Finding Significance in Others

Join us on our second date together as we cook tacos, play mini golf, share our first kiss and dance to sexy music.  In this episode you will learn some great dating questions, how to better navigate spoken and on unspoken boundaries, how to balance a competitive nature with genuine fun, and why you should never challenge me to mini golf.

Three guys walk into a bar and run into a dating a coach. Listen in as I chat with these men, offer advice, and take a journey through the shoes of a honest pessimistic intellectual and his struggles with finding motivation in our vast universe to connect with others.

Listen as I attempt to keep my unsolicited advice to myself while diving into a stranger's obviously troubled relationship. This episode is more about what not to do as we dive deep into unfortunately common relationship fears, our partner's mistreatment, and misaligned relationship goals.

Listen and find out how to make a date to the zoo an amazing time together. Name games, obscene speculations, and morbid existential crises keep our date continually fueled with laughter and plenty of conversational topics. Find out when playing devils advocate is appropriate and actually adds to the fun and why putting forth effort to planning a fun date will win you big.

Listen to how I successfully approach two lovely ladies at a bar by myself while quickly and continuously getting thrown into the many sexual topics that arise. 

A picnic date at Sacramento's Capitol Park. Hear me talk about my mostly resolved trauma and why voicing your "type" limits and hurts you. You'll also learn how to handle sensitive topics like your date's past sexual assaults and how how to get the dog stamp of approval... or at least not get growled at.

Here’s how to strike up a friendly conversation at a bar, navigate a drunken ride through racial snafus, and still get invited out for pizza.

How to handle your date being late, choose great conversation topics, and deal with people (including other love interests) interrupting the date, plus a fantastic first date activity.