WHY SETTLING WILL K*LL YOU

this week i’m here with my new friend dave!!! dave weltz is the host of weltz & bruises, where he gets behind a bar, makes a drink with his guest and talks about the bruises it took to get where you are. we get into how a jersey tennis kid ended up interviewing people at a bar for a living, betting everything on the show, and the benny blanco pep talk that kept him going. also: whether you’d ever post your partner, why dave won’t, and my dream guest (tommy lee, obviously). Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

my soulmate is here.we get into the accidental double date we got bamboozled into (that’s all i’m allowed to say), why my mom picked up my 1:30am call for the first time in 22 years, leaving a birthday party mid-party to run to diplo, getting woken up at 6am by me naked and squeaking a chicken toy, and why men always blame the best friend. then allie tells the story of fauci new york, the brand she’s been building since sophomore year: designs that come to her in her dreams, how many samples it takes, why she’s pushing back nursing school to bet on plan a, and why fashion needs color again. also, her psychic says she was an egyptian pharaoh. shop the launch at faucinewyork.com and follow @faucinewyork + @alexandrafauci. pieces are one-of-one, so go go go!!! Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

i’m officially single. i texted him “there’s no bad blood” and he replied “it’s all bad blood,” so i guess that answers that. i downloaded raya at cocktail hour with my parents the same day, and one of his friends caught me within the hour.i also owe someone a public apology. turns out the ex i called 26 times has a new girlfriend, and i found out from my other ex. i deleted his number. he’s all yours!i've moved on already and right on to the victoria’s secret fashion show: katseye haters, the megan moroney runway drama, adriana lima’s in-n-out pre-show ritual, why dylan sprouse and barbara palvin are my favorite couple, the time i shoulder checked kim kardashian at the dear media studio, and why tate mcrae is the artist our generation needed.enjoy xoxo Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

week one of living in new york and i’m sleeping on a mattress on the floor with a towel for a blanket. the wifi doesn’t work, i’m drinking water out of the sink, and every single item of clothing i own is on the floor because i refused to buy normal hangers and am waiting on custom hot pink ones. i’m trying to save money where i can (i bought a $14 spongebob water).basically: here’s to figuring out how to be an adult. it’s always something xoxo Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

you asked for maddie back on the pod and your prayers have officially been answered. she flew across the country to help me pack (california to florida counts, i googled it), and it’s noon, so naturally we’re podcasting with wine. you can’t drink all day if you don’t start in the morning. we get into my mom’s friend group going full spring break in europe (#oldpeoplecanhang is now a movement and there will be merch), how maddie got her flight rebooked by being extremely polite to what she thought was an AI bot, and the landon barker hard launch.then we’re answering your questions: how we’ve stayed best friends, the guy who broke up with you over text and didn’t call for 38 hours, the friend who copies everything you do (we have thoughts on steve madden), how to know if a conversation is worth having or if you should let it fade, the craziest thing we’ve done together, and how we fight (we don’t, it’s us vs. the problem). basically: a louboutin’s gonna be red on the bottom and a man’s gonna be a douchebag xoxo Get More IAS Watch on YouTube @davis-roe Instagram @itisalwayssomething TikTok @itsalwayssomethingpod Get More Davis Tiktok @divaaadavisss Instagram @davisroe_ Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

my DMs have been flooded with your boy problems (and my friends' too), so i texted my producer at 1am with this week's thesis: settling will kill you. my boyfriend is sitting in the room while i cancel all men, so we're leaving him out of it.we get into why soulmates are bullsh*t (my mom says she could be just as happy with ten other men, and she's not wrong), love island as proof, alix earle's viral "i don't need a boyfriend to have a fulfilled life" moment, and why i'm the biggest fan of the ghost. Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

i'm in new york with gracie, apartment hunting and learning the hard way that it's the west village. apparently leaving out the "the" can get you canceled. (so can saying houston street like the city.)last night we hit a YSL event where the only drink option was espresso martinis and the guy at the door told us to take everything. i have video proof. we left with goodie bags, a handful of blushes that were apparently just for display, and a YSL condom from a vending machine. i'm framing it next to gracie's headshot. then came a charcuterie board at the host table while the sig chi guys from SDSU watched us, a vodka pasta that would be a 9.5 anywhere else but is a 6 in new york, and a 4am hot cheeto situation i can only describe as fire-breathing dragon. not in the fun, kinky way. Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

recording from annecy, france with my mom, rolled out of bed at 1pm, and we have a lot to say. the sydney sweeney sports betting ad, a waiter who's been flirting with my mom since night one, splitting a meat stick on the way up a mountain, getting a dib from a stranger in the world's most packed cable car, the oldest lingerie store in france, a drunk haul after a bottle of wine at lunch, and why sydney sweeney can never catch a break — including when davis posted her clothing brand and got "you're disgusting" in the dms immediately. au revoir! Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

i've been binge watching the alix earle netflix show and i have genuine feelings about it, apartment hunting in nyc is exactly like dating in your 20s, i'm going back to europe in three days with my mom, and the yacht club has been closed for two weeks and i'm unraveling. Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

life update before i move to new york in two weeks:a flight attendant passed me a handwritten yes or no note mid-flight asking if i wanted a free drink. i circled yes. he then brought me two glasses of champagne, four bags of cheez-its, two bags of pretzels, gummy bears, and chocolates. this was a two-hour flight. i had pimple patches all over my face and was in my boyfriend's hoodie. this was not pretty privilege. it was a gift from god.answering your questions: ugly guys who ghost you, the ex situation, glow up tips, your friend sleeping with your ex, and how to fake confidence until you actually have it. Produced by Dear Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices