EP 41: Opposites Attract… Until the Lies Get Exposed | Soul Care Identity

In this first episode of our Soul Care Series, we dive deep into the principle of Identity—the foundation of a healthy soul.As a couple, we’ve lived out what it looks like when opposites attract: one of us leaning toward performance and control, the other toward people pleasing. But when those identity lies go unchallenged, they feed each other and create tension, anxiety, and resentment.In this conversation, we share:✨ The 3 core identity lies (performance, people pleasing, control)✨ How these lies take root in childhood and relationships✨ The symptoms that reveal a faulty foundation✨ Personal stories of how we fed each other’s lies in marriage—and how God freed us✨ Practical steps to rebuild your foundation in ChristIdentity is the starting point for healing, freedom, and transformation. When you know who you are in Christ—chosen, adopted, marked, and loved—you can walk in true freedom.Whether you’re single, married, or just hungry for inner healing, this episode will help you expose the lies and hold onto the truth that sets you free.Blog: Reflections from the Secret Placehttps://www.intentionalrising.com/blogDon’t miss our upcoming True Love Waits live event in Atlanta — get your tickets today: https://www.intentionalrising.com/atlanta-eventJoin our Patreon for deeper discussions and bible studyhttps://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRisingGrab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer and Jonah Bible Study (linked below) to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPShow your support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USCashapp: $IntentionalRisingPodTikTok: @intentionalrisingInstagram: @IntentionalRisingJens IG: @frontlinediyFestus IG: @festus_a

Welcome to the final episode of our Rooted in the Holy Spirit series! In Part 4, we’re diving deep into faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control — three fruits of the Spirit that are essential for building lasting, godly relationships.Whether you’re single and waiting, dating with intention, or already married, these spiritual disciplines will help you:* Stay committed to God and your future spouse through seasons of waiting * Cultivate gentleness in communication and conflict * Practice self-control in emotions, boundaries, and purity Anchor Scripture: Galatians 5:22–23“The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”This series has been about more than relationships — it’s about becoming who God has called you to be, so you’re prepared for the promises He has for your life.Subscribe to our channel for more conversations on faith, love, and Christ-centered living. Don’t miss our upcoming True Love Waits live event in Atlanta — get your tickets today: https://www.intentionalrising.com/atlanta-eventJoin our Patreon for deeper discussions and bible studyhttps://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRisingGrab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer and Jonah Bible Study (linked below) to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPShow your support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USCashapp: $IntentionalRisingPodTikTok: @intentionalrisingInstagram: @IntentionalRisingJens IG: @frontlinediyFestus IG: @festus_a

Patience, kindness, and goodness aren’t just nice qualities—they’re fruits of the Spirit that can transform how we wait, love, and build relationships. In Part 3 of our Rooted in the Spirit series, We unpack what these three fruits really mean for singles, those in the waiting season, and married couples alike.What you’ll learn in this episode:Why patience in the waiting season reflects trust in God’s timing (Galatians 6:9)How to practice kindness without falling into people-pleasing or performative niceness (Ephesians 4:32)What true goodness looks like when the world glorifies selfish ambition (Ephesians 5:8–10)Practical reflection questions to grow in each fruit and prepare for healthy, God-centered relationshipsWhether you’re single, dating, or married, this conversation will help you deepen your walk with God and sustain relationships that reflect His love.Anchor Scripture: Galatians 5:22–23✨ Watch the full Rooted in the Spirit series here: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFhAHtK88XdehjlCgFu0zSx9LrmZNkymT&si=OhEmRe0m0tsvIVC_✨ Join our Patreon community for exclusive Bible studies, devotionals & live calls: https://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRising✨ Register for our next live event, True Love Waits – Unlocking the Promise (Atlanta, Sept 20th): LIMITED Tickets available Register ASAPTrue Love Waits Live Podcast Event: https://www.intentionalrising.com/atlanta-eventGrab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPShow your support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USTikTok: @intentionalrisingInstagram: @IntentionalRisingJens IG: @frontlinediyFestus IG: @festus_a

Welcome to the True Love Waits Live Experience: Preparing for the Promise!In this raw, powerful, and Spirit-led conversation, the Intentional Rising Podcast (Jennifer & Festus) and  @WithTruthInLove  (Ludie & Luis) team up to guide singles through spiritual, emotional, physical, and financial preparation for a kingdom marriage.This isn’t just about finding “the one”—it’s about becoming the one God has called you to be. Whether you're in your waiting season, dating intentionally, or healing from past relationships, this episode will stir your faith and equip you with biblical wisdom and real-life insight. In this episode, we cover:How to know if you're spiritually ready for marriage (Matthew 6:33)Hearing God’s voice and discerning your future spouseBreaking soul ties & overcoming family patternsInner healing from rejection, trauma & emotional baggage (Psalm 147:3)The importance of sexual purity, physical wellness, and therapyFinancial stewardship, tithing, and budgeting before marriageWhy your preparation season is about more than just marriage—it’s about ministryDelivered with truth, humor, and Holy Spirit fire, this is a must-watch for every faith-filled single desiring to do relationships God’s way. Don’t just watch it— be in the room next time!Join us for the next True Love Waits live event: Sept. 20 in Acworth GA (just outside Atlanta)LIMITED Tickets available Register ASAPTrue Love Waits Live Podcast Event: https://www.intentionalrising.com/atlanta-eventJoin our Patreon for deeper discussions and Bonus Content https://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRisingGrab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPShow your support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USTikTok: @intentionalrisingInstagram: @IntentionalRisingJens IG: @frontlinediyFestus IG: @festus_a

In Part 2 of our “Rooted in the Spirit” series, we explore what real godly love, joy, and peace look like in relationships. Whether you're single, dating with purpose, or navigating marriage, this episode helps you understand how walking in the Spirit transforms the way you love, respond, and connect.Learn how to move from emotionally driven relationships to Spirit-led ones. We dive into biblical love vs. worldly attachment, practical tips for choosing joy while healing or waiting, and how peace anchors godly connections.🔔 Subscribe for more content on godly relationships, inner healing, and faith-based growth.🎧 Also available on Spotify + Apple PodcastsTrue Love Waits Live Podcast Event: https://www.intentionalrising.com/atlanta-event🔗 Join our Patreon for deeper discussions and Bonus Content https://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRising📖 Grab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer and Faith & Fire Elijah (linked below) to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPShow your support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USCashapp: $IntentionalRisingPodTikTok: @intentionalrisingInstagram: @IntentionalRisingJens IG: @frontlinediyFestus IG: @festus_a

Are you praying for a godly relationship, navigating singleness, or working to build a Christ-centered marriage? In Part 1 of our new series Rooted in the Holy Spirit, we're diving deep into how walking in the Spirit is the foundation for lasting love.In this episode, Jennifer and Festus unpack Galatians 5 and share how to identify red flags, break toxic patterns, and become the kind of person you're praying for. Whether you're single, dating, or already married, this is where true relationship prep begins — in your walk with the Holy Spirit.🎧 Subscribe & hit the bell for the next 3 episodes in the Rooted in the Spirit series!True Love Waits Live Podcast Event: https://www.intentionalrising.com/atlanta-event🔗 Join our Patreon for deeper discussions and Bonus Content https://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRising📖 Grab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer and Faith & Fire Elijah (linked below) to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPShow your support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USCashapp: $IntentionalRisingPodTikTok: @intentionalrisingInstagram: @IntentionalRisingJens IG: @frontlinediyFestus IG: @festus_a

In this honest and deeply personal episode, Jennifer and Festus return from a God-led sabbatical to reflect on one powerful year of ministry through Intentional Rising. From behind-the-scenes of their April “True Love Waits” live event to the conviction that followed seven years of complacency in marriage, this episode is full of revelation, repentance, and restoration.They share the exact moment God told them to start the podcast, how He redeemed the time they thought they wasted, and why your waiting season is not just about getting married—it’s about being rooted in Christ.Plus, they answer some of your most asked questions:Can I pray for a specific person to be my spouse?How do I know if I’m ignoring red flags or just being patient?How do I hear from God?How can I fight sexual desires as a single woman?They also announce their new 4-part podcast series, Rooted in the Spirit, based on Galatians 5 and give details on the upcoming “True Love Waits ATL” and summer Patreon study, Faith & Fire: Elijah.💬 Don’t forget to share your testimony with them at intentionalrising.com, join the email list, and subscribe for weekly truth-filled episodes that challenge, convict, and point you back to Jesus.True Love Waits Live Podcast Event: https://www.intentionalrising.com/atlanta-event🔗 Join our Patreon for deeper discussions and our Soul Care series https://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRising📖 Grab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer and Faith & Fire Elijah (linked below) to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPShow your support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USCashapp: $IntentionalRisingPodTikTok: @intentionalrisingInstagram: @IntentionalRisingJens IG: @frontlinediyFestus IG: @festus_a

In this episode of Intentional Rising, we dive deep into the topic of spiritual warfare, specifically in the context of relationships, marriage, and dating. Join us as we discuss what spiritual warfare is, share personal stories, and provide practical tips and strategies for identifying and combatting common spiritual attacks. We explore how miscommunication, fatigue, sudden doubt, and isolation can all signify an attack on your relationship, and how prayer, fasting, and seeking wise counsel are essential tools in the spiritual battle. Tune in to hear real-life examples and find out how to strengthen your relationship against the enemy's tactics. 🎟️ Don’t just watch it— be in the room next time!✨ Join us for the next True Love Waits live event: April 25 in Miami🎟️ LIMITED Tickets available Register ASAPhttps://mailchi.mp/d0855a181957/bkmljawge2Join our Patreon for deeper discussions and our Soul Care series https://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRisingGrab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer (linked below) to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPShow your support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USCashapp: $IntentionalRisingPod

This special episode is the live recording from our True Love Waits 2025 Valentine's event — our first-ever podcast with a live audience! We teamed up with our good friends Ludie and Luis from  @WithTruthInLove  to share our real-life love stories, waiting seasons, dreams, breakups, restoration, and how God revealed our spouses.If you've ever wondered: ✨ Does God still speak through dreams? 💍 Can God restore what’s been broken? ⏳ What does waiting well actually look like? ❤️ How do you navigate single motherhood, co-parenting, and purity while dating?…this one’s for you.Whether you're dating, single, divorced, or just believing for a godly love story — this episode is packed with truth, hope, and laughter. 🔔 Subscribe for more Christian dating & marriage content. 🎟️ Want to be at our next live event? Details below!🎟️ Don’t just watch it— be in the room next time!✨ Join us for the next True Love Waits live event: April 25 in Miami🎟️ LIMITED Tickets available Register ASAPhttps://mailchi.mp/d0855a181957/bkmljawge2

Transitioning from dating to marriage is a huge shift—what should change and what shouldn’t? In this episode, we dive into finances, communication, conflict resolution, spiritual growth, and keeping romance alive in a godly marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or preparing for marriage, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to grow together in faith. Join us as we share personal experiences, lessons learned, and practical biblical wisdom to build a Christ-centered marriage.Watch as we discuss:✅ The biggest adjustments in marriage—finances, parenting, communication✅ Why spiritual growth should increase, not decrease after marriage✅ How to avoid common marriage struggles through mentorship and accountability✅ The power of prayer and keeping God at the center of your relationship✅ Practical ways to keep romance, intimacy, and respect alive in marriage🔗 Join our Patreon for deeper discussions and our Soul Care series https://www.patreon.com/c/IntentionalRisingGrab a copy of Soul Care by Rob Reimer (linked below) to work through spiritual healing with us!https://urlgeni.us/amazon/_CufPTrue Love Waits Event RecapUpcoming Live Event: True Love Prepares (April 25th, Miami, FL)https://mailchi.mp/d0855a181957/bkmljawge2Showyour support - purchase merch: https://www.goditfaith.com/Paypal: https://paypal.me/IntentionalRising?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USCashapp: $IntentionalRisingPodTikTok : @intentionalrisingIG @IntentionalRisingJens IG: @frontlinediyFestus IG: @festus_a