Become The Most Confident Version Of Yourself

Try AudiblePlus for just $4.95/month for your first 6 months! http://audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIt seems to be harder than ever to get through to people logically.In fact, some of the smartest people have the most sophisticated psychological booby traps when it comes to heated subjects. So in this video, we're going to break down why sometimes people won’t listen to reason even when they’re smart, and what techniques you can use to finally get through to someone who can’t listen to reason.Our video on Steven Crowder:https://youtu.be/IGACRHlzwx8Our video on Trevor Noahhttps://youtu.be/lgXqaS08ZqM⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.2:12 - #1: Being stunned by new information.3:01 - #2: Inaccurately summarizing the other's perspective.4:01 - #3: Misreading nefarious intent.4:41 - #4: Regularly moving goalposts.5:35 - #5: Yelling or getting angry.6:12 - #6: Attacking someone's character.6:34 - #7: Retreating Without Concession8:05 - 3 Key Mindsets To Change Their Mind9:05 - The Most Dangerous Cognitive DissonanceConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Philip DeFranco: How To Make People Trust YouDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Eu4uLBPhilip DeFranco is probably the most trusted newsperson on YouTube. And in an era where mainstream news is suspect and allegations of fake news fly even from the President’s mouth, that might make Philip DeFranco the most trust newsperson in America.In this video I want to talk about what you can learn from Philly D in terms of generating that kind of trust and respect, even when you’re talking about really controversial topics. And let me warn you, this isn’t always going to be easyAs Phil says, let’s just jump into it.0:31 Philip DeFranco delineates between facts and his opinions1:25 No hiding of biased opinions in Philip DeFranco Show 4:52 Philly D knows his principles and in DeFranco EliteSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nWDgDgThe Secret Of Bill Clinton's Incredible Eye ContactBill Clinton may have the most famously captivating eye contact of anyone alive. On all sides of the political spectrum, people have noted that when Bill Clinton spoke to them, it felt as if they were the only person in the room. Even Newt Gingrich, his political nemesis, said he was "one of the most charming, effective people I have negotiated with." It may have won him the presidency in the 1992 town hall debate against George Bush Sr. and Ross Perot.A huge component of that charm and charisma comes from the engaging way Clinton makes eye contact. And that is the main focus of this video. We'll explore how he is able to convey many emotions with his gaze. Especially a sense of power and genuine connection that come from his intense, narrow eyes. You'll also see how he breaks eye contact in a way that makes people feel heard and be able to contrast that with George Bush Sr. who lost the 1992 debate and maybe the election because of the way he handled this question.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCShelby2023Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeTommy Shelby is stone cold confident and seemingly fearless.So in this video we're going to break down what you can learn from him to be confident in high pressure situations in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:18 - #1: Don't overreact in situations of extreme pressure1:13 - Exposure therapy1:51 - #2: Use state breaking questions3:57 - #3: Align your needs with the other person's4:25 - #4: View the world from their perspective5:54 - #5: Give both the carrot and the stick7:42 - #6: Turn trash into resources9:19 - Ask yourself this question9:30 - How do I build social power quickly?-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TommyShelby #PeakyBlinders #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What would make you happier? Winning the lottery? Or becoming paraplegic?What’s crazy is that a year after winning the lottery versus using the use of their legs, people from both groups rate their happiness as the same. This is called impact bias: we overestimate which things will make us happy and for how long. What’s crazy is this isn’t just a quirk of lottery winners - so many people spend their lives in a pursuit of happiness that is not that impactful and fleeting. You get the a job that you desperately want that once you arrive isn’t as glamorous as you thought, you get a phone, a computer, or a car, and for 2 weeks you notice how new and cool it is, but before you know it it’s just another thing. There are ways to avoid this trap though.I have spent literally years studying people, their happiness, and applying the lessons to myself. What you see is that there are certain approaches that work and certain that don’t. There are 5 things and I’m calling it the happiness ladder, because I tend to see it correspond to phases of our lives and people tend to move from one level to the next in order. My hope is that this video gives you a shortcut to the top.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhendersonSometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it.0:00 - Intro1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status8:15 - The Direct Route8:41 - The Indirect Route9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL ConnectionsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Andre RingkjoebChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3tB5mawSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn 4 habits that will let you feel confident in almost any situation.We’ll do this by analyzing some clips of Jake Gyllenhaal, someone who effortlessly projects a fun confident attitude.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:16 - #1: Learn to laugh at yourself1:48 - #2: Give yourself permission to call out behavior you don't like3:31 - #3: Be comfortable calling out awkward moments5:58 - #4: Make your focus in conversation to have fun--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JakeGyllenhaal #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500 to try Audible today!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeHave you ever wished there was a blueprint you could follow to make people instantly like you? Good news, there kind of is! All you have to do is follow the 3 Fs. Be Fascinating, Funny, and make them Feel Good. I know, easier said than done. But in today’s video, you’ll get a set of tools that make it easy to do each. We’ll do this by breaking down some of today’s most charismatic celebrities, most prominently Will Smith and Chris Hemsworth, so you have real life examples you can model.4 Jokes That Make People Instantly Like You:https://youtu.be/GBuZMl0CcPYHow To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover:https://youtu.be/M5mgdJDEgwUHow To Confidently Flirt With Anyone:https://youtu.be/8NalcOPBXvs⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:26 - #1: Set stakes to hook people1:22 - #2: Make your stories Immersive2:33 - #3: Make your story relatable3:53 - #4: Use the charades method6:16 - #5: Use the fake out method7:36 - #6: Use contagious laughter10:10 - #7: Give high quality compliments-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #WillSmith #ChrisHemsworth--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2qTzFubSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribePosture is probably the easiest and healthiest way to improve your appearance.Your posture impacts your thin slice, determining how attractive you appear and how confident you appear.Posture also has a major impact on airflow and blood flow, meaning it has a MAJOR impact on performance. Posture impacts how well you speak, how athletic you can be, even bedroom performance.And lastly, posture has a fairly meaningful impact on your health, ESPECIALLY as you get older. Your posture today is dramatically going to impact if you’re the kind of person that’s living a full life when you’re older. If you don’t fix the minor issues you have today, they will compound over time.I’m going to go piece by piece through the most common postural issues, the common causes and how to minimize that negative impact, and then how to proactively fix your posture so it’s perfect.0:50 Fix posture for the forward head and present a better posture and avoid neck pain2:48 You won't show a more confident body language with this so do improve posture6:17 How to have a better posture if not a perfect posture is to do these posture exercisesConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Master Your MindIf you want updates on the Belief System course I mention, leave your email here (didn't have time to make a separate sign up page, but I'll make sure you get the survey!): https://goo.gl/AiIEjJIf you’re like me, your mind has sabotaged you in the past.You want to feel confident, but it makes you shakeYou want to eat healthy, but junk food winsToday I’m going to give you some high level strategy for dealing with all those things and more.Let’s start with the operating principlesWhat makes one person walk into a room confident, head held high excited to meet people on the top of their game and another slink in? What makes one person work on their business like crazy When you think about what people are willing to do for religion, give their lives, hurt other people, help other people, it should become clear that your beliefs drive action.The problem is most of us do not know how to choose what we believe. It might sound crazy, but imagine if you could simply choose to believe that everyone was excited to talk to you. Or you could choose to believe that putting long hours into building a business was fun. Or that eating junk food was worse than being hungry. Imagine how easy it’d be to achieve your goals if you could just pick the beliefs that supported them.Well, that’s where I’m going, so I want to introduce you to the principle that drives what we believe. 3:58 Recognizing the positive intent for the self confidence5:00 Associate a painful consequence if you do not change7:59 Determine the pleasure you get when you changeSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices