94. Subtext: Max Bemis: Do Better

In August 2026, Say Anything frontman Max Bemis faced allegations of inappropriate sexual conversations with underage fans. Kendra and Rich examine the accusations, Bemis’s history of controversial lyrics and interactions with young fans, and whether the warning signs were hiding in plain sight all along.enough. is a podcast centering on surviving abuse, harassment, and assault in the music scene. To help spread the word, please like and subscribe and share with your friends. In 2026, we’re looking to speak with anyone who has a story to share about their experience with the darker side of the music scene. From avid show-goers to bookers to band members, we’ve all seen something. If you feel ready to share your story, we’d love to hear from you. Find us on Instagram at enough.podcast, or email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.REFERENCESSay Anything’s Max Bemis shoots down unwanted comparison, clarifies lyrics meaning (Alt Press)Say Anything Will Retire “Wow, I Can Get Sexual, Too” from Shows, Saying it’s “No Longer Appropriate" (Spin)Wavves scrap collaborative album with Say Anything after Max Bemis faces allegations of messaging teen (reddit)My previous 6 or so months with Max Bemis, but I’m 17. (reddit)Max Bemis of Say Anything accused of creepy behavior towards fan (Facebook)Wavves’ Nathan Williams Addresses Max Bemis Allegations, Will Rerecord Their Album Without Him (Stereogum)Say Anything’s Max Bemis “Closes Chapter” on Band, Opens Up About Sexuality (Pitchfork)Allegations against Max Bemis (reddit)

What happens to a band when one of their members is outed for sexual misconduct? Some will break up while others choose to do nothing and continue on with the member still intact. Most often the offending member is removed or replaced and the band continues to tour. In this episode, Kendra and Rich talk about four bands who chose that option and continue to tour successfully. Those bands are Dance Gavin Dance, Pierce the Veil, A Day to Remember and All Time Low.enough. is a podcast centering on surviving abuse, harassment, and assault in the music scene. To help spread the word, please like and subscribe and share with your friends. In 2026, we’re looking to speak with anyone who has a story to share about their experience with the darker side of the music scene. From avid show-goers to bookers to band members, we’ve all seen something. If you feel ready to share your story, we’d love to hear from you. Find us on Instagram at enough.podcast, or email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.REFERENCEShttps://www.arcurrent.com/opinion/2022/12/05/dance-gavin-dance-allowing-vocalist-tillian-pearson-to-return-after-sexual-coercion-accusations-with-no-explanation-brings-shame-to-the-sacramento-music-scene/https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tilian_Pearsonhttps://www.reddit.com/r/dancegavindance/comments/v2sst7/my_tilian_story_with_pictures/https://variety.com/2024/music/news/tilian-pearson-leaves-dance-gavin-dance-1235971667/https://www.reddit.com/r/dancegavindance/comments/ytnq6a/my_response_to_tilians_post/https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tb7rEIo-MIOK2gIFOHSxSlStT-addYQPGY392HRFdiQ/edit?tab=t.0https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mike_Fuentes_(drummer)https://loudwire.com/pierce-the-veil-mike-fuentes-accused-of-sexual-relations-with-a-minor/https://twitter.com/punkdoII/status/930461249975885824 https://www.nme.com/news/music/pierce-veil-issue-statement-sexual-misconduct-allegations-drummer-mike-fuentes-2177373https://loudwire.com/a-day-to-remember-joshua-woodard-announces-departure-from-band-past-allegations/https://www.instagram.com/p/CDb3Vm9pgNb/?img_index=2https://www.kerrang.com/a-day-to-remembers-josh-woodard-leaves-band-after-false-allegations-resurfacehttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/All_Time_Lowhttps://www.theguardian.com/music/2021/oct/26/all-time-low-us-rock-band-deny-allegations-of-sexual-misconducthttps://loudwire.com/all-time-low-statement-libel-lawsuit-investigation-findings/https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/all-time-low-jack-barakat-libel-lawsuit-dismissal-1235158789/

In June of 2026, rapper Mystikal pleaded guilty to third-degree rape and was sentenced to 20 years in prison. In this episode, Kendra and Rich talk about what he was initially charged with, his history of sexual assault, and the frustration of repeat offenders being able to plea to lesser charges when charged with sexual assault.enough. is a podcast centering on surviving abuse, harassment, and assault in the music scene. To help spread the word, please like and subscribe and share with your friends. In 2026, we’re looking to speak with anyone who has a story to share about their experience with the darker side of the music scene. From avid show-goers to bookers to band members, we’ve all seen something. If you feel ready to share your story, we’d love to hear from you. Find us on Instagram at enough.podcast, or email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.REFERENCESRapper Mystikal sentenced to 20 years in Louisiana rape caseRapper Mystikal sentenced to 20 years in Louisiana rape caseRapper Mystikal pleads not guilty to rape, drug chargesSexual assault charge dropped against rapper MystikalRapper Mystikal surrenders on rape charge in LouisianaRapper Mystikal sentenced to six years (CNN)Mystikal Indicted on Rape, Kidnapping ChargesSPD: Rapper "Mystikal" one of two sought in alleged sexual assault

Folk-punk musician Chris Clavin’s Plan-It-X Records helped to launch the careers of many artists and bands well known in the punk and indie music scenes. But allegations in 2017 against Clavin resulted in the shuttering of the label and his willing removal from the scene. Kendra and Rich discuss Clavin’s weight in the scene, the outcome of the allegations, and why no one is ever really “cancelled."enough. is a podcast centering on surviving abuse, harassment, and assault in the music scene. To help spread the word, please like and subscribe and share with your friends. In 2026, we’re looking to speak with anyone who has a story to share about their experience with the darker side of the music scene. From avid show-goers to bookers to band members, we’ve all seen something. If you feel ready to share your story, we’d love to hear from you. Find us on Instagram at enough.podcast, or email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠.REFERENCESChris Clavin accused of assault, Clavin responds, bands react (Punknews)kimyadawson (Tumblr)Jeffrey Lewis show cut short after he declined to comment on Chris Clavin allegations (Brooklyn Vegan)Whatever happened to Chris Clavin after all the allegations on him came to light?

Kendra and Rich discuss the lo-fi indie and r&b artist D4vd, a rising star whose career has come to a halt over the discovery of 14-year old Celeste Rivas Hernandez’s mutilated body inside the trunk of his abandoned Tesla.enough. is a podcast centering on surviving abuse, harassment, and assault in the music scene. To help spread the word, please like and subscribe and share with your friends. In 2026, we’re looking to speak with anyone who has a story to share about their experience with the darker side of the music scene. From avid show-goers to bookers to band members, we’ve all seen something. If you feel ready to share your story, we’d love to hear from you. Find us on Instagram at enough.podcast, or email us at ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠.REFERENCES:Questions surround US singer D4vd weeks after teen's body found in his Tesla (BBC)US singer D4vd pleads not guilty to murder in death of missing teen girl (BBC)Girl, 14, found in singer D4vd's car died of 'multiple injuries' (BBC)Singer D4vd arrested on suspicion of murdering teenage girl (BBC)Singer D4vd confirmed as 'target' of investigation into murder of teen (BBC)What we know about the 14-year-old girl singer d4vd is accused of killing (CNN)The girl whom singer d4vd is charged with killing died of ‘multiple penetrating injuries,’ autopsy findsD4vd Had ‘Significant Amount’ of Child Pornography in iCloud Account, Prosecutors Say (Variety)D4vd murder case: How a 2022 California law could protect the singer’s lyrics from a jury (Fox)

In this episode of Subtext, Kendra and Rich dig into the history of former Of Mice and Men and Attack! Attack! frontman Austin Carlile. They discuss his history of leaving / getting kicked out of bands and the multitude of allegations levied against him. They also talk about how Alternative Press Magazine was in the midst of releasing an article covering the allegations and the mystery around the article never getting published. enough. is a podcast centering on surviving abuse, harassment, and assault in the music scene. To help spread the word, please like and subscribe and share with your friends. In 2026, we’re looking to speak with anyone who has a story to share about their experience with the darker side of the music scene. From avid show-goers to bookers to band members, we’ve all seen something. If you feel ready to share your story, we’d love to hear from you. Find us on Instagram at enough.podcast, or email us at ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠.REFERENCES:Attack! Attack! [still] hate Austin Carlile (Under The Gun)Of Mice & Men respond to Austin Carlile sexual assault allegations (Metal Hammer)Austin Carlile is not who you all think he is. Wake up. (reddit)Ex-frontman Austin Carlile of OM&M said to be a serial rapist (reddit)Austin Carlile Accused of Rape + Sexual Assault by Multiple Women; Alternative Press Addresses Shelving Investigation (Loudwire)Austin Carlile responds to sexual abuse allegations; read here. (wikiMetal)

For over 40 years, Anthony Kiedis and his band, Red Hot Chili Peppers, have been the soundtrack for frat parties and music festivals with their brand of funk influenced alternative rock. However, behind the music is a dark history of sexual assault, drug abuse, and a lack of accountability. In this episode, Kendra and Rich dive into Kiedis’ past from his childhood with a drug dealer father, through his sexual battery conviction, and his multiple relationships with women one third his age.enough. is a podcast centering on surviving abuse, harassment, and assault in the music scene. To help spread the word, please like and subscribe and share with your friends. In 2026, we’re looking to speak with anyone who has a story to share about their experience with the darker side of the music scene. From avid show-goers to bookers to band members, we’ve all seen something. If you feel ready to share your story, we’d love to hear from you. Find us on Instagram at enough.podcast, or email us at ⁠[email protected]⁠.REFERENCES:Actress Ione Skye claims Red Hot Chili Peppers frontman Anthony Kiedis got her pregnant at 17, paid for abortion (Page Six)Former Music Exec Says She Was Sexually Harassed By 2 Of The Red Hot Chili Peppers (Huffington Post)Singer Anthony Kiedis convicted of sexual battery, indecent exposure (UPI)Good, We’re Talking About Anthony Kiedis Now… (Medium)Indecent exposure, underage girls, and sexual battery: The uncomfortable truth about Anthony Kiedis (Far Out)Does Child Abuse and Neglect Increase Risk for Perpetration of Violence Inside and Outside the Home? (NIH)The Medium is the Mayhem (The Washington Post)Anthony Kiedis: The Cycle of Abuse (Delinquent Films via YouTube)Interviewer gets ANGRY at Anthony Kiedis & Flea and ENDS the broadcast (YouTube)

For almost two decades rumors have swirled about Blood on the Dance Floor frontman Dahvie Vanity. In this episode, Kendra and Rich discuss the rumors and allegations that have swirled around Blood on the Dance Floor frontman Dahvie Vanity. They dive into the history of the band, its teenage fan base, and how the social media surge allowed for ease of access to those fans. They discuss many of the 21 public allegations against Vanity, including an investigation by To Catch A Predator’s Chris Hansen.enough. is a podcast centering on surviving abuse, harassment, and assault in the music scene. To help spread the word, please like and subscribe and share with your friends. In 2026, we’re looking to speak with anyone who has a story to share about their experience with the darker side of the music scene. From avid show-goers to bookers to band members, we’ve all seen something. If you feel ready to share your story, we’d love to hear from you. Find us on Instagram at enough.podcast, or email us at [email protected]:Dahvie Vanity Raped A Child. Police Gave Him A Warning. Now 21 Women Accuse Him Of Sexual Assault (Huffington Post)Are there any ongoing investigations into Dahvie Vanity's alleged pedophilia? (factually)Blood on the Dance Floor’s Dahvie Vanity Accused of Sexually Assaulting Multiple Women, Many While They Were Underage (Metal Sucks)Scene Singer Dahvie Vanity Is A Rapist Who Preys On Minors, A Dozen Women Say (Huffington Post)Chris Hansen - Dahvie Vanity Investigation (YouTube)

Kendra and Rich reflect on the topics they covered throughout 2025, examining both the wins and the setbacks, and share legal and life updates involving many of the accused abusers, while noting how the broader cultural and political climate has shifted since Trump took office.REFERENCES:‘Me Too’s’ Disruptor Council is Tarana Burke’s next step in the fight for survivors (the grio)#MeToo in 2025: Where Do We Stand Now? (NY Law Journal)Kristen Stewart Calls Out ‘Devastating’ Lack of Progress in Hollywood After the Me Too Movement: ‘I'm So Angry’ (People)Vans Warped Tour 2025 Full Lineup: All DC, Long Beach, and Orlando BandsWhat has Sean 'Diddy' Combs been convicted of? (BBC News)Chris Brown’s Legal Problems: A Timeline of TroubleAnti-Flag’s Justin Sane Ordered to Pay Rape Accuser $1.9 MillionDanny Elfman Loses Bid to Dismiss Defamation Lawsuit Over Statements Made About a Secret Sexual Harassment Settlement (Variety)

Kendra and Rich take a closer look at the controversial career of Ronnie Radke, frontman of Falling in Reverse. The episode unpacks his constant legal troubles, public feuds, and online behavior while exploring the cult-like loyalty of his fanbase.In 2025, we are interested in talking to teachers, authors, artists, activists, counselors, community organizers, and anyone else who is dedicated to making a positive impact in their music community and our society as a whole. If that sounds like you, please reach out to us at ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠.Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/enough.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch this episode on YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@enoughpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REFERENCESSpiritbox Drop Out of Falling In Reverse Tour After Ronnie Radke Backlash (Yahoo News)Rock singer arrested in Glendale on domestic assault warrant (LA Times)Rocker Calls Rape Claim Defamatory (Courthouse News Service)Ronnie Radke’s Accuser Speaks (Exclusive) (Alternative Press)Falling in Reverse frontman Ronnie Radke accused by woman of participating in gang rape (NY Daily News)Creep of the Week: Ronnie Radke (Philadelphia Gay News)Falling in Reverse’s Ronnie Radke Banned From TikTok Over Gender Identity Commentary (Loudwire) Complaint Radke v Boswell Conformed (Court Document)Ronnie Radke Pushes Back Against Order To Pay Anthony Fantano’s Legal Fees (Blunt)Ronnie Radke Reported to Tasmanian Police Over Councillor Comments (Billboard)Ronnie Radke Drops Serious Allegations Against Sleeping With Sirens’ Nick Martin (Rock Celebrities)Falling In Reverse’s Ronnie Radke Revisits 2012 Mic Stand Incident With Inflatable Stunt at Warped Tour (Blunt)