Speaking to University Students about Love & Relationships with Rabbi Yisroel & Sara Bernath

This episode  dances around the age-old question, "What is Love?", the exploration begins with a universal quandary: the reason we question love's essence often stems from feelings of deficiency—either doubting the love from someone special or facing accusations of insufficient love ourselves. It suggests a poignant truth: we are most inclined to philosophize about love when its presence is questioned or feels lacking, much like no one questions the nature of a pastrami sandwich whilst enjoying one. The narrative then divides the quest into two lanes: "Am I Loved?" and "Do I Love?", indicating that understanding love's impact on us can illuminate how we express love towards others. Love, as presented, is not an elusive sentiment detected by a mysterious heart's sensor but rather a series of tangible experiences perceived through our senses, validated by actions and expressions that signal to our brains and, consequently, to our hearts, the presence of love. King Solomon's words in Proverbs "As water reflects a man’s face back to him, so is the heart of one man to another" is invoked to underscore that love, at its core, is a reflection, a reciprocal action that one can feel and recognize through the treatment they receive. The episode emphasizes that love is fundamentally an action. It shifts the narrative from abstract conceptualization to practical expression, illustrating that love, akin to running or swimming, is defined by its enactment. The Hebrew word for love, "ahavah", rooted in the act of giving, encapsulates this ideology, positing that genuine love must manifest through tangible acts of kindness and care. The discussion culminates with a divine perspective on love, referencing the commandment to love G-d, not as an emotional imposition but as a directive towards actionable love. This divine instruction echoes the broader theme: love is verified and validated through actions rather than mere feelings or declarations. Takeaways: Love as Reflection and Recognition: We seek the essence of love most acutely when its presence is in doubt. True love, however, is recognized through the actions and treatment we receive and give. Love is Action, Not Just Emotion: The essence of love is captured not in abstract contemplation but in concrete actions and behaviors that convey care and affection. The Divine Instruction on Love: The command to love God highlights the action-oriented nature of love, pushing us towards deeds of kindness as the true measure of love. In essence, to question "What is Love?" is to embark on a journey from doubt to action, from introspection to expression, leading us to understand that the truest answer lies in how we act and respond to love in our lives. Love, therefore, is not just a state of being but a series of deliberate, loving actions that reflect our deepest commitments to others.

Join the "Love Rabbi" Yisroel Bernath as he sits down with Ilana and Jeremy Hamburgh, the dynamic duo behind My Best Social Life, for an inspiring and insightful conversation on building meaningful relationships for neurodiverse singles. With over a decade of experience helping autistic and neurodivergent adults find community, friendship, and love, Jeremy Hamburgh has transformed lives through his innovative Social Life 360 program. Ilana Hamburgh, a former NYC special education teacher, now serves as the program’s Director of Education, using her passion for education to help clients unlock their social potential. In this candid and heartfelt fireside chat, you’ll hear: Jeremy and Ilana’s personal journey: From long-distance dating during COVID to their shared mission of making social connection accessible for everyone. Practical insights: How neurodiverse individuals can find love and friendship, build social skills, and foster a sense of belonging. Their philosophy: Why neurodivergent brains are not a limitation, but a strength in relationships and community-building. Inspiration and hope: Real-life stories of transformation and actionable ways to create a more inclusive world. Whether you’re neurodivergent, a friend or family member, or someone interested in creating more inclusive spaces, this event will leave you inspired and equipped to support neurodiverse individuals in their journey toward love and friendship. About Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh are friendship and dating coaches who teach the strategies and skills that empower autistic and neurodivergent adults to find community, make friends, start dating, and build relationships. Ilana has over 16 years of experience as a special education teacher in New York City and Jeremy has over 14 years of experience as a social coach for autistic and neurodivergent adults. Their passion is their cutting-edge strategy and skills program, called Social Life 360, which teaches their clients how to confidently meet new people, and bring them into their life. What makes the Social Life 360 program so innovative is that Jeremy and Ilana decode the social and dating world for their clients using formulas, diagrams, checklists, and step-by-step processes that are more intuitive for people with neurodivergent minds. The Social Life 360 program also provides clients with a warm, inclusive, and vibrant online community that makes them feel embraced on their social journey from the moment they begin. You can schedule a no cost Family Strategy Session at https://mybestsociallife.com/apply. You can schedule a no cost Strategy Session at https://mybestsociallife.com/freesession. About Rabbi Yisroel Bernath Cherished for his incredible warmth, non-judgmental personality, and witty charm, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath is anything but your typical rabbi. A dynamic leader in the Jewish world, Rabbi Bernath blends traditional wisdom with modern insights to inspire, uplift, and connect people from all walks of life. Rabbi Bernath has been instrumental in creating hundreds of happy matches and is passionately devoted to helping singles find clarity, hope, and lasting love. With his keen understanding of the challenges of modern dating, he’s successfully guided hundreds of singles through the “singles wall,” making him a trusted coach and mentor for those navigating relationships. Find out more about his journey and work at http://www.theloverabbi.com. - --- If you haven't made a profile yet, do so today. http://www.JMontreal.com use marketing code: rabbisgift and it's FREE. Access Rabbi Bernath's Articles on Relationships https://medium.com/@loverabbi Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi5mua4-gkhiv7NdbJv_C7w/join #neurodivergent #datingadvice #neurodiversity #neurodiversityawareness #dating #datingtips #datingcoach #datingadviceformen

"What is Love?" Love is redefined beyond the conventional understanding of a mere emotion or a passive state of being. We emphasized that love is an obligation and a directive, as illustrated in Leviticus 19:18, which commands to "love your fellow as yourself." This idea suggests that love is not just a spontaneous feeling but an active choice and action. Before one can extend love to others, it's crucial to first develop a sense of love for oneself. This foundational self-love sets the stage for meaningful and authentic relationships with others.We further explored the idea that the essence of love is deeply rooted in the act of giving. It posits that love begins with giving and grows through consistent, thoughtful acts of kindness and generosity. This concept challenges the popular notion of love as a feeling that happens to us, suggesting instead that love is something we actively create through our actions. The more we give, the deeper our capacity for love becomes. This principle is encapsulated in the phrase, "First comes giving, then comes love," highlighting the transformative power of giving in cultivating and sustaining love. The chapter concludes by asserting that love is not just about feelings but about the deliberate and ongoing practice of giving, which ultimately shapes and strengthens our relationships.You can join Rabbi Bernath every Thursday at 9am EST for a fantastic conversation on Zoom. Just email [email protected] to get the zoom link. Got your own question for Rabbi Bernath? He can be reached at [email protected] or http://www.theloverabbi.comSingle? You can make a profile on www.JMontreal.com and Rabbi Bernath will help you find that special someone.Donate and support Rabbi Bernath’s work http://www.jewishndg.com/donateFollow Rabbi Bernath’s YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/user/ybernathAccess Rabbi Bernath's Articles on Relationships https://medium.com/@loverabbi

Recorded Live at Rohr Chabad NDG in Montreal Quebec on September 25 2024. In this interactive workshop, we explore the deeper aspects of dating through the lens of Jewish wisdom. Many of us approach dating with misguided intentions—often treating it as casual entertainment rather than a meaningful journey toward marriage. In this class, we’ll uncover the ten most important secrets to dating with purpose. Topics include the power of self-confidence, the search for your soulmate, and how to have serious conversations early on. Rabbi Dov Harroch and Rabbi Yosh Berkowicz join Rabbi Yisroel Bernath for a dynamic Q&A session to answer your questions and provide actionable advice for dating success. Key Takeaways: Purpose-Driven Dating: Shift your mindset from dating for fun to dating for long-term commitment. Self-Confidence Over Looks: Cultivate a quiet self-assurance that attracts genuine connections. Soulmate vs. Partner: Understand the difference between finding a soulmate who completes you spiritually and a partner who simply complements your skills. Serious Conversations Matter: Discuss life goals, values, and plans early in a relationship to ensure compatibility. Stop Keeping Score: Relationships flourish when you give without expecting something in return. Jewish dating, soulmate, self-confidence, purposeful relationships, marriage, intentional dating, relationship advice, dating workshop, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath, Rabbi Dov Harroch, Rabbi Yosh Berkowicz, love

Here is the article here https://www.datingnews.com/movers-and-shakers/rabbi-insights-marriage-dating-relationships/ So are you ready to tackle the big “M” word? In Shanna Ellis and Emma Paterson's latest article in Dating News, they sit down with none other than Rabbi Yisroel Bernath, The Love Rabbi, to discuss marriage, dating, and navigating long-term relationships. From offering advice on the first date to helping couples thrive for the long haul, Rabbi Bernath believes in confidence, curiosity, and vulnerability as the keys to success. Find out how he helps couples shave months off relationships that just aren’t right — and how he gives others the tools to strengthen their bond and step confidently toward marriage. Ready to stop dating to death? Dive into the article and Interview and learn from The Love Rabbi’s wisdom. #MarriageTalk #LoveRabbi #DatingInsights #LongTermLove #JewishMatchmaker

Rabbi Yisroel & Sara Bernath speak to a 150 university students at the Sinai Scholars Retreat 2024 in Miami, Florida. -- Got your own question for Rabbi Bernath? He can be reached at [email protected] or http://www.theloverabbi.comSingle? You can make a profile on www.JMontreal.com and Rabbi Bernath will help you find that special someone.Donate and support Rabbi Bernath’s work http://www.jewishndg.com/donateFollow Rabbi Bernath’s YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/user/ybernathAccess Rabbi Bernath's Articles on Relationships https://medium.com/@loverabbi

"What is Love?" Love is redefined beyond the conventional understanding of a mere emotion or a passive state of being. We emphasized that love is an obligation and a directive, as illustrated in Leviticus 19:18, which commands to "love your fellow as yourself." This idea suggests that love is not just a spontaneous feeling but an active choice and action. Before one can extend love to others, it's crucial to first develop a sense of love for oneself. This foundational self-love sets the stage for meaningful and authentic relationships with others.We further explored the idea that the essence of love is deeply rooted in the act of giving. It posits that love begins with giving and grows through consistent, thoughtful acts of kindness and generosity. This concept challenges the popular notion of love as a feeling that happens to us, suggesting instead that love is something we actively create through our actions. The more we give, the deeper our capacity for love becomes. This principle is encapsulated in the phrase, "First comes giving, then comes love," highlighting the transformative power of giving in cultivating and sustaining love. The chapter concludes by asserting that love is not just about feelings but about the deliberate and ongoing practice of giving, which ultimately shapes and strengthens our relationships.You can join Rabbi Bernath every Thursday at 9am EST for a fantastic conversation on Zoom. Just email [email protected] to get the zoom link.Donate Herehttps://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=36Donate Here in US dollars https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=15Join this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi5mua4-gkhiv7NdbJv_C7w/join

This episode  dances around the age-old question, "What is Love?", the exploration begins with a universal quandary: the reason we question love's essence often stems from feelings of deficiency—either doubting the love from someone special or facing accusations of insufficient love ourselves. It suggests a poignant truth: we are most inclined to philosophize about love when its presence is questioned or feels lacking, much like no one questions the nature of a pastrami sandwich whilst enjoying one. The narrative then divides the quest into two lanes: "Am I Loved?" and "Do I Love?", indicating that understanding love's impact on us can illuminate how we express love towards others. Love, as presented, is not an elusive sentiment detected by a mysterious heart's sensor but rather a series of tangible experiences perceived through our senses, validated by actions and expressions that signal to our brains and, consequently, to our hearts, the presence of love. King Solomon's words in Proverbs "As water reflects a man’s face back to him, so is the heart of one man to another" is invoked to underscore that love, at its core, is a reflection, a reciprocal action that one can feel and recognize through the treatment they receive. The episode emphasizes that love is fundamentally an action. It shifts the narrative from abstract conceptualization to practical expression, illustrating that love, akin to running or swimming, is defined by its enactment. The Hebrew word for love, "ahavah", rooted in the act of giving, encapsulates this ideology, positing that genuine love must manifest through tangible acts of kindness and care. The discussion culminates with a divine perspective on love, referencing the commandment to love G-d, not as an emotional imposition but as a directive towards actionable love. This divine instruction echoes the broader theme: love is verified and validated through actions rather than mere feelings or declarations. Takeaways: Love as Reflection and Recognition: We seek the essence of love most acutely when its presence is in doubt. True love, however, is recognized through the actions and treatment we receive and give. Love is Action, Not Just Emotion: The essence of love is captured not in abstract contemplation but in concrete actions and behaviors that convey care and affection. The Divine Instruction on Love: The command to love God highlights the action-oriented nature of love, pushing us towards deeds of kindness as the true measure of love. In essence, to question "What is Love?" is to embark on a journey from doubt to action, from introspection to expression, leading us to understand that the truest answer lies in how we act and respond to love in our lives. Love, therefore, is not just a state of being but a series of deliberate, loving actions that reflect our deepest commitments to others.

