Gray Area Guys: The Most Dangerous Love Pattern

What do you do after a great date… and then silence?If you find yourself spiraling, checking your phone, and obsessing over whether he’ll text—you’re not alone. But this anxious pattern is doing more than stressing you out. It’s teaching your subconscious that love is unsafe… and pushing good men away in the process.In this episode, I’m breaking down:• Why your nervous system goes into survival mode after the date• How to stop performing and start magnetizing• The mirror effect: how men reflect the energy you’re anchored in• What to focus on so you feel secure, feminine, and desired—even in the silence• How to rewire your subconscious to attract instead of chaseThis is the energetic reframe that every high-functioning, anxious woman needs if she’s ready to stop overthinking and start letting love come to her.💗 If you want to go deeper into this work, The Open Heart Blueprint will show you exactly how to reprogram your nervous system and become the woman men pursue, prioritize, and protect.🎧 Tune in and let’s shift your love story—starting from withinClick here for the full show notes. Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

Do you want to learn exactly how to use your subconscious mind to create any goal? Then my Subconscious Success Workshop is for you. I'm taking you behind the scenes and teaching you EXACTLY how to reprogram your subconscious to breakthrough to your next life upgrade. Click here to claim your spot for my new live workshop: Subconscious Success on July 16th where I'm going to teach you EXACTLY how to reprogram your mind while you sleep so you can achieve any goal. Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

You don’t have to settle — and in this episode, I’m going to show you why settling for the “ok guy” is actually more dangerous than choosing a toxic one.If he’s consistent but unfulfilling...If he wants you, but you’re still anxious, unseen, or emotionally flat…If you’re wondering, “Why do I feel stuck even though nothing is technically wrong?” — this episode is for you.I’m breaking down the real reason you stay in relationships that don’t light you up — and how your subconscious programming is quietly guiding you to accept less than you deserve.We’ll talk about:Why the “Gray Area Guy” slowly erodes your self-worthThe difference between being chosen and truly cherishedWhat your nervous system is trying to avoid by picking emotionally safe-but-unfulfilling menAnd how to reprogram your love identity so you stop choosing “okay” love… and start receiving great loveIt’s time to stop normalizing "almost."Click here to get The ReProgram now. Watch this video episode on Youtube now. Click here for the full show notes. Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

What if it’s not your strategy that needs fixing — but your subconscious?In this episode, I walk you through the 3 invisible forces inside you that are shaping your love life without your permission.  I’m breaking down the 3 subconscious patterns that quietly block love — even when you’re doing “all the right things.”If you’ve ever felt like you attract the same kind of man over and over… or you push away the good ones without meaning to… this episode will help you understand why.You’ll learn exactly what needs to shift at the root level to finally feel safe, open, and available for the kind of love your heart truly desires.Click here for the pdf with the quiz mentioned in the episode. Get The ReProgram For Love now and stop forcing yourself to want better men — it’s about rewiring the beliefs that kept you attracted to the wrong ones… and shifting your type from the inside out.Download The WINNER Method and learn to make ANY man feel like a winner. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have.Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

In this episode, I share how opening your heart inspires any man to adore you, be generous, and make you a priority in his life. Finally stop attracting emotionally unavailable men, pushing away good men and stop turning "princes into frogs!" All by transforming subconscious fear-based beliefs that make you guarded and keep you emotionally unavailable. Want to reprogram your subconscious with absolutely no effort? The ReProgram is for you. Ready to rewire your subconscious mind to fully trust yourself, trust men, and trust love again? This powerful 3-part audio series, The ReProgram, is designed to dissolve fear-based beliefs, transform the effects of past wounds, and embed deep, unshakable confidence in your ability to attract and experience secure, fulfilling relationships, and abundance. Each 8-hour audio works while you sleep, relax, or go about your day, gently shifting your subconscious patterns so trust becomes second nature. As you listen, the frequencies subtly reprogram your mind and body to receive love, trust men, and feel secure in relationships. You don’t have to try to change. Just listen. The transformation happens effortlessly as your subconscious absorbs these powerful healing vibrations.  Press play, relax, and let the audio track do the work. Your mind, heart, and soul will thank you. Click here to download now and transform today. Get The ReProgram For Love now and stop forcing yourself to want better men — it’s about rewiring the beliefs that kept you attracted to the wrong ones… and shifting your type from the inside out.Download The WINNER Method and learn to make ANY man feel like a winner. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have.Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

In this week's episode I'm going deep to explain why your internal reality creates your external results and the 3 main beliefs you must change to create more love and connection in your life.I'm sharing how I transformed these negative beliefs and how I change them.  Permanently. Listen to learn! Get The ReProgram For Love now and stop forcing yourself to want better men — it’s about rewiring the beliefs that kept you attracted to the wrong ones… and shifting your type from the inside out.Download The WINNER Method and learn to make ANY man feel like a winner. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have.Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

Are you constantly attracting men that say they're not ready for a relationship?Do you feel like you're the one doing all the heavy emotional lifting in your relationship?Do you feel like there's no good men out there?Do you think you'll only be happy once you get a man?Do you keep settling for men with potential?If so, this video is for YOU.Watch to learn how your emotional availability is causing this. Learn what it means to be emotionally unavailable, why it happened and exactly how to undo this for good and finally have men seeing you as a catch, wanting to commit and how it unlocks ANY MAN's instinctive masculine drive to pursue you, protect, provide and make you a priority....no matter how long you're together.It's a game changer. Listen to learn it all.Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

In this week’s Blooming Podcast episode, we uncover one of the most misunderstood dynamics in relationships: why loving a man isn't enough to inspire his masculinity, leadership, and commitment. If you’re a woman who desires a secure, masculine man who protects, provides, and leads, this episode is your blueprint.What You’ll Learn:- The real reason your love isn't making him step up—and what will.- The critical difference between what men and women need in relationships.- Why trust and respect are the fuel that power a man’s masculine energy.- How your subconscious beliefs about masculine energy may be sabotaging your love life.- The biggest mistake women make: choosing men based on potential instead of present character.Click here for the full show notesClick here to watch the podcast on YOUTUBE!Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

Is marriage your ultimate goal? Have you been using the old method of “attracting” or “manifesting” your dream man by writing a list of his character traits? Has it worked?In today’s episode, we dive into the powerful shift that happens when you stop focusing on finding a man and start becoming the kind of woman who creates the marriage of her dreams. I share each of these drastically different approaches that create certain attitudes that affect how men perceive you, and why embodying your inner wife is the key to attracting the right man effortlessly.  If you’ve been feeling stuck in your love life or wondering why your efforts to find “him” aren’t working, this episode will offer you a fresh perspective and actionable steps to shift your energy and mindset.Click here for the full show notes and links mentioned in this episode.  WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:The difference between “take energy” and “love energy” and how they impact your dating life.  Why focusing on being a wife helps you feel more confident, feminine, and empowered.  How this mindset shift makes you more magnetic to a secure, masculine man who’s ready for marriage.  Practical tips to begin embodying your “wife energy” today. Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....

In this episode of the Blooming Podcast, we dive into a powerful reflection inspired by a thought-provoking Instagram comment last week. I share how this moment of clarity redefined my messaging and approach to coaching, emphasizing the importance of mastering singleness, healing past heartbreaks, and learning to trust masculine energy. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode offers practical insights to help you build confidence, open your heart, and attract the love you deserve.Click here to join Segura. Click here to join the Craft Your 2025 Big Love Goals LIVE Workshop this Sunday, January 19th, 2025 at 5pm PSTClick here for the podcast show notes. Want to know how your subconscious is shaping the way men respond to you?In my free podcast miniseries, Available For Love, I’ll show you how to rewire your internal patterns (yes — even the ones your mirror neurons are reflecting) so you naturally attract emotionally available, masculine love. Click here to listen to my new private podcast mini-series “Available For Love” to learn how to forever stop pushing away good men and learn how to make ANY MAN open his heart to you 💙 If you're tired of guessing what he's thinking, trying to be "chill" when you're actually anxious, or attracting men who pull away just when things feel real—The Winner Method will change everything. Inside this powerful masterclass, I’ll show you: The 3 emotional stages a man must go through to bond and commit The exact behaviors that activate his pursuit, investment, and desire to claim you How to shift from overgiving to being chosen—without games or pretending You don’t need to do more. You just need to make a few key shifts that help a good man feel like a winner when he's with you. 🎥 Watch The Winner Method masterclass now and start inspiring the love you actually want....