4145: WITH MUSIC - Embracing Calm: NSDR and Yoga Nidra for Deep Stress Relief

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4148: James Altucher opens on a Wall Street corner in 2009, where a man in a hard hat and safety vest was begging for ferry money and turned out not to be a construction worker at all. Altucher uses the scene to ask what costumes everyone else is wearing, including the ones he put on himself to collect speaking invitations and honorary titles. His conclusion is that most of the misery comes from the effort of staying disguised, and that personal development begins with dropping the act rather than perfecting it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://jamesaltucher.com/blog/what-disguises-do-you-wear/ Quotes to ponder: "Everybody is in disguise." "If I don't have anything to say, I won't say it." "The first person you then save is yourself." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4147: Anthony Ongaro offers a starting list of twenty lifestyle experiments, from a shopping ban to going car free to capping phone use at an hour a day, along with the three things that make one stick: keeping it simple, partnering up, and tracking it somewhere visible. He then walks through the experiments that changed the most for him, including the minimalism game that started his decluttering, a sugar and carb cut, and a social media detox. His closing point is that a failed experiment costs almost nothing, because the design already assumes some of them will not work. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.breakthetwitch.com/lifestyle-experiments/ Quotes to ponder: "Accountability is an important aspect of any lifestyle change" "It's just an experiment and you can always try again or try something completely different." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4146: Anthony Ongaro explains how a lifestyle experiment works: one change, run for a set window, with the results deciding whether it stays. He sorts the options into five types, add, remove, swap, create and track, then lays out the four design rules that keep an experiment finishable, a timeline of 21 to 90 days, a difficulty that stays easy rather than heroic, a way to record what happens, and one variable at a time. The approach turns intentional living into something testable rather than something to feel guilty about. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.breakthetwitch.com/lifestyle-experiments/ Quotes to ponder: "The idea is to continually make small changes, test new ideas for set periods of time, and let those changes compile as you grow." "It's more important to complete the experiment than it is to try to totally revamp your life in the set time." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4145: A bonus episode from our sister show, NSDR - Non-Sleep Deep Rest. Dan guides a Yoga Nidra style session built to release physical tension and quiet a busy mind, so the body can reach deep rest without falling asleep. This version includes background music. Listen and subscribe to NSDR - Non-Sleep Deep Rest here: https://pod.link/1746217225 Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4144: David Cain explains that most difficult tasks have one genuinely hard moment, and that avoiding it is what turns an ordinary task into a long-running problem. Using the bottom of a barbell squat as the example, he describes deliberately staying in the hardest position with a lighter load until it becomes familiar. He shows how the same practice quietly dissolves avoidance in cleaning, finances and phone calls. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.raptitude.com/2017/04/the-art-of-the-hard-part/ Quotes to ponder: "Monsters grow in the dark, so if you like your monsters small and manageable, you probably want to go and meet them at your earliest convenience." "Like so many difficult things, the squat has only one truly hard part." "I want to meet the monster instead of thinking about where it's going to appear." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4143: Will Aylward explains how a long-awaited dinner with friends was hollowed out by phones, and how that evening changed the way he pays attention. He argues that technology is only the visible culprit and that the wandering mind is the deeper one. He shares simple ways back to real presence, including eye contact, listening to understand rather than to reply, and switching the phone off entirely. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/put-down-phone-presence-best-gift/ Quotes to ponder: "The only thing worse than not listening to someone is pretending to listen." "Technology certainly is a huge barrier to presence, but it's not the main culprit." "The eyes truly are the windows to the soul." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4142: Allison Carmen explains how the belief that this moment is not enough quietly generates most of our suffering, using her own book launch as the example. She shares a short practice for naming what you are suffering over and then repeating that this moment is enough until the burden loosens. The mindfulness point is that accepting the present does not mean abandoning your goals. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/when-this-moment-is-enough/ Quotes to ponder: "One of the key reasons we all suffer is because we believe that this moment is not enough." "When you name your suffering, it has less of a hold on you." "When you allow this moment to be enough, it doesn't mean you stop working on what you want your life to be, it just means you are opening your heart to a more joyful life right now." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4141: Steve Pavlina explains why using "enjoy the process" as cover for going slowly quietly kills the goals people care about. He describes finishing a four-year degree in eighteen months and how the higher tempo, not the lower one, made the work engaging. The piece is an argument for treating speed as a productivity tool and asking how a goal could be reached two or ten times faster. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2014/02/speed-up/ Quotes to ponder: "Fast tempo is HOW you enjoy the process." "If you don't want them sooner, you probably don't want them." "What I love about speed is that it pushes me not just to achieve the goal but also to become a better person along the way." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4140: Benjamin Hardy explains that indecision, not difficulty, is what keeps most people stuck, because a commitment you never fully make leaves every escape route open. He walks through what changes when a decision is made from a clear, resolved state and then defended over time. The result is a personal development shift where behavior, self-concept and attitude gradually line up behind the choice. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/@benjaminhardy/what-happens-when-you-take-full-responsibility-of-your-life-691a282f0687 Quotes to ponder: "Indecision is potentially your greatest threat." "Where decisions are made in a single moment, commitment is seeing those decisions into the future." "Your goals are something you grow into." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4139: Rachael Kable shares what relocating from a city unit to the country taught her about minimalism and intentional living. She describes trading oversized belongings for smaller versions, giving away the things she had been saving for someday, keeping digital copies in place of physical ones, and leaving cupboards deliberately empty so they stop collecting clutter. Her closing test is simple: keep what actually helps you live the life you want. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.rachaelkable.com/blog/8-interesting-minimalism-tips Quotes to ponder: "When you move house, you find out what feels necessary and important and you realise that it's okay to let go of the other things." "The simple act of moving the couch and creating more space encouraged us to use that space for more meaningful things." "Sometimes, we put things in storage because it's easier than deciding what to do with them." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices