your job won’t teach you), you can pre-order my book here: https://emilydurham.org/clock-in Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

Pre order my book: https://emilydurham.org/clock-in   SIGH. How are we still having to talk about this!? There are rules in corporate that nobody writes down… but every woman learns the hard way. In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 unspoken rules every corporate woman knows—the ones that quietly shape your reputation, your promotions, and how seriously you’re taken at work. From navigating likeability vs. competence, to understanding how perception impacts your growth, these are the career realities that HR doesn’t warn you about (but absolutely matter). If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not getting ahead, this episode will help you understand what’s actually going on behind the scenes—and how to play the game without losing yourself. Whether you're early in your career or already in the workforce, this is your guide to corporate survival, office politics, and getting ahead as a woman at work. Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

URGENT OFFICE GOSISP SESSION!  You may have seen a little bit on my Instagram stories, but I really needed to gossip with my team (you!) about this week. All I am going to say is- we need to debrief on the bob that is ruining my life.  Thankfully hair grows back and it isn't that serious but lol- I needed to rant! Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

What happens when your life looks perfect on paper… but feels completely wrong? In today’s episode, I’m joined by Alessia Scauzillo — the creator behind Alessia Sculpt — who went from a high-performing career in corporate finance to completely rebuilding her life, career, and identity from the ground up. Alessia is a wellness creator and founder of A Sculpt Body, where she’s built a community centered around balanced fitness, body confidence, and creating a life that actually feels good — not just one that looks good on paper. In this conversation, we get into: how to know when you’ve outgrown your life the difference between being “fine” vs actually fulfilled leaving a relationship, a career, or an identity that no longer fits making decisions that feel terrifying… but necessary and what it really looks like to start over If you’ve been sitting with that gut feeling that something isn’t right — this episode is your sign. Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

Check out my debut book & send us questions: linktr.ee/admin Ever feel like you have good ideas… but the second you speak in a meeting you suddenly sound junior? In this episode, I’m breaking down the communication shifts that helped me sound more credible and more strategic early in my career — even when I didn’t have the title yet. I’ll walk you through how to stop over-explaining, stop asking for unnecessary validation, and start speaking in a way that signals leadership potential. Because sounding confident at work isn’t about being the loudest person in the room — it’s about being the clearest. If you want to be taken seriously before your experience fully catches up, this episode is for you. Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

Check out Clock In (the book lol): https://emilydurham.org/clock-in LinkedIn doesn’t have to feel awkward, performative, or painfully corporate. In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 simple, strategic ways to get noticed on LinkedIn — without sounding cringey, self-obsessed, or like you’re trying too hard. Whether you’re job searching, building a personal brand, or quietly positioning yourself for your next big opportunity, visibility matters more than you think. The good news? You don’t need viral posts or fake thought-leadership to stand out. You’ll learn: • The easiest way to increase profile visibility (that almost no one is doing consistently) • How to engage in a way that builds real professional relationships • A subtle positioning shift that makes recruiters and decision-makers take you seriously If you’ve ever wondered how some people seem to “magically” attract opportunities online — this episode will show you the strategy behind it.   Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

So... we are all OBSESSED with Lo, right? Get more of Lo: http://lvrstyle.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stylelvr/?hl=en The Lo Life Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lo-life/id1514680476 In this episode, Emily sits down with Lorenzo VonRumpf — celebrity stylist and founder of LVR STYLE — to talk about the career skills no one teaches you. From dressing in a way that actually supports your professional brand, to learning how to stop taking everything at work personally, Lo shares the mindset and personal branding strategies that help people stand out in competitive industries. With years of experience shaping the public image of executives, athletes, and television personalities, he explains why how you present yourself matters more than people think — and how to use it to your advantage. Emily and Lo also discuss how to stay confident around difficult personalities, why emotional resilience is a career superpower, and the subtle ways personal style can influence how seriously you're taken at work. If you've ever wondered how to look the part, build a stronger personal brand, and stay unbothered while doing it, this conversation is for you. Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

PRE- ORDER CLOCK IN: https://emilydurham.org/clock-in You don’t need to love your job. You just need to hate it a little less. In this episode, we’re talking about the reality no one posts on LinkedIn: sometimes your job isn’t toxic, it’s just… draining. And quitting isn’t always the smartest move. If you feel stuck, underwhelmed, underpaid, or just mildly resentful Monday through Friday — this is for you. We’ll break down: • Why “do what you love” is terrible career advice • How to separate burnout from boredom • Small strategic shifts that increase leverage (without blowing up your income) • The difference between a bad job and bad boundaries Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.

Buy Clock In: emilydurham.org/clockin You’re scared to take time off. Not because you’re “so busy.” Not because the timing is bad. Not because your job is uniquely demanding. You’re scared. In this episode, we’re talking about the real reason employees avoid taking sick days and vacation — even when they’re burned out, exhausted, or literally sick. From unused PTO and presenteeism to work anxiety and fear of being replaceable, we’re unpacking why so many high performers would rather work sick than log off. If you’ve ever: Logged on while sick Left paid time off unused Felt guilty booking vacation Told yourself “now’s not a good time” for the 12th time This one’s for you. We’ll break down the psychology behind taking time off, the workplace culture that fuels burnout, and what it actually signals when you’re afraid to step away. Because not using your sick days or vacation isn’t loyalty. It’s fear. And it’s costing you more than you think. Got a career question you want answered on the show? Submit it here! 🎧 Listen to Clock In for real career talk, job search advice, and unfiltered recruiter insights — new episodes every Wednesday.