63. How to Stop Future Tripping

Surprise! Carly and Ilana are back to finally open up about why the podcast went on a break, what they've been up to since the break, and what the break means for the future of the podcast.

Carly and Ilana get vulnerable and open up about their biggest challenges with their careers. They discuss how they each make money and the pressure they constanttly feel to always be working. Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions  DM us to buy an In Progress crewneck! 

Carly and Ilana are diving deep into two listener questions this week. They discuss how to decipher whether you actually like the person that you're dating, or if you just like the attention you're getting from it (and what to do about that). Later, they help a listener decide whether she should stay in her 2 year long relationship when she isn't sure if he's "the one" or if she should leave. Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions  DM us to buy an In Progress crewneck! 

Carly and Ilana start this week’s episode off with a heated and stressful debate over whether or not they would tell their best friend they were being cheated on during her wedding weekend. Then, they discuss how to make new friends, how to decide if it's time to let a friendship go, and how to maintain friendships as the years go on. Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions  DM us to buy an In Progress crewneck! 

Carly and Ilana are chatting about how to stay present and appreciate where you’re currently at instead of constantly focusing on what’s next or where you wish you were headed. They talk about the dangers of future tripping, why gratitude helps decrease your anxiety, and what they’re currently guilty of future tripping about.    Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions  DM us to buy an In Progress crewneck! 

Carly and Ilana are digging into what happens between defining the relationship and getting engaged. Spoiler alert: A LOT happens. They discuss how to enjoy the stage you're in instead of rushing into the next thing, and they give advice for how to bring up conversations about where you want the relationship to go. They also share how to navigate your partner being on a different timeline than you, or not feeling ready for the next step when you're already there. Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions DM us to buy an In Progress crewneck!

Spoiler alert: Carly and Ilana don't have it all figured out. The two open up about how they truly don't know what they want to spend their lives doing. They debate what would make them truly happy, and what steps they should take to get there. They discuss how everyone feels stuck at times, and how to push through that discomfort. Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions DM us to buy an In Progress crewneck!

Carly and Ilana are reflecting on the ups and downs of their corporate lives as they answer your burning career questions. They discuss what to do when your work wife gets the promotion you were hoping for, dealing with a manager who doesn't know how to manage, deciding if you should stay or leave your company, and navigating feeling stagnant in your career. Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠ Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions For bonus episodes and more head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon.com/lifeinprogress⁠⁠

Carly and Ilana are diving into toxic relationships on this highly requested episode! They discuss how you can spot if you’re in one, what to do if you realize you are, and why we’re so quick to stay rather than try to leave. They share insight on what to do if you think your friend is in a toxic relationship as well as how to avoid them all together. Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questionsFor bonus episodes and more head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon.com/lifeinprogress⁠⁠

Carly and Ilana are sharing their feelings about turning 30 as their birthdays are just days away. They dive into their wedding regrets along with what elements of their weddings they're so glad they splurged and spent the money on. they spent the money on. They answer listener questions about plus ones, including your future sister-in-laws in wedding parties, sending save the dates, and navigating finances with both families. Learn how we went from anxious AF to finding our husbands in our guide on The Leap ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠theleap.co/creator/itslifeinprogres⁠⁠⁠ Follow us @itslifeinprogress on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions For bonus episodes and more head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon.com/lifeinprogress⁠⁠