The Audacity to Be Her: How to Be a Baddie With Alexandra Cadiz

In this salon-style episode of PODCAST by SCOUT, Gabrielle Scout sits down with Alexandra Cadiz — designer, musician and co-founder of lighting design brand CERAMICAH — for a raw, electric conversation about what it actually takes to stop performing palatability and start living as the fullest version of yourself.What began as an instant digital connection — "the same person in different fonts" — unfolds into a deeply honest dialogue on the emotional architecture of self-trust, the shame women carry around being multidimensional, and why the smallest moments of self-betrayal are the ones that cost us the most.Topics explored in this episode include:Why self-trust is built in micro-moments — not grand gestures — and how choosing freedom over shame in the smallest daily decisions rewires your entire nervous systemThe difference between self-confidence and self-worth, and why you can have sky-high belief in your abilities while still struggling to receive love, support, and abundanceWhat it means to be "too much" as a woman, where that wound originates, and the reframe that turns it from a liability into your most magnetic qualityHyper-independence as a form of control — and why releasing it is essential to embodying your feminine energyThe tension between the hustle and the feminine, and why the conversation isn't about discarding one for the other but learning when to turn the volume up on eachHow the "easygoing girl" myth keeps women muted, and why the right relationships — romantic, creative, professional — actually want you at full expressionWhy being a villain in someone else's story might be the most liberating permission slip you give yourselfEldest daughter syndrome, the good girl pattern, and how both show up in business negotiations, dating, and creative expressionThe cultural lie of selflessness as the highest feminine virtue — and the first generation rewriting that narrative in real timeThis episode is for the woman who knows exactly who she is behind closed doors but hasn't fully let the world see it yet. It is a permission slip, a mirror, and a dare.Follow Along:Alexandra's Instagram: @alexandrascadiz Alexandra's TikTok: @alexandrascadizCERAMICAH on Instagram: @ceramicah.laFollow Along Instagram: @gabriellescoutmaioREVUE Newsletter: Subscribe to REVUE, a weekly Sunday letter for the most interesting woman in the room HEREScout's Agency: Learn more about Scout's Agency, a visibility atelier specializing in curated Podcast Tours and cultural placement for women in positions of authority HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In the first-ever guest episode of PODCAST by SCOUT, Gabrielle sits down with Jessica Meltzer for a salon-style conversation that begins with our collective obsession with Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy...and unravels into something much deeper. Together, they explore what the CBK trend really reveals about the stories women have been sold about being chosen, why we've turned a woman who died tragically into a mood board, and the uncomfortable inheritance of the princess narrative. The conversation moves through nineties nostalgia, the death of mystery in the social media age, wealth narratives, quiet luxury, brand versus business building, and what it actually means to become your own dream woman rather than emulate someone else's life.This episode sets the tone for what guest conversations on PODCAST by SCOUT will feel like going forward.Things Referenced in This Episode:REVUE essay: "CBK Made Me Depressed"Jessica Meltzer's SubstackJessica Meltzer's website: https://www.jessameltzer.com/The Salon at REVUE: Apply. here: www.revuewoman.com/the-salonFollow AlongInstagram: @gabriellescoutmaio REVUE Newsletter: Subscribe HERE Scout's Agency: Learn more HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this Q&A episode of PODCAST by SCOUT, Gabrielle Scout answers three listener questions with the depth, honesty, and emotional intelligence that only comes from living it. Written down in her Louis Vuitton Carnet and answered old-school — analog over digital, always — this conversation moves through decades, desire, ambition, and the quiet art of tending to yourself while building something that matters.Topics explored in this episode include:Why your twenties are not your most important decade — and why you shouldn't be afraid to leave them behind.The reframe that changes everything for ambitious, multi-passionate women: stop collapsing your timeline into today and start spreading your desires across 5, 10, even 20 years.How Gabrielle architects her dream life by giving herself a 15-year plan — and why that's made her more focused, not less.The honest truth about mental health and entrepreneurship, from someone who has been in therapy for 15 years, received a bipolar diagnosis, and written an entire book on the subject.Why the success of a business is directly proportional to the founder's mental health — and the daily practices that keep Gabrielle grounded.This episode is for the woman who wants it all and feels the weight of that wanting. It's a permission slip to breathe, zoom out, and trust that everything you desire has a time and a place — it just might not be right now.Referenced in This Episode:The Emotional Entrepreneur by Gabrielle ScoutYou Can Heal Your Life by Louise HayFollow Along:Instagram: @gabriellescoutmaio REVUE Newsletter: Subscribe to REVUE, a weekly Sunday letter for the most interesting woman in the room HEREScout's Agency: Learn more about Scout's Agency, a visibility atelier specializing in curated podcast tours and cultural placement for women in positions of authority HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Seven years in, Scout’s Agency has booked nearly 6,000 podcast episodes, run 350+ Podcast Tours, and built a proprietary database of 5,000+ shows. In this anniversary episode, Gabrielle Scout steps behind the curtain to share what she has learned from working in close proximity to hundreds of high-performing women and brands. This is not a “7 lessons” business recap. It is a real authority blueprint, built from pattern recognition, not opinions, on what actually compounds over time.To book a call with Gabrielle Scout and learn more about being a guest on podcasts, click here.Topics explored in this episode include:Why authority is built through openness, not preciousnessThe energy that makes Podcast Tours work, and what makes them fall flatWhy authority requires a bold, singular claim“Specific beats vague” and how to sharpen your niche without shrinking your impactThe “front door” concept and what makes messaging instantly compellingWhy PR amplifies brands, it does not create themAuthority as a co-created relationship, with your team and with every host you meetHow to turn podcast interviews into a holistic content and marketing strategyWhy authority belongs to those who adapt in changing media landscapesRepetition over virality, and why seven years beats seven viral momentsNetwork over popularity, plus why endorsement beats exposureRisk, investment, losses, and the long-term mindset behind real authorityHonoring seasons, timing, and the quieter kind of clarity that lastsThings Referenced in This EpisodeScout’s Agency milestones: nearly 6,000 episodes booked, 350+ tours, 5,000+ podcast databaseThe “front door” framework for messaging clarityThe principle: endorsement beats exposureExample referenced: Maggie Sellers and “Hot, Smart, Rich” as a strong front doorFollow AlongGabrielle Scout on Instagram: @gabriellescoutmaioScout’s Agency: @scoutsagencyWebsite: scoutsagency.comREVUE newsletter: For the most interesting woman in the room, subscribe on Substack HEREReady to build authority through podcast guesting or hosting? Book a call with Gabrielle Scout here.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this deeply personal and culturally nuanced episode of PODCAST by SCOUT, Gabrielle explores a phrase she never imagined reclaiming: the male gaze. What began as a vulnerable question inside a REVUE Salon conversation on sensuality evolved into an essay, a wave of responses from women, and ultimately this episode.Gabrielle traces the cultural origins of the term, acknowledges the very real wounds attached to it, and then asks a provocative question: What if we stepped away from the male gaze to survive… and now we can return to it with discernment?This episode is not about abandoning feminism. It is about exploring whether desire, reverence, and being seen by the right man can coexist with sovereignty, ambition, and power. It is about the difference between predatory consumption and sacred desire. It is about courting, receiving, and remembering that womanhood does not disappear when independence arrives.Things Referenced in This Episode:Gabrielle’s REVUE essay: The Male Gaze Made Me Feel Like a Woman AgainREVUE NewsletterThe SALON by REVUE membership applicationFollow AlongInstagram: @gabriellescoutmaioREVUE Newsletter: A weekly letter for the most interesting woman in the roomScout’s Agency: Podcast marketing and authority-building for ambitious foundersAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this episode of PODCAST by SCOUT, Gabrielle Scout opens a Dear Scout–style advice column, inspired by old-school magazines where women wrote in seeking guidance on life, identity, and becoming themselves.Questions submitted via Instagram serve as the foundation for a wide-ranging conversation on expectations, confidence, femininity, and personal timelines. Gabrielle offers thoughtful, grounded insight on how to live in alignment without shrinking to meet external approval.Topics explored in this episode include:Navigating judgment from in-laws, family, and social circles when personal choices fall outside traditional or cookie-cutter expectationsWhy approaching 30 without marriage or children does not mean being behind, and how to release pressure tied to outdated societal timelinesRedefining what it means to be an “IT girl” through embodiment, self-trust, and internal confidence rather than external validationHow comparison culture clouds decision-making and disconnects women from intuitionA candid discussion on femininity, sensuality, and expressing the body with confidenceThis episode is an invitation to let go of the shoulds, trust inner alignment, and become the woman one already is, without asking permission or explaining the choices that feel true.Things Referenced in This Episode:The Interesting Woman Archetype episodeFollow AlongInstagram: Follow Gabrielle Scout at @gabriellescoutmaio REVUE Newsletter: Subscribe to REVUE, a weekly Sunday letter for the most interesting woman in the room HEREScout’s Agency: Learn more about Scout’s Agency, a visibility atelier specializing in curated podcast tours and cultural placement for women in positions of authority HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this episode of PODCAST by SCOUT, Gabrielle Scout explores the quiet, sensual, and often overlooked rituals that reconnect her to her womanhood.After years of living in her masculine (building businesses, leading teams, chasing ambition), Gabrielle reflects on what it means to come home to the body. This conversation is an intimate meditation on femininity, sensuality, rest, and the soft power of embracing the female experience in a world obsessed with productivity.From Pilates studios to kitten heels, lounging in stillness to sleeping naked, these six practices aren’t about aesthetic performance...they’re about embodiment. This episode is an invitation to integrate ambition and womanhood, rather than choosing between them.Referenced & Linked in This Episode:REVUE Essay: How Feminism Betrayed Me in PregnancyKitten Heel: Tony Bianco Kitten HeelContinue the Conversation:Instagram: @gabriellescoutmaioREVUE: Subscribe to REVUE's newsletter here Scout's Agency: Learn more about Scout's Agency HEREAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Step inside the world of REVUE and the mythology behind its heartbeat: The Interesting Woman. In this episode, Gabrielle takes you on a full deep dive into the archetype she created; one rooted in depth, intention, cultural luxury, and the unapologetic pursuit of becoming the most interesting woman in the room.You’ll hear the full manifesto behind the Interesting Woman archetype, why she was born, what she represents in today’s digital landscape, and how she stands as an antidote to shallow, homogenous culture. Gabrielle unpacks how this archetype redefines modern femininity, how it embraces the multifaceted woman, and how you can begin to embody this elevated, magnetic version of yourself.Inside the episode, Gabrielle reads the full written portrait of The Interesting Woman featured on the REVUE website and Substack, and then walks through The Eight Tenets of the REVUE Woman; a set of guiding principles designed to bring you back home to your most confident, creative, intentional self.This episode is for the woman craving more artistry, depth, beauty, and substance in her life...and for the woman ready to embody her most culturally rich and creatively alive iteration.In This Episode, We Explore:The origin story of The Interesting Woman archetypeWhy modern culture has become shallow...and how to return to depthHow REVUE was built for the woman craving cultural luxuryA full reading of The Interesting Woman manifestoThe Eight Tenets of the REVUE WomanHow to embody your most magnetic, multifaceted selfWhy confidence comes from honoring your own blueprintMentioned in This Episode:The REVUE Newsletter (Sunday Inspiration): Subscribe to receive your weekly cultural luxury ritual → subscribe hereThe Interesting Woman Article The 8 Tenets of The Interesting Woman Article Gabrielle on Instagram: @gabriellescoutmaioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this week’s episode, Gabrielle shares the exact steps, mindset shifts, and lessons she would follow if she were starting her business today. After nearly a decade in entrepreneurship and seven years running Scout’s Agency, the leading agency getting women booked as guests on podcasts, Gabrielle breaks down the tools, frameworks, and philosophies that have truly moved the needle.From business models to mindset rituals, profit strategy to sales mastery, this episode is packed with practical advice and personal truth for any entrepreneur, whether you’re just starting out or looking to realign and refine.Referenced in this Episode:Books:$100M Offers by Alex HormoziBuilding a StoryBrand by Donald Miller10x Is Easier Than 2x by Dan Sullivan & Dr. Benjamin HardyProfit First by Mike MichalowiczThe War of Art by Steven PressfieldThe Emotional Entrepreneur by Gabrielle ScoutApps & Tools:The Activations App (by Mimi Bouchard) Podcasts Mentioned:The Ed Mylett ShowAspire with Emma GredeThe Skinny Confidential Him & Her PodcastKey Takeaways:Choose your business model wisely: service, product, content, or investment-based...each has its own “hard.”Focus on profits over revenue. Cash flow and margins matter more than top-line vanity metrics.Create an irresistible offer before worrying about branding or marketing.Prioritize mindset work as much as strategy—entrepreneurship is emotional.Master sales (it’s the heartbeat of your business).Build community...find and hold close your entrepreneur friends.Prepare for hard seasons in business; they’re inevitable.Ask yourself the real question: Do you actually want to be an entrepreneur?🎙️ Connect with Gabrielle Scout: Instagram — @gabriellescoutmaio Learn more — www.scoutsagency.com Subscribe to the newsletter — REVUEAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In this episode, Gabrielle shares the controversial and unpopular philosophies she holds around motherhood; the ones that don’t often get said out loud. From rejecting “kid-centric” activities to prioritizing her own mental health, from embracing the desire to “bounce back” to admitting motherhood isn’t her only purpose, Gabrielle opens up an honest, unapologetic conversation about what it means to mother on your own terms.If you’ve ever felt guilt, shame, or judgment for not fitting the traditional mold of motherhood, this one’s for you.Referenced in this episode:Jay Shetty Podcast episode featuring Emma Grede on lowering the bar of motherhoodThe “oxygen mask” analogy for self-careDiscussion of bounce-back culture, mental health, and non-traditional motherhoodConnect with Gabrielle: Instagram — @gabriellescoutmaio Subscribe to Podcast by Scout wherever you listen Join the newsletter — REVUE on SubstackMore information on Scout's Agency hereAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands