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Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing experiences might actually serve a purpose—like building trust, creating safety, and helping others find compatible partners.Discover the fine line between healthy disclosure and TMI, and learn why "kissing and telling" in the swinger community is often more than gossip. Join us as we tackle questions like:Why might it be essential to share some details with trusted friends?How does sharing sexy stories strengthen bonds in the lifestyle?When should you stay silent to avoid unintended harm?Highlights:Origins & Social Standards: Why "kissing and telling" has been taboo since 1695.Swinger vs. Vanilla Perspectives: How relationship dynamics shape our views on privacy and openness.When to Share: Tips for safely navigating disclosure in tight-knit communities.Public Service Announcements: When sharing can prevent harm or protect others.Tune in to hear real-life examples and valuable advice to make informed choices in your relationships.Hashtags#SwingerLifestyle #KissAndTell #EthicalNonMonogamy #Swingers #RelationshipAdvice #SexPositive #SwingerPodcast #SwingerUniversityHighlight SummaryIntro to "Kissing and Telling" - Ed and Phoebe discuss how "kissing and telling" impacts social dynamics in both the vanilla and swinger worlds.History and Double Standards - An exploration of how society's double standards affect men and women differently.Boundaries in Sharing - Understanding when it's okay to share details and when it's best to keep things private.Why Sharing Matters in the Lifestyle - Reasons why sharing can help create safety, trust, and better experiences within the swinger community.Public Safety Concerns - Examples of when sharing information serves the greater good.Practical Tips for Disclosure - Best practices for ensuring your "kissing and telling" remains respectful and purposeful. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comEver wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters. Join us as we share the highs, the awkward moments, and the valuable lessons we learned about boundaries, trust, and safer sex practices in the lifestyle.💥 Highlights:[0:30] The invite: How we got into an exclusive swinger group[4:20] Entering wonderland: The Alice-themed party details[10:15] The theater experience: A full-swap first[14:45] Lessons in trust and safer practices in swinging[20:00] Reflection: What we’d do differently & key takeawaysThis episode is perfect for anyone curious about the lifestyle or looking to understand the importance of boundaries and open communication in intimate experiences.Call to Action:👉 Like, subscribe, and share with anyone you think might find this conversation insightful or entertaining! And don't forget to leave a comment about your own thoughts on navigating lifestyle challenges.Top Hashtags: #SwingerExperience #LifestyleLessons #FullSwapFirst #SwingerParty #RelationshipBoundaries Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this powerful episode, we tackle a pressing issue: how segments of society attempt to impose their moral beliefs on others, particularly around the swinger lifestyle. From outdated adultery laws to neighborhood outcries over private parties, we explore the various ways sexual freedom is policed and judged by those who feel they must control others' choices. We also reflect on how societal repression impacts adult freedoms, and why swinging continues to spark controversy in communities. Whether you're in the lifestyle or just curious, this episode uncovers the root of societal judgment and the fight for personal freedom.Key topics discussed:How societal beliefs shape perceptions of swingingThe legal and moral judgments that impact swingersWhy people feel the need to control others' sexual behaviorAn outrageous story about a neighborhood's reaction to a private "Crock-Pot Party"How swingers deal with public scrutiny and judgmentIf you believe in personal freedom and the right to make your own adult choices, this episode is for you!Crockpot party:https://kdvr.com/news/local/sex-clubs-more-common-than-people-think-woman-in-the-lifestyle-says/amphttps://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2651270/amp/Swingers-party-ends-BRAWL-police-officers-wives.htmlhttps://www.denverpost.com/2014/01/03/colorado-swingers-spice-up-sex-life-at-squirrel-creek-lodge/ampAdultery laws: https://www.newsweek.com/map-shows-16-states-where-its-illegal-cheat-your-wife-1887307 Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into the unspoken truths about casual sex in the swinger community. 💬 Discover how the quality of sex can vary, why many encounters leave you wanting more, and how you can enhance your intimate experiences. 🌶️ From exploring emotional connections and sexual techniques to offering five game-changing tips for better casual sex, this episode is packed with insights you won't find anywhere else! Join us as we discuss the dynamics of sexual satisfaction, the role of communication, and the impact of emotional intimacy, even in casual encounters. We share surprising research on women's orgasm experiences, tips for navigating new partners, and how to make every experience more satisfying! 💥📌 #SwingingLifestyle #BetterSexTips #SexualSatisfaction #Orgasms #CasualSex #RelationshipAdvice #SexTalk #SexPositivity #EdandPhoebe Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, hosts Ed and Phoebe tackle the provocative idea that swingers are "rule breakers" in society's eyes. They explore how the swinger lifestyle challenges traditional norms around relationships and sexuality, pushing boundaries while maintaining a foundation of consent and respect. Listen in as they discuss the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, the misconceptions about the lifestyle (including other podcaster's opinions), and the evolving dynamics as non-swingers enter the scene. Whether you're experienced in the lifestyle or just curious, this episode offers valuable insights into what it truly means to live outside the box.Enjoyed the discussion? Give us a thumbs up, subscribe to Swinger University for more deep dives into the world of ethical non-monogamy, and hit the notification bell to stay updated with our latest episodes. Share this video to spread awareness and understanding of the swinger lifestyle!#SwingerLifestyle #EthicalNonMonogamy #RelationshipGoals #ConsentCulture #OpenRelationships #Swingers #NonMonogamy #SwingerUniversity Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comMaximize Your Fun at Swinger Events with These 5 Essential Tips! 🎉Welcome to another insightful episode of Swinger University! Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they share their top five tips for creating unforgettable experiences at swinging events. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or new to the lifestyle, this episode is packed with actionable advice to ensure you and your partner have the best time possible.🌲 Broadcasting high above Stoney Lake in Desolation Wilderness, Ed and Phoebe discuss strategies like crafting a game plan, being prepared for anything, and knowing when to call it a night. 🌲Highlights:[01:15] Setting a game plan to match your moods and desires[04:35] The importance of packing a 'go bag' and staying adaptable[08:20] Reassessing your game plan mid-event for maximum enjoyment[12:45] How to confidently close the deal and make the most of the night[16:10] Knowing when to pull the ripcord and end the night on a high noteKey Topics:Swinger event strategiesEffective communication with your partnerEnhancing connection and chemistryNavigating mood changes during eventsClosing the deal with confidenceCall to Action:Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode! Share your thoughts in the comments and let us know your favorite tips. Have a swinging story of your own? Leave us a voicemail at 916-538-0482 for a chance to be featured on the show!Swinger tips, Swinging events, Couple communication, Relationship advice, Swinger lifestyle, Event planning, Sexual chemistrySupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comJoin Phoebe and Ed as they escape to the mountains for a candid discussion on the impact of social media on both regular and Swinger lives. This episode explores the addictive nature of social media, its effects on mental health, and how it shapes our self-esteem and body image. They also share personal stories and practical tips for a healthier balance, including alternatives for a more fulfilling swinging experience.Key Topics:The addictive nature of social media and dopamine releaseAnxiety, depression, and physical health issues linked to social mediaThe role of social media in the Swinger communitySeeking validation and its impact on self-esteemThe FOMO phenomenon and its effects on social interactionsReal-life connections vs. social media interactionsPractical tips for reducing social media usageNotable Moments:[00:45] Introduction by Phoebe and Ed[03:20] Effects of social media on mental health[07:10] Dopamine and addiction in social media[12:30] Validation and self-esteem issues[18:00] Personal anecdotes on body image[22:50] The downside of FOMO[27:30] Alternatives for better swinging experiencesSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comJoin us in this exciting episode as we recount our mesmerizing catamaran cruise experience at Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica! 🌊✨ Overcoming our initial hesitations due to motion sickness, we set sail on a smooth, scenic journey along the beautiful coastline. From breathtaking sunsets to swimming in crystal-clear waters, this cruise offers a perfect blend of relaxation and adventure. Discover hidden caves, interact with cliff divers, and enjoy lively music and fun games aboard. Whether you're a thrill-seeker or someone looking to unwind, this episode is packed with tips and stories to inspire your next adventure. Don't miss out on the unexpected twists and the fun we had along the way!Key Topics:Overcoming motion sicknessHighlights of the catamaran cruiseCliff diving and exploring cave systemsSocial activities and games onboardTips for first-time cruisers at HedonismSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIt's not all fun and games in paradise. Phoebe and I discuss the challenges of pool time when trying to connect and flirt when both partners aren't right next to each other... We try out the Italian restaurant, hit the spa, and dance our butts off at a glow party. We also discuss the challenges of how desire is fluid, so matching up with others can be tricky.00:00 - Start02:36 - Spa Services04:23 - Pool Time Issues06:50 - Italian Food07:48 - Glow Party!10:50 - How Desire ChangesSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comContinuing our in-depth review during our week in Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica. Phoebe and I dig into some of the excursions (some of them are free too!). We take a trip on a glass bottom boat looking for Nemo and his friends. We all take a dance class to learn some local Jamaican dances. Spend more time at the pool. We even give you a little comparison with the Bliss Cruises. Did you know you can take a plane from the airport and skip the bus ride to the resort? (Neither did I...)00:00 - Start01:46 - Glass Bottom Boat03:34 - Dance Class04:15 - Pool Time05:07 - Jamaica Night06:17 - Mini Hedo vs Cruise09:00 - Entertainment09:38 - The Two Hour Drive09:47 - The Plane?Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.