Episode 355: Money Is the Tool, Not the Goal with Reema Khrais

Doree and Elise hear from listeners about recs for kids and money, how to support a family member in a bad relationship, and more (non-frumpy) sun protection recs.Mentioned in this EpisodeAmanda Clayman EpisodeMillion Bazillion PodcastBe-You-Tiful DrivesTiZO: TiZO3 Facial Primer Tinted Sunscreen SPF 40Free Fly ApparelTo leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Maris Kreizman joins Forever35 to speak about her new collection of essays I Want To Burn This Place Down. Elise and Maris discuss Maris’s connection to Doree, what she’s dreaming of for our society today, and what it means to her to live a good life. Mentioned in this EpisodeI Want To Burn This Place Down by Maris KreizmanMeet Me At The Crossroads by Megan GiddingsThe Dad Rock That Made Me A Woman by Niko StratisSearches: Selfhood In The Digital Age by Vauhini Vara Olive oil, any kind (for hair!)Ouai detox shampooGood Genes Vitamin C OilAlison Leiby Substack To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Doree and Elise share their recent microjoys and their thoughts on the Wirecutter Trader Joe’s list. They also hear from listeners about tennis-themed fashion, more great hair oil recs, and a tea towel throwback (and discount code).To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In our Money Month finale, Doree and Elise speak with Yo Quiero Dinero host Jannese Torres about savings, retirement, and investing — everything from how to find an accountant for your specific financial needs to why you have to be a part of the capitalist system in order to change it. To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Doree and Elise hear from listeners sunscreen for a specific part of our faces, answer some specific questions about our favorite beverages, and the current microjoys changing our lives.  To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Financial therapist Amanda Clayman returns to Forever35 (after seven years!) to talk to Doree and Elise about the TikTok trend “loud budgeting” and its shame penalty, how the pandemic made people think about their money differently, what the phrase “money dysmorphia” really means, and the classic saver-spender relationships many people end up in.  To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Elise tells about the fun Taylor Swift-themed birthday party she attended over the weekend. Then, Doree re-traumatizes Elise with a listener text about her ~bird experience~ and they hear from listeners with Zion National Park advice, Money Month feedback, and more curly hair and puppy training recs.To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter.Chapters: *Time stamps are approximate and do not include ads0:00 - Intro ~9:00 - Bird Text~10:00 - Zion recs~13:00 - first ad break~13:15 - Money month feedback~16:40 - Advice for the listener who got laid off~19:00 - Tennis Mantra~22:00 - Curly hair prods~23:35 - second ad break~23:50 - Childcare question~28:00 - Oscar advice Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Doree and Elise chat about Doree’s birthday party hosted by Elise where friends were made, trivia was played, and the string lights shone bright! Then, in the second episode of Money Month, Doree and Elise speak with Dana Miranda, a Certified Educator in Personal Finance (CEPF), personal finance journalist, and author of You Don’t Need A Budget. They discuss why budget culture is a parallel to diet culture, how having financial education doesn’t automatically level the playing field, and all the tenets of budget culture we have to unlearn in order to begin intuitive spending. To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter.Chapters: *Time stamps are approximate and do not include ads0:00  Intro & chitchat~13:10 First ad break~13:45 Dana’s self care practice~16:00 Dana’s relationship with money~17:00 How Dana got into finance journalism~19:00 Why you don’t need a budget~22:00 The parallel to budget culture~24:00 What to do instead of budgeting~25:00 Second ad break~25:50 Breaking down the tenets of budget culture~29:00 Challenging the idea of intuitive spending~32:30 Money Maps~36:30 Intuitive Spending with impulse control~40:00 Why having more financial education doesn’t solve everything~42:15 What should we be teaching our kids about money~44:30 Listener questions~45:00 how to learn to relax about money~48:00 Practical tools to manage our money with grace~52:00 Intention Zone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Elise starts the show with the stuff of nightmares (mostly kidding) and Doree shares a listener voicemail with a timely reminder. Then, listeners weigh in with their best hair oil recs, curly girl routines, and with advice to help Elise with Oscar’s puppy habits. To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter.Chapters:*Time stamps are approximate and do not include ads0:00 - Elise’s nighttime spook~07:00 - Listener Text: Zion National Park Rec (post DOGE cuts)~08:15 - Listener Voicemail: Teacher Appreciation~12:12 - AD BREAK~12:20 - Listener Recs: Hair Oil~18:20 - Call out for mid-day reapplication of sunscreen ~19:08 - AD BREAK~20:00 - Listener suggestions for Oscar Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To kick off Money Month, Doree and Elise bring on Reema Khrais, host of the Marketplace podcast This Is Uncomfortable. They discuss everything from why money is a fraught subject, especially in relationships, how to have conversations about it, and some practical takeaways to start building a good financial foundation. To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at [email protected] forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.