Extra Effort + Everyday Moments = Massive Growth (Staying Close in the Chaos, 4/5)

Many couples fall into the trap of thinking big date nights and grand gestures are what will keep their marriage strong. Today, we unpack how tiny, everyday moments can have a huge impact on your relationship.• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

Many couples think intimacy should just happen on its own — but what if that belief is harming your marriage? Today we dig into what the Bible actually says about consistency, connection, and why "spontaneous" might not be the correct goal.• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

Marriages don't only fall apart from big blowups — they can also crumble from a hundred small moments nobody ever addresses. Today we unpack one habit we call "keeping short accounts," a practice that's helped carry our marriage through 23 years.• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

How can you protect your connection with your spouse despite being busy? Today, Ryan and Selena Frederick share the one practical daily habit they believe has the highest return on investment for staying connected as a couple.• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

Today we unpack the difference between healthy emotions and something far more dangerous: emotionalism. From the silent treatment to storming off to feeling "unloved" even when your spouse is trying, we break down where feelings cross the line from real to ruling, and what Scripture says about putting them back in their place.• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

Today we wrap up our three-part series for nearly and newlywed couples. We talk about things we wish someone had told us before our wedding, our honeymoon, and the moment we came back home to real life.• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

It's wedding season! How can a couple who is headed into marriage best position themselves for success? Last week, today, and next week, we'll talk about exactly that!• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

It's wedding season! How can a couple who is headed into marriage best position themselves for success? Today, and in the following two weeks, we'll talk about exactly that!• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

Today, Ryan and Selena talk about a habit many Christian wives have but rarely question. They go through what the Bible says about it and show why it's just as bad as men watching p*rn.• Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com• Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com• Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian: https://thenewsisgood.comIf this content helps you, please consider subscribing. New marriage and parenting videos weekly.Support: https://fiercemarriage.com/partnerSubscribe to audio: https://fiercemarriage.com/podcastSocials: https://instagram.com/fiercemarriage, https://facebook.com/fiercemarriageMore marriage content: https://fiercemarriage.comOur books and devotionals: https://shop.fiercemarriage.comTake online marriage courses: https://gospelcenteredmarriage.com For parenting resources and content, visit https://FierceParenting.comLet’s be friends! Find Ryan and Selena on their personal socials. Ryan: https://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://twitter.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfredSelena:https://instagram.com/selenafredhttps://facebook.com/selena.frederick

Over the past ten weeks, we've walked through the plagues that hit marriages the hardest. This final episode is about what comes after them: the blood, the deliverance, and the long walk that follows.RESOURCES:Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!