Purity Culture & Reality TV Ruined Dating Expectations! | Ep. 80

In this episode, we’re sharing a real and honest life update, covering everything from recent family challenges to the everyday joys (and chaos) of parenting three young kids. From navigating a difficult season and reflecting on faith, to dealing with unexpected home issues like mold and repairs, this episode gives you a raw look into our current reality. We talk about what it’s like raising a toddler who’s constantly on the move, the highs and lows of parenthood, and how these moments have shifted our perspective on what truly matters. In the middle of stress, uncertainty, and long days, we’re learning to slow down, lean on our faith, and appreciate the small, meaningful moments. If you’ve ever gone through a hard season, struggled to balance work and family, or just need encouragement in the middle of everyday life, this conversation is for you.✨ In this episode: - A personal life update after recent family events - Parenting three kids (including life with a VERY active toddler) - Our experience dealing with mold, home repairs, and displacement - How faith has carried us through difficult seasons - Finding joy, gratitude, and perspective in everyday life Thank you for being here and for your continued support. It truly means more than you know ❤️ 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes 00:00 Life Update After a Hard Season 00:52 Why Recent Family Events Changed Our Perspective 02:00 What We’ll Share in Future Episodes (Faith + Theology) 03:15 Fun Find: Mini Books + Etsy Shoutout 04:15 How We’re Really Doing Right Now 05:20 Mold in Our House & Emergency Move 07:30 Discovering the Leak... And It Getting Worse 😩 08:40 Living in a Hotel with Kids for a Week 10:00 Parenting Chaos: Bedtime Struggles in One Room 12:00 Adjusting to Uncertainty & Stress 16:10 The Hidden Reality of Homeownership 19:15 Big Milestone: Finn Turns 1 🎉 21:50 Hardest Part of Parenting a Toddler 23:30 Our House Layout Makes It Harder 24:50 Why Toddlers Find EVERYTHING Dangerous 26:30 Sweetest Moments of This Stage ❤️ 28:00 Jeremy’s Life Update: What Matters Most 30:00 The Tension Between Work & Family 32:00 How Tragedy Changes Your Priorities 33:45 Slowing Down & Not Missing What Matters 35:45 Jinger’s Life Update: Faith + Hard Days 37:00 The Power of Community & Friendship 38:30 Finding Joy in the Middle of Stress 40:00 What God Is Teaching Us Right Now 41:00 Thank You + Final Thoughts OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSORS: COVE SMART: Protect what matters most with smart, reliable home security. Cove makes it simple and affordable to secure your home with 24/7 professional monitoring and easy DIY setup. Visit https://covesmart.com/JINGER and use code JINGER to get up to 60% off your system today. CURE HYDRATION: For our listeners, Cure is offering 20% off your first order! Stay hydrated and feel your best by visiting ⁠http://curehydration.com/jinger⁠ and using promo code JINGER at checkout. That’s ⁠http://curehydration.com/jinger⁠—and use code JINGER for 20% off your first order! FUNCTION HEALTH: Function because it’s the only health platform that gives you access to the kind of data most people never see—and the insights to actually take action. Learn more and join using our code JINGER at https://functionhealth.com/JINGER/ for $25 off your membership! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Why does everyone feel sick right now… even when doctors say they’re fine? In this episode, Dr. Will Cole joins Jinger and Jeremy to talk about what’s really going on with our health, from inflammation and gut issues to the modern food system and rising chronic illness. They discuss: - Why “normal” labs don’t always mean you’re healthy - The biggest misconceptions about healthy eating - How to feed your family well without fear or being overwhelmed - The deeper connection between physical, mental, and spiritual health If you’ve been stuck in a cycle of trying to do everything “right” but still not feeling your best, this episode will give you clarity and direction. 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:54 - Introduction to Guest: Dr. Will Cole 00:02:52 - Dr. Will Cole's Background and Functional Medicine 00:07:05 - Approach to Health and Wellness 00:09:00 - Understanding and Addressing Health Issues 00:12:02 - Dealing with Hair Issues 00:13:25 - Maintaining a Healthy Lifestyle 00:15:00 - Understanding Food and Its Impact on Health 00:15:53 - Identifying Foods That May Cause Harm 00:18:08 - The Inflammatory Core Four 00:25:06 - Summary of the Inflammatory Core Four 00:26:56 - The Importance of Consistency and Patience in Dietary Changes 00:30:12 - The Impact of Food Production and Consumption Habits 00:30:39 - The Presence of Toxins in Our Environment 00:32:48 - Choosing the Right Places to Buy Food 00:36:22 - The Importance of Family Meals and Food Education 00:38:05 - The Intersection of Physical and Spiritual Health 00:39:43 - Addressing Trauma and Stress in Health Consultations 00:43:28 - The Importance of Comprehensive Blood Work 00:45:17 - The Importance of Being Proactive and Getting Lab Tests 00:46:29 - The Role of Functional Health Doctors and Available Resources 00:46:33 - Personal Experiences and the Impact of Accessible Information 00:49:06 - The Power of Small, Consistent Changes 00:50:05 - Practical Steps to Start with and Importance of Patience 00:51:09 - Closing Remarks and Thanks OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSORS: FUNCTION HEALTH: Function because it’s the only health platform that gives you access to the kind of data most people never see—and the insights to actually take action. Learn more and join using our code JINGER at https://functionhealth.com/JINGER/ for $25 off your membership! NUTRAFOL: Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at https://Nutrafol.com and get $10 OFF your first month’s subscription when you use our promo code JANDJ. COVE SMART: Protect what matters most with smart, reliable home security. Cove makes it simple and affordable to secure your home with 24/7 professional monitoring and easy DIY setup. Visit https://covesmart.com/JINGER and use code JINGER to get up to 60% off your system today. POCKET HOSE: Upgrade your outdoor setup with the Pocket Hose, the world’s #1 expanding garden hose. It’s lightweight, durable, and expands as you use it, then shrinks back down for easy storage. Text JJ to 64000 for a free pocket pivot and a 10-pattern sprayer with the purchase of any size copper head hose. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jill and Derick open up about one of the hardest seasons of their lives, the loss of their daughter Isla Marie during pregnancy. In this emotional and deeply honest conversation, Jill and Derick share the story of discovering something was wrong, walking through the heartbreaking moment they learned their baby had died, and how they navigated grief as a couple and as parents. They also talk about faith, community, and the practical ways friends and family supported them during this devastating loss. In this episode we discuss: Jill & Derick’s story of losing their daughter Isla Marie What it was like receiving the devastating news Navigating grief as a husband and wife How their church community supported them Talking to their children about pregnancy loss Practical ways to support families who have lost a baby Finding hope in faith during unimaginable heartbreak Our prayer is that this conversation helps anyone who has experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or the loss of a child feel less alone. If you or someone you love has experienced pregnancy loss, we hope this episode encourages you and reminds you that hope can still be found even in the darkest seasons. ❤️ 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:00:07 - Discussion on Loss and Hope 00:02:10 - Understanding the Concept of Loss 00:03:42 - The Story of Isla Marie 00:04:03 - Pregnancy Challenges 00:11:51 - The Pregnancy Journey 00:15:31 - Emergency Room Visit and Tests 00:17:27 - Decision Making and Hospital Visit 00:17:45 - Support from Family and Church 00:21:20 - Importance of Community 00:23:08 - Delivery of Isla and Grief 00:25:46 - Dealing with Loss and Work 00:30:48 - Coming Home Without Isla 00:31:16 - Support from Pastor and Church Family 00:32:32 - The Physical and Emotional Struggles Postpartum 00:34:34 - Planning for Isla's Funeral 00:35:29 - Helpful Resources and Support 00:39:46 - The Pain of Coming Home Without Isla 00:43:20 - Importance of Tangible Support 00:43:55 - Remembering Isla in Tangible Ways 00:46:26 - Preparing for Isla's Funeral 00:47:48 - The Importance of Taking Pictures 00:48:54 - Honoring Life and Dignity 00:49:19 - Christian History and the Dignity of Life 00:51:48 - The Church's Role in Dignifying Life 00:52:26 - Children's Response to Isla's Loss 00:56:08 - Involving the Children in Funeral Preparations 00:57:22 - The Funeral and Burial 00:59:49 - Creating Sweet Memories at Isla's Grave 01:00:41 - Advice for Parents Facing a Similar Loss 01:01:36 - Understanding Paisley's Law and Stillbirth Certificate 01:01:55 - The Importance of Tangible Validation 01:03:24 - The Role of Parenting and Hope 01:03:33 - The Power of Practical Wisdom and Hope 01:04:53 - The Transition and Grief Therapy 01:05:33 - The Role of Therapists and Practical Ways to Process Loss 01:06:54 - The Power of God's Word in Grieving 01:08:10 - The Acceptance of Grief 01:08:45 - Conclusion and Appreciation 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSORS: EVERY PLATE: What are you waiting for? Dig into these flavor-packed meals your household will love. New customers can enjoy this special offer of only $2.99 a meal. Go to https://everyplate.com/podcast and use code JINGER299 to get started. Applied as discount on first box + $10 off your first month, limited time only. ARTICLE: If you’re looking to upgrade your space, we’ve been loving Article. Their furniture is modern, high-quality, and easy to style. Go to https://www.article.com/discount/jinger for $50 off your first purchase. COZY EARTH: Luxury Shouldn’t Be Out of Reach. Visit https://CozyEarth.com/jinger/ and use my exclusive code JINGER for 20% off best-selling sheets, towels, pajamas, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we’re talking about forgiving family members who hurt you and how to hold on to Jesus after religious hypocrisy and abuse. Worship leader and songwriter Stephen McWhirter (known for “Come Jesus Come” and his book Radically Restored) shares his story: growing up with a preacher father, witnessing abuse, spiraling into addiction, and encountering Jesus in a life-changing moment. We also unpack what forgiveness actually is (and isn’t): why forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation, how boundaries can still be biblical, and what it looks like to forgive even when someone never apologizes. If you’ve ever wrestled with church hurt, anger, grief, or the question “Can God restore what was destroyed?” this episode is for you. 00:00:14 - Guest Introduction: Steven McWhirter 00:00:24 - Steven's Early Life and Struggles 00:00:35 - Steven's Journey to Forgiveness 00:00:56 - The Power of Forgiveness 00:10:14 - Steven's Introduction to Music 00:10:21 - Steven's Conversion and Newfound Faith 00:13:12 - Steven's Changed View of God 00:15:46 - Steven's Act of Forgiveness Towards His Father 00:19:08 - Steven's Father's Role in His Life Post-Forgiveness 00:19:40 - Steven's Father's Death and the Power of Forgiveness 00:21:37 - The Importance of Forgiveness and Repentance 00:24:45 - The Misunderstanding of Repentance 00:27:14 - The Challenge of Forgiving Those Who've Hurt You 00:29:44 - Returning to Church After Forgiving His Father 00:31:30 - The Dangers of Misplaced Faith 00:32:35 - The Power of God's Restoration 00:32:47 - The Reality of Sin Within the Church 00:33:35 - The Ultimate Judgment 00:34:53 - The Power of Forgiveness and Restoration 00:36:27 - Steven's Song: Come Jesus Come 00:37:10 - The Inspiration Behind Come Jesus Come 00:40:31 - The Impact of Come Jesus Come 00:40:57 - The Power of Longing for Jesus' Return 00:41:41 - The Reality of God's Providence 00:45:22 - The Importance of Longing for Jesus' Return 00:46:39 - Conclusion 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSORS: TRUST & WILL: Protect what matters most. Trust & Will makes it simple and affordable to create your will or trust online in minutes. Visit https://trustandwill.com/JINGER and get 20% off when you use the code JINGER. COVE SMART: Protect what matters most with smart, reliable home security. Cove makes it simple and affordable to secure your home with 24/7 professional monitoring and easy DIY setup. Visit https://covesmart.com/JINGER and use code JINGER to get up to 60% off your system today. BROOKLYN BEDDING: Brooklyn Bedding has been around for over 25 years, known for top-of-the-line comfort and quality without the luxury price tag. Go to https://brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code JINGER at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Joy and Austin join us for an honest life update, addressing pregnancy rumors, moving again, and what marriage really looks like after three kids. Are Joy and Austin expecting baby #4? We clear up the speculation and talk through the rumors surrounding their growing family. They also share why they recently moved, why this house isn’t their forever home, and their long-term dream of raising their kids on land. Plus, we dive into marriage after three kids — including the hardest years of marriage, how seasons of parenting affect your relationship, and what they’ve learned about protecting their marriage while raising a young family. From minimalism vs. keepsakes to faith lessons from the book of Judges, this episode is an honest conversation about family life, parenting, moving, and trusting God in every season. If you’ve ever wondered: Are Joy and Austin pregnant again? Why do they keep moving? What changes after year 5 of marriage? How do you stay connected with little kids at home? This episode is for you. 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes 00:00 Are Joy & Austin Expecting Again? 02:10 Clearing Up the Pregnancy Rumors 05:40 Moving Again — Why This Isn’t Their Forever Home 11:25 Raising Kids on Land: Their Long-Term Dream 16:10 Minimalism vs. Keepsakes (Are We Raising Hoarders?) 22:45 Marriage After 3 Kids 28:30 The Hardest Years of Marriage (Years 4–6) 34:15 Finding Time Together with Little Kids 39:20 Slowing Down After a Busy Season 43:10 What God Is Teaching Them Right Now 48:30 Faith Lessons from the Book of Judges 53:00 Final Thoughts + Catching Up OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSORS: COZY EARTH: Luxury Shouldn’t Be Out of Reach. Visit https://CozyEarth.com/jinger/ and use my exclusive code JINGER for 20% off best-selling sheets, towels, pajamas, and more. COVE SMART: Protect what matters most with smart, reliable home security. Cove makes it simple and affordable to secure your home with 24/7 professional monitoring and easy DIY setup. Visit https://covesmart.com/JINGER and use code JINGER to get up to 60% off your system today. FUNCTION HEALTH: Function because it’s the only health platform that gives you access to the kind of data most people never see—and the insights to actually take action. Learn more and join using our code JINGER at https://functionhealth.com/JINGER/ for $25 off your membership! TRUST & WILL: Protect what matters most. Trust & Will makes it simple and affordable to create your will or trust online in minutes. Visit https://trustandwill.com/JINGER and get 20% off when you use the code JINGER. NUTRAFOL: Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at https://Nutrafol.com and get $10 OFF your first month’s subscription when you use our promo code JANDJ. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we’re diving deep into childhood bullying, cyberbullying, and online criticism... and how it affects not just kids, but adults too. From playground teasing to Reddit threads and tabloid headlines, we react to real comments about our marriage, parenting decisions, and public life. As a couple in the public eye, we’ve faced online hate, marriage rumors, body shaming, and harsh assumptions, and we’re sharing how we’ve learned not to rise or fall with public opinion. We talk about setting boundaries with social media, overcoming people-pleasing tendencies, and raising confident kids in a digital world filled with cyberbullying. Most importantly, we explain why these experiences inspired us to write our new Christian children’s book about identity, belonging, and confidence in Christ. In a culture driven by validation, social media pressure, and comparison, we want to help kids understand their worth, build resilience, and remember they are made in the image of God. ❤️ If you’re looking for conversations about: Bullying and cyberbullying Parenting in the age of social media Marriage rumors and tabloid culture People pleasing and identity Raising confident Christian kids Dealing with online hate and criticism This episode is for you. 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes ALSO, check out our latest children's book! YOU ALWAYS BELONG: You Always Belong is a sweet reminder for kids that they are loved and they belong—especially during seasons of change or uncertainty. If you’re looking for an encouraging book for your child, you can learn more at ⁠https://www.zondervan.com/p/you-alway... 00:00 Childhood Bullying & Why We’re Talking About It 01:45 Living in the Public Eye & Ignoring Headlines 05:20 We Googled Ourselves… Reddit Reactions 09:30 “Interesting Body Language” – Internet Assumptions 13:40 Can We Talk About Dating Apps If We’re Married? 18:10 When Online Criticism Actually Got to Us 22:45 Marriage Rumors & Responding to False Narratives 28:30 “She Looks Dead Inside” – Mom Life & Exhaustion 33:15 Why Online Hate Inspired Our Children’s Book 36:40 Teaching Kids Identity, Confidence & Belonging 41:20 Cyberbullying & Raising Kids in a Digital World 45:30 How to Help Your Child Handle Bullying 49:15 Finding Your Identity in Christ 53:40 Reading From Our New Children’s Book 58:30 Final Encouragement for Parents OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSORS: COVE SMART: Protect what matters most with smart, reliable home security. Cove makes it simple and affordable to secure your home with 24/7 professional monitoring and easy DIY setup. Visit https://covesmart.com/JINGER and use code JINGER to get up to 60% off your system today. FUNCTION HEALTH: Function because it’s the only health platform that gives you access to the kind of data most people never see—and the insights to actually take action. Learn more and join using our code JINGER at https://functionhealth.com/JINGER/ for $25 off your membership! TRUST & WILL: Protect what matters most. Trust & Will makes it simple and affordable to create your will or trust online in minutes. Visit https://trustandwill.com/JINGER and get 20% off when you use the code JINGER. NUTRAFOL: Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at https://Nutrafol.com and get $10 OFF your first month’s subscription when you use our promo code JANDJ. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of The Jinger & Jeremy Podcast, we sit down with Ben Seewald for an honest conversation about getting married at 19, raising six kids before 30, and pastoring a church in Arkansas. Ben opens up about marrying Jessa Duggar Seewald as a teenager, what those early years of marriage were really like, and how faith shaped their decision to start a family young. He shares behind-the-scenes stories about their engagement, the scary complications during Jessa’s first birth, and what God has taught him through fatherhood, ministry, and 11 years of marriage. We talk about: - Getting married young in conservative Christian circles - Raising 6 kids before age 30 - Balancing marriage, ministry, and family life - Encouragement in Christian marriage - Date nights with little kids - Pastoring faithfully without chasing “success” - The reality of parenting, sacrifice, and spiritual growth If you’re interested in Christian marriage advice, Duggar family updates, parenting young, or pastoral ministry life, this conversation is for you! 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes 00:00:00 - Introduction to Ben Seewald 00:00:11 - Early Marriage and Parenting 00:00:54 - Meeting and Marrying Jessa Duggar 00:01:16 - Current Life and Ministry 00:03:09 - Reflections on Early Marriage 00:08:47 - Jessa's Talents and Skills 00:12:12 - Reflections on 11 Years of Marriage 00:15:37 - Continued Personal Growth and Learning 00:16:41 - The Importance of Encouragement in Marriage 00:18:33 - Revisiting Old Habits of Love 00:20:22 - Maintaining Expressions of Love Over Time 00:23:58 - Making Time for Each Other 00:25:06 - Reflections on Early Marriage 00:26:39 - Current Ministry and Future Plans 00:29:38 - Appreciation for Ben's Selflessness 00:31:16 - Early Parenting and Adapting to New Routines 00:34:57 - Health Consciousness and Dietary Choices 00:37:34 - Reminiscing About Nicknames and Early Marriage 00:40:00 - Reflecting on the Engagement Proposal 00:43:19 - Advice on Dating and Marriage OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSORS: COZY EARTH: Luxury Shouldn’t Be Out of Reach. Visit ⁠https://CozyEarth.com/jinger/⁠ and use my exclusive code JINGER for 20% off best-selling sheets, towels, pajamas, and more. EVERY PLATE: What are you waiting for? Dig into these flavor-packed meals your household will love. New customers can enjoy this special offer of only $2.99 a meal. Go to https://everyplate.com/podcast and use code JINGER299 to get started. Applied as discount on first box + $10 off your first month, limited time only. ARTICLE: If you’re looking to upgrade your space, we’ve been loving Article. Their furniture is modern, high-quality, and easy to style. Go to https://www.article.com/discount/jinger for $50 off your first purchase. TRUST & WILL: Protect what matters most. Trust & Will makes it simple and affordable to create your will or trust online in minutes. Visit https://trustandwill.com/JINGER and get 20% off when you use the code JINGER. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are dating apps worth it anymore? 🤍 In this episode, we have an honest, thoughtful conversation about dating apps, modern dating culture, and finding real connection in a "swipe-driven" world. From trust issues and beauty standards to faith, patience, and intentional dating, we break down what actually matters when it comes to relationships, online or offline. We talk about: Whether dating apps help or hurt real connection How to approach dating apps with clear priorities Trust, discernment, and knowing who’s really on the other side of the screen Dating apps vs. meeting someone organically Beauty standards, attraction, and what true beauty really is How desperation, pressure, and comparison affect dating Balancing faith, personal responsibility, and God’s timing in relationships Whether you’ve had great experiences, disappointing ones, or you’re just unsure if dating apps are worth trying, this episode offers encouragement, clarity, and practical wisdom for dating with intention. If you’re navigating dating, relationships, or wondering how to stay grounded in modern dating culture, this conversation is for you. 👇 Let us know in the comments: Have dating apps been helpful for you—or not? 🔔 Subscribe for more conversations on relationships, faith, marriage, and intentional living. #DatingApps #ModernDating #ChristianDating #Relationships #DatingAdvice #OnlineDating #FaithAndDating #IntentionalDating #LoveAndRelationships 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:00:08 - Dating Apps and Trust 00:00:21 - Dating Apps Statistics 00:00:50 - Dating Apps Discussion 00:01:28 - Personal Experiences with Dating 00:03:45 - Can You Trust Dating Apps? 00:09:14 - Listeners' Experiences with Dating Apps 00:13:12 - Finding Love Organically vs. Dating Apps 00:14:22 - Knowing the Person on the Other End 00:15:44 - Discussing Dating Apps and Courtship 00:21:06 - Returning to Dating App Discussion 00:26:34 - Approaching Dating Apps with Priorities 00:31:13 - Long-term Thinking in Relationships 00:33:38 - The Superficiality of Online Beauty 00:34:02 - The Pressure of Keeping Up with Beauty Standards 00:34:42 - The True Marks of Beauty 00:35:54 - The Balance of External and Internal Beauty 00:36:46 - The Role of Effort in Attraction 00:41:03 - The Superficial Standard of Beauty 00:41:45 - Understanding True Beauty 00:42:20 - The Role of Desperation in Dating 00:43:32 - The Influence of Heart Disposition on Dating 00:44:43 - Listeners' Experiences with Dating Apps 00:46:21 - Breaking Social Patterns in the Pursuit of Love 00:46:54 - Nehemiah's Story: A Lesson on Responsibility 00:47:51 - The Balance of Trusting God and Taking Responsibility in Dating 00:48:20 - Being the Person You Seek in a Spouse 00:48:57 - Patience and Trust in God's Timing 00:50:07 - Closing Remarks and Encouragement BROOKLYN BEDDING: Brooklyn Bedding has been around for over 25 years, known for top-of-the-line comfort and quality without the luxury price tag. Go to https://brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code JINGER at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. PONCHO: This season, skip the guesswork and give him something he’ll actually wear. Whether it’s for your husband, dad, or son — Poncho makes clothes built for the men who do it all. Go to ponchooutdoors.com/SHOWCODE and enter your email for $10 off your first order. YOU ALWAYS BELONG: You Always Belong is a sweet reminder for kids that they are loved and they belong—especially during seasons of change or uncertainty. If you’re looking for an encouraging book for your child, you can learn more at https://www.zondervan.com/p/you-always-belong/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Jinger & Jeremy Podcast, Jinger and Jeremy Vuolo dive deep into dating expectations, purity culture, and the pressure many Christians feel to “get it right” in relationships. Jeremy shares his honest reaction to watching 19 Kids and Counting before he ever knew Jinger and how reality TV and Christian culture can unintentionally create unrealistic expectations for dating, courtship, and marriage. Jinger opens up about growing up with fear-based rules around relationships, guarding her heart, and believing that strict systems could guarantee safety and success. Together, they unpack: Unrealistic dating expectations for Christian men and women How purity culture can create fear instead of freedom Why checklists, rules, and “perfect formulas” don’t actually protect marriages What real safety and confidence in a relationship looks like How to discern character beyond appearances, answers, or religious systems The importance of dating in community and seeing faith lived out under pressure This episode is especially for singles navigating Christian dating, couples questioning old beliefs, and anyone healing from rigid relationship teachings. If you’ve ever wondered “How can you truly know someone?” or felt overwhelmed by expectations placed on dating and marriage, this conversation offers clarity, honesty, and hope. 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📩 Subscribe for weekly episodes 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:20 - Discussion on Family Relationships 00:02:44 - Chat About Travel to Arkansas for Christmas 00:03:50 - Thrift Shopping in California vs Arkansas 00:04:32 - Check-in with Jill and Derick 00:08:10 - Discussion on Law Career and Family 00:11:54 - Motivation for Law Career 00:13:17 - Navigating Law School as a Family 00:15:55 - Impact of COVID-19 and Moving 00:16:26 - Balancing Work and Family Life 00:17:21 - Passing the Bar and Entering Workforce 00:18:18 - Challenges in Public Service 00:20:53 - Struggles with Long Commute 00:21:38 - The Pressure and Sacrifice in Law Career 00:24:16 - Decision to Step Away from Job 00:24:39 - The Impact of Losing a Child 00:28:27 - Reflections on Marriage and Family Goals 00:30:15 - The Importance of Therapy 00:31:05 - Challenges with Therapy and Work-Life Balance 00:32:33 - Reflection on Marriage and Personal Growth 00:33:09 - Public Life and Personal Trials 00:34:46 - Finding Strength in Faith 00:39:03 - Looking Towards the Future 00:41:48 - Changing Perspectives in Marriage 00:43:47 - Appreciating the Small Annoyances 00:45:38 - Perspective and Personal Growth 00:46:50 - Reflection on Regret and Relationships 00:47:57 - Living with Integrity and Principle 00:48:06 - The Role of Christianity in Life 00:48:42 - The Importance of Principled Love 00:49:08 - Closing Remarks and Future Conversations OUR INCREDIBLE SPONSOR: COZY EARTH: Luxury Shouldn’t Be Out of Reach. Visit https://CozyEarth.com/jinger/ and use my exclusive code JINGER for 20% off best-selling sheets, towels, pajamas, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices