Intimacy, Relationships & Love Q&A

#93Evoking the King in menRelationships are our greatest initiation – a mirror of our deepest fears and highest potential. As women, we hold the power to shape their direction, not through force, but by embodying our worth. When we stop clinging to a man’s potential and instead anchor in our own truth, we become the invitation for him to rise.  In this episode, I share my own journey – from misusing my ability to "see" a man’s divinity to learning the sacred balance of needing love while releasing attachment. I reveal why masculine provision matters (yes, I’m experimenting with a week of full surrender to receiving) and how true union begins when we stop betraying ourselves.  If you’re ready to stop repeating cycles and awaken the codes of sacred partnership within you, this is your call. The path begins where you stand—in radical honesty, softness, and the courage to deserve what you truly desire.Join Sanctuary: https://sofiasundari.com/sanctuaryTake Feminine Archetypes Quiz: https://sofiasundari.com/quizMy free Telegram channel: https://t.me/sofiasundariBecoming Her: https://sofiasundari.com/becoming-herTimestamps01:25 - The Trouble and Power of Relationships08:25 - How Women Evoke the Highest in Men16:00 - A Woman's Role in Directing Love18:10 - The Trap of Comparison18:55 - The Provision Experiment30:20 - Biology and Energetic Design40:00 - The Paradox: Need vs. Detachment46:30 - Invitation to Sacred Union Work51:20 - Closing: Awakening Through Love

#92What do women owe to men?Pause. Breathe. Notice what stirs within you - resistance, curiosity, a quiet hell no whispering at the back of your mind? I’ve danced with this question in many ways - being the woman who gave too much, the woman who withheld completely, the woman who believed she owed nothing at all. But beneath the conditioning, beyond the rebellion, there is something deeper.Join me in this episode as we explore the true power of feminine magnetism and how our relationships can become catalysts for profound growth. When you truly understand this, your relationships - and your entire life - will never be the same.Let’s unravel this together.For those who desire to go deeper, you are warmly invited to my upcoming Masterclass She: The Love Magnet where we will dive into attracting high-caliber Love and becoming a Woman men can’t resist. Sign up here: https://sofiasundari.com/she-masterclass-podcastTimestamps00:35 - Introducing today’s topic03:15 - Types of relationships 06:30 - Phase of being single11:15 - The experience of speed dating17:20 - The power of radiance and magnetism32:20 - Invitation to a free Masterclass

#91Valentine’s Day – a time when love is celebrated, idealized, and often… misunderstood. But how often is what we call “love” actually addiction in disguise?In this episode, we dive deep into the intoxicating patterns of love addiction – the craving, the highs, the crashes – and why so many of us mistake attachment for devotion. I’ll be sharing how to recognize when you’re caught in the illusion, how to break free from the cycles of seeking love outside of yourself, and what it truly means to open your heart in a way that nourishes rather than depletes you.Because love – real love – isn’t found in someone else’s arms. It’s found within.Win a Full Scholarship to Becoming Her:I’m offering one full scholarship to Becoming Her – my 8-week live transformational training for the woman who is ready to rise into her fullest expression, claim her worth, and open to receiving it all.If you feel, deep in your bones, that this is your time to shift how you relate to men, to yourself, and to the world… this is your invitation.Here’s how to enter the Giveaway:✨ Follow me on Instagram: @sofiasundari✨ Tag 3-5 women in the comments of this post who would love this transformation (tag more than 5 for a bonus entry!)✨ Join She: The Love Magnet – my free 3-day live masterclass in March & share in your stories that you’ve signed up (tag me so I can see it!): Sign up hereBonus Entry: Share a post, story, or reel about how my work has impacted you & why you desire to Become Her – and invite others to She: The Love Magnet (tag me so I can see it!)✨ The winner will receive a full scholarship to Becoming Her (valued at $1,888) and will be announced on February 18! ✨Even if you don’t win, the SHE Masterclass will still be a profound transformation.Because stepping into your next level begins the moment you say yes to yourself.Let’s journey together.Timestamps00:35 - Celebrating Love02:00 - Understanding True Love vs. Addiction05:00 - The Reflection of Relationships09:00 - Personal Experiences with Addiction17:45 - The Journey of Self-Discovery24:20 - Becoming Her Program32:20 - Embracing the Fullness of Experience34:20 - Invitation to Join the Journey

#90In order to be happy in love and actually choose the right partner a woman has to come to this realisation:The Beloved is already here. He is loving you, right now.He is revealing himself to you through every man you encounter…And…Your true Beloved is the one who fully matches your wild feminine heart.But if you are hiding this heart even from your own self… how is he supposed to find you?..The next cycle inside of my membership Sanctuary is specifically dedicated to the WILD FEMININE HEART.The doors are OPEN, but only for a short window of 3 days.Click here to sign up.Relationships have burnt the biggest holes in my ego.Relationships have taught me how to love myself.Relationships have caged me and in the same breath have helped me release my WILD FEMININE HEART.New season of Boundless Love podcast is here 🎉Leading in with a new format and a new episode about a very real woman’s journey of navigating the world of relationships. Every woman will be able to identify with parts of this story, because it involves surfing the spirals of losing and finding myself.In this episode, I share my personal story of navigating the complexities of relationships, self-worth, and the paradoxes that shape our experiences as women. Growing up in Russia, I was conditioned to believe that my value was tied to marriage and motherhood, but through my journey, I've learned that true fulfillment comes from unleashing the wisdom of my heart. I explore the lessons learned from heartbreak, the importance of self-discovery, and how embracing our wildness can lead to deeper connections and a more vibrant life.Find me on Instagram @sofiasundri

#88We must pass through the dark night of the soul… more than once.We have to sacrifice parts of ourselves… this is how we open to our Supreme Destiny and prepare the soil for Grace that liberates us.We will be preparing the soil during the Dark Mother Masterclass.We begin today.Sigh up here: https://sofiasundari.com/dark-mother

#87Darkness often feels like a place to escape—but what if it’s where true healing begins? In this episode, I invited my friend and exceptional bodyworker Mario to share his wisdom on embracing shame, chaos, and the hidden truths that live in our bodies. From meeting your inner demons to integrating them into pure light, they explore it all—inviting you to fall in love with the beauty and wisdom of the dark.Mario Cosmico Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bodyawakeningjourneyBody Awakening Journey: https://bodyawakeningjourney.com/Inside of Sanctuary - my modern Tantra practice based community we are entering into a 2 month cycle of Holy Darkness.During this cycle each week you will be receiving new activation practices from me that will take you out of the shackles of limitation into your True Place of vibrant aliveness.From this place you will feel resourced to create a Life of love, purpose and prosperity.You will also be a part of Holy Darkness intensive where for a week you will be receiving subconscious reprogramming transmissions that will help release limiting patterns that hinder how you hold your worth and communicate it to the world.  👑The doors are open.We start with the opening ceremony next Friday. Sign up now to take your spot: https://sofiasundari.com/sanctuary

#86When we surrender to the Fire of Love… we activate an incredible force of transformation… that inevitably takes us to the Highest Love, in the embrace of the Eternal Beloved.I am currently experiencing just that. What an agony. What a blessing.So good to talk to you ♥️We spoke about healthy vs unhealthy relationships, healing after break up, how to open to men again, why are men sexting, healing sxual abuse, how to shift the dynamic in a relationship to create more love, why am I qualified to talk about all this and so much more.An hour full of gold.Let me know what stood out for you: https://www.instagram.com/sofiasundari/Apply to Fire of Love Mystery Immersion in Portugal if you want to find yourself in a cauldron of Grace and transformation next month: https://sofiasundari.com/fire-of-love

#85Thriving in sx in a Sacred UnionWho do we have to be and how do we really contribute to the creation of the New World? And what do relationships have to do with that? And how does sexuality tie into all of that? I want to take some time and talk about that and connect with you in this episode.Join the free workshop on Tuesday♥️: https://sofiasundari.com/surrender-and-depth-workshopApply for Fire of Love Immersion with me in November: https://sofiasundari.com/fire-of-love

#84Relationships are not meant to make you happier…So what’s the point?Let’s dive in - always love to know your take-aways.Those of you joining Fire of Love Mystery Immersion with me this November… Be ready for a whole new level of opening in Love.I’ve seen miracles upon miracles in these Immersions.Single people have cleared their blocks to love.Couples who were stuck and almost hopeless transformed…Couples who were pretty good left thriving in a mystical dimension in their Union.Apply for the Fire of Love Mystery Immersion: https://sofiasundari.com/fire-of-lovePrep-work begins with our Love Fire Ceremony next Thursday.If you just want to do the Fire Ceremony for now to stop blocking true love from your Life - apply for the SANCTUARY: https://sofiasundari.com/sanctuaryThe Instagram post that I mentioned in this episode: https://www.instagram.com/p/DAliNpsM9E6/

#83Karmic blocks & tests that just won’t let you fully live your Supreme Destiny - how to move through them?Let me know what you received from this and join us for potent 3rd eye work inside of Sanctuary, that will make your mind clear and focused and help clear those karmic imprints and blocks in-between you and your true path.We have a beautiful community of your new best friends on the inside and deep work is beginning today.It’s just 1,200 USD for the YEAR which boils down to 100 per month (!) if you join until Thursday: https://sofiasundari.com/sanctuaryIf you want deeper work - TEMPLE is your place. Tomorrow we begin In Service to Love - my program for anchoring into your Dharma: https://sofiasundari.com/the-temple