3728: Our Everloving Quest to Control Our Lives by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits on How to Sit with Uncertainty

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3736: Stephen Guise explains how principles can serve as powerful guides when detailed planning feels overwhelming or restrictive. By adopting simple rules like the 2-minute rule, acting on anything that improves your life, and consulting your “future self,” you can make better everyday choices, stay consistent, and build momentum without relying solely on rigid schedules. His approach blends the structure of planning with the flexibility of principles to help create lasting progress. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://minihabits.com/how-to-use-principles-instead-of-plans/ Quotes to ponder: “If it takes 2 minutes or less, do it.” “If you’ll regret it tomorrow, don’t do it. If you’ll be thankful for it tomorrow, do it.” “The final principle: If you can ingrain valuable principles into your psyche and follow them, you’ll do great(er) things!” Episode references: Getting Things Done: https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Things-Done-Stress-Free-Productivity/dp/0143126563 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3735: Paula Pant explores how fear of mistakes often keeps us from making progress, revealing that the real cost lies not in failure but in inaction. She illustrates how reframing errors as stepping stones can unlock growth, resilience, and opportunities that perfectionism will always deny us. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://affordanything.com/one-critical-thing-holding-back/ Quotes to ponder: "Most people don’t fail because they try and it doesn’t work out. They fail because they don’t try at all." "Mistakes are the tuition we pay for the privilege of learning." "If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not making decisions." Episode references: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322 The Lean Startup: https://www.amazon.com/Lean-Startup-Entrepreneurs-Continuous-Innovation/dp/0307887898 The War of Art: https://www.amazon.com/War-Art-Winning-Creative-Battle/dp/1936891026 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3734: Mark Manson unpacks why therapy, journaling, and meditation all reliably boost mental health, despite their different methods. At the core, each helps us step back from our emotions by turning them into something observable, which builds self-awareness and loosens the ego’s grip. This shift from “I am my feelings” to “I am observing my feelings” opens space for clarity, choice, and growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/how-to-get-better Quotes to ponder: "The value of therapy isn’t the therapy. It’s the context. It’s the environment." "There is something mysteriously powerful about verbalizing your thoughts and feelings; it somehow causes them to lose their power over you." "They are three tools for building self-awareness and chipping away at the ego." Episode references: Benjamin Franklin: An American Life by Walter Isaacson: https://www.amazon.com/Benjamin-Franklin-American-Life-Isaacson/dp/074325807X The Diary of Marie Curie: https://www.amazon.com/Diary-Marie-Curie-Autobiographical-Notes/dp/0486470113 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3733: Marc Chernoff challenges the idea that constant busyness is a badge of honor, showing how our overstuffed schedules and need to appear productive only make life harder and unhappier. By slowing down, letting go of needless busyness, and creating space to breathe, we can finally pause long enough to notice the beauty and meaning we’ve been rushing past. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2023/04/25/your-life-is-harder-and-busier-than-it-has-to-be/ Quotes to ponder: "Busyness is just an illness that makes everything harder than it has to be." "Nearly all of my busyness was an overreaction in my head." "We fill our Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat feeds, and our calendars, with manufactured busyness to avoid just being exactly who we are, exactly where we are." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3732: Steve Pavlina reframes the common tension between contentment and ambition by introducing the concept of life as a series of natural cycles. Instead of seeking constant balance, he encourages recognizing whether you're in a phase of expansion or contraction, and aligning your actions accordingly to stay in harmony with your life’s momentum. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2005/03/cycles-of-life/ Quotes to ponder: "Life isn’t static though. When you take a snapshot 'here is where I am now' view of your life, you reinforce a flawed view of reality." "You don’t balance the two. You cycle between them." "By recognizing what kind of cycle you’re in, you can flow with it instead of fighting it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3731: Ryan Nicodemus shares how a bold "packing party" experiment helped him uncover the difference between what he owned and what he actually needed. By living out of boxes and unpacking only essentials, he discovered the freedom, clarity, and joy that come from intentional living. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.theminimalists.com/packing/ Quotes to ponder: "Everything else remained packed, taped shut, and left in boxes." "I discovered that I didn’t need much at all." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3730: Creating daily rhythms isn’t about rigid schedules, but about protecting space for what matters most. Danae Smith reminds us that morning and evening routines can serve as boundaries that nurture rest, creativity, and intentional living, helping us invest in ourselves and our dreams, one small habit at a time. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://thiswondrouslife.com/twl//the-beauty-of-routines Quotes to ponder: "It’s easy to let time slip between my fingers not grasping it tightly and making the most of it." "A routine/ritual is not a schedule, but rather a pattern you develop to protect what matters." "How I start my day matters. How I end my day matters. What I do with the time I’m given matters so much." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3729: Dr. Jenny Brockis explains why brain health is vital at every stage of life, not just in old age. She highlights how lifestyle choices, such as exercise, quality sleep, stress management, and continuous learning, create cognitive resilience, helping us stay mentally sharp, adaptable, and engaged in both personal and professional life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drjennybrockis.com/2017/2/27/why-better-brain-health-matters-at-every-age/ Quotes to ponder: "Brain fitness is not a magic pill to dementia prevention and it won’t turn you into a genius." "Cross-training the brain involves physical exercise, learning new skills and staying connected socially with others." "The harder the mental activity the greater the mental stretch, so don’t choose the easier option!" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3728: Most of us spend our days trying to create order and comfort, yet life never stays under control for long. Leo Babauta reveals how these attempts only deepen our anxiety and offers a mindful alternative: learning to sit with uncertainty and act from love instead of fear. His perspective invites us to release the endless chase for control and discover freedom in presence. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://zenhabits.net/controller Quotes to ponder: "Almost our entire lives are spent in a quest to gain control, security and comfort in our lives. Unfortunately, we never really get it, so we keep trying, relentlessly." "The basic nature of life is that it is everchanging, uncontrollable. When we think we have stability in life, something comes up to remind us that no, we don’t." "You’ll learn to sit with this feeling of out-of-controlledness, and be OK with it. You’ll learn to trust in this moment, not to lead to an outcome you want (control!), but to turn out just fine." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3727: Benjamin P. Hardy explains how transformative growth doesn’t come from incremental progress but from bold leaps that stretch your identity and actions far beyond your comfort zone. He shows how reframing your goals, embracing uncertainty, and acting decisively can unlock breakthroughs that radically change both your personal and professional trajectory. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/the-mission/how-to-make-quantum-leaps-personally-and-professionally-cfcae58948c1 Quotes to ponder: "Quantum leaps can happen when you stop trying to incrementally improve, and instead change your approach entirely." "Your current circumstances don’t determine where you can go, they merely determine where you start." "Massive change requires massive action, but it begins with shifting your identity to match the future you want." Episode references: The Magic of Thinking Big: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Thinking-Big-David-Schwartz/dp/0671646788 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices