274 - Getting Out Of Your Negative Thought Loop: How To See Things Differently

Do you find yourself spiraling after one overeating incident, convinced you've ruined everything? In this episode, Maggie and Ryan discuss why catastrophic thinking creates emotional states that make it nearly impossible to get back on track. They explore why many people struggle to see alternatives when caught in negative thought loops about their weight loss journey. Discover why the stories you tell yourself after making a small mistake can determine whether you'll keep overeating or get right back on your plan. Learn why your ability to envision different possibilities might be the missing key to sustainable weight loss. 05:45: Understanding why your perception creates your reality and affects your entire weight loss experience 13:45: The critical difference between people who feel "chill" about their weight loss versus those who make it miserable 20:18: Why dramatic, catastrophic thinking prevents you from finding useful solutions and keeps you stuck 27:45: How to notice when you're telling yourself stories that block your progress and keep you overeating Click here to join vibe club  

Doubt is one of the biggest obstacles standing between you and your weight loss goals. In this episode, Maggie and Ryan explore why we get trapped in patterns of self-doubt that keep us from taking meaningful action. They discuss how our brains are wired to resist change and why most people quit during what they call "the messy middle." If you've ever felt like weight loss might work for others but not for you, this episode tackles that mindset head-on. Click here to join vibe club 01:28 The Fuel of Doubt: Maggie introduces doubt as a "shitty fuel" that affects weight loss journeys by preventing action-taking. 03:41 Why Most People Won't Change: Harsh reality that most people won't create the body they want because doubt keeps them safe and prevents action. 07:00 How Your Brain Resists Change: Description of how your brain fights back when you try to change, making weight loss challenging. 11:10 The Messy Middle: How people quit not because they're incapable, but because they mistake self-doubt for doing it wrong. 13:04 Shifting from Judgment to Curiosity: How to neutralize doubt by becoming fascinated with your behaviors rather than judging them. 20:27 Passive vs. Active Approach: Discussion about how many clients pay for coaching but take very passive action due to doubt. 26:38 Actions vs. Desires: The contradiction between deeply wanting to change but making choices that prevent change. 29:10 Practicing the Pause: Detailed walkthrough of taking a pause between urges and actions to make intentional decisions. 34:00 How It Gets Easier: Ryan explains that resisting urges becomes much easier over time as you build trust with yourself. 37:30 New App Features Coming: Preview of new features in the Vibe Club app to help track and process urges.  

Are you stuck in "protein prison" - forcing yourself to eat foods you don't even like in the name of weight loss? In this episode, Maggie and Ryan explore the complicated relationship between nutrition choices and diet mentality, diving into why our reasons for eating certain foods matter more than the foods themselves. They discuss how many women get trapped in patterns of restriction and binging when they prioritize "healthy eating" without considering mental satisfaction. If you've ever choked down Greek yogurt mixed with protein powder while secretly craving something else, this conversation about finding balance without sacrificing results is for you. Click here to join vibe club 03:20: Diet mentality is about energy, beliefs, and thoughts - not specific foods. 07:00: "Protein prison" happens when forcing yourself to eat protein you dislike, causing mental dissatisfaction. 10:20: Choosing foods that make you feel good isn't diet mentality if your reasons are balanced. 14:50: Finding balance often requires swinging to extremes first before settling in the middle. 18:30: Ryan's experience losing muscle when not prioritizing protein he enjoys. 21:30: When to move beyond food neutrality toward intentional choices that support goals.

Feel like you've tried everything and can't seem to make progress with weight loss? In this episode, Ryan gives Maggie challenging scenarios that trip up many women on their weight loss journey, and she delivers powerful motivation for each one. From scale fluctuations to stress eating cycles, they tackle the mental barriers that make you feel like giving up. Discover why your past doesn't have to dictate your future success and how shifting your perspective can change everything. This episode is for anyone who needs a reminder that they have more power than they realize. Click here to join vibe club 03:15 - Handling Setbacks: When the Scale Goes Up 05:04 - Overeating and Moving Forward 06:10 - Planning Slip-Ups and Getting Back on Track 08:00 - Challenging the "Not Disciplined" Identity 10:10 - Food Noise and Breaking the Thought Cycle 13:30 - Breaking the Stress-Eat-Regret Loop 15:40 - Taking Your Power Back: From Victim to Creator 18:14 - Healing Your Relationship with Food 20:00 - Letting Go of Past Stories and Creating New Evidence 24:40 - Final Thoughts: You Can Do It

In this episode, Maggie and Ryan discuss the importance of breaking out of autopilot mode to create real change in your life. They explore how many people wake up and immediately allow external inputs to dictate their day instead of choosing intentionally how they want to feel and act. The hosts share personal experiences about observing their thought patterns and how these directly impact emotions and behaviors. This conversation reveals how the same principles apply to weight loss and presents a compelling case for why you can't create change while running on default programming. Click here to join vibe club 03:10: Maggie explains why living on autopilot prevents you from making the changes you want in your life  07:40: The importance of starting your day with intention rather than external influences  14:20: Ryan shares a personal story about choosing not to let a frustrating situation ruin his entire day 19:10: Maggie describes how to observe your thoughts without judgment and break negative thought patterns 34:30: Discussion on becoming a different person by consistently making different choices every day

In this special episode, Maggie sits down with Szid, a longtime Vibe Club member who has maintained her goal weight for the past two years. Syd shares her personal journey from strict keto dieting to finding sustainable food freedom and mental peace. Their conversation explores the challenging transition between restriction and overeating, while revealing the surprising truth about food noise and obsessive thoughts. Listeners will discover practical insights about the time it truly takes to transform your relationship with food and build lasting trust with yourself. This candid interview offers both hope and realistic expectations for anyone feeling trapped in diet mentality. Click here to join vibe club 02:50 - Szid's experience with strict keto during lockdown 04:30 - The physical and mental toll of extreme restriction 06:42 - Transitioning from restriction to overeating everything 09:10 - Learning to identify "enough" and finding balance 14:00 - The mental switch that changed everything for Szid 16:30 - How to handle urges and the dramatic reduction in food noise 21:20 - The surprising truth about how long transformation really takes 25:20 - The freedom of becoming selective about what you truly enjoy 30:10 - Simplifying food choices and ending food obsession 33:20 - Taking it one day at a time: advice for the journey 37:20 - Building a new identity around food and living without fear

Ever wonder why you can't seem to stop binge eating, no matter how hard you try? In this episode, Maggie dives into a pattern that many women don't recognize in their weight loss journey. If you've ever felt frustrated by your lack of "willpower" around food or blamed yourself for binge eating, this episode will help you understand what's really going on. Learn why the common approaches to stopping binge eating might actually be making things worse, and discover the missing piece that could change everything. 02:35: Understanding what drives our eating patterns 06:05: The survival response you might not realize is happening 08:00: Why finding balance feels so uncomfortable at first 13:14: How to start recognizing your own patterns 16:00: The truth about what "works" for weight loss 18:20: Key mindset shift needed to break free 19:35: Powerful analogy that explains everything Click here to join vibe club  

Why do we keep running back to diets that have never worked for us? Even when we know they don't work long-term, we find ourselves drawn back to restrictive eating, calorie counting, and quick fixes. It's like that ex we keep texting - we know it's not good for us, but something pulls us back every time. In this episode, we dig into why it's so hard to fully let go of dieting, even when we're trying to do things differently. 0:00: Why we keep going back to diets that don't work 8:15: The pull of familiarity vs the unknown 15:25: What happens when you're not fully committed 23:50: The mental battle between old and new patterns 34:35: Why support matters when making big changes Click here to join vibe club  

Are you endlessly analyzing every aspect of your weight loss journey? Maybe you're diving deep into protein timing, obsessing over workout zones, or trying to decode why the scale went down after an off-plan day. While the diet industry tells us weight loss is a complex puzzle to solve, all this detective work might actually be keeping you stuck. You find yourself focused on perfecting minor details while overlooking the obvious patterns that truly impact your results. If you catch yourself constantly searching for hidden answers or trying to connect random dots in your weight loss journey, this episode is for you. Click here to join vibe club  

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