284. Fifteen Years of Fear: Stalked Into Silence

Amy B. Chesler is an award-winning author, actress, and advocate whose life took a devastating turn in 2007 when her brother murdered their mother. After surviving years of abuse and a prolonged legal battle, Amy continues to face ongoing stalking and threats from her brother — even from behind bars. Although his parole has been extended to 2030, gaps in victim notification and systemic failures still leave Amy living with uncertainty. Determined to turn her trauma into purpose, Amy now uses her voice to drive change. As the host of What Came Next and Familicide, she amplifies survivor stories and advocates for meaningful reform in the justice system.**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains depictions of familicide, homicide, physical violence, and sexual assault. Please listen with caution.**HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] VISIT OUR SPONSORS!ShopifySign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at SHOPIFY.COM/STRICTLYSTALKING to take your retail business to the next level. That’s SHOPIFY.COM/STRICTLYSTALKING Progressive InsurancePress play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.Love, Murder - The PodcastJessie Pray and Andie Cassette team up each week to tell stories of love and relationships gone fatally wrong. This show is all about seemingly normal people driven to terrible madness by passion and rage. Hang out with your new best friends each week to discover how someone can go from sweet to murderous in the blink of an eye, and to hear all the ways murder can give love a real bad name.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-murder/id1522372858GUEST LINKSAmy B. Cheslerhttp://amybchesler.comhttp://www.instagram.com/amybcheslerhttp://www.facebook.com/amybcheslerhttp://www.tiktok.com/@amybcheslerand my book:Working for Justice: https://amzn.to/4kiwOAyOTHER LINKSThe Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie BeebeListen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-tripFollow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcastlovelustaw - PodcastApple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustlaw/id1819843688Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/6BEWXKOaEo8lfK554a5NqEAmazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/2789d9c8-b4ab-4b4a-847d-a469d89b1d0b/lovelustlawInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustlaw/Website: https://www.michelelocke.com/podcastInstagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Andrew’s life was shattered by someone he barely even knew—a person who turned a simple business partnership into a 15-year nightmare of obsession, harassment, and relentless stalking. When the partnership fell apart, his stalker didn’t walk away—instead, they weaponized the legal system. They secured a default judgment, not based on facts, but because Andrew simply didn’t have the resources to fight back. That judgment became their tool of control, slowly dismantling Andrew’s life piece by piece. Years of torment left him homeless, isolated, and battling multiple suicide attempts. But Andrew refused to let that be the end of his story. He’s rebuilt his life—and his brand—on survival, resilience, and the raw truth of what it takes to fight back.**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including attempted suicide. Listener discretion is advised.**HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] VISIT OUR SPONSORS!QuinceGo to https://www.quince.com/strictly for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Delete MeToday get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout. GUEST LINKSAndrew Janghttps://www.andrewjang.com/https://www.instagram.com/sevenofandrew/https://www.tiktok.com/@sevenofandrewInstagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dr. Natalie Jones is a licensed professional clinical counselor with more than 16 years of experience helping survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. She specializes in working with both those who’ve experienced narcissistic abuse — and those who struggle with narcissistic traits themselves. As a trusted voice in both the media and legal communities, Dr. Jones frequently consults on high-profile cases. Today, she’s joining us to break down the psychological dynamics of stalking, explore its long-term impact on victims, and share what survivors need to know to protect themselves and begin the healing process.HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] VISIT OUR SPONSORS!QuinceGo to https://www.quince.com/strictly for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. BeamIf you want to try Beam’s best-selling Dream Powder, get up to 40% off for a limited timewhen you go to shopbeam.com/stalking and use code STALKING at checkout. Progressive InsurancePress play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.GUEST LINKSDr. Natalie Joneshttps://www.drnataliejones.comhttps://www.drnataliejones.com/podcast/https://www.instagram.com/dr.nataliejones/Instagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Just out of college, Justine landed a full-time job at a community health clinic. But everything changed when the clinic brought in a temporary physician - someone we’ll refer to as Dr. T. What started as frequent visits to her desk and too many phone calls, quickly crossed the line into harassment… and then into stalking. Justine followed eery protocol. She reported the incidents to HR, spoke to security, and asked for help. But instead of support, she was met with disbelief, blame, and questions about her own conduct. The system that was supposed to protect her… didn’t. Fearing for her safety and with nowhere left to turn, Justine made the difficult decision to leave her job. Now she’s telling her story - not just to shine a light on the damage workplace stalking can cause, but to call out the institutional failures that allow it to continue. And to empower others to speak up, even when it feels like no one is listening.HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] VISIT OUR SPONSORS!BeamIf you want to try Beam’s best-selling Dream Powder, get up to 40% off for a limited timewhen you go to shopbeam.com/stalking and use code STALKING at checkout. Delete MeToday get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout. Progressive InsurancePress play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.Instagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Meghan’s nightmare began just weeks after graduating high school, when she became the target of a stalker impersonating her online — posting fake messages that claimed she was suicidal. Years later, after she defended a friend from cyberbullying on a fan site, it happened again. This time, the harassment escalated. Someone sent fake welfare checks to her home and impersonated her online, even going so far as to send threatening messages to a celebrity while posing as Meghan online. She has contacted local police, but with the stalker operating across state lines and hiding behind layers of digital anonymity, legal action has proven nearly impossible. Now, Meghan is speaking out — determined to share her story and put an end to the stalking she has endured.HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] LINKSMeghan WalshInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/themeghanwalshTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themeghanwalsh PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS!Progressive InsurancePress play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.Instagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Kate met a man on Facebook just before the COVID lockdown—and what began as a pandemic relationship soon turned into a nightmare. After discovering his obsessive behavior toward other women, Kate ended things. But the breakup didn’t stop him. For over a year, Kate was relentlessly harassed. She received a flood of messages, phone calls, and emails from multiple numbers. Disturbing packages began arriving at her home. Even after she moved to a nearby city, he found her and followed. Desperate, Kate filed cyberstalking charges—but that only escalated the situation. He started appearing in person, even confronting her in the park while she was with her children. With nowhere else to turn, Kate finally went to the police for help.HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period atSHOPIFY.COM/STRICTLYSTALKING to take your retail business to the next level. That’s SHOPIFY.COM/STRICTLYSTALKINGProgressive InsurancePress play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.Clues with Morgan Absher & Kaelyn Moore!Just search for Clues wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes drop everyWednesday.OTHER LINKSlovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake DeptulaApple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecAmazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearThe Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie BeebeListen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-tripFollow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcastInstagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join hosts Morgan Absher and Kaelyn Moore as they take you deep into the world of the most notorious crimes ever — where a single clue can crack a case wide open. From shocking murders to serial killers, Clues dives into all the forensic details and brilliant sleuthing of the world's most infamous cases. CLUES is a Crime House Original, powered by PAVE Studios. Follow and listen now wherever you get your podcasts.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Danielle Leukam is a survivor of a horrifying home invasion. While she and her three-year-old son slept, a masked and armed intruder broke in during the night. For the next five hours, Danielle was zip-tied and brutally assaulted before the attacker finally fled. For months, his identity remained a mystery—until DNA from another assault, committed hours away, matched her rape kit. That’s when Danielle discovered the unthinkable: her attacker was someone from her past who had been stalking her. He had never been to her home, never had her address—yet somehow, he found her. Today, Danielle bravely shares her story in her memoir, Four Pounds of Pressure: A Memoir of Rape, Survival, and Taking Back My Power.**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphics depictions of physical violence, abduction, torture, and sexual assualt. Please listen with caution.**HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] VISIT OUR SPONSORS!Delete MeToday get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout. QuinceGo to https://www.quince.com/strictly for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Progressive InsurancePress play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive.Clues with Morgan Absher & Kaelyn Moore!Just search for Clues wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes drop everyWednesday.GUEST LINKSDanielle Leukumwww.danielleleukam.com https://www.instagram.com/danielleleukam/​​https://www.facebook.com/DanielleLouiseLeukam/OTHER LINKSlovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake DeptulaApple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecAmazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearThe Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie BeebeListen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-tripFollow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcastInstagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Since September 2020, Jennifer’s life has been overshadowed by fear. She’s been followed. Harassed. Watched. And no matter how many times she’s called the police—or even rushed into a station, terrified and pleading—help has felt just out of reach. When she finally filed for a restraining order, she hoped the system would protect her. But instead, the judge said there wasn’t enough evidence. That what her stalker was doing wasn’t technically “illegal.” Now, feeling cornered and unheard, Jennifer is speaking out. To raise awareness. To reclaim her voice. And to find the support she’s long been denied.HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] VISIT OUR SPONSORS!ShopifySign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/strictlystalking  to take your retail business to the next level. That’s shopify.com/strictlystalkingZocDocGo to Zocdoc.com/STALKING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. OTHER LINKSThe Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie BeebeListen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-tripFollow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcastlovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake DeptulaApple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecAmazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearInstagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

After remarrying and moving into what she hoped would be a peaceful new home, Amie was ready for a fresh start with her six-year-old son. But the promise of a new beginning quickly turned into a nightmare. Her next-door neighbors—two brothers—soon began to exhibit unsettling behavior. What started as odd glances and lingering stares escalated into full-blown stalking. They followed her, loitered in her yard, stared through her windows, and at one terrifying point, trapped her in her own car. Amie shares how she survived the relentless harassment—and how she turned her experience into her new book, Human/Animal: A Bestiary in Essays.HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW:[email protected] VISIT OUR SPONSORS!Delete MeToday get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout. GUEST LINKSAmie ReillyBluesky @amiesouzareilly.bsky.socialOTHER LINKSlovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake DeptulaApple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecAmazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearThe Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie BeebeListen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-tripFollow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcastInstagram:@strictlystalkingpod@feathergirl77@jaked3000See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.