In this enlightening Instagram Live session, two renowned experts on love, dating, and marriage, Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath, come together for a heart-to-heart conversation on the intricacies of forming and maintaining successful relationships. With their unique blend of wisdom, experience, and humour, they dive into the challenges and joys of dating and marriage in the modern world, offering practical advice and insights that resonate with everyone, regardless of background. Whether you're single, dating, or married, this candid conversation will provide you with the tools and inspiration needed to navigate the complex world of relationships. What You'll Discover: The key ingredients to a successful and fulfilling relationship. Insights into the modern dating scene and how to navigate it with integrity and faith. Practical advice for singles seeking meaningful connections. Strategies for couples to deepen their relationship and overcome common obstacles. The importance of communication, understanding, and patience in building a lasting bond. About Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen: An international marriage and dating expert based in New York, Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen has a rich background as an Orthopaedic Surgeon and a dedicated student of Rabbi Avigdor Miller Z’L. With years of expertise in human relations, mentoring singles in dating techniques, and counseling couples in marriage, he has facilitated over 500 matches worldwide. His global outreach, from the USA to Australia and beyond, through online platforms, reflects his deep commitment to guiding individuals in their quest for love and companionship. About Rabbi Yisroel Bernath: Known for his warmth and approachable style, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath stands out as a vibrant force in the world of Jewish matchmaking. As the founder of JMatchmaking International and a prolific dating coach, he has successfully made numerous matches. Beyond matchmaking, Rabbi Bernath is an accomplished author, voice-over artist, and media personality, contributing his unique perspective and expertise to the dialogue on love and relationships. Tune in to this Instagram Live session to explore the wisdom and insights of these two dynamic personalities, as they share their thoughts on love, relationships, and the pursuit of happiness. Donate Here | https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=36 Donate Here in US dollars https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=15

Sign Up for Aleeza & Rabbi's Upcoming Course: Kabbalah of Soulmates. Special OFFER just for YOU! https://go.aleezabenshalom.com/offers/BUFCWSsS/checkout In this mesmerizing episode, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath and Aleeza Ben Shalom take you by the hand and gently lead you down the enchanting paths of "The Kabbalah of Soulmates," where the mysteries of love intertwine with ancient wisdom. At a time when the world seems divided between skepticism and longing regarding the institution of marriage, our hosts illuminate the age-old question: What is love, really? With the grace of seasoned storytellers, they reveal the kabbalistic secret that every soul is split in two before descending into the world, setting the stage for a lifetime's quest not merely for compatibility, but for divine reunion. This episode isn't just about finding "The One"; it's about understanding that every step in your journey of love is a step closer to your ultimate reunion with your other half. Rabbi Bernath and Aleeza don't just talk at you; they invite you into a narrative, a conversation filled with laughter, wisdom, and perhaps a sprinkle of heavenly matchmaking. They debunk the myths of modern romance, replacing them with something far more magical: the truth that your soulmate isn't someone you find, but someone you recognize from a story written in the stars. For those married, questioning the serendipity of their union, our hosts offer solace and clarity. They weave the teachings of Kabbalah into the fabric of everyday life, illustrating how even the most mundane moments with your partner can be glimpses of the divine. Join us as we delve into "The Kabbalah of Soulmates," where Rabbi Bernath and Aleeza Ben Shalom serve not just as guides on this journey of discovery, but as companions in uncovering the profound joy and depth of soul-deep love. Whether you're single, searching, or settled, this episode promises a transformation in how you perceive love, marriage, and the invisible threads that draw us together. Tune in, and let's explore the wonders of love through the lens of Kabbalah together. After all, in the dance of the cosmos, every step, every turn, brings us closer to our other half.