Ep 67 — Esther Perel — Developing Erotic Intelligence (Classic)

This week, we're excited to share one of our favorite episodes from way back in the LOVELINK archives: a conversation with the world-renowned love guru and couples psychotherapist Esther Perel. Perel poignantly describes the realities of romance, including infidelity and complacency in relationships. Why do we cheat even when we're in happy relationships? Can relationships be repaired after an affair? How do we maintain romantic excitement in the face of familiarity? Esther shares with us thoughtful and seductive solutions to tackle these eternal dilemmas.Enjoy this LOVELINK classic. We’ll be back with new episodes in August. LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this provocative and deeply insightful episode, we sit down with psychologist and couples therapist Dr. Annabelle Seife to explore the complex world of kink and BDSM. Together, we unpack what kink really means—beyond stereotypes and sensationalism—and why so many people are drawn to erotic experiences that play with power, control, and surrender. Dr. Seife guides us through a psychodynamic lens, offering a compassionate and nuanced understanding of kink as a meaningful expression of desire, not dysfunction. We explore the historical and clinical roots of why kink has been so pathologized in the mental health field, and how therapists can begin to unpack their own biases and better support clients whose erotic lives fall outside the “vanilla” norm. Whether you're a clinician, curious partner, or someone exploring your own sexuality, this episode invites a deeper, more human look at what turns us on—and why it matters.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected]. 

Bestselling author and psychologist Mary Pipher, PhD, joins us for a heartfelt conversation about what it means to age well as women. From redefining identity beyond beauty to embracing friendship, presence, and purpose, Mary shares wisdom for navigating life’s later chapters. Though centered on aging, her insights resonate across generations, offering guidance and inspiration for women at every stage of life. As two women approaching midlife and raising young children, we left the conversation feeling more grounded, inspired, and hopeful about what lies ahead.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, we sit down with therapist Rebecca Stone, a specialist in infidelity and affair recovery. Together, we explore the complex and often misunderstood world of affairs—why people cheat, what it means for both the betrayed and the one who strayed, and how couples can navigate the emotional wreckage left behind.Rebecca shares her insights on when relationships can survive an affair and when it may be time to walk away. We also dive into the healing process, the importance of accountability and empathy, healing old childhood wounds, and how some couples manage to not only recover but build a stronger, more connected partnership in the aftermath. Whether you're healing from betrayal or simply want a deeper understanding of relationships, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.https://www.affairrecoverycoach.com/LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this episode, Dr. Simone Humphrey sits down with the expert team of therapists from Modern Mind to discuss the unique challenges and excitement of dating in New York City. The conversation explores how dating culture in the city has been shaped by the rise of dating apps and the impact they’ve had on how people connect. The therapists offer valuable insights on how to navigate the fast-paced dating scene, manage burnout, and protect your emotional well-being. They also discuss the different challenges faced by men and women in New York's dating world, providing practical tips for managing relationships successfully while thriving in this dynamic environment. Whether you're new to the city or a seasoned dater, this episode offers advice and strategies to help make your dating experience in NYC more fulfilling and less overwhelming.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this episode, we talk with career coach Pippi Kessler and financial coach Hadassah Damien about navigating career and financial shifts to create a more fulfilling life. We explore expanding your sense of possibility, embracing change, and breaking the myth that work only counts if it’s a grind. If you’re feeling stuck and ready for a change, Pippi and Hadassah offer insightful, practical advice delivered with warmth and humor. For more on redesigning your work and financial life, check out their podcast series, Have a Nice Life.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected]. 

Michael Sloyer is a leadership and organizational coach at Upbuild. He helps people understand how their ego influences their actions, discover their true selves, and make choices from a more authentic place. As a former Managing Director at Goldman Sachs, Michael knows the pressures and ego-driven challenges often found in the workplace. In this interview, he explains what coaching is and how his spiritual background shapes the way he supports individuals and organizations. With his warm and thoughtful approach, Michael truly embodies the principles he shares with others.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected]. 

In this episode, we are thrilled to welcome the newest member to our Modern Mind Team—Chloé Bringmann! We dive into the topic of career changes and transitions, exploring why people decide to leave their old jobs and how to determine what they truly want in their next chapter. We discuss the importance of self-reflection and clarity when considering a career change and the steps to take to move forward with confidence. We also discuss Chloé’s personal journey with her career changes and what she learned along the way. Whether you're contemplating a shift or already in the process, this episode offers insights on how to make a smooth transition, find fulfillment, and align your work with your passions and values. Tune in for practical tips and a refreshing perspective on navigating change!LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this insightful episode, we sit down with Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown, a renowned trauma specialist, to explore the intricate world of complex trauma. Dr. Brown explains what complex trauma is, its origins, and how it differs from other types of trauma. She breaks down how early childhood experiences, prolonged stress, and relational dysfunctions can contribute to long-lasting emotional and psychological impacts. Dr. Brown also provides actionable insights on how individuals can begin the journey of healing, from seeking professional help to self-care strategies and building supportive relationships. The discussion also explores what trauma-informed therapy looks like and what to expect. Whether you're directly affected by complex trauma or simply looking to understand its impact more deeply, this episode offers invaluable knowledge on how to heal, grow, and move forward with resilience. Tune in for an enlightening conversation on trauma, healing, and personal growth. LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of overthinking—how it manifests in men, the negative impact it can have on mental health, relationships, and productivity, and most importantly, strategies to break free from its grip. Dr. Jett Stone, a clinical psychologist who specializes in the psychology of men, discusses his new book “Quiet Your Mind: A Men’s Guide.” We explore the psychological roots of overthinking, from societal pressures to internal self-doubt, and discuss how men can recognize when they’re trapped in cycles of rumination. Plus, we share practical tools—like mindfulness, reframing thoughts, and embracing action over perfection—to help men regain control and cultivate a healthier, more productive mindset. Whether you're struggling with overthinking or just looking to better understand it, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice for overcoming mental roadblocks and finding clarity. LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].