The #1 Mistake People Make When They Like Someone | Matt Monday

Here’s a really tricky part about dating: The moment you realize you like someone, it can feel like everything’s riding on winning them over. But what really makes you magnetic isn’t trying harder . . . it’s showing up as your confident, authentic self, and bringing your own value to the table without overthinking.In this episode, I break down how to shift your mindset so you stay grounded and relaxed, even when your feelings feel super strong. Don’t miss this key to creating a real connection that lasts!---►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed for FREE at GetCommitment.com►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at LoveLifeBook.com►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at MHWeekendRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Few things hurt more than watching someone you love move on. When the person you thought was “the one” starts building a new life without you, it can feel impossible to breathe, let alone imagine loving again.In this episode, Matthew shares a powerful step-by-step approach to healing after heartbreak—especially when your ex has found someone new. You’ll learn how to stop comparing, regain your confidence, and rebuild your sense of worth so you can open your heart again when the time is right.---►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at AskMH.com►► Join the Love Life Club at JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew Hussey and Producer David dive into some of the most-asked questions about modern relationships. Should you ever chase someone in love, or does persistence risk crossing the line? The conversation also takes a personal turn as Matthew reflects on the strong women in his family who shaped his perspective on relationships and life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of love and connection today.---►► Ready to go from casual to committed? Join the free training that shows you how to create the relationship you deserve. Watch now at GetCommitment.com►► Love is hard. Sync makes it easier. Join the waitlist now at TalkToSync.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to rewire our brains and resume normal life once we’re free.At this point, it can be unbelievably hard to trust other people again. Logically, we may understand that not everyone’s like our ex . . . but emotionally, we see danger at every turn. But there is a way we can heal—so we can move on and learn to trust ourselves again. And in today’s episode, I share 3 mindsets that can help you do just that.---►► Looking for love, clarity, or a fresh perspective? Matthew’s weekly newsletter dives into insights that transform not just your relationships, but your entire life. Sign up for free at TheThreeRelationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s episode of the Love Life Podcast, we’re exploring how Gen Z is rewriting the playbook on love and relationships. Is romance really taking a back seat to mental health and ambition, or is the story more complicated than that? We talk about:• Why Gen Z might be stepping away from traditional dating norms, and whether it’s a pushback against toxic dating culture or something deeper.• The rise of “situationships,” “explorationships,” and other modern takes on connection.• How social media and dating apps have shaped (and sometimes distorted) our ideas about love.• The surprising ways Millennials and Gen Z approach dating, and the lessons any generation can draw from them.The episode also dives into the emotional toll of modern dating, the fear of rejection, and why vulnerability feels tougher than ever. Don’t miss it!---►► Love is hard. Sync makes it easier. Join the waitlist now at TalkToSync.com►► Invest in your space and comfort for added joy with Cozy Earth. Get 20% off at CozyEarth.com/LoveLife ►► Have you tried Matthew AI yet? It’s like having Matthew as your personal coach 24/7. Whether you’re decoding someone’s behavior, crafting the perfect text, or working through a tough moment, Matthew AI is here for you 24/7. Learn more at JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week’s episode with bestselling author and entrepreneur Marie Forleo is about one of the toughest parts of relationships: those hard conversations you’d rather avoid. You know the ones—where you’re afraid to say the wrong thing, or you’re worried it’ll turn into an argument.  In this episode, you’ll learn how to face those conversations with more confidence and care . . . so you can speak your truth without losing connection or respect. If you’ve ever frozen up trying to find the right words, or held back because you feared the fallout, this one’s for you.---►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at: AskMH.com ►► Looking for love, clarity, or a fresh perspective? Matthew’s weekly newsletter dives into insights that transform not just your relationships, but your entire life. Sign up for free at The3Relationships.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating apps can feel like their own toxic relationship. We swear them off, only to come back because life is busy and meeting strangers in the real world feels nearly impossible. A Pew Research survey even found that more than a third of app users walk away feeling more pessimistic about dating than before. So why do we still cling to them, even when the experience leaves us drained?In this episode, I share the hidden truth that restores optimism in love, plus the one “dating app” I actually recommend if you’re serious about finding a real connection. (Spoiler alert: It’s not what you think.) If you’ve ever felt exhausted by swipes, ghosting, and endless options that lead nowhere, what I reveal in this video may be the missing piece between frustration and finally finding your person.---►► Love is Hard. Sync Makes it Easier. Join the Waitlist Now at TalkToSync.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons).So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s episode, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again.---►► Don’t miss your chance to join the October 18-19 Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat THIS weekend from anywhere in the world. Plus get two weeks of replay access and 30 days of Matthew AI for follow-up coaching—all for just $195. Grab your ticket now at RetreatAccess.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join the Love Life Podcast crew for this new episode as they examine the tricky link between money and self-worth in dating, answering questions like:• Do most men feel their value is connected to their income?• How big of a role does money actually play when choosing a partner?• In what ways do money expectations affect our relationships?• How has social media distorted our sense of what’s “enough”?You’ll also learn about the fears and insecurities both men and women face when it comes to finances and relationships, and why confidence and teamwork matter far more than the size of your bank account. ---►► Don’t miss your chance to join the October 18-19 Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat THIS weekend from anywhere in the world. Plus get two weeks of replay access and 30 days of Matthew AI for follow-up coaching—all for just $195. Grab your ticket now at RetreatAccess.com ►► For Love Life listeners, Cure is offering 20% off your first order! Stay hydrated and feel your best by visiting curehydration.com/LOVELIFE and using promo code LOVELIFE at checkout! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Marriage is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make—but it’s also one of the riskiest if you’re not careful. In this week’s episode, I’m sharing the lessons I’ve learned about what makes a marriage work, why rushing into it can lead to heartbreak, and how to know if you’re choosing the right person for the right reasons. (Plus, I share the one question you must ask yourself before saying “I do.”) ---►► Transform your confidence and your relationship with yourself, others, and life itself during my Weekend Retreat next week, October 18-19 (which you can watch from the comfort of home if you can’t make it to Miami). Plus receive a limited-time Matthew AI bonus if you book now! Get all the details at RetreatAccess.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.