EP. 363: Ellina Abovian: Why You Lost Yourself In That Relationship.

This powerful clip is from episode 345.In this microsode, I sit down with Ellina Abovian — journalist and storyteller — for a raw, unfiltered conversation about identity, intuition, and who you become after life cracks you wide open. We talk about early loss, hyper-independence, divorce, and how long-term relationships can quietly erode your voice if you’re not paying attention.We explore ignoring intuition versus honoring it, reclaiming yourself after starting over, and the truth most people avoid: your past didn’t break you — it built you. This episode is about integration over erasure, radical self-trust, and choosing to live from truth, standards, and self-respect instead of fear or approval.Missed the Full Episode? Check it out here:LISTEN TO EP 345 ON APPLE PODCASTLISTEN TO EP 345 ON THE SPOTIFY PODCASTWATCH EP 345 ON YOUTUBE⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBETWITTERTHREADSFIND ELLINA ON:IGPODCASTFREE RESOURCES:🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making. 🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge. 🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses.

This is a compilation episode built around one theme: manifestation without delusion. Not the aesthetic version — the psychological one.Across different conversations, I break down how your dominant thoughts, emotional patterns, and unconscious scripts shape what you experience. The airport story. The autopilot thinking. The frequency you live in daily. And why gratitude isn’t about listing what you have — it’s about reinforcing who you are.This episode is a reminder that you’re not waiting on life. You’re participating in it. And whether you like it or not, you’re contributing to what shows up.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADS📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1 FREE RESOURCES: 🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next 🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com 🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

This Q&A episode is about the difference between imagining who you want to become and actually partnering with her in real time.Future self work only works when it starts with identity: traits, values, boundaries. Then it comes down to the daily micro-moments where I either embody that version of me, or I abandon her. I also get into what to do when life keeps hitting—how to regulate your nervous system, rewrite the story, and stop letting challenge turn you into someone smaller.There’s a line between resilience and performance. Between authenticity and a mask you put on to be liked. This episode is a reminder that the path gets cleaner the second you stop betraying who you are.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADS📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1 FREE RESOURCES: 🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next 🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com 🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

I didn’t plan this episode. It intercepted me. A detour. A pause. A moment where I chose trust instead of irritation, presence instead of control. This is about self-trust in real time. About learning the difference between honoring an emotion and letting it run your life. About recognizing when overwhelm isn’t life being too much — it’s you not being clear enough. And about the quiet power of creating space so you can actually receive what you say you want.Nothing here is theoretical. This is lived. If you’re clinging to something because it’s familiar, even though it no longer fits, this episode will meet you there — and ask you to tell the truth about what you’re ready to release.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADS📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1 FREE RESOURCES: 🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next 🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com 🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

This powerful clip is from episode 342.In this microsode, I sit down with a writer who cares deeply about their work and refuses to create from anything other than truth. We talk about obsession, integrity, and the emotional cost of creating something meaningful.We explore the pressure to stay visible, the illusion of success in the creator economy, and why choosing alignment over approval often requires saying no to money and recognition.We also touch on AI, authorship, and why real human stories and honest work will matter more than ever.If you’ve been questioning your path, your work, or the price of staying true to yourself, this conversation will meet you there.Missed the Full Episode? Check it out here:LISTEN TO EP 342 ON APPLE PODCASTLISTEN TO EP 342 ON THE SPOTIFY PODCASTWATCH EP 342 ON YOUTUBE⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBETWITTERTHREADSFIND KYLE CREEK ON:IGWEBFREE RESOURCES:🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making. 🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge. 🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses.

In this episode, I sit down with neuroscientist, entrepreneur, and writer Anne-Laure Le Cunff for a conversation about curiosity, self-trust, and what it really means to live without needing certainty.We explore why the linear path so many of us are taught to follow often creates more pressure than clarity, and how adopting an experimental mindset can help you build resilience, confidence, and a deeper relationship with yourself. Anne-Laure shares insights from her book Tiny Experiments, including why having multiple identities supports mental health, how self-trust is built through curiosity rather than control, and why the obsession with finding a singular life purpose can actually keep us stuck.This episode is an invitation to loosen your grip on needing all the answers, tune into what feels alive, and give yourself permission to evolve—one experiment at a time.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSFIND ANNE-LAURE ON:IGWEB📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1 FREE RESOURCES: 🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next 🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com 🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

This is a powerful compilation episode pulling together some of the most resonant moments from past conversations on courage, self-trust, and choosing yourself—again and again.This episode is a reminder that courage isn’t a personality trait or a feeling you wait for. It’s a decision. A choice you make when you stop living to avoid loss and start living to win. Across these hand-selected moments, I speak to what it actually means to trust yourself, take risks without recklessness, and step into life knowing you might get hurt—and choosing to show up anyway.If you’re standing at the edge of a new year asking how to be braver, clearer, and more self-led, this episode is an invitation to make 2026 the year you move with your heart, your values, and your full voice.In this compilation, we explore:Why courage is always a choiceHow self-trust changes the way you make decisionsThe difference between calculated risk and recklessnessWhy growth requires action, not just reflectionHow resilience is built by staying in the arenaPress play if you’re ready to make 2026 your most courageous year yet.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADS📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1 FREE RESOURCES: 🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next 🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com 🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

In this episode of The Roxanne Show, I sit down with Dr. Lorna Brudie—dual trained-board certified GYN oncologist and Medical Director at Excel Medical—for a vital conversation about women’s health, hormones, and why our healthcare system has it backwards.After nearly three decades treating cancer, Dr. Brudie explains why she shifted from reactive medicine to proactive care—and how hormone optimization plays a critical role in disease prevention, longevity, and quality of life. We unpack the lasting impact of the 2002 Women’s Health Initiative, the misconceptions it created around hormone therapy, and what women were never fully told.This conversation is about understanding your body, asking better questions, and recognizing that women’s healthcare doesn’t have to begin at crisis—it can start with awareness, education, and prevention.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:Why hormones affect everything from metabolism to cancer riskThe difference between reactive and proactive medicineWhat the 2002 hormone study got wrongHow bioidentical hormones support long-term healthWhy informed women make healthier, more empowered choices⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSFIND DR LORNA ON:IGWEB📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1 FREE RESOURCES: 🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next 🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com 🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

This powerful clip is from episode 340.In this electric microsode, I sit down with Rich — former Navy SEAL, resilience architect, + student of fear — to break down what actually happens inside your mind when uncertainty hits. Through years of lived experience in extreme environments, Rich offers a simple but profound truth:Fear = uncertainty + anxiety. Shift one… and everything changes.We dive into the psychology, the biology, + the spiritual grit it takes to stay grounded when chaos erupts. Rich takes us into the world of SEAL training, freefalls, gunfire, high-stakes decisions — and shows us how to translate those same principles into the everyday battles of the human psyche.This microsode is a masterclass in horizon management, emotional focus, dopamine alignment, + the art of staying HERE instead of spiraling into mental fiction. If you’ve ever felt consumed by anxiety… this one is medicine.TAKE THIS WITH YOU: • Fear isn’t a monster — it’s a formula. Change the variables, reclaim the power. • Anxiety is future-fiction; presence is truth. • When life descends into chaos, ask: What do I KNOW? What can I CONTROL? • A moving horizon keeps the mind steady + the heart courageous. • Dopamine isn’t a reward — it’s a compass. Set better horizons, get better outcomes.Missed the Full Episode? Check it out here:LISTEN TO EP 340 ON APPLE PODCASTLISTEN TO EP 340 ON THE SPOTIFY PODCASTWATCH EP 340 ON YOUTUBE⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBETWITTERTHREADSFIND RICH DIVINEY ON:IGWEBFREE RESOURCES:🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making. 🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge. 🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses:

This is a powerful compilation episode pulling together some of the most resonant moments from past conversations on courage, self-trust, and choosing yourself—again and again.This episode is a reminder that courage isn’t a personality trait or a feeling you wait for. It’s a decision. A choice you make when you stop living to avoid loss and start living to win. Across these hand-selected moments, I speak to what it actually means to trust yourself, take risks without recklessness, and step into life knowing you might get hurt—and choosing to show up anyway.If you’re standing at the edge of a new year asking how to be braver, clearer, and more self-led, this episode is an invitation to make 2026 the year you move with your heart, your values, and your full voice.In this compilation, we explore:Why courage is always a choiceHow self-trust changes the way you make decisionsThe difference between calculated risk and recklessnessWhy growth requires action, not just reflectionHow resilience is built by staying in the arenaPress play if you’re ready to make 2026 your most courageous year yet.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADS📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1 FREE RESOURCES: 🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next 🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com 🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows