335. What to do when the world feels too heavy: Tools for Building Hope and Resilience

SHOW NOTESTitle: What to do when the world feels too heavyEpisode: 335Guest: N/A (Solo Episode with Laura Cox Kaplan)THIS WEEK'S TOPIC:This week's episode pivots from the originally planned content to address the collective weight many are feeling in the world right now. In the aftermath of the murder of Charlie Kirk, just a day before the 24th anniversary of the terrorist attacks on September 11th, host Laura Cox Kaplan invites listeners into a vulnerable, reflective conversation about how we can each find hope, resilience, and the courage to keep showing up in the face of violence, grief, and uncertainty.Laura shares a collection of practical tools and mindset shifts that have personally helped her process loss, maintain perspective, and move forward with purpose. You'll walk away with a toolkit of specific practices you can use to support yourself and those around you during heavy times.KEY TOPICS AND WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: **Reframing for Resilience** **Tapping into Meaning** **Choosing Connection Despite Difference:** **Using Gratitude as a Counterweight to Darkness****Hope as a Muscle** **Four Actionable Micro-Practices**ABOUT THIS EPISODEThis conversation is personal, practical, and real. Laura doesn't offer easy answers, but delivers timely encouragement and a reminder that, even when we don't have it all figured out, small daily choices in how we respond to adversity truly matter-for ourselves, our families, and our communities.Whether you're a longtime listener or new to She Said/She Said, this episode offers a grounding, compassionate guide for anyone navigating uncertainty or seeking ways to be a force for good during challenging times.There is so much wisdom and heart in this episode. What resonated with you most? Please let us know! You can reach Laura and the team via the links below.LOOKING FOR MORE SHE SAID/SHE SAID?You'll find all episodes and content at: shesaidshesaidpodcast.comLET'S CONNECT!InstagramLinked InOr email us: [email protected]

Episode 334: How Social Capital and Strategic Reconnection Supercharge Your InfluenceGuest: Laura Cox Kaplan (solo episode)THIS WEEK'S TOPIC:Welcome back! After a little summer break, Laura is back behind the mic and ready to help you tap into your greatest resource: your relationships. This week, we’re talking about “social capital”—what it is, why it matters WAY more than most of us think, and super doable ways to rebuild or refresh your network, especially as you ease back into work or life after some time off (summer break, anyone?). Laura also dishes on the newly revamped She Said/She Said Podcast website, complete with new features, tools, and resources designed just for you!IN THIS EPISODE, LAURA COVERS:What social capital really means. Spoiler: it’s not about money!The science behind connection, and why your network is a HUGE factor in your happiness, resilience, and confidenceHow to use the natural transition of coming back from a break as a smooth way to reconnect with people (no awkwardness required)Simple, actionable tips to rebuild your network without overwhelm—think small, honest gestures (like a quick text, coffee date, or sharing a helpful article)Why giving first (rather than just asking) helps you earn trust and makes networking feel way less transactionalEasy ways to keep the momentum going so your social capital grows for the futureWHY THIS MATTERS:Laura dives into why strong relationships are at the core of real influence—not just likes, not just fancy job titles. She shares research from the world of positive psychology that proves human connection isn’t just “nice to have.” It’s essential, and it helps you bounce back faster and feel happier overall. Plus, you'll get specific action steps you can take today! PLUS:Laura gives a sneak peek at the totally redesigned She Said/She Said Podcast website. Please go check it out at shesaidshedsaidpodcast.com or lauracoxkaplan.com and let her know what you think (and what else you’d love to see there)!Links Mentioned: Brand Development: Tamara Edwards TE&Co.Website Design: Angela Ryan, Exotic SpeciesTHOUGHTS OR FEEDBACK?Laura wants to hear what resonated, what you’re trying, and what you’d love to learn about next. Reach out via the website, LinkedIn or Instagram—or just send an email to [email protected] MORE SHE SAID/SHE SAID:All the episodes and resources live at shesaidshedsaidpodcast.com!LET’S CONNECT!Instagram: @lauracoxkaplanLinkedIn: Laura Cox KaplanShe Said/She Said Podcast site: shesaidshedsaidpodcast.comEmail: [email protected] YOU’RE LOVING THE SHOW…We’d be so grateful if you left a quick review on your favorite podcast app. It helps more people find the show and lets us know what’s working for you!She Said/She Said Podcast is a weekly production of She Said/She Said Media.

SHOW NOTESTitle: The Strategic Value of Pressing Pause: How Breaks Build Influence & LeadershipEpisode 333 Guest: Laura Cox Kaplan (solo episode)THIS WEEK’S TOPIC: Ever notice how your best ideas often come when you stop forcing them, maybe while folding laundry or taking a walk? In this week’s solo episode, Laura Cox Kaplan dives into the powerful, science-backed value of taking intentional breaks. With summer approaching, Laura announces a pause for the podcast and shares why stepping back is not only healthy but strategic for long-term growth, clarity, and influence, especially for ambitious, mid-career women navigating change, evolution, and life’s seasons.Laura recaps a few of the year’s guest insights, from navigating the “ambition paradox” to unlocking money confidence, battling busy, and reflecting on the importance of quality over quantity, personal alignment, and modeling healthy boundaries. With wisdom from elite performers and positive psychology, this episode will inspire you to reframe rest and breaks as essential leadership tools. Plus, Laura shares a few books from her summer reading list, as well as some ways to stay connected during the show’s break.KEY TOPICS AND WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:THE UNEXPECTED POWER OF BREAKS: Learn why pressing pause can lead to deeper creativity, better decision-making, and long-lasting influence. Laura shares scientific insights, including how even tiny breaks boost clarity and lower burnout, and why sleep (even if elusive!) is vital for mental pruning and leadership.QUALITY OVER QUANTITY: Discover how going deep matters more than doing more, and why the podcast is taking a summer break to create even stronger content for you.POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY & PURPOSE: Laura delves into the world of positive psychology and explores how practicing what you preach, including integrating intention and mindset shifts, leads to more meaningful leadership.MODEL THE HABITS YOU WANT TO SEE: By pausing and setting boundaries publicly, you give permission for others — whether team members, colleagues, or family — to do the same. Intentional leadership can have a powerful ripple effect.RECENT GUEST HIGHLIGHTS: A look back at wisdom from recent guests, including:Therapist Ann Welsh on the “Ambition Paradox”Dina Powell McCormick on mentorship and her new book “Who Believed In You?”Insights on overcoming the “broken rung” with Lareina Yee of McKinseyAllison Wood Brooks on mastering the art of conversationReflections from our first male guests who share deeply personal, female-centered storiesSUMMER READING LIST Laura’s top picks for reflection & growth:Transitions by William Bridges and Susan BridgesPeak by Anders Ericsson and Robert PooleDo Nothing by Celeste HeadleeLET’S CONNECT!Instagram: @lauracoxkaplanLinkedIn: Laura Cox KaplanWebsite & contact: shesaidshesaidpodcast.comEmail: [email protected] FOR MORE SHE SAID/SHE SAID? You’ll find all episodes and past content at shesaidshesaidpodcast.com and new video content on our YouTube channel!PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW SHE SAID/SHE SAID PODCAST If you enjoy the show, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Play, YouTube, or wherever you listen! Your feedback helps others find us and allows us to keep bringing you what matters most.SPECIAL OFFERS FOR LISTENERS:20% off Eric Javits sun hats (promo code: shesaid)Exclusive savings at Cozy Earth (promo code: shesaid)MID-YEAR REVIEW WORKSHEET: Downloadable Mid-Year Review WorksheetNote: She Said/She Said Podcast is a weekly production of She Said She Said Media. The show will return refreshed and ready in the fall. Until then, enjoy our full catalog of 333 episodes and a restorative summer!

SHOW NOTES  Episode 332: “The Strategic Genius of Taylor Swift: Building Influence Through Storytelling, Reinvention, and Resilience”  Guest: Kevin Evers, Senior Editor at Harvard Business Review, Author of “There’s Nothing Like This: The Strategic Genius of Taylor Swift”THIS WEEK’S TOPIC: What does it take to go from a teenage singer in a Tennessee mall to building one of the most powerful empires in the music industry, and what can ambitious professionals in any field learn from that journey? This week’s conversation is a surprising and powerful masterclass in strategy, delivered through the lens of Taylor Swift’s career.Joining Laura is Kevin Evers, Senior Editor at Harvard Business Review and author of the new book that unpacks the business and strategic brilliance behind Taylor Swift’s rise. They break down the bold moves, storytelling strategies, and community-building tactics that turned setbacks into springboards, and created a playbook for influence, resilience, and staying power.This is not just an episode for Swifties and music fans. Whether you’re building a business, leading a team, or charting your next career move, Kevin and Laura tease out actionable lessons on storytelling, authenticity, adaptation, reinvention, handling criticism, and more. If you want clarity and confidence to pursue your biggest goals, you’ll find it here.ABOUT THIS WEEK’S GUEST:  Kevin Evers is a Senior Editor at Harvard Business Review, where he acquires and edits non-fiction books on a wide array of business topics. With more than a decade of experience shaping big-idea books, Kevin brings an expert’s eye to the intersection of business research and real-world application. In his new book, “There’s Nothing Like the Strategic Genius of Taylor Swift,” he analyzes how Swift’s mindset, risk-taking, and storytelling have redefined success and impact in the modern era. KEY TOPICS AND WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: – THE FOUNDER’S MENTALITY: How Taylor Swift approached her career with the clarity, persistence, and customer (fan) focus of a true entrepreneur—starting in her teens, breaking the “rules” of Nashville, and carving a space for young women in country music.– STRATEGIC STORYTELLING: Why world-building and narrative control set Taylor apart from her peers (and what artists and professionals alike can learn about actively shaping—not leaving—your own story to chance).– AUTHENTICITY (AND ITS LIMITS): Taylor’s model for being genuine while still adapting and growing. Kevin and Laura discuss how vulnerability and ambiguity in her lyrics build deep fan connection, but also how staying “too authentic” can become a “cage.”– THE ART OF THE SLOW PIVOT: What it means to “surprise but not shock” your audience. Hear how Taylor’s methodical reinvention (from country, to pop, to indie, and beyond) kept her evolving without alienating her core community.– RESILIENCE & REVERSE NARRATIVE: Taylor’s masterclass in handling criticism: from the infamous Kanye West interruption to public backlash and how she transformed negative moments and personal/professional loss into creative (and commercial) wins.– COMMUNITY, COLLABORATION, & TEAM LOYALTY: A look at how Taylor builds trust, loyalty, and longevity with close collaborators, team members, and fans—while still making tough pivots.– PRODUCTIVITY IN THE ATTENTION ECONOMY: How Taylor adapted her creative output for the streaming age—shifting from a “precious” approach to prolific production, and what that means for anyone looking to sustain growth after a career plateau.There’s so much to take away from this conversation, whether you want to own your narrative, build lasting influence, or flip setbacks into strategic advantages. We would love to hear your take! Reach out and join the conversation! SPECIAL OFFERS FOR She Said/She Said Podcast LISTENERS:Get 20% off your order at Eric Javits.com using this link has the promo code already built in. Or, enter SheSaid at checkout.Get 41% off your order at Cozy Earth. The promo is built into this link! Or, enter promo code SheSaid at checkout. The Women’s Chelsea Set is a fan fav!All proceeds from sales are reinvested into She Said/She Said Podcast, so you’re getting something nice AND reinvesting in something you believe in and support! Talk about a win/win! Thanks, friend! I am so grateful for your support of the show! FEEDBACK: I hope you loved this episode, and I’d love to hear what resonated with you! DM me @lauraCoxKaplan on Instagram, LinkedIn, or Facebook. You can also reach out via shesaidshesaidpodcast.com or email me directly at: [email protected] you’re enjoying She Said/She Said Podcast, please consider leaving a review on Spotify, iTunes, or wherever you listen. 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SHOW NOTES331. From Calvin Klein to Kaftans: Reinventing Identity and Career SuccessGuest: Sue Sartor, designer and fashion brand founderTOPICS: Entrepreneurship, Reinvention, Authentic BrandingThis episode is part of our 2025 She Said/She Said Podcast + The Southern C collaboration series, highlighting stories of intentional growth, entrepreneurship, and brand-building. Sue Sartor’s journey is a compelling example of how personal clarity, authentic branding, and high-touch customer engagement can build lasting influence, especially when fueled by purpose and reinvention.THIS WEEK’S GUEST:Sue Sartor is the founder and designer behind the joyful and distinctive fashion brand that bears her name. Known for her handcrafted, small-batch dresses and caftans, Sue has built a brand rooted in authenticity, artistry, and individuality. After launching her fashion career at Calvin Klein, she stepped away to raise her family—and returned in her late 40s to create something entirely her own.KEY THEMES IN THIS EPISODE:How Sue reignited her career and creative passion in midlife—and why your timeline doesn’t have to be traditional to be successful.Why staying true to your brand identity (and putting on creative blinders) helped her stand out in a crowded marketplace.How authenticity and focus became essential brand values, especially when navigating copycats, scaling challenges, and industry uncertainty.How working with her daughter added creative fuel to her business—and offered healing and connection through collaboration.Why hands-on, high-touch customer service is at the core of her brand, even when it’s not the easiest path.How to think about seasons of life, identity, and legacy—and redefine what success looks like at every stage.Bonus: Sue’s unexpected but powerful relationship advice on evolving with your partner and honoring creativity in long-term commitment.EPISODE LINKS:Website: suesartor.comInstagram: @suesartor  Learn more about The Southern C: thesouthernc.comSPECIAL OFFERS FOR She Said/She Said Podcast LISTENERS:Get 20% off your order at Eric Javits.com using this link has the promo code already built in. Or, enter SheSaid at checkout.Get 41% off your order at Cozy Earth. The promo is built into this link! Or, enter promo code SheSaid at checkout. The Women’s Chelsea Set is a fan fav!All proceeds from sales are reinvested into She Said/She Said Podcast, so you’re getting something nice AND reinvesting in something you believe in and support! Talk about a win/win! Thanks, friend! I am so grateful for your support of the show!FEEDBACK:I hope you loved this episode, and I’d love to hear what resonated with you! DM me @lauraCoxKaplan on Instagram, LinkedIn, or Facebook. You can also reach out via shesaidshesaidpodcast.com or email me directly at: [email protected] you’re enjoying She Said/She Said Podcast, please consider leaving a review on Spotify, iTunes, or wherever you listen. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and continue to bring you content that inspires and informs!

SHOW NOTES 330. How to Celebrate Everything: Lessons in Joy, Creativity & Brand-Building  Guest: Darcy Miller, author, celebration expert, and founding editor of Martha Stewart WeddingsTHIS WEEK’S TOPIC: When was the last time you truly celebrated—not just the big achievements, but the small wins, the everyday joys, and even the poignant moments of life? This week’s episode digs into the transformative power of celebration as more than just a party—it’s a practice of gratitude, connection, and lasting influence.Host Laura Cox Kaplan welcomes the extraordinarily talented Darcy Miller: artist, entrepreneur, longtime creative force at Martha Stewart Weddings, and famed “memory keeper.” Darcy is renowned for her joyful approach to helping others honor life’s most meaningful moments, whether through keepsakes, heartfelt illustrations, or imaginative celebrations.Episode 330 is part of our The Southern C + She Said/She Said Podcast Collaboration Series! Darcy shares how she built her brand and career, tracing her journey from uncertain creative college grad to becoming a driving force in the domestic lifestyle world, and then going out on her own. From risk-taking at the start of her career by not picking the “safe bet,” to embracing her creative instincts, to building soulful celebrations both personally and professionally, Darcy’s story will inspire you to bring more intentional joy to your own life and those around you.ABOUT THIS WEEK’S GUEST: Darcy Miller is an artist, author of “Celebrate Everything!”, founder of the creative brand Darcy Miller Designs, and former founding editor of Martha Stewart Weddings. Known for her signature illustrations, creative keepsakes, and focus on memory-keeping, Darcy brings artistry and heart to every project—whether it’s a bestselling book, high-profile events, or personal family traditions. Her business, Celebration Expert, helps clients transform milestones into memorable, soulful celebrations.KEY TOPICS AND WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:THE SCIENCE OF CELEBRATION: Why marking small wins and celebrating others can boost resilience, well-being, and build real community and trust!BUILDING A CREATIVE CAREER AND TAKING RISKS: Darcy recounts her fateful choice between Vogue and the then-startup Martha Stewart Living. Learn how following your creative curiosity (and sometimes taking the road less traveled) can pay off in unexpected ways.CREATING (AND REDEFINING) YOUR OWN ROLE: How Darcy forged her path at Martha Stewart Living and created an influential niche in the world of celebrations and memory keeping.WHY CELEBRATION IS ABOUT MORE THAN JUST THROWING A PARTY: Darcy shares her philosophy on celebrating all moments, and how to infuse soul into celebrations to create connection. THE ART OF MEMORY-KEEPING: Practical advice and inspiration for making meaning from everyday life and special items.THE PIVOT FROM CORPORATE TO SOLO ENTREPRENEURSHIP: How Darcy knew it was the right moment to step away from Martha Stewart full-time and launch her own venture.Find out why celebrating thoughtfully can change your mindset, your relationships, and your influence.There is so much joy, wisdom, and practical advice in this episode, you won’t want to miss it! If this episode inspires you to celebrate a little more, let us know how—we’d love to hear!LOOKING FOR MORE SHE SAID/SHE SAID? You’ll find all of my episodes and content here!  LET’S CONNECT! – Instagram,– Linked In– Facebook. – Contact Laura Cox Kaplan and the Team via Email: [email protected] SPECIAL OFFER FOR SHE SAID/SHE SAID PODCAST LISTENERS: Looking for the perfect summer accessory, or maybe a gift for mom or one of the amazing women in your life? Check out the fabulous hats and accessories at www.EricJavits.com . Be sure to use promo code: SHESAID for 20% off your order! All proceeds from sales are reinvested into She Said/She Said podcast for the creation of future content! PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW SHE SAID/SHE SAID PODCAST If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback helps us keep improving and deliver more of what inspires you!Note: She Said/She Said Podcast is a weekly production of She Said/She Said Media.

SHOW NOTES 329. How Motherhood and a Passion for Cross-Stitch Fueled a Media Legacy Guest: Brian Hart Hoffman, Hoffman Media, President & Chief Creative Officer THIS WEEK’S TOPIC: How does motherhood inspire entrepreneurship, and what happens when maternal values fuel business growth for generations? In this special Mother’s Day episode—part of our collaboration series with The Southern C—host Laura Cox Kaplan sits down with Brian Hart Hoffman to explore how his mother Phyllis transformed a cross-stitch passion and meager investment into a thriving media empire while keeping family at the center of every decision. Brian joins the conversation from Capri, Italy, where he’s leading one of Hoffman Media‘s international baking retreats. It’s just one example of how Brian has expanded his mother’s legacy through his own passions. Together, Laura and Brian examine how motherhood can provide powerful experience capital for entrepreneurs, why niche audiences create sustainable business opportunities, and how putting family first can lead to greater long-term success. ABOUT THIS WEEK’S GUEST: Brian Hart Hoffman leads Hoffman Media alongside his twin brother, Eric, carrying forward their mother’s trailblazing legacy. With brands spanning beloved magazines (including Bake from Scratch, TeaTime, and Southern Lady), cookbooks, podcasts, e-learning classes, and international baking retreats, Brian continues to grow the company his mother started in their Birmingham, Alabama home in 1983. Originally a flight attendant who pursued his own career path before joining the family business, Brian now applies his creative vision and travel experience to expanding Hoffman Media’s reach while honoring its founding principles. KEY TOPICS AND WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: Why focusing on passionate niche audiences creates a unique connection and community How Phyllis’ family-first decisions ultimately strengthened the business’s foundation Why Phyllis encouraged her sons to pursue their own careers before considering joining the family business Brian’s journey launching Bake from Scratch as a passion project within the family company Phyllis’ and Brian’s advice for entrepreneurs This episode offers heartfelt inspiration and practical wisdom for anyone balancing family priorities with entrepreneurial ambitions. It’s a powerful reminder that motherhood can provide the greatest experience capital for building businesses that align with your deepest values. LOOKING FOR MORE SHE SAID/SHE SAID? You’ll find all episodes and resources here: shesaidshesaidpodcast.com LET’S CONNECT! 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SHOW NOTES Title: Innovation Through Collaboration with Alexandra Dillard Lucie Episode 328 Guest: Alexandra Dillard Lucie, Vice President and General Merchandise Manager at Dillard’s, Inc. THIS WEEK’S TOPIC: How do you breathe new life into a beloved legacy brand without losing sight of its roots? This week on She Said/She Said Podcast, we’re diving into the world of retail reinvention with Alexandra Dillard Lucie—third-generation leader at Dillard’s Inc.—as part of our She Said/She Said + The Southern C Collaboration Series. Alexandra is helping reshape the department store experience for a new generation by weaving together innovation, strategic designer partnerships, and the unique sensibility that has defined Dillard’s since 1938. What does it really take to drive meaningful change in an established business, especially one that’s family-run? And how do you balance honoring tradition with charting a bold new course? If you’re in the midst of transforming an organization (or even your own career), considering a collaborative venture, or simply curious about the evolution of retail, this episode is full of actionable insights and inspiration. ABOUT THIS WEEK’S GUEST: Alexandra Dillard Lucie is the Vice President and General Merchandise Manager for Dillard’s Inc. As the granddaughter of the company’s founder, she grew up steeped in the world of retail and fashion. Today, Alexandra is driving innovation at Dillard’s, launching new brands and influencer collaborations, building a “shop-within-the-shop” concept to nurture emerging designers, and embracing both the challenges and the strengths of leading within a family enterprise. KEY TOPICS AND WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: – FAMILY BUSINESS DYNAMICS: Alexandra shares the unique opportunities (and challenges!) of working at the intersection of family and business, and how generational leadership can anchor long-term thinking. – BALANCING TRADITION & INNOVATION: Discover how Dillard’s is blending its Southern roots and decades-long reputation with unexpected collaborations, strategic risk-taking, and keeping a finger on the pulse of what’s next in retail. – THE POWER OF COLLABORATION: Learn about Dillard’s Coterie Shop and how nurturing rising designers and forming authentic influencer partnerships has become a major driver of growth—and why authenticity is the No. 1 ingredient for success. – MEASURING SUCCESS BEYOND SALES: Sometimes the biggest win is taking a bold risk, even if the immediate payoff isn’t monetary. – BLENDING BRICKS AND CLICKS: Alexandra explains how Dillard’s approaches the balance of in-store and digital experiences in a fast-evolving retail landscape, plus why personal connection and community-building remain central. – WHY SOUTHERN STYLE MATTERS: How Dillard’s Southern heritage is a strategic advantage—and why the explosion of “new South” creativity is shaping the future of fashion and retail. – LEADERSHIP LESSONS & GROWTH: Insights on what it takes to stay inspired, creative, and forward-moving in an ever-changing industry. There’s so much wisdom here for anyone navigating change—inside a business, a family, or your own career. We can’t wait to hear what resonates with you! WHAT STRUCK YOU MOST? Share your thoughts, aha moments, and takeaways from this week’s conversation! Connect with Laura:  Instagram, Linked In,  Facebook, or email: [email protected] You can access all previous episodes and more content here!   SPECIAL SHE SAID/SHE SAID PODCAST LISTENER BENEFIT: Looking for the perfect summer accessory? Check out Ericjavits.com and use our special promo code SHESAID for 20% off —just in time for Mother’s Day or to treat yourself. **PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW SHE SAID/SHE SAID PODCAST!** If you enjoy the show, please take a moment to share a rating or review wherever you listen. Your feedback is invaluable and helps us deliver more of the content you love. Note: She Said/She Said Podcast is a weekly production of She Said/She Said Media. Thanks for listening! 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SHOW NOTES Episode 327. Unlocking Workplace Influence By Learning to Manage Up Guest: Melody Wilding, Professor, author, and career coach THIS WEEK’S TOPIC: Ever wonder why managing up feels more confusing—or downright daunting—than any other professional skill? This week, we’re diving into what managing up truly means with Melody Wilding, executive coach, licensed social worker, and bestselling author of “Trust Yourself”   and “Managing Up”. Managing up is not about “sucking up” or politics, but about taking charge of your own success, building alignment, and setting boundaries for sustainable, productive relationships—including with colleagues, clients, and even your board. Melody shares the essential, learnable skillsets that can help you move from overthinking and self-doubt into clarity, confidence, and influence at work—especially in our hybrid, matrixed workplaces. We unpack her pivotal career moment (a surprise job termination!), discuss navigating imposter syndrome, the nuances of power dynamics, and practical scripts for feedback and visibility. Whether you have a boss or answer to a host of stakeholders, this episode will change how you think about influence and self-advocacy in your career journey. ABOUT THIS WEEK’S GUEST: Melody Wilding is an executive coach, Licensed Social Worker (LMSW), speaker, author of Trust Yourself and Managing Up, and host of the “Psychology at Work” podcast. Melody specializes in helping sensitive high-achievers conquer self-doubt to become influential leaders. Her work is a blend of psychological insight and practical career strategies, and her mission is to help you harness your inner power in complex, people-driven environments. KEY TOPICS AND WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: THE TRUE DEFINITION OF MANAGING UP: Melody reframes managing up as an internal shift—focusing less on the boss, and more on self-advocacy, boundary setting, and creating your own conditions for success. IMPOSTER SYNDROME & INTERNALIZING SUCCESS: Melody gives a new perspective on “imposter feelings,” sharing why high achievers struggle to internalize their accomplishments and how you can create your own “brag book” to counteract negativity bias. NAVIGATING POWER DYNAMICS: Learn how to assess your “pushback power” and why self-awareness and situational savvy are key to setting boundaries at every level—from junior staff to seasoned executives. THE ART OF ALIGNMENT: Discover the essential questions to reset and clarify alignment with your manager—what does success look like, what’s keeping your boss up at night, and how can you connect project work to the bigger picture? COMMUNICATION & FEEDBACK SCRIPTS: Melody shares frameworks like “Problem, Action, Solution” and “We, then Me” that enable you to shine the spotlight strategically—promoting both team and personal wins without tipping into self-promotion overload. VISIBILITY WITHOUT OVERDOING IT: Master ways to increase your internal and external visibility (even in hybrid and remote settings) through storytelling, results-based updates, and strategic networking. Bonus: learn Melody’s favorite hack for expanding your influence beyond the org chart. This episode is packed with actionable advice, mindset shifts, and the inside track on navigating relationships at work— and in life — with more confidence and less second-guessing. I can’t wait to hear from you! What’s your biggest managing up challenge or breakthrough? Reach out and let us know! EXCLUSIVE OFFER! 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SHOW NOTES Title: “Are You Building the Right Kind of Currency for Career Success?” Episode 326 Guest: Lareina Yee THIS WEEK’S TOPIC: What if the way you’re collecting professional experiences is more valuable than the titles on your resume? In this eye-opening episode, Lareina Yee, Executive Partner at McKinsey and co-author of “The Broken Rung,” introduces us to the game-changing concept of “experience capital” – the true currency that propels careers forward. Discover how strategically curating your professional experiences can exponentially increase your career value and why understanding this concept is crucial for women navigating the corporate ladder. This conversation reveals why the “broken rung” on the career ladder affects women long before they ever encounter the glass ceiling, and offers practical strategies to build the right kind of capital for sustainable success. ABOUT THIS WEEK’S GUEST: Lareina Yee is an executive partner at McKinsey who co-founded the Women in the Workplace research initiative, capturing more than a decade of data-driven insights on gender in the workplace. With her co-authors in “The Broken Rung,” Lareina examines the overlooked barriers women face early in their careers and provides strategic approaches to overcoming these challenges. KEY TOPICS AND WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: EXPERIENCE CAPITAL EXPLAINED: Understand how the professional experiences you collect become your career currency – with Lareina explaining that 50% of your lifetime earnings comes from what you gain on the job. Learn how to strategically select roles, responsibilities, and projects that build your portfolio of skills and demonstrate your readiness for advancement. BOLD CAREER MOVES THAT PAY OFF: Discover why stepping into roles where 20% of the requirements terrify you might be exactly what your career needs. Lareina shares why periodic job changes and stretching beyond your comfort zone accelerates your experience capital growth. CHOOSING COMPANIES, NOT JUST JOBS: Learn why “picking a company, not a job” is critical early in your career, and how to evaluate which organizations will truly invest in your development. P&L RESPONSIBILITY AS A CAREER ACCELERATOR: Find out why having profit and loss responsibility, even temporarily, dramatically increases your experience capital and future opportunities. TRANSFORMING MOTHERHOOD INTO A CAPITAL BUILDER: Challenge conventional thinking about career breaks with strategies for creating a “round trip ticket” that turns parenthood into an experience capital advantage. LEVERAGING YOUR NETWORK STRATEGICALLY: Understand the crucial difference between mentors who guide and sponsors who open doors, and how to cultivate both types of relationships. This episode provides actionable insights on building your professional currency in ways you might never have considered. I’m eager to hear how the concept of experience capital might reshape your approach to career development! Connect with me and share how you’re thinking about your own experience capital – is this concept new to you? Something that might shift how you’re thinking about your professional journey? Let me know! LINKS MENTIONED:  The Broken Rung by Kweilin Ellingrud, Lareina Yee, and Maria Del Mar Martinez LOOKING FOR MORE SHE SAID/SHE SAID? You’ll find all of my episodes and content here!     LET’S CONNECT!  – Instagram: Instagram, – Linked In: Linked In – Facebook: Facebook.  – Contact Laura Cox Kaplan: shesaidshesaidpodcast.com – Email: [email protected]   **PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW SHE SAID/SHE SAID PODCAST** Please consider sharing some love in the form of a review of She Said/She Said Podcast on Spotify, iTunes, GooglePlay, or wherever you listen to this podcast. 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