Why pushing through isn’t working like it used to

In this training I’m outing myself and sharing a money struggle that showed up in every area of my life for years. We dive into the top 3 reasons being the strong one, hyper independent, wanting to avoid being emotionally vulnerable, being the glue of the family and the one who does it ALL..... makes it 100% harder for you to make and receive more money. We also get into why working harder was getting me worse results, why things feeling easy can feel suspicious and how over giving shows up in what you charge.This episode will help you with your business, career, family, relationships and the support you let in.What you’ll learn:Why working harder was bringing in less money and what finally made me stopWhy action and rest are the same thing and how rest brings in your most profitable moveWhy the post I spent hours on flopped and the one I made in five minutes did really wellWhy things feeling easy can feel suspicious when you’re used to solving problemsHow doing it all yourself pushes away clients, support and money without you realizing itHow overgiving with your family shows up in what you charge in your businessWhy getting paid for what comes naturally to you feels weird and what that’s really telling youWhy constant free help keeps people from getting the results you want for themFor deeper support with shifting this upgrade to be a founding membership of the membership starting at $65 per month. Get accress to monthly live group calls, in depth trainings, and a library of energetic communication tools.Join the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

When something feels too easy, is it your intuition or are you settling? Today's episode is a clip from the Energetic Communication membership where I share examples of how this shows up in different areas of life. What you'll learn: -The real reason your goals keep moving even when you're making progress every day -The one question that shows if you're subconsciously settling or following your intuition -What I learned making no money my first 2 years in business while following my intuition to launch a podcast -How intuition uses what you're trying to avoid to get your attention -Why chasing goals from "I need this to be okay" makes them harder to reach and what I recommend instead Join the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

In this episode we dive into several lessons on why you feel responsible for how other people feel and make it your job to fix it. We also get into why expanding your capacity is a myth and what to do instead, what happens when you ignore intuition, and how to create emotional boundaries with people you care about. This episode will help you with family, relationships, clients, and other connections you have. Also cheers to the first video format episode on the podcast. Now let's get into the show. What you'll learn: -Why it's hard to ask for you to help, but you're the first person everyone calls-How to create deeper connections with people without solving their problems and feeling responsible for how they feel -The real reason you take on everything for everyone (it isn't because you're capable) -Why you keep saying yes to things when your whole body says no -What capacity really is, and why expanding it isn't possible -The 4 categories of needs that have to be met before anything else you build will hold -Why constantly helping someone with their problems makes the rest of their life harder and takes you away from the lessons you're supposed to be learning -Why certain people avoid how they feel and how it backfires in every area of life -The real reason people get instantly overwhelmed by others emotions/feelings -Why some people try to prove their value with what they DO instead of WHO they are Join the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

Part two of 3 common phrases that keep people from hearing their intuition 100% clearly.  Once you notice them, you can’t unhear them and you'll shift the pattern... yay. This episode will help you hear the difference between sounding positive and actually being in your powerWhat you'll learn:-3 energetic communication phrases that block your intuition (there's over 600) -The common phrase that guarantees you get the opposite of what you want-The foundational shift that has to happen before working harder or longer hours will ever actually pay off -Why you can work harder than anyone you know and still feel like you're getting nowhere -Why saying “I'm trying” shuts down your inner voice and slows progress moving forwardJoin the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

I've never shared the story until now. Years ago I recorded an episode to feature a guest and intuitively decided not to publish it.... mid recording. This is the behind the scenes of what it looks like to use intuition for hard business decisions, pivots, and what it looks like to honor your values. This episode covers:You can get really good at something you're not meant to do long term. I share the first 5 signs to look out for (there's a lot more) The story behind why I didn't publish a collab podcast episode featuring a guest because intuition told me not to What happened to my guest within 2 to 3 months of the podcast recording that confirmed what I intuitively knew would happen How following through on a commitment can work against you, and when to know it's beneficial to change your mind Join the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

I thought I was saving money and ended up spending 3 times more than I planned. If you have ever talked yourself out of the thing you actually wanted, this episode is for you. This is the story of what happens when logic overrides intuition This episode covers:How to tell the difference between saving money and self sabotageWhy choosing the cheaper option ends up costing you more in the end The one question to ask yourself before making your next business investment Why "I can make this work" is a red flag in decision makingHow I tried to save money on my spring brand photoshoot last week and ended up spending triple Why the investment that scares you a little is usually the right one Join the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

In today's episode Kayla sits down with Kyla Derkach in a conversation about what somatic deconditioning actually is and why it changes everything: Kyla covers why the decision that scares you the most is usually the one your body is already saying yes to, how high functioning survival mode disguises itself as mental ambition that never shuts off, and the astrology shifts every business owner/leader needs to know about right now so you can stay ahead of the curve. This episode covers:Why second guessing a decision doesn't mean it's the wrong one and how to sit with the discomfort without leaving your path What "minimum effort, maximum satisfaction" looks like in real life because it's not about doing less, it's about doing the right things as the right version of you How your undefined human design centers are conditioning your decisions without you knowing it Get Kyla's signature theme everyday practice you can start today to build unshakeable trust in your own intuition over time How to know if you're working hard for the right reasons or running from something without years of therapy to figure it out Why moving to a new city, starting over, or changing your environment doesn't fix the real problem and what actually does What the current astrology is predicting for business and why the leaders who know this now will be the ones ahead of the curve Check out Kyla Derkach: https://hathaastro.com/https://www.instagram.com/hatha.astro/https://hathaastro.com/deconditioning-meditationsJoin the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

If you’ve been pushing through to get results but feel more resistance, more hesitation, or like nothing is working despite your hard work. There are 6 intuitive reasons for this (more like 25 but I cover 6 in this episode). Think of today's episode like a mini masterclass where I show you what patterns are happening and how to work with this energy instead of forcing your way forwardThis episode covers: -6 reasons why you can’t push harder to get results anymore (and what it’s actually showing you) -The #1 reason your strategy has stopped working (and what to do now)-The 30 second technique that dissolves “I need to push harder” FOMO so you commit to things that are actually for you -How Kayla grew the podcast to 54 countries in 3 years (without pushing harder)-How to make the right decision when you’re afraid of making the wrong choice or missing out on something important-How to know the difference between goals created from ego vs your intuition (hint only one creates easeful results)-Why the next 20 years is focused on intuition and how you can stay ahead of the curve for business, career, and all areas of life -3 phrases people say every week that make achieving results harder without realizing itJoin the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

Here are 3 common phrases that keep people from hearing their intuition clearly.  Once you notice them, you can’t unhear them and you'll shift the pattern... yay. This episode will help you catch the moments during your week where you disconnect from your inner voice without realizing it What you'll learn:-3 energetic communication phrases that block your intuition (there's over 600) -The exact reason your ideas feel exciting at first… and then fade -How one word pushes you out of intuitive flow and into overwhelm -The #1 mistake people make after receiving an intuitive download -The identity shift that makes intuition easier, clearer, and faster -Why saying “I don’t know” shuts down your inner voice (and what to say instead) -Why intuition doesn’t give full clarity upfront -The biggest misconception about intuition that nobody talks about Find this helpful? Leave the energetically her podcast a 5-star rating and review. Feel free to share this episode with someone who needs to hear this today Join the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher

Your birthday is the most strategic day of the year, here's how you can set yourself up for more success. If you'd like to access to your solar return birthday guide that breaks down your entire year forecast, DM me on Instagram about this episode and I'll send you the business astrologers' info that I've been working with. Join the membership:https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/offers/4EqSL62GBook an intensive with me: https://calendly.com/energeticallyher/intuitive-callOffers, services, and more support: https://energeticallyher.mykajabi.com/linklistKayla's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/energeticallyher