I'm Making Some Adjustments | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

You weren't made to bleed for the rest of your life. In order for us to be all that God has called for us to be, there are some necessary adjustments that need to be made in our lives.

What if the distance in your relationship isn’t about compatibility—but unhealed offense? This message unpacks how resentment silently builds walls in marriages and relationships—and how to tear them down before they destroy what God intended to thrive. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, learn how to release bitterness, protect covenant, and if married, build a home that reflects God’s original design.

Everybody wants love, but few of us truly understand what it costs. In this message, we unpack the difference between real love and infatuation, and why healing, self-awareness, and surrender are required to experience it the way God intended.

Many believers wrestle with the painful question, “God, why didn’t You stop it?” This message speaks to the tension between God’s power, human suffering, and His silence in moments of loss and confusion. Through the story of Job, we explore how honest lament can deepen faith and reveal God as a sustainer—even when answers don’t come.

Growth can feel uncomfortable when you’re leaving familiar seasons behind, but what feels like loss may actually be graduation. This conversation challenges you to stop just hearing truth and start applying it with courage, wisdom, and trust in God.

This message teaches how offense can quietly steer your life if you don’t discern it. Using Jesus’ response in Matthew 21–22, it calls believers to stop taking the bait, release bitterness, and respond with spiritual maturity. It’s a reminder that growth requires discernment, not reaction.

We live in a world full of noise, opinions, and commentary that can quietly shape how we think and how we see ourselves. This message challenges the influence of outside voices and calls for a return to discernment, identity, and spiritual clarity. It’s an invitation to be mindful of what you’re listening to and to live rooted in calling, not the crowd.

A timely word of hope and perspective for anyone navigating uncertainty during the storm. This message reminds us that obedience doesn’t cancel trouble and that God often uses uncertainty to strengthen trust and reveal what’s in the heart.

Many of us are carrying pain that never makes a sound, emotions we suppress or manage while life keeps moving. This message confronts the danger of silent suffering and reveals how unaddressed pain can shape our faith, relationships, and inner life. Healing begins when what has been buried is finally brought into the light and entrusted to God.

Offense is everywhere, but how you respond determines whether it hardens your heart or propels your growth. It calls for self-control, spiritual maturity and a willingness to surrender reactions rather than be ruled by them. It's critical that we learn how to stay spiritually warm in a cold world and represent God well, even when surrounded by offense.