39 - Jeff Perla on Coming Out, Gay Dating Culture, and Gloryhole Interviews

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Mia Lee shares her journey from a career in finance to becoming a high-end escort and later a stripper. Mia talks about her background as a Chinese political refugee, her time in foster care, and her introduction to the corporate world. She discusses the stigma associated with sex work, her strategies for marketing and success, and how her business ventures aim to provide financial services tailored for sex workers. Mia also touches on personal topics like polyamory, mental health, and the challenges and benefits of her unique career path.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Navigating Dating as a Sex Worker⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Exploring Bisexuality and Polyamory⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Natural Beauty and Plastic Surgery⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges and Misconceptions in Sex Work⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Stripping and Mentorship⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkDownload the Stardust App Free https://stardust.app/CONNECT WITH MIA 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mialee_nycCONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea interviews Ali Weiss and they share a candid conversation about their experiences living with ADHD and the profound effects it has had on their lives and self-esteem. They delve into the pressure and impacts of having a social media presence, the values of establishing boundaries, and the complexities around being perceived by audiences. They discuss their personal journeys into sex work, including ethical non-monogamy, high-end escorting, sugar dating, and the societal stigma surrounding these professions. The episode further touches on the compatibility and expectations of romantic relationships, particularly focusing on honesty, balance, and finding partners that genuinely match their realities. As the discussion unfolds, they reveal the therapeutic value of exploring dominant and submissive power dynamics, both in life and the bedroom, and share practical dating tips. Additionally, they reflect on their ADHD diagnoses, treatment with medication, and lifestyle adjustments needed to manage symptoms, aiming to debunk common misconceptions about living authentically while managing ADHD.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Mental Health and Social Media Boundaries⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦ADHD and Anxiety Struggles⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Dating with Intention⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Exploring Dominance and Submission⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦The Impact of Early Sexualization⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkDownload the Stardust App Free https://stardust.app/CONNECT WITH ALI 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea welcomes Norma Buster, Chief of Staff at CA Goldberg, a victim's rights law firm in New York. Norma shares her journey from being a victim of stalking and image-based sexual abuse to becoming an advocate and podcast host of 'Oral Arguments'. The conversation explores her work at the law firm, society’s view on sex work, and her personal journey of empowerment through starting an OnlyFans account. Norma discusses the challenges she faced in the legal system, the importance of supporting and including sex worker rights, and her efforts in pushing for legislative changes to protect victims from tech-facilitated harms. The episode also delves into the intricacies and future potentials of tech companies’ accountability and the importance of sex positivity and reclaiming one's narrative.EPISODE THEMES 📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Starting OnlyFans and Workplace Support🫦Legal Battles and Seeking Justice🫦Supporting Sex Workers' Rights🫦Decriminalization and Global Perspectives🫦Challenges with Tech Companies and Legal Battles⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off)https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app):https://hudapp.com/seggstalkDownload the Stardust App Freehttps://stardust.app/CONNECT WITH NORMA BUSTER 💌Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/normabuster_/CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube:https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea interviews Heather Irobunda, MD and has an in-depth discussion about the emotional impact of the luteal phase, election anxiety, and the challenges of moving amidst political unrest. The conversation transitions to the guest's background and experiences as a gynecologist in New York City, highlighting the range of reproductive health services provided.  They delve into the negative experiences many women face with gynecological care, the disparities in research funding for female health issues, and the visceral reactions associated with gynecology visits. Other key topics include the importance of getting PAP smears and mammograms, the systemic inequities in the healthcare system, and the challenges of being a sex-positive clinician facing social media censorship. The episode wraps up with reflections on the state of reproductive rights in the U.S. and the importance of accessible healthcare for all. EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges in Gynecological Care 🫦Traumatic LEEP Procedure Experience 🫦STI Testing and Awareness 🫦Doctor-Patient Communication 🫦Reproductive Rights and Abortion Access EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk Download the Stardust App Free https://stardust.app/ CONNECT WITH HEATHER IROBUNDA 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drheatherirobundamd/ CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea interviews Coral Osbourne, a certified Sexsologist and coach, who discusses her journey into the world of sex work, her role at a Sexual Health Alliance, and her new initiative, Sex Workers Autonomous.  Coral shares personal experiences, challenges, and the societal implications of sex work, addressing the importance of decriminalization, community support, and resource access for sex workers. She also explores the nuances of relationships, love, and trust through the lens of her professional and personal life. EPISODE THEMES 📝 🫦Breaking Down Stigmas and Stereotypes 🫦The Role of Sex in Human Intimacy 🫦Trust in Relationships  🫦Dating Younger Partners 🫦Exploring the Taboo of Pleasure 🫦Building a Supportive Community for Sex Workers EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app) https://hudapp.com/seggstalk Download the Stardust App Free https://stardust.app/ CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBOURNE 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne/?hl=en CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea speaks with Jeff Perla about sexuality, their experiences with OnlyFans and Patreon, and the societal reactions to sexual exploration. They discuss the differences between the two platforms, focusing on the perception of safety and art versus explicit content, with insights into subscription tiers and market strategies.  They delve into sexual preferences, the significance of dom-sub dynamics, and the cultural aspects impacting men's and women's sexual behaviors. The conversation also touches on navigating the digital space, handling hate, and leveraging social media for business and personal growth. Lastly, the guest provides advice for individuals on their journey of sexual exploration and coming out, emphasizing the importance of having a supportive base before making any revelations. EPISODE THEMES 📝 🫦Navigating Social Media and Censorship 🫦Challenges of Social Media Fame 🫦Masculinity and Social Conditioning 🫦Sexual Health Awareness 🫦Body Image in Gay Culture 🫦Advice for Coming Out EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app) https://hudapp.com/seggstalk Download the Stardust App Free https://stardust.app/ CONNECT WITH JEFF PERLA 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeffperlaa/ CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradio Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea interviews Dr. M the Science Femme, a behavioral neuroscientist and sex-positive advocate. They discuss various topics including Dr. M's upbringing in Miami, her experiences with non-monogamy and kink, and her journey towards body positivity. The conversation dives deep into the nuances of polyamorous relationships, including the challenges and ethics of hierarchical polyamory, and the importance of effective communication in maintaining healthy dynamics.  Dr. M also shares scientific insights on topics such as electrolytes, the components of squirt, and the significance of living near city trees on mental well-being. The episode emphasizes the integration of sexuality and intelligence, advocating for breaking stigmas and promoting scientific literacy around sexual health. EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦The Psychology of Power Dynamics ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Sexuality and Professionalism ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Healthcare and Sexual Education ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Childhood and Body Positivity 🫦Exploring Dominance and Submission EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) https://mochimelt.com ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk CONNECT WITH DR. M the Science Femme 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesciencefemme/ CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.com Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradio

In this bonus episode, Thea Rose shares her top 10 hot takes on sex and kink from 2024, drawing from guests, trends, and personal experiences. Kicking off with a brief personal update, Thea dives into everything from the complexities of porn’s influence on confidence to reframing how we think about cheating and dominance. This episode unpacks societal norms, challenges stigmas, and offers new perspectives on relationships, BDSM, and sexual exploration.

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea welcomes Melissa Blundell Osorio, a PhD student at the Kinsey Institute and a member of the VIBES Research Group. The conversation spans Melissa’s journey into sex research, her work at the Kinsey Institute, and her previous role as the Director of Education at the Will Zieg Erotic Art Museum. Melissa shares insights into the evolving landscape of sex education, her experiences at sex research conferences, and the implications of AI in intimate relationships.  They also touch on the cultural differences in sexual attitudes between the United States and Europe, particularly Berlin’s open approach to sex clubs and legalized sex work. Additionally, they discuss the importance of sex museums and ongoing research on the stigma surrounding online sex work. EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Sex education work before Kinsey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Erotic art museum in Miami ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Study about sex work ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦The human sexuality intensive 🫦The Future of AI in Sex Tech EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) https://mochimelt.com ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk CONNECT WITH MELISSA BLUNDELL OSORIO 💌 Kinsey Institute: https://gender.indiana.edu/about/graduate-students/blundell%20osorio-melissa.html CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea welcomes guest Zachary Zane to dive into themes of polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and bisexuality. Zane reflects on his personal journey, discussing how he used non-monogamy to avoid emotional investment and his experiences at swinger and bisexual events. He addresses societal stigmas around male bisexuality, his evolution in relationships, and moving from polyamory to an open relationship with his current partner. Zachary also talks about his upcoming book projects, his transition from writing personal narratives to fiction, and shares insights into his mental health journey, including his use of somatic therapy. Throughout, he emphasizes the importance of finding community, overcoming sexual shame, and navigating personal identity in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Exploring Hedonism and Bisexuality in Swinger Culture ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges of Polyamory and Breakups ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Exploring Somatic Therapy ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Polyamory and Avoidant Tendencies 🫦Creating and Finding Bi Community CONNECT WITH ZACHARY ZANE 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zacharyzane CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.com Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradio