When People Pleasing Is Costing You Too Much with Amanda Baudier

(Episode #363) How much of yourself are you editing to stay likable?This week, Zoey is joined by spiritual teacher and wise woman Amanda Baudier. After two decades helping build businesses like Sakara Life and Melissa Wood Health, Amanda knows what it feels like to keep proving yourself. She also knows the freedom of finally letting people have their opinions while you get on with being who you came here to be.Zoey shares the beliefs about aging that came knocking at 35, opening up a conversation about why we put expiration dates on our dreams in the first place. Amanda’s invitation to “dream slower” feels especially good if you’ve been chasing your calling with one eye on everyone else’s timeline. Together, they get honest about people pleasing and the shame that can keep us quiet, including what it means to trust ourselves enough to speak when the conversation is uncomfortable. There’s room to want more from your life without spending the whole thing trying to prove you’re enough.In this episode:00:00 Welcome back + introducing Amanda Baudier03:43 A humming practice to help you feel present08:35 The pressure to be a likable woman23:32 Reconnecting with your ancestral wisdom37:37 You can want more without feeling behind50:51 When shame keeps you from trying again01:08:12 Your spiritual gifts have a bigger purpose🎥 Meet us in the studio! Watch and subscribe on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@TheZoeyGrecoStay connected with AmandaInstagram: instagram:@amandabaudierSubstack: https://amandabaudier.substack.com/becoming collective: https://www.becoming-collective.com/Website: https://www.amandabaudier.com/💫 Connect with ZoeyInstagram: instagram:@thezoeygrecoTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thezoeygrecoSubstack: https://zoeygreco.substack.com/Website: https://zoeygreco.com/☎️ If you loved this episode, take a second to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss the next hotline ring. Share it with someone you’d love to build alongside and tag Zoey if something resonated with you!🎰 Win a FREE Numerology Report!Take a screenshot of your rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, then send it to @thezoeygreco on Instagram to enter the monthly drawing.✨ Take my FREE quiz! What’s your intuitive style? Discover your unique intuitive gifts: http://zoeygreco.com/quizJoin The Bitching Hour: https://jointhebitchinghour.com/Get 10% off your yearly Numerology Report: https://start.zoeygreco.com/numerologyDon’t miss the next Pajama Party: https://zoeygreco.com/pajama-partySubscribe to Zoey’s newsletter: https://zoeygreco.com/opt-in🎧 Audio + Video Editing by: Mike Simshttp://echovalleyaudio.comContact: [email protected]🎙️ Produced by: Crystina Creativehttps://crystinacreative.com/Contact: [email protected]: Amanda Baudier, Zoey Greco, The Higher Self Hotline, people pleasing, overcoming people pleasing, self-trust, self-worth, women’s wisdom, aging and self-worth, embodied spirituality, spiritual discernment, cultural appropriation, ancestral wisdom, ambition and burnout, enoughness, shame, somatic practices, spiritual leadership, becoming collective

Collective Numerology Forecast for October: You’re Not Meant to Build It AloneYou know what you want to build. Who do you want building it with you?This week Zoey and Amelia are back with your October numerology forecast. October is a collective 2 month, and Zoey wants us to pay attention to our people. Who believes in what we’re making? Who can we ask for help? And where are we still trying to do everything ourselves? After a month that pushed us to get moving, there’s some relief in hearing that we can give what we’ve started time to grow.Amelia shares that she’s finishing the first draft of her novel, and Zoey talks about the show she’s decided to make. Both are at the beginning of something big, and neither knows exactly where it will lead. They talk about the friends who get excited with you, the support you find when you let people in and how to tell when you’re bending yourself to belong somewhere that doesn’t feel right.In this episode we’re talking about:00:00 Welcome Back to The Higher Self Hotline and October’s Forecast13:20 Amelia’s Personal Year 3 and Finishing Her First Novel17:50 What Amelia’s Personal Month 4 Means for Her Next Chapter26:21 Zoey’s Personal Year 8 and Her Vision for a Show40:01 October’s Collective 2 Month Numerology Forecast47:08 Calling In Community and Choosing Your Collaborators49:25 People-Pleasing, Intuition and Finding Where You Belong ☎️ If you loved this episode, take a second to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss the next hotline ring. Share it with someone you’d love to build alongside and tag Zoey if something resonated with you!🎰 Win a FREE Numerology Report! Take a screenshot of your rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, then send it to @thezoeygreco on Instagram to enter the monthly drawing.✨ Take my FREE quiz! What’s your intuitive style? Discover your unique intuitive gifts: http://zoeygreco.com/quizJoin The Bitching Hour: https://jointhebitchinghour.com/Get 10% off your yearly Numerology Report: https://start.zoeygreco.com/numerologyDon’t miss the next Pajama Party: https://zoeygreco.com/pajama-partySubscribe to Zoey’s newsletter: https://zoeygreco.com/opt-in💫 Connect with Zoey here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thezoeygreco/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thezoeygrecoWebsite: https://zoeygreco.com📚 Connect with Amelia here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevelvetpage_/Substack: https://ameliabux.substack.com🎧 Audio + Video Editing by: Mike Sims | https://echovalleyaudio.comContact: [email protected]: October numerology forecast, October collective numerology forecast, October universal month 2, collective month 2 meaning, number 2 numerology meaning, numerology and relationships, numerology and partnerships, personal year numerology, personal month numerology, trusting your intuition, finding your community, people-pleasing in relationships

Hello, divine darlings, and welcome to our first-ever Hotline Round Table! This week, Zoey is joined by Kitty Knorr and Cat Lantigua to talk about creative callings, the angst of ignoring the ideas that won’t leave you alone and why you don’t need to feel completely confident before you start.You know that idea that keeps coming back no matter how many times you try to ignore it? What would happen if you kept pulling on that thread? What happens when you stop waiting for proof and let yourself follow the “what if?” instead? From building your own DIY empire to finding the right people to create alongside, this conversation is about trusting what wants to come through you and being delusional enough to believe something new is possible.In this episode, we talk about:00:00 Welcome Back and Introducing Kitty Knorr and Cat Lantigua03:00 Following Your Curiosity Without Self-Belief12:03 Creative Yearning and Following Your Desires29:00 Building Your Own DIY Empire42:19 Delusion as Fuel for Creativity51:25 The Ingredients of Delusion01:15:06 Creativity, Community and Collective ImpactStay Connected with KittyInstagram: @kittyknorrTikTok: @kittyknorrWebsite: kittyknorr.comStay Connected with CatInstagram: @cat.lantiguaTikTok: @awake.bookclubWebsite: catlantigua.com☎️ If you loved this episode, take a second to rate, review, and subscribe to get a hotline ring for future episodes. Share it with someone you love and follow along on socials for more. If you feel led to share what came up for you, please tag us on socials – Zoey loves to hear what resonated with the collective!🎰 Win a FREE Numerology Report! Take a screenshot of your rating + review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, then send the screenshot to @thezoeygreco on Instagram to be entered into a monthly drawing!✨ Take my FREE quiz! What’s your intuitive style? Discover your unique intuitive gifts with my free quiz: http://zoeygreco.com/quizJoin The Bitching Hour with Zoey and Brittany: https://jointhebitchinghour.com/Get Your 10% off your yearly Numerology Report here: https://start.zoeygreco.com/numerologyDon’t miss the next Pajama Party! https://zoeygreco.com/pajama-partySubscribe to Zoey’s newsletter for weekly love notes to your inbox: https://zoeygreco.com/opt-in💫 Connect with Zoey here: Instagram: @thezoeygrecoTikTok: @thezoeygreco🎧 Audio + Video Editing by:Mike Sims | echovalleyaudio.comContact: [email protected]🎙️ Produced by:Crystina Creative | crystinacreative.comInstagram: [email protected], creative confidence, creative process, creative thinking, creative potential, self-belief, creative self-confidence, how to be more creative, creative inspiration, creative motivation, overcoming self-doubt, trusting yourself, following your intuition, taking creative action, creative expression, creative entrepreneurship, creative community, creative collaboration, creative calling, delusion, Kitty Knorr, Cat Lantigua, Zoey Greco, The Higher Self Hotline

(Episode #360) What happens when the part of you that's dying refuses to go quietly? In this episode of The Bitching Hour's live coaching series, we're sitting with surrender, self-trust, and the strange courage it takes to choose yourself.Today's conversation moves through the space between old identities and new ones — from a decision that feels too big to make, to the fear of betting on your own talent, to giving yourself permission to heal even while someone you love is still struggling.In this episode:(00:00) Introducing The Bitching Hour!(01:03) Surrender as an act of power: collapsing the spiral(18:41) Choosing between two homes — and learning to trust your inner knowing(34:37) Outsourcing your stability vs. betting on yourself(59:54) Self-permission when someone you love is struggling(1:17:51) Angel numbers, signs, and trusting you're on the right path(1:27:14) Closing remarksJoin The Bitching Hour for FREE with Zoey and Brittany: jointhebitchinghour.comDid you love this episode? The Bitching Hour! Team lovingly asks for your support!We’d be eternally grateful if you’d rate, review, and subscribe! We want to make sure you never miss a dose of divine guidance.If this conversation resonated with you, we hope you share it with someone you think would connect with the message.Stay connected with us! Follow us on IG @jointhebitchinghour Connect with Zoey here: Instagram: @thezoeygrecoTikTok: @thezoeygrecoWebsite: ZoeyGreco.comConnect with Brittany here:Instagram: @brittanyannetteTikTok: @brittany.annetteWebsite: brittanyloeser.comKeywords: live coaching call, spiritual coaching session, energetic boundaries, re-parenting yourself, inner child healing, moving back home as an adult, authentic self expression, dress for authenticity not professionalism, intuition vs fear, spiritual awakening religious family, are my spiritual gifts demonic, trusting your intuition, magnetism and alignment, outlier energy, unscripted coaching podcast

What if the feelings you’ve been judging yourself for are actually trying to tell you something?This week, Zoey and Amelia are back with more of your Hotline questions! This round is all about the things we’re sometimes afraid to admit. Is it okay to outgrow a friendship when no one did anything wrong? Does wanting money, success, or a partner who spoils you make you shallow? And what do you do when someone else’s life makes you wildly jealous?What would a catch-up be without Crybaby Club!? They share what’s been making them cry lately – from Amelia learning to care for herself through a season of major growth to Zoey unpacking perfectionism, self-sabotage and her fear of being seen. There’s a lot of permission in this one to stop explaining yourself quite so much and start paying attention to what your feelings might already be telling you. We're so glad you're here to unpack it with us!In this episode we’re talking about:00:00 Welcome Back to The Higher Self Hotline06:02 Why Does Growth Sometimes Make You Feel Physically Exhausted?11:11 How Your Nervous System Responds to Personal Growth23:22 When Perfectionism Becomes Self-Sabotage44:33 How Do You Know When You’ve Outgrown a Friendship?54:31 You’re Allowed to Want a Rich, Beautiful Life1:04:42 Your Jealousy Is Trying to Tell You Something1:13:07 How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People☎️ If you loved this episode, take a second to rate, review, and subscribe to get a hotline ring for future episodes. Share it with someone you love and follow along on socials for more. If you feel led to share what came up for you, please tag us on socials – Zoey loves to hear what resonated with the collective!🎰 Win a FREE Numerology Report! Take a screenshot of your rating + review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, then send the screenshot to @thezoeygreco on Instagram to be entered into a monthly drawing!✨ Take my FREE quiz! What’s your intuitive style? Discover your unique intuitive gifts with my free quiz: http://zoeygreco.com/quizJoin The Bitching Hour with Zoey and Brittany: https://jointhebitchinghour.com/Get Your 10% off your yearly Numerology Report here: https://start.zoeygreco.com/numerologyDon’t miss the next Pajama Party! https://zoeygreco.com/pajama-partySubscribe to Zoey’s newsletter for weekly love notes to your inbox: https://zoeygreco.com/opt-in💫 Connect with Zoey here: Instagram: @thezoeygrecoTikTok: @thezoeygreco📚Connect with Amelia here: Instagram: @thevelvetpage_🎧 Audio + Video Editing by:Mike Sims | echovalleyaudio.comContact: [email protected]: self-trust, intuition, jealousy, comparison, outgrowing friendships, friendship breakups, self-sabotage, perfectionism, nervous system regulation, visibility, desire, success, money mindset, personal growth, limiting beliefs

(Episode #13) Ever felt like you had to shrink yourself down to be understood by the people who love you? In this week's Bitching Hour, we're talking about the tender, confusing work of staying open-hearted while living a life your loved ones can't quite compute — and why detaching from being understood might be the most freeing thing you ever do.This week's call opens in death-and-rebirth territory and becomes a launchpad for a bigger conversation about cyclical endings and why "the program will run until it's complete." Zoey and Brittany read the collective energy of what's actually going on energetically right now, and a longtime community member opens up about the exhausting tightrope of living authentically around people who will never fully get it — and what to do when your boundaries start calcifying into walls.In this episode:(00:00) Brittany's identity death, the THC-festival flashback, and why dying is a constant, not a crisis(07:43) Why "the program will run until it's complete"(15:24) A caller asks what's energetically happening in the world right now — eclipse season, the 1-1 portal, and the difference between urgency and readiness(20:51) Holding intensity and hope at once, the collapse of old systems, and an invitation into a new-earth channeling circle(27:04) A caller opens up about the exhaustion of living authentically around loved ones who don't get it — and where her boundaries have hardened into walls(32:54) Neutrality and planting seeds instead of over-explaining, and detaching from the need to be understood(41:49) Closing remarks, community housekeeping, and where to find Brittany and ZoeyJoin The Bitching Hour for FREE with Zoey and Brittany: jointhebitchinghour.comDid you love this episode? The Bitching Hour! Team lovingly asks for your support!We’d be eternally grateful if you’d rate, review, and subscribe! We want to make sure you never miss a dose of divine guidance.If this conversation resonated with you, we hope you share it with someone you think would connect with the message.Stay connected with us! Follow us on IG @jointhebitchinghour Connect with Zoey here: Instagram: @thezoeygrecoTikTok: @thezoeygrecoWebsite: ZoeyGreco.comConnect with Brittany here:Instagram: @brittanyannetteTikTok: @brittany.annetteWebsite: brittanyloeser.comKeywords: live coaching call, spiritual coaching session, energetic boundaries, re-parenting yourself, inner child healing, moving back home as an adult, authentic self expression, dress for authenticity not professionalism, intuition vs fear, spiritual awakening religious family, are my spiritual gifts demonic, trusting your intuition, magnetism and alignment, outlier energy, unscripted coaching podcast

What if the closure you’ve been waiting for was never theirs to give you?This week Zoey sits down with author, activist and educator Najwa Zebian for a conversation about what happens when we stop handing our healing back to the people who hurt us. Najwa talks about the stories we tell ourselves about why someone hurt us – and why that's what tends to consume us.Together they explore a vital truth: needing people doesn’t make you needy. Period, end of sentence. Upholding standards for how people can treat you in relationships will allow you to stop carrying old wounds into new connections.In this episode we’re talking about:00:00 Welcome Back and Introducing Dr. Najwa Zebian04:23 Healing Without an Apology10:02 When Nothing They Can Give You Will Be Enough16:49 Why Closure Is a Myth25:19 Taking the Pen Back After Someone Hurts You33:56 Needing People Doesn’t Make You Needy38:22 Why People Do Owe You Something43:29 Why We Stay in Relationships That Hurt UsStay in touch with Najwa:Instagram: @najwazebianTikTok: @najwazebianWebsite: najwazebian.com☎️ If you loved this episode, take a second to rate, review, and subscribe to get a hotline ring for future episodes. Share it with someone you love and follow along on socials for more. If you feel led to share what came up for you, please tag us on socials – Zoey loves to hear what resonated with the collective!🎰 Win a FREE Numerology Report! Leave a 5 star rating and review to be entered. Be sure to include your Instagram handle or take a screenshot of your review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, then send the screenshot to @thezoeygreco on Instagram to be entered into a monthly drawing!✨ Take my FREE quiz! What’s your intuitive style? Discover your unique intuitive gifts with my free quiz: http://zoeygreco.com/quizJoin The Bitching Hour with Zoey and Brittany: https://jointhebitchinghour.com/Get Your 10% off your yearly Numerology Report here: https://start.zoeygreco.com/numerologyDon’t miss the next Pajama Party! https://zoeygreco.com/pajama-partySubscribe to Zoey’s newsletter for weekly love notes to your inbox: https://zoeygreco.com/opt-in💫 Connect with Zoey here: Instagram: @thezoeygrecoTikTok: @thezoeygreco🎧 Audio + Video Editing by:Mike Sims | echovalleyaudio.comContact: [email protected]🎧 Produced by:Crystina Creative | crystinacreative.comInstagram: [email protected]: healing after toxic relationships, closure after a breakup, self-worth, toxic relationships, emotional healing, relationship patterns, trusting your intuition, self-trust, healthy relationships, healing relationship wounds

(Episode #11) What if the only thing standing between you and receiving is your own permission? This week's live coaching covers a lot of ground: a freelancer weighing a stable corporate job against the terrifying, exciting possibility that her dreams are actually coming true; a business owner who's been hemorrhaging energy and money while convinced the answer is always to give more; a handywoman stuck in an invoicing spiral that's really about permission, not productivity; and a listener untangling anxious-avoidant patterns in a new dating connection. Threaded through all of it is the same question Brittany and Zoey keep circling back to — not "what more can you give," but "what are you willing to receive?"In this episode:(00:00) Introducing The Bitching Hour, plus glimmers and stickies(00:10) A client's question: choosing between a stable dream job and the fear of jumping into someone else's timeline(00:35) Rewriting the nervous system's relationship to hope — why "worst-case scenario" is a defense, not a fact(00:38) A client's question: healing a lifelong receiving wound after years of hemorrhaging energy and money(01:14) A client's question: the invoicing block that's really about giving your "baby business" permission to be enough(01:39) A listener's reflections on disorganized attachment, the hiding wound, and choosing to slow down instead of self-sabotage(01:53) Closing remarks and a first look at Brittany and Zoey's new 21-day joint offer, "That Bitch"Join The Bitching Hour for FREE with Zoey and Brittany: jointhebitchinghour.com Did you love this episode? The Bitching Hour! Team lovingly asks for your support! We’d be eternally grateful if you’d rate, review, and subscribe! We want to make sure you never miss a dose of divine guidance.If this conversation resonated with you, we hope you share it with someone you think would connect with the message. Stay connected with us! Follow us on IG @jointhebitchinghour Connect with Zoey here: Instagram: @thezoeygrecoTikTok: @thezoeygrecoWebsite: ZoeyGreco.comConnect with Brittany here:Instagram: @brittanyannetteTikTok: @brittany.annetteWebsite: brittanyloeser.com

September is here and the energy is loud. We’ve officially reached the peak of the year, which means everything you’ve been moving through since January is getting turned all the way up.This week Zoey sits down with Amelia for the September numerology forecast and gets into why this month is such a powerful turning point in both your personal year and our collective Year 1. They talk about the difference between urgency and knowing when it’s actually time to move, what your shadows might be trying to show you and why the seeds you plant now could shape the next nine years of your life.They also get real about imposter syndrome, trusting your intuition when you can only see one step ahead and letting yourself grow into the version of you that’s been trying to emerge.In this episode we’re talking about:00:00 Welcome to The Higher Self Hotline14:17 Personal Year Numerology and the Energy of September28:05 Why September Is the Peak of Your Personal Year34:05 Shadow Work and Healing Your Wounded Self39:12 Imposter Syndrome, Creativity and Identity51:15 September Collective Numerology Forecast54:31 The Numerology Portal Shaping Your Next 9 Years☎️ If you loved this episode, take a second to rate, review, and subscribe to get a hotline ring for future episodes. Share it with someone you love and follow along on socials for more. If you feel led to share what came up for you, please tag us on socials – Zoey loves to hear what resonated with the collective!🎰 Win a FREE Numerology Report! Take a screenshot of your rating + review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, then send the screenshot to @thezoeygreco on Instagram to be entered into a monthly drawing!✨ Take my FREE quiz! What’s your intuitive style? Discover your unique intuitive gifts with my free quiz: http://zoeygreco.com/quizJoin The Bitching Hour with Zoey and Brittany: https://www.skool.com/the-bitching-hour-3959/aboutGet Your 10% off your yearly Numerology Report here: https://start.zoeygreco.com/numerologyDon’t miss the next Pajama Party! http://www.zoeygreco.comSubscribe to Zoey’s newsletter for weekly love notes to your inbox: https://zoeygreco.com/opt-in💫 Connect with Zoey here: Instagram: @thezoeygrecoTikTok: @thezoeygreco📚Connect with Amelia here: Instagram: @thevelvetpage_🎧 Audio + Video Editing by:Mike Sims | echovalleyaudio.comContact: [email protected]: September numerology forecast, collective numerology forecast, September 2026 numerology, personal year numerology, collective Year 1, numerology Year 1, personal year peak, September energy, numerology cycles, nine year cycle, divine timing, intuition, shadow work, imposter syndrome, manifestation, new beginnings, spiritual growth

What happens to our intuition when the world never gives us a moment to be still?This week, Zoey is joined by author and spiritual teacher Tracee Stanley for a conversation about ritual, self-remembrance, and the power of reclaiming our attention. Tracee shares how ritual became part of her everyday life, why she believes “truth does not thrive in distraction,” and how technology and optimization culture can slowly pull us away from our own inner knowing. And yes, Zoey gets personally read by Tracee over her Oura Ring.Tracee also shares the heart behind her newest book, Living Ritual, and how we can create sacred moments within the lives we’re already living. They talk about pattern interruption, our connection to the Earth, the wisdom of aging and menopause, and learning to honor the transitions that change us.In this episode:0:00 Welcome back and introducing Tracee Stanley3:01 Finding ritual in the everyday11:31 Creating change through pattern interruption19:27 Reclaiming our presence in a world of constant distraction27:05 Wellness, optimization culture, and trusting your own inner knowing34:06 Ritual as a practice of remembering who we are43:57 Aging, menopause, and reclaiming rites of passageStay in touch with Tracee:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracee_stanleyWebsite: traceestanley.comLiving Ritual: https://www.traceestanley.com/livingritual☎️ If you loved this episode, take a second to rate, review, and subscribe to get a hotline ring for future episodes. Share it with someone you love and follow along on socials for more. If you feel led to share what came up for you, please tag us on socials – Zoey loves to hear what resonated with the collective!🎰 Win a FREE Numerology Report! Take a screenshot of your rating + review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, then send the screenshot to @thezoeygreco on Instagram to be entered into a monthly drawing!✨ Take my FREE quiz!What’s your intuitive style? Discover your unique intuitive gifts with my free quiz: http://zoeygreco.com/quizJoin The Bitching Hour with Zoey and Brittany: https://www.skool.com/the-bitching-hour-3959/aboutGet Your 10% off your yearly Numerology Report here: https://start.zoeygreco.com/numerologyDon’t miss the next Pajama Party! http://www.zoeygreco.comSubscribe to Zoey’s newsletter for weekly love notes to your inbox: https://zoeygreco.com/opt-in💫 Connect with Zoey here: Instagram: @thezoeygrecoTikTok: @thezoeygreco🎧 Audio + Video Editing by:Mike Sims | echovalleyaudio.comContact: [email protected]🎙️ Produced by:Crystina Creative | crystinacreative.comInstagram: [email protected]: intuition, trusting your intuition, inner knowing, self trust, spiritual rituals, daily rituals, spiritual practice, everyday spirituality, self remembrance, ritual and intention, sacred living, mindfulness, presence, reclaiming your attention, digital distraction, doomscrolling, technology and spirituality, wellness culture, optimization culture, somatic awareness, trusting your body, pattern interruption, yoga nidra, deep rest, mantra meditation, grounding practices, connecting with nature, rites of passage, menopause and spirituality, conscious aging