3722: The Power of Projection by Kerri Richardson on How to Overcome Fear of Judgement and Self-Belief

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3722: Kerri Richardson reveals how fear of judgment often stems from our own self-perceptions rather than others’ opinions. By recognizing projection as a mirror of our inner critic, we can shift from self-sabotage to self-belief, allowing courage, compassion, and clarity to guide us toward bolder action. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerririchardson.com/powerofprojection/ Quotes to ponder: "Whatever you feel others might think is likely what you already think of yourself." "What we’re worried others are thinking about us is usually what we’re already thinking about ourselves." Episode references: Daring Greatly by Brené Brown: https://brenebrown.com/book/daring-greatly The Work by Byron Katie: https://thework.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3721: Kristine Klussman explores how asking yourself one deceptively simple question can cut through noise, clarify your values, and align your actions with what truly matters. By returning to this question regularly, you can navigate challenges with a deeper sense of integrity and create a life guided by meaning rather than distraction. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.kristineklussman.com/power-one-simple-question/ Quotes to ponder: "Without a sense of purpose, even small decisions can feel overwhelming." "Instead of reacting on autopilot, you can pause and ask yourself: ‘What would the person I want to be do right now?’" "When you align your choices with your values, you move closer to becoming your best self." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3720: Jay Harrington explores how adopting a growth mindset and embracing resilience can help you navigate uncertainty and setbacks without losing momentum. Through lessons from figures like Thomas Edison, Seth Godin, and Sara Blakely, he illustrates how reframing fear as a guide and viewing failure as a teacher can open the door to greater opportunity and personal growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.lifeandwhim.com/first-moments-blog/tackle-whatever-life-throws-at-you Quotes to ponder: "I have not failed 10,000 times. I have not failed once. I have succeeded in proving that those 10,000 ways will not work." "The person who fails the most wins." "In any given moment we have two options: to step forward into growth or to step back into safety." Episode references: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3719: Elana Miller challenges the traditional illness-centered model of psychiatry by promoting a proactive, wellness-focused approach to mental health. She outlines seven practical principles, from self-awareness and responsibility to compassion, body care, and wise use of therapy, that empower individuals to create a life aligned with their values. Her message reframes mental health as not just the absence of illness, but the active cultivation of a vibrant, fulfilling life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenpsychiatry.com/moving-toward-a-positive-psychiatry/ Quotes to ponder: "Taking a positive perspective of psychiatry means that you take responsibility for where you are." "True compassion starts with how you treat yourself." "Life is a gift, and our problems are rarely as serious as we think they are." Episode references: The Wise Heart: https://www.amazon.com/Wise-Heart-Buddhist-Psychology-Love/dp/0553382330 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3718: Ellen Burgan explores how self-love transforms not only your relationship with yourself but also your connections with others and your ability to pursue dreams. She outlines five practical ways to build self-love, self-compassion, boundaries, self-care, authenticity, and joy, while reminding us that it’s a skill anyone can grow. Her approach emphasizes treating yourself like a trusted friend, making kindness toward yourself a daily habit. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ifitbringsyoujoy.com/self-love/ Quotes to ponder: "With self-love comes the deep knowing that you’re pretty amazing just the way you are." "Boundaries also include knowing when to say 'enough' to people who treat you poorly." "Authenticity isn’t just a gift to yourself; it’s a gift you share with the world!" Episode references: The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3717: Nir Eyal and Charles Wang explore the surprising value of embracing the mindset of an amateur rather than striving for rigid expertise. By focusing on curiosity, experimentation, and playfulness, we stay adaptable, avoid burnout, and discover deeper joy in learning. This approach invites growth by valuing exploration over perfection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/train-to-be-amateur-not-expert/ Quotes to ponder: "An amateur is someone who does something because they love it." "Experts often feel the need to defend their knowledge and authority, while amateurs are open to questioning and rethinking what they know." "When we give ourselves permission to be amateurs, we free ourselves to learn without fear of failure." Episode references: Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise: https://www.amazon.com/Peak-Secrets-New-Science-Expertise/dp/0544947223 Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind: https://www.amazon.com/Zen-Mind-Beginners-Informal-Meditation/dp/1590308492 So Good They Can’t Ignore You: https://www.amazon.com/Good-They-Cant-Ignore-You/dp/1455509124 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3716: Ryan Frederick emphasizes that while financial security is vital for a longer life, social capital, the strength of our relationships, may be just as important for well-being and longevity. He explores how friendship influences health, the challenges of maintaining social ties as we age, and how choosing the right community and investing in local connections can extend both the quality and length of our lives. His insights offer practical inspiration for creating environments that nurture meaningful relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.here.life/blog/invest-in-social-capital Quotes to ponder: "A social entrepreneur I know sees poverty not as the lack of financial resources but as a lack of relationships." "Loneliness has been found to be as harmful as smoking over a pack of cigarettes per day, and can increase the risk of premature death by as much as 30%." "Simply choosing the right place to live for you can be a significant investment in social capital." Episode references: The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2020/03/the-nuclear-family-was-a-mistake/605536/ Growing Young: How Friendship, Optimism, and Kindness Can Help You Live to 100: https://www.amazon.com/Growing-Young-Friendship-Optimism-Kindness/dp/0525610189 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3715: Joshua Fields Millburn shares how simplifying his email habits, removing smartphone access, unsubscribing from low-value sources, and responding on his own terms - has reduced stress and reclaimed time. He also reveals that writing was never a natural gift, but through persistent practice and dedication, he transformed his skills, proving that talent is often built, not born. Together, these reflections highlight the power of intentional habits and committed effort in creating a more focused, meaningful life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.theminimalists.com/email/ AND http://www.theminimalists.com/natural/ Quotes to ponder: "Life is too precious to spend our days feeling anxious with required email responses." "Most things in life aren’t innate: individual betterment has little to do with inbred talent." "Before a man can even think about being a rockstar, he must earn the calluses on his fingertips." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3714: J. Money shares a candid reminder to stop chasing other people’s financial milestones and instead build a life that fits your own priorities. Through relatable money confessions and a dose of humor, he shows how embracing your quirks and values can lead to true financial confidence. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://budgetsaresexy.com/just-do-you/ Quotes to ponder: "Money is important, but it’s not the only important thing in life." "Figure out what YOU truly want out of life, and then design your finances to get you there." "The whole point of money is to help you live the life you want, not to be the life you want." Episode references: Mr. Money Mustache: https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/ Afford Anything: https://affordanything.com/ The Minimalists Podcast: https://www.theminimalists.com/podcast/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3713: Scaling back on work hours can be a life-changing decision, not just for early retirees but for anyone valuing quality of life now over maximum future wealth. Leif shares how personal tragedy reshaped his priorities, leading to intentional schedule changes that created precious family memories even at the cost of slightly delaying financial independence. His story makes a compelling case that time spent with loved ones today can be worth far more than an earlier retirement date. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.physicianonfire.com/working-less/ Quotes to ponder: "Money later in life cannot buy back the time you spend today." "The time home with my daughters and Lauren was truly a special time, even though it was caused by a tragedy." "This is not our first time implementing the 'work less strategy,' and it has been great every time." Episode references: Carpe Diem MD: https://carpediemmd.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices