Mastering Parallel Parenting: Dr. Courtney Evans’ Guide to Surviving High-Conflict Divorce on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #357

Susan Guthrie sits down with Megan Grant, the Founder & Chief Memory Creator of Cherish Tours, to explore the transformative power of travel, especially for those navigating the journey of divorce. Join us as we unpack the many ways solo travel can be a tool for healing and growth. Megan shares her insights on how travel can positively impact mental health and offers practical tips for those looking to travel solo after a divorce. We’ll discuss how to prioritize travel amidst daily responsibilities, manage stressful travel triggers, and reframe the meaning of solo adventures. Plus, we’ll dive into overcoming decision fatigue to help you plan your next impactful journey. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that might just spark your next adventure! Featured Topics: Travel as a tool for healing: Does it really work? Managing stressful travel triggers Prioritizing travel in your daily life Reframing solo travel and what it could mean for you Overcoming decision fatigue to create your travel plans Golden nuggets: “ You don't have to travel full time or live unconventionally to create a healing experience with travel.” “ Yes, travel can sometimes be stressful, especially when something doesn't go to plan, but really when you're ripped out of your comfort zone is when you learn the most about yourself and it's a really great way to do a reset.” “ Solo travel, where it's the most meaningful, is in creating the space for yourself. It's taking and prioritizing the self-care aspects of travel and the healing parts of travel that you can find when you step outside of that comfort zone.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Megan Grant Meet Megan, the Founder & Chief Memory Creator for Cherish Tours. With a background in conference planning and a global canvas of world travel experiences, she has become deeply convinced that travel has the power to be transformational, especially for women striving to create a difference in the world. As a dedicated advocate for empowering women globally, Megan's influence extends well beyond her travels to 40 countries, including over 10 solo adventures. Her unique perspective and innovative approach have set her apart, making significant contributions to discussions on sustainable tourism, global women's businesses, the post-pandemic travel surge, women's travel experiences, and travel safety. Megan's experience adds a layer of expertise and vision, making her a compelling voice in the realm of travel and woman empowerment. Cherish Tours: https://www.gocherishtours.com/ Receive $100 off with promo code DIVORCEANDBEYOND for Cherish Tours Tanzania Safari in 2025: https://www.gocherishtours.com/one-of-a-kind-tanzania-safari Cherish Tours on Instagram: @gocherishtours Cherish Tours on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gocherishtours Cherish Tours on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/cherish-tours-llc **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ========= HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected].  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

Swipe right to match with your ideal financial pro! In today’s episode, we’re excited to bring you an innovative topic that recognizes the hard part of divorce and makes it easier—gaining financial independence.  Whether navigating divorce or simply looking to take control of your future, our guest Lacy Garcia, Founder & CEO of Willow, introduces a game-changing platform that connects people with trusted fiduciary financial advisors, empowering them to make informed decisions. Lacy shares her expert insights on finding the right financial advisor and how to safeguard your financial future confidently. Featured topics: How to find the perfect financial advisor match The pillars of empathy, education, and empowerment in financial advising Why it’s never too early or too late to hire a financial advisor Financial empowerment helps you make the best choices for your present and future Golden nuggets: “It is never too early or too late to hire a financial advisor.” “This is the time when you're feeling overwhelmed. It's the time to put yourself first and to find that trusted financial advisor who can help you navigate this.” “ You could go through this whole process and then wake up and then be like, ‘Wait a second, I'm in this terrible financial position. And I didn't even realize it.’ If you know that information before you start, or as you're going through it, then you are empowered to be able to do your best.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Lacy Garcia Lacy Garcia is the Founder & CEO of Willow (trustwillow.com), a platform that connects Women and NextGen individuals with vetted and trusted fiduciary financial advisors. Much like a dating app, Willow provides a free concierge matching service that utilizes both your financial needs and personal preferences to match you with your ideal Advisor for Women™ or Advisor for NextGen™. As a former financial advisor, Lacy founded Willow to empower Women and NextGen clients to achieve their financial and life goals, and assist them in finding their "perfect match". Willow website: http://trustwillow.com Willow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/64554675/ Willow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trust_willow/ Willon on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZXZH1mGOkXr0ezS1XRygwA Willow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/trustwillow **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  SOBERLINK As a family law attorney, I’ve seen firsthand how difficult it can be to navigate co-parenting when alcohol is involved, especially around the holidays. Soberlink is a breathalyzer that ensures your co-parent is staying sober while they have the kids, which is especially important during this time of year, when alcohol can be present at so many gatherings. Soberlink is trusted by family law professionals for a reason. It’s the top alcohol monitoring system, and its court-admissible data can make all the difference in custody situations. If you’re looking for more certainty and safety this holiday season, visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device. ========================= PARACHUTE HOME Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax. I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket. If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  She presently works with select professionals and entrepreneurs to maximize their business potential and create the practice of their dreams. Visit Guthrie Consutling for more information. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected].  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

Beverly Price reveals the invisible scars that complicate healing during and after divorce for abuse victims in this powerful Domestic Violence Awareness Month episode of Divorce & Beyond. Susan Guthrie sits down with Beverly Price, a divorce coach and advocate for domestic violence survivors, to uncover the harsh realities of how divorce can re-traumatize victims. Together, they explore how untrained divorce professionals and legal abuse can exacerbate the trauma of domestic violence. Plus, Beverly shares critical advice on creating a safety exit plan, building support systems, and why trauma-informed care is essential. Featured topics: The various ways divorce can re-introduce trauma for those already traumatized in their relationship Unintentional re-traumatization by professionals not versed in domestic violence and how to encourage victims to seek trauma-informed experts Understanding legal abuse and how abusers can continue to manipulate and control throughout the legal process The importance of trauma counseling to help victims process and heal from their experiences How to find a trauma-informed divorce coach and the impact of having the right support Navigating personal turmoil, regret, and shame while going through divorce after being victimized The necessity of creating a safe exit plan—especially because 70% of women are murdered when leaving an abusive relationship Golden nuggets: “There's a process that can happen that takes a person from being traumatized to then going through divorce and being re-traumatized. It's the action of, in some cases, facing the abuser, whether it's in mediation or whether it's in litigation. That in itself can be terrible.” “You didn't cause it. I've been working with a woman for almost a year to watch her get stronger and not blame herself. But it takes work because if you think about it, all the years that you were subject to it [the abuse], you're not going to flip a switch and all of a sudden feel confident and feel like it's not your fault. But it is the abuser's fault. He's not doing it to you. He's doing it for himself.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Beverly Price Beverly Price, of Her Empowered Divorce, has helped thousands of women with her 30+ years’ divorce coaching experience by providing knowledge, support, and insight to empower those going through the divorce process before, during and after. Her one-on-one coaching process includes extensive preparation, legal and financial education, emotional management, communication and negotiation skills, empowerment and support. She herself has a personal history with co-parenting, domestic violence, multiple divorces, being a single working mother and more. Beverly is also the host of the Her Empowered Divorce Podcast with industry leading guests who bring the latest information and guidance to help those going through divorce. She herself has a personal history with co-parenting, domestic violence, multiple divorces, being a single working mother and more Beverly is also the creator of the Divorce Coalition, who along with founders, Susan Guthrie and Kate Anthony, have formed a group of top podcast hosts, bloggers, and divorce professionals who are dedicated to bringing understanding, healing, and resilience to the forefront, ending the cycle of abuse one survivor at a time. She hosts “Divorce Coalition Live” radio and tv show where she interviews top divorce and domestic violence professionals to bring education and awareness to victims, survivors and the general public. The Divorce Coalition: https://www.divorcecoalition.com Her Empowered Divorce: https://herempowereddivorce.com Email: Beverly(at)coachingbybeverlyprice.com   Resources mentioned in this episode: National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 Breaking the Cycle of Shame and Divorce with Beverly Price **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:https://susaneguthrie.com Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected].  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

Divorce and alcohol use disorder often go hand in hand, and in this episode, The Hangover Whisperer herself, Colleen Kachmann, shares her powerful insights on navigating both. With her unique perspective, Colleen offers support to those dealing with disordered drinking during the divorce process, helping listeners understand the deeper emotional roots of overdrinking and how to move toward emotional sobriety. In This Episode: The connection between disordered drinking and perfectionism Recognizing the cycle of overdrinking and how to break free What emotional sobriety really means—it's not just about quitting alcohol but healing the relationship with yourself Colleen Kachmann is a Certified Master Life & Recovery Coach using cutting-edge strategies in nervous system regulation, growth mindset, positive psychology, and self-directed neuroplasticity to help women reconnect with a higher sense of purpose so they can feel passionate and powerful again. Golden Nuggets: “We all get here because we are doing the best we can with what we think we should be doing.” “Overdrinking is the symptom of the problem.” “Emotional sobriety means you’re no longer intoxicated by your own BS—it's about reclaiming the relationship with yourself.” **************************************** About this week's special guests: Colleen Kachmann Colleen Kachmann is a Certified Master Life & Recovery Coach using cutting-edge strategies in nervous system regulation, growth mindset, positive psychology, and self-directed neuroplasticity to help women reconnect with a higher sense of purpose so they can feel passionate and powerful again. Colleen founded Recover with Colleen through her own experience with alcoholism and her passion for helping women liberate themselves from the oppressive belief that there is something fundamentally broken or flawed about them so that they can unlock a higher level of purpose, passion, and power. Colleen holds a Bachelors of Science in education, a Masters of Science in coaching, and a women’s functional and integrative medicine professional certificate. ✨Colleen’s Free Download: 7 Core Principles of Emotional Sobriety to Overcome Alcohol Use Disorder✨ Colleen’s website: https://www.colleenkachmann.com/ Colleen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehangoverwhisperer Colleen on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hangoverwhisperer Colleen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RecoverwithColleen It’s Not About the Alcohol Podcast: https://itsnotaboutthealcohol.com/ **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  SOBERLINK Summer’s in full swing, bringing vacations, family gatherings, and lots of time with the kids to the forefront. But if you’re worried about your co-parent’s alcohol use, this season can be stressful. That’s where Soberlink comes in. Imagine your kids are off on a beach trip with your co-parent. With Soberlink, you'll receive instant proof of your ex’s sobriety via text or email. Soberlink is more than just a breathalyzer and is second to none when it comes to rebuilding trust and improving accountability. I’ve seen it work for others, and I know it can work for you.  Let Soberlink handle the monitoring so you can focus on yourself, whether that’s recharging by the pool, enjoying your vacation, or simply taking a moment for yourself without constant worry. Safeguard your summer with Soberlink. Visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  If you are a practitioner, professional or entrepreneur, check out Susan's other popular podcast, The Make Money Mediating Podcast, for tips and insights on building and growing the practice of your dreams! Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected].  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

Exclusive Members Only Episode: Moving Out and Handling House Issues in Divorce  In this special Members Only episode, Susan dives deep into one of the biggest and most important topics in divorce—the house. If you and your spouse share a home, whether it’s owned or rented, the decision of when to move out or how to handle the residence is a critical one, with many emotional and legal considerations. In this episode, you will learn: The potential risks of moving out of a shared home during divorce—both practical and legal. How to protect your valuable items and important documents if you leave. The financial impact of maintaining two households and how it may affect your decisions. Considerations around children and parenting time when one spouse moves out. What to do if domestic violence becomes a concern. Legal implications and questions surrounding home ownership, including whether you can “lose” the home by moving out. The practicalities and legalities of changing locks or gaining exclusive possession of the marital residence. How to work with your mediator or attorney to come to agreements that protect your interests. As a special bonus for listeners, this episode has fewer ad breaks and is focused entirely on giving you the actionable advice you need.  If you’ve enjoyed this special members-only episode and found the information helpful, let me know if there are other topics you’d like to hear me talk about. Divorce is a journey, and I’m here to guide you beyond. Stay tuned for more special episodes coming your way, and be sure to check out the next one on what to do with your house when you jointly own it in a divorce. Other Episodes About the House to Listen to: Mortgage Must-Knows for Divorce from Tami Wollensak, CDLP on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak, CDLP Divorce, Mortgages, and Moving On: What You NEED to Know with Zachary Taylor on Divorce & Beyond Join our Community: Follow us on Instagram at @divorceandbeyond for daily tips, encouragement, and insights. Remember: You’re not alone on this journey, and we’re here to help you move through your divorce and onto your bright future! MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie on social media for more content: Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM  

Struggling to co-parent in a high-conflict situation? Susan Guthrie is joined by Dr. Courtney Evans to reveal practical strategies that can help you find peace and set healthy boundaries in even the toughest parenting dynamics. Dr. Courtney Evans is a dedicated divorce and recovery coach with a wealth of experience in managing high-conflict situations. Dr. Courtney shares powerful strategies for reducing conflict, setting healthy boundaries, and protecting your mental health in challenging co-parenting relationships. Together, Susan and Courtney explore the concept of parallel parenting, when and how to implement it, and practical tips for making the transition smoother for both you and your children. Tune in for valuable insights, personal experiences, and a path to peace beyond the conflict. Featured topics and Golden Nuggets: Parallel Parenting: a transformative approach that can help you manage high-conflict situations with greater ease and clarity “There is no one solution for how to divorce, co-parent or parallel parent or how to recover after. Every situation is unique.” The difference between counter-parent, co-parent, and parallel parent Why Courtney likes to refer to parallel parenting as peaceful parenting How and when to get started with parallel parenting or make the transition **************************************** About this week's special guests: Dr. Courtney Evans Dr. Courtney is an experienced divorce and co-parenting coach who also holds a DNP. Her two-decade career in the healthcare field has lent to her deep understanding of mental health and the importance of self-care during challenging life transitions. In 2021, after a traumatic family court journey, she switched gears in her career, determined to turn her experience into a source of healing. She began coursework in Alternate Dispute Resolution strategies. In 2022, Courtney received her Divorce Coach and Recovery Coach certifications from the CDC® International Divorce Coach Certification Program and a specialization in Divorce Conflict from the Divorce Coach Academy®. Courtney is currently in school working on her MBA as well as continued work in co-parenting and high conflict dispute resolution specializations. She is also currently writing her first book, Uncaged: Redefining Forgiveness out January 13, 2025 Contact Dr. Courtney: [email protected] Dr. Courtney’s website: www.thedivorceco.org Dr. Courtney on Instagram: http://instagram.com/thedivorceco Dr. Courtney on Facebook: http://facebook.com/thedivorceco Resources mentioned in this episode: The Parallel Parenting Solution (book) **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected].  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

In this re-released episode, Susan Guthrie revisits an important conversation with Jenny Stevens, originally recorded after the tragic events at Oxford High School in Michigan in December 2021. As communities face similar tragedies, like the recent school shooting at Apalachee High School, the advice and insights Jenny shared remain just as relevant today. This discussion provides essential guidance for parents on how to talk to their children about these harrowing events. Jenny offers her expert advice on managing the conversation around school shootings and helping children process their emotions. In This Episode, You Will Learn: Practical steps for initiating conversations about school shootings with children. Strategies for helping children process their emotions and fears following tragic events. Insights into the psychological impact of trauma on children and how to address it effectively. Ways to support children's mental health in the aftermath of a crisis. Guest Expert: Jenny Stevens, former school counselor and coach, now a dedicated child and family coach. For more information or to connect with Jenny: Email: [email protected] Website: www.jennystevenscoach.com Instagram: @jennystevens_coach Join us in this crucial conversation to better understand and navigate the challenging discussions with our children about violence in schools. Listen, learn, and share this episode to help spread awareness and support for mental health in our communities. For more tips and resources on navigating divorce, visit Divorce & Beyond Podcast. Stay updated on new episodes and resources by joining our mailing list! Join our Community: Follow us on Instagram at @divorceandbeyond for daily tips, encouragement, and insights. Remember: You’re not alone on this journey, and we’re here to help you move through your divorce and onto your bright future! MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie on social media for more content: Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM  

  We’re reaching into our archives to bring back one of our most popular and insightful episodes featuring Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Hollis Hardiman. This episode has helped countless listeners, and we believe it will be just as valuable to you today! Divorce can be an emotionally and financially challenging time, and one of the biggest fears many face is the fear of financial instability. In this episode, Hollis shares her top tips for safeguarding your finances if you are considering or currently going through a divorce. With her expertise in financial planning and her personal experience as a child of divorced parents, Hollis brings a compassionate and practical approach to navigating the complexities of divorce finances. Key Takeaways from the Episode: Overcoming Financial Fears: Hollis discusses the common fear of "Will I become homeless?" and offers advice on how to secure your financial future, even during this uncertain time. Avoiding Common Pitfalls: Why relying on friends' divorce stories for financial advice may not be the best idea, and the importance of building a professional support team tailored to your unique situation. Understanding Your Finances: Learn how to track your spending, understand your lifestyle costs, and take control of your financial situation both during and after your divorce. Boosting Household Income: Hollis shares her insights on practical steps you can take to increase your income and secure your financial well-being. Budget Planning Before, During, and After Divorce: Tips on how to create a sustainable budget that adapts to your changing circumstances. About Hollis Hardiman, CDFA: Hollis Hardiman is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst specializing in helping individuals navigate major life transitions, including divorce, loss of a spouse, and retirement planning. With certifications in mediation and collaborative divorce, Hollis works closely with clients to help them make informed financial decisions during one of the most challenging times of their lives. Please Note: Since this is an archive episode, some links and resources mentioned may no longer be available. For the most up-to-date information and resources, please check the show notes below. Connect with Hollis Hardiman: Email: [email protected] Phone: 203-423-5985 Website: https://www.divorcemediationct.com/ Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: How to Get Your Act Together So that You Can Tackle Your Divorce with Alex Beattie of Divide & Thrive The Solution for Tackling the Divorce Detour with Storey Jones, Creator of dtour.life It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak If you're contemplating divorce or are already in the process, this episode is packed with insights to help you navigate the financial aspects with confidence and clarity. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find the support and guidance they need!   For more tips and resources on navigating divorce, visit Divorce & Beyond Podcast. Stay updated on new episodes and resources by joining our mailing list! Join our Community: Follow us on Instagram at @divorceandbeyond for daily tips, encouragement, and insights. For more in-depth discussions, join our Facebook group where we connect, share, and support each other through the divorce journey and beyond. Remember: You’re not alone on this journey, and we’re here to help you move through your divorce and onto your bright future! MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie on social media for more content: Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM    

Susan Guthrie welcomes Dr. Stephen Johnston for a moving conversation about his co-parenting journey, shaped by his son's rare illness and the looming challenge of blindness.  Together with his co-parent, Dr. Johnston has faced the complex realities of their son's condition and the needs of their daughter, all while co-founding A Race Against Blindness Foundation in their quest for a cure. Their remarkable story is not only inspiring but also offers invaluable insights and practical advice for those navigating tough times in their co-parenting adventures.  Tune in for an episode that promises to uplift and equip you with guidance for your co-parenting journey. Featured topics and Golden Nuggets: Navigating co-parenting while coping with a child’s illness or diagnosis Stephen and his co-parent’s journey to co-founding A Race Against Blindness  The effects on extended family or friends in the face of a hard diagnosis Advice for parents navigating a hard diagnosis, Stephen says, “Focus on your why.” How we can support A Race Against Blindness  **************************************** About this week's special guests: Dr. Stephen Johnston Stephen Johnston, MD, MBA, is a father, radiologist, non-profit founder, and Ironman athlete. When he found out his nine-year-old son, Luke, was going blind as a result of a rare disease, he founded A Race Against Blindness to fund sight-saving research for his son and thousands of others like him. Though Stephen is relatively new to the nonprofit world, he’s a man on a mission to raise $1 Million for a clinical trial and taking on challenges like Ironman to raise money and be an example for his son. So far, they’ve raised over six figures, been featured on GoodMorningAmerica.com and the Dan Karaty if I’m Being Honest podcast, and had TV spots in multiple major markets. Stephen lives outside of Phoenix and spends his spare time training for his next Ironman and traveling with his family to create lifelong sighted memories for Luke.  A Race Against Blindness: https://araceagainstblindness.org **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ========================= HELLO DIVORCE Hey listeners! Are you navigating the tough waters of divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? Let me introduce you to Hello Divorce, your ultimate ally in making this journey smoother and less stressful. Hello Divorce offers a modern, affordable approach to divorce, combining expert legal advice with easy-to-use online tools. Whether you need help with paperwork, mediation, or guidance, Hello Divorce has you covered. Their flat-fee services mean no hidden costs—just clear, upfront pricing. Visit HelloDivorce.com today to learn more and take the first step towards your fresh start. Remember, you don't have to do this alone. Hello Divorce is here to help. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE!  https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.   Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected].  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. ======================================

In this 'From the Archive' episode of Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie revisits one of the most powerful and popular discussions with the extraordinary Kate Anthony. If you're at a crossroads in your marriage or relationship, this episode is an absolute must-listen. Kate Anthony is back, right in her wheelhouse, guiding you through one of the most challenging decisions you'll ever face: Is there still hope for your relationship, or is it time to move on? On average, people spend four years agonizing over whether to stay or go. That's four years of wondering, trying, giving up, and trying again. But Kate understands the complexity of this decision, and she’s here to help you navigate it with clarity and confidence. In this deep and insightful conversation, Susan and Kate explore the emotional and practical aspects of deciding whether to stay in a relationship or move forward. Whether you're dealing with clear signs like abuse, adultery, or addiction, or you're struggling with the slow drip of uncertainty, Kate's wisdom will resonate with you. She not only helps people make this difficult decision but also supports them in crafting a plan for the future if the decision is to go. If you're questioning the viability of your marriage or relationship, this episode could be the turning point you've been looking for. About Kate Anthony: Kate Anthony is the host of the New York Times recommended podcast, The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, and a divorce coach who helps women (with children, especially) decide if they should stay in or leave their marriages – and then either helps them heal their relationships, or exit with grace.  She is also the author of the bestselling book, "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage" For the last decade she has worked with hundreds of women all over the world, helping them make the most difficult decision of their lives and transition out of toxic marriages. Kate is passionate about empowering women to find their strength, passion, and confidence, even in the most disempowering circumstances. She helps them move forward with a solid plan, always keeping their children at the center (but not in the middle) of all their decisions. In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients around the world. She lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son, whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband, along with their two dogs and a handful of fish. For more information on Kate’s programs, podcast, and coaching services, visit www.kateanthony.com. Kate's Freebies and Resources: Explore Kate's helpful resources and freebies here. Follow Kate on Social: Instagram: @thedivorcesurvivalguide MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years.  Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond!   ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Susan on TikTok @divorceandbeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel!  Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected].  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM