Ep142: Energy, Control, & Making Him Lead

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses how to find men who want to be in relationship with you, why some men never text back, how to be friends with your ex, and shares a powerful journalling method to unlock the richness of your inner life. 00:00 - Widen the net 00:26 - Why does this adventurous guy never text me? 04:44 - How can I be friends with my ex? 07:24 - Unlocking your rich inner life 10:01 - A powerful journalling method 13:12- Expanding your range of expressions Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses how to attract a partner even when you are still healing, the relationships between the causes of frozen shoulder and feminine energetics, and the subtle consequences of the receiving role. 00:00 - Can you attract a partner before you are healed? 04:28 - Frozen shoulder causes and feminine energetics 10:04 - The consequences of the receiving role 11:08 - Heart invitation Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses the connection between love and money, how to heal the inner child, clarifies a participant’s mother-pattern, and reflects on the challenges faced by a new counsellor when dealing with others’ dysfunction. 00:00 - Love, money, and a mother’s love 02:02 - Healing ideologies vs the reality of being a human 03:51 - Growing up the frightened inner child 08:12 - Integrating sub personalities 09:22 - A case study of relational dysfunction 10:21 - Advice for a new counsellor Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses how over come rejection, anger, and resentment; how to introduce variety into your relationship, and why energy leaks are destroying your productivity. 00:00 - Energy leaks and productivity hacks 01:26 - Toggle and Freedom 03:50 - How to deal with resentment 05:58 - Variety and repeatability 06:38 - The purpose of your relationship 08:00 - How to do I stop being angry at my partner 14:20 - Why do I feel so sad? 14:48 - Overcoming in rejection in relationship Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses the best way to learn tantra, what it means to be a well matched couple, the art and practice of ecstatic intimacy, how to live a joyous life, and the jar exercise. 00:00 - Well matched couples 02:01 - The best way to learn tantra 03:24 - The preliminaries and essence of tantric intimacy 07:00 - Spontaneous ecstasy and practices of bliss 08:48 - Central channel and NLMM 10:19 - Code words and quick communication 12:39 - How to live a joyous life 14:48 - The jar exercise Buy Michaela’s Relationship Course: https://www.michaelaboehm.com/workshops/instant-access-the-untamed-heart-the-relationship-course/ Attend the Relationship Bootcamps in: - London, 28-29th June - https://www.michaelaboehm.com/workshops/june-28-29-the-relationship-bootcamp-weekend-intensive-london/ - Ojai, California, 19-21th September - https://www.michaelaboehm.com/workshops/september-19-21-the-relationship-bootcamp-a-3-day-intensive/ For retreats, workshops, teacher trainings and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses the most important relationship skill, why praise is a practice, the art of being with your partner, and how to break cycles of criticism and resentment. 00:00 - The most important relationship skill 01:45 - The practice of praise 02:20 - The art of being with each other 03:23 - Dishwashing, nagging, and endocrine systems 09:11 - How to break cycles of criticism and resentment 14:30 - Couples need meetings 16:30 - Phases of relationship purpose 17:52 - When to see a couples’ therapist 18:11 - Michaela’s social media influencer clients Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses how to repattern your life, the widespread effects of a father wound, dealing with unhealthy thoughts, and the powers and limits of positive thinking for physical health. 00:00 - Vulnerability hangover 02:38 - Psychoemotional aftercare 05:32 - How to know when you’ve gone too far 05:55 - How the brain works and the process of learning 06:36 - Far-reaching effect of a father wound 09:00 - How to work with unhealthy patterns of thinking 09:54 - Michaela’s childhood pattern of self-sufficiency 12:28 - New age ideas about negative thinking and disease 14:33 - The power of belief and faith on physical health 15:32 - A key distinction about the limits of positive thinking 17:03 - Teachers who don’t know what they’re talking about 18:34 - Feeding your demons and soothing your inner child Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses the age old conundrum of the liberated woman, how to enliven your relationship with new flavors, how to overcome communication challenges, and how to avoid the criticism trap. 00:00 - The age old conundrum of the liberated woman 02:50 - Craving the Viking archetype 08:00 - How to bring new flavors to your relationship and life 10:12 - Overcoming challenges in relationships 10:16 The criticism trap Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she discusses the secrets of energy optimisation, unlocking irresistible flavours of expression, how to choose a man to spend your life with, why men won’t compete with their partner, and what to do when you want him to lead more. 00:00 - Secrets of energy optimisation 03:53 - Unlocking irresistible flavors of expression 05:51 - 2 fundamental relationship dynamics 06:39 - How to choose a man to spend your life with 07:31 - Why won’t my man compete? 09:55 - I don’t want my man to control me 14:52 - Don’t become his mother Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela in this live workshop recording as she reveals men’s mating strategies, explains the player vs the high performance man, discusses what it takes to be claimed in relationship, and answers questions about using shame to change a man’s behaviour. 00:00 - Understanding men’s mating strategies 05:23 - Players and seducers 06:03 - The meek, grateful man 06:26 - The high performance man 08:52 - I want to be claimed by a man 10:34 - He’s just not that into you 11:49 - Rebuilding relationship 13:12 - My husband is very unhealthy 14:15 - Should I shame my husband so he changes? 15:08 - I don’t like my husband’s behaviour 19:24 - A major key to inner awareness: being with discomfort 22:38 - Reestablishing trust with the body Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com