173. Blowjob Fundamentals: How To Shake Off Performance Anxiety & Feel Confident As The Giver

Get your hands nice and warmed up because we'll be puttin' them to WORK. This week we talk to Barbara Carrellas, erotic massage pro, about how to give and receive pleasure through massage. 🙌 Barbara holds nothing back when it comes to pleasure and this episode delivers tips, tricks, and erotic puppets??? We chat about: What makes a massage ✨erotic✨ The benefits of an erotic massage How to get present in the moment Best positions to give a massage Massage prep How to incorporate ALL our parts Connect with Barbara: On Instagram Website Urban Tantra Second Edition Paperback Transcendent Bodies: Erotic Awakening Massage For Trans And Gender Non-Conforming Bodies Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There is nothing more make-or-break than kissing chemistry, so as we head into our summer of hook-ups, let's refresh ourselves shall we?! This week, we chat with the one and only, Luna Matatas all about the art of lip-locking. In this episode, we cover: Mistakes we make while kissing How to practice your technique What cues to pick up on from a partner What to do with your lips How to french How to communicate with your partner about what you want more or less of Connect with Luna: On Instagram On TikTok Website Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dating casually never seemed so easy after this convo with Talia Koren. As the host of Dating Intentionally podcast, and a HIGHLY experienced casual dater, Talia knows a thing or two about putting yourself out there to get what you want and have fun while dating. In this episode, we cover: Getting clear on what you want out of dating Tapping into your own desirability Benefits of casually dating How to be selfish (in a GREAT way) Creating your roster Rules of Casual Dating Connect with Talia On Instagram On TikTok Dating Intentionally Podcast Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We believe that every last BIT of you deserves maximum pleasure so we brought back Dr. Tara to teach us a thing or two (or 12) about how to tease, play and talk dirty to ALL of our naughty bits. In this episode, we cover: Breast and Nipple play Nipple-gasms for ALL How to play with the booty cheeks How to relax during anal play What to do with the balls Dirty talk tips Connect with Dr. Tara On Instagram On TikTok Website ✨Dr. Tara's Course ✨ Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get ready to be BLOWN away this week as we cover the fundamentals of giving a Bl*wjob worthy of a standing (laying, sitting) O with Dr. Jenni Skyler. 👏 We also cover: How to feel safe and comfortable How to make a bl*wjob romantic How to ask your partner if they're in the mood Positions for both givers and receivers Finishing tips Connect with Dr. Jenni: On Instagram On YouTube Website Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Azaria is one magical (p*ssy) fairy and she shares her wisdom by dishing out some of the BEST, yummiest, most healing tips and tricks for masturbating with a vulva & vagina. She'll heal your soul, and help you reach your maximum O. We also cover: The definition of self-pleasure How to use your masturbation practice to heal How to build a sustainable self-care routine Ways to get creative with touch Dual sensory activation Connect with Azaria: On her website On Instagram Or listen to her podcast: Getting Intimate Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Annabelle Knight, a sex and relationship expert, is here to walk us through her top tips for oral sex on a vulva. We cover: How to initiate going down (or any type of intimate play) Non verbal pleasure cues to watch out for How to communicate what you want as the receiver Positions Specific ways to orally pleasure a vulva A method that reportedly helps people ✨finish✨in 3 minutes or less How to feel confident and sexy as the giver or receiver Connect with Annabelle: On her website On Instagram Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

YOUR VAGINA IS BEAUTIFUL and deserves to be taken care of. That's why we're diving into all things vaginal health with April Davis, from discharge, to pubes, and everything in between. April Davis is the creator of Haus of Vagina, a community that combines her extensive background in birth work and passion for sex education to empower vagina owners everywhere! In this episode, we cover: What to look out for when it comes to vaginal health The regular self checks we need to be doing Common signs of infection and when to call the doctor How to work through shame and embarrassment around vaginal health and going to the doctor How to advocate for yourself at the doctor Common things we do that negatively impact our vaginal health Trying new period products to find what works for YOUR body Whether pubic hair matters for maintaining your vaginal health Connect with April: On her website On Instagram Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week we're rediscovering the power of the humble handjob with relationship and intimacy coach, Keeley Rankin, MA. We cover: WHY handjobs are worth including in your sexual toolkit Common mistakes we make when giving handjobs Ways to tease and seduce your partner Navigating the different parts of the penis Different movements to try How to play with the balls Cleaning up after someone cums The mental roadblocks that can get in the way of us feeling sexy and having fun Connect with Keeley: On Instagram  On her website Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ready to put those hands to WORK?! Ashley Manta, a sex and relationship coach, is here to teach us the art of pussy massage (aka fingering/hand sex). We cover: Why we’re ditching “finger banging” in favor of ✨pussy massage✨ Common mistakes people make when fingering The most pleasurable ways to touch a vulva or vagina The best positions for hand sex Getting involved as the receiver How to incorporate toys Why you might want to try adding in some butt stuff Connect with Ashley: On her website Access her courses On Instagram On her substance Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices