Mean Girls

Eternity: Joan's Journey through the Yonic Model of the SelfOn today’s episode, I will be applying my Yonic Model of the Self to the character Joan from the 2025 movie Eternity, directed by David Freyne.The central plot of the movie centers on a love triangle between Joan (played by Elizabeth Olsen) and her decision of which of her two husbands she would like to spend eternity with.Choice A is Joan’s first husband, Luke (played by Callum Turner), who was her first love and died in the Korean War shortly after they were married, representing her ultimate Prince Charming archetype and therefore Joan’s Ego function.Choice B is Larry, played by Miles Teller, Joan’s second husband of 65 years, who, compared to the charms and good looks of Luke, seems like the obvious second choice.But Larry represents Joan’s dark, masculine or Daemon function, the part of her that helps her embrace her flaws and her own dark feminine aspects (Aura function). Represented by her neighbor Karen, played by Olga Merediz.So who will Joan ultimately choose in the end? Will it be Luke who reinforces her Veil function and idealized version of herself, or will she choose to spend eternity with Larry, who sees all parts of herself, the good, the bad, and who she really is?Listen to the pod now to find out!OXYour Dark Fairy GodmotherTo learn more about my Yonic Theory approach, purchase the Yonic Theory: The Foundation course through my website or explore my Yonic Journal, which serves as my sort of living “grimoire” for my research.Reference:Brooks, A. (Director). (1991). Defending your life [Film]. Geffen Pictures; Warner Bros.Freyne, D. (Director). (2025). Eternity [Film]. A24; Star Thrower Entertainment. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

Mean Girls: Cady Heron's Journey through the Yonic Model of the SelfIn this "fetching" FREE episode, we dive into Cady ("Katie") Heron's journey of self-actualization in the classic 2004 film Mean Girls. I'll discuss the challenges of "girl world" that Cady must navigate, which reflect women's difficulty navigating their own journeys of self-actualization in our modern world. I'll also discuss how the characters Regina and Janis represent Cady's inner light and dark feminine aspects and how she must learn to reconcile what I refer to as the goddess-witch spectrum.Get in, loser, we're learning how to embrace the power of the feminine and our authentic selves! Resources:Maureen Murdock's Heroine's JourneyYonic Journal Website (How to access the article on the Yonic Model of the Self)Podcast Episode on Yonic Model of the SelfDark Fairy Godmother SubstackGoddess-Witch Spectrum CourseBuy me a Coffee - KoKi AccountReference: Waters, M. (Director). (2004). Mean girls [Film]. Paramount Pictures.Wiseman, R. (2002). Queen bees and wannabes: Helping your daughter survive cliques, gossip, boyfriends, and the new realities of girl world. Crown Publishers.Bradley, Marion Zimmer. (1984). The mists of Avalon. New York :Ballantine Books This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

Groundhog Day: Phil Connors Journey of Self-ActualizationIn this podcast episode, we will discuss the overlap between the symbolism of the pagan tradition of Imbolc and the Americanized version of this sacred holiday - known as Groundhog Day. We will also dive into the symbolism of the character of Phil Connors in the 1993 movie Groundhog Day and what he can teach us about resilience, hope, and self-actualization through the Yonic Model of the Self.So pour yourself a sweet vermouth with a twist, and let’s get into it!Resources:Yonic Journal Website for articles mentioned.Podcast Episode on Yonic Model of the SelfDark Fairy Godmother SubstackBuy me a Coffee - KoKi AccountYonic Tarot - Ten of SwordsNoah Kahan WebsiteIf you are in crisis text or call 988ReferenceRamis, H. (Director). (1993). Groundhog Day [Film]. Columbia Pictures. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

Wicked Part 1: The goddess-witch spectrumcontains spoilersIn this episode, I'll discuss the concept of my goddess-witch spectrum and how it can be applied to the characters of Elphaba and Glinda from Wicked. I'll also dive into the feminist undertones of this movie and what it can teach women about reconciling their own inner goddess-witch spectrum! Resources:Yonic Journal WebsitePodcast Episode on Yonic Model of the SelfDark Fairy Godmother SubstackGoddess-Witch Spectrum CourseBuy me a Coffee - KoKi AccountOfficial Wicked Movie Website - wickedmovie.com.References:References:Baum, L. F. (1900). The wonderful wizard of Oz. George M. Hill Company.Ehrenreich, B., & English, D. (2010). Witches, midwives, & nurses: A history of women healers (2nd ed.). Feminist Press.Gage, M. J. (1893). Woman, church, and state: A historical account of the status of woman through the Christian ages, with reminiscences of the matriarchate. C. H. Kerr.Loehnen, E. (2023). On our best behavior: The seven deadly sins and the price women pay to be good. The Dial Press.Maguire, G. (1995). Wicked: The life and times of the Wicked Witch of the West. ReganBooks.Murdock, M. (1990). The Heroine’s Journey: Woman’s Quest for Wholeness. Shambhala/Shambhala Publications.Qualls-Corbett, N. (1988). The Sacred Prostitute: Eternal Aspect of the Feminine (Studies in Jungian Psychology by Jungian Analysts). Inner City Books.Robichaux, M. (2025). An introduction to yonic theory and the yonic model of the self. The Yonic Journal, 1(1), 1-87.Wicked (J. M. Chu, Dir.). (2024). Universal Pictures.Wicked: For Good (J. M. Chu, Dir.). (2025). Marc Platt Productions / Universal Pictures.Wolf, N. (1991). The beauty myth: How images of beauty are used against women. W. Morrow. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

Three Wise Men and a Baby: Exploring the Light and Dark Masculine and Men's Self-Actualization Process Warning: this episode contains spoilers On this episode, to finish up our holiday-themed episodes, we end with a true Hallmark movie. Three Wise Men and a Baby. In this movie, I break down how two of the brothers (Stephan and Taylor) represent the main character Luke's light and dark masculine aspects, and how it is through learning to appreciate the value of the feminine that he is able to achieve what Carl Jung referred to as Individuation. Moreover, in this episode, I discuss how the story of baby Jesus itself can reflect the masculine process of self-actualization and the forgotten role of the feminine in this process. Resources:Yonic Journal WebsitePodcast Episode on Yonic Model of the SelfDark Fairy Godmother SubstackGoddess-Witch Spectrum Course Buy me a Coffee - KoKi AccountThe Campbell FoundationMurdock's WebsiteReference:Ingram, T. (Director). (2022). Three wise men and a baby [Film]. Hallmark Channel. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

Why You Love Rom-Com Christmas Movies: A Yonic PerspectiveCaution: spoilers ahead!What is it about Christmas movies that we love so much? Particularly those rom-com holiday movies geared towards women on Netflix and the Hallmark channel? In this episode, I dive into the psychology behind why women love these movies and what we're actually seeking when we watch them. (Spoiler alert, it isn't a man with a corn field in Ohio to teach us the meaning of love.)In the second half of the episode, I'll apply my Yonic Model of the Self to the 2022 Movie Falling for Christmas, starring Lindsay Lohan. So grab a blanket and some warm hot cocoa, and let's get into it! Resources:The Yonic Model of the Self Part 2The Yonic Model of the Self ArticleMaureen Murdock's Website and article on the Heroine's JourneyLilianna and Sean's Tik TokDark Fairy Godmother's Tik Tokgoddess-witch spectrum course This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

Practical Magic and Sally Owens' Journey Through the Yonic Model of the Self***Warning: Spoilers***In the second episode of this week, I break down how the four functions of the Yonic Model of the Self can be applied to Sandra Bullock's character, Sally Owens, in the 1998 movie Practical Magic, based on the novel written by Alice Hoffman. Ready to hear more? Give it a listen!Resources:The Yonic Model of the Self Part 2The Yonic Model of the Self Articlegoddess-witch spectrum courseAlice Hoffman's WebsiteMaureen Murdock's Website and article of the Heroine's Journey This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

The Yonic Model of the Self Part 2:IMPORTANT UPDATE: As of April 14th, 2026, the audio for this post is no longer available, as I continue to expand and refine my theory to protect my intellectual property. If you would like a formal introduction to my Yonic Theory, you can purchase the article for a small fee using the link below, or buy the introductory online course through my website at https://www.authenticlivingcc.com/yonic-theory-the-foundation  To access the self-published written article that corresponds with this podcast, visit www.yonictheory.org or click this link: https://yonictheory.org/b/BOtcVTo stay updated on the podcast so you don’t miss any episodes, follow me at @darkfairygodmother.substack.com!✨What to learn more about the courses and on-demand webinars Dr. Roby offers: Click here!Podcast theme music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/josh-stewart/tempestLicense code: THM8TU4OR1545UGP This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

The Yonic Model of the Self Part 1:IIMPORTANT UPDATE: As of April 14th, 2026, the audio for this post is no longer available, as I continue to expand and refine my theory to protect my intellectual property. If you would like a formal introduction to my Yonic Theory, you can purchase the article for a small fee using the link below, or buy the introductory online course through my website at https://www.authenticlivingcc.com/yonic-theory-the-foundation!To access the self-published written article that corresponds with this podcast, visit www.yonictheory.org or click this link: https://yonictheory.org/b/BOtcVTo stay updated on the podcast so you don’t miss any episodes, follow me at @darkfairygodmother.substack.com!✨What to learn more about the courses and on-demand webinars Dr. Roby offers: Click here!Podcast theme music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/josh-stewart/tempestLicense code: THM8TU4OR1545UGP This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe

AI and the Myth of the Perfect WomanIn this episode, we explore the myths of Pygmalion, Athena, and the tale of Echo and Narcissus, and how these three stories reflect the archetype of the “perfect woman” that men often attempt to create. These women are never based in reality, but rather, like Athena, they are born from the ideas of the men who created them. Thus, they represent the Goddess or the light feminine.With advancing technology, we are starting to see men attempt to bring their “dream women” into creation through creating female humanoid robots and artificial wombs. But is this a good thing, and what does it say about men in our society that they would rather have a robot dream woman than connect to their own humanity?P.S. Sorry, the echo (HAHA) on this episode is awful! I'm still working on getting my setup right lol.  Resources:We've Had a Hundred Years of Psychotherapy--And the World's Getting WorseThe Stepford Wives BookDark Fairy Godmother Substack Post on Henry HarlowDark Fairy Godmother Substack Post on Chat GBT and CounselingThe Heroine’s Journey Pt 1 Episode✨Want to learn how to access your inner Goddess or Witch? Check out the Goddess-Witch Spectrum™ course!✨What to learn more about the courses and on-demand webinars Dr. Roby offers: Click here!✨Visit Dr. Roby's website at www.authenticlivingcc.com!Podcast theme music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/josh-stewart/tempestLicense code: THM8TU4OR1545UGP This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.darkfairygodmother.com/subscribe