4160: Practicing an Attitude of Gratitude by Jay and Heather Harrington of Life and Whim on Happiness

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Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4158: Marc Chernoff continues with the remaining four phrases that quietly work against happiness: declaring hate, insisting you can't, deciding your chance has passed, and swallowing the thing you needed to say. He explains why holding on to resentment costs the holder most, and why forgiveness is less about deserving than about being able to move forward. The closing argument is that unspoken words carry a heavier regret than spoken ones. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2013/12/15/8-things-happy-successful-people-never-say/ Quotes to ponder: You will never get ahead of anyone as long as you try to get even with them. It is never too late to become what you might have been. There's no greater sadness than holding on to the words you never had the courage to speak. Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4156: Colin Wright explains how the logos we wear and carry work as shortcuts for identity, letting us borrow a brand's qualities instead of building our own. He argues that the associations are superficial, and that going without labels forces a harder but more useful question about who you actually are. The result, he suggests, is a self defined in its own context rather than as a collection of overlapping brand loyalties. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.theminimalists.com/logos/ Quotes to ponder: Logos are shortcuts. They allow us to jump on board a moving train and enjoy the speed as much as anyone else on board. The important thing to remember is that you don't need logos to be something. The most beneficial part of going label-less is that you're forced to figure out who you are down to the nitty-grittiest detail. Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4155: Joshua Becker shares what he learned speaking on minimalism to a thousand fathers in Warsaw, a city rebuilt from near total destruction and only recently free of communist rule. A conference organizer told him that materialism holds people captive much the way communism did, except that it does so by choice. Becker argues that owning less is not only a personal decision but a societal one, and that freedom is only as valuable as what we choose to pursue with it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/poland/ Quotes to ponder: Freedom is a gift. But our freedom is only as valuable as what we choose to pursue with it. To inspire us, both as individuals and as a society, to not use our newfound freedom to acquire further bondage. Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4154: Ira Israel counts down ten remedies for the low-grade dissatisfaction that chasing happiness produces, starting with the paradox that pursuing happiness reliably causes misery. He covers releasing expectations, replacing more-better-different with gratitude and acceptance, building self-worth through self-discipline, and choosing authenticity over the persona built to survive childhood. His closing point is that the only thing strongly correlated with happiness is trustworthy, loving relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://iraisrael.com/mindful-happiness-10-remedies-for-subtle-incessant-dissatisfaction/ Quotes to ponder: "Pursuing happiness actually causes misery." "The only thing that correlates strongly with authentic happiness is trustworthy, positive, loving relationships" "This moment is everything that you will ever have." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4153: Leo Babauta offers a practice for the constantly negative person in your life: see the pain underneath their criticism, recognize the same old patterns in yourself, and open to their energy instead of bracing against it. He frames it as a mindfulness practice that changes you whether or not it changes them. He is equally clear that boundaries and honesty still matter, and that practicing this imperfectly is the point. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/negative-energy Quotes to ponder: "See the negativity as an old habit that is masking their pain." "And so the change must start with you, right now" "It's absolutely OK to set boundaries." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4152: Stella Grizont explains what complaining actually does to your brain, triggering the negativity bias that keeps you fixed on what is wrong and blind to what might fix it, and offers a one-week complaint vacation paired with a daily list of things you appreciate. In the companion piece she shares her PLAY method for walking into a dreaded conversation with curiosity instead of dread. Together they show how much of your experience turns on the stance you choose. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.stellagrizont.com/blogs/what-complaining-does-to-your-brain-and-your-happiness AND https://www.stellagrizont.com/blogs/how-to-stay-positive-in-the-face-of-a-dreaded-situation Quotes to ponder: "Complaining is taking an observation and adding negative energy or emotion to it." "When we go through life, struggle is inevitable. But suffering is a choice." "You're simply shifting your mindset from obligation and dread to lightness and the unexpected." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4151: Mr. Money Mustache explains why people zoom in on ever smaller differences as their material wealth grows, bidding up neighborhoods, cars and wine over distinctions that barely exist. He argues that stepping back to the scale of all human experience shrinks most spending decisions to almost nothing. Seeing that clearly frees you to choose at a level you can actually afford and buy back your time instead, which is the heart of intentional living. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2012/12/26/cure-yourself-of-tiny-details-exaggeration-syndrome/ Quotes to ponder: "the tendency of humans to zoom in on increasingly irrelevant details as their material wealth increases" "everything is a tiny detail, and even your biggest spending decisions are really between two shades of a very close bright happy green" "Time is one of the few things in life that is not such a tiny detail." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices