Ep. 564 How to be Masculine

Some men resist leveling up their style. But here is the truth. You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up. This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip. Because style is not about being flashy or fake. It is about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and makes women take notice. In this episode, I bring on my Wing Girl stylist Carol to break this down for you. We talk about why your clothing matters more than you think and how the right style choices can completely change how women respond to you. And more importantly, we get into exactly what to wear so you can look and feel your best. If you have ever wondered whether style really makes a difference… This episode will answer that for you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine. This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear. Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done. It is something you have to carry through your life and your relationships. In this conversation, Shawn breaks down how to build that masculine foundation and how to keep it consistent so women feel it when they are around you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest. Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why. The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it. In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account. If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/jpyiooEg9qo Most men know that confidence is the key to attracting women. But here's the problem — confidence is almost impossible to fake. Women see right through it instantly. So what do you do if you're just... not there yet? In this episode, you'll hear from Marcel — a man who walked into my Inner Circle program without an ounce of real confidence. And I could feel it. I'll be honest with you — when I first met him, I felt superior to him. Which is something I feel with most men who come to me for help. But then something happened. Just 5 weeks into the 8-week program, Marcel shifted. The man I was looking at wasn't the same guy who showed up on day one. Suddenly I was seeing him as an equal — as a man any woman could feel genuine attraction for. Not fake confidence. Not "techniques." A real, internal transformation that changed how women experienced him. In this conversation, Marcel walks you through exactly what shifted — the mindset changes, the inner work, and how he went from feeling small and unnoticed to believing in his core that he's a great catch. If you've ever wondered whether real confidence is something you can actually BUILD (not just fake), this episode will show you it's possible — and faster than you think. 🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr This is the same exercise I give to every man in my Inner Circle program. It's designed to help you identify and step into your most confident, authentic masculine energy — so you can show up with presence and power in every interaction with women. 📞 Ready for your own transformation? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod YouTube: youtube.com/marnikinrys IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: ✅ Why faking confidence never works — and what to do instead ✅ The internal shift that transforms how women experience you ✅ How Marcel went from feeling invisible to choosing the women he wants ✅ What actually changed in just 5 weeks (it's not what you think) ✅ The difference between surface-level techniques and real confidence ✅ How to believe in your core that you're a great catch Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/jpyiooEg9qo Most men know that confidence is the key to attracting women. But here's the problem — confidence is almost impossible to fake. Women see right through it instantly. So what do you do if you're just... not there yet? In this episode, you'll hear from Marcel — a man who walked into my Inner Circle program without an ounce of real confidence. And I could feel it. I'll be honest with you — when I first met him, I felt superior to him. Which is something I feel with most men who come to me for help. But then something happened. Just 5 weeks into the 8-week program, Marcel shifted. The man I was looking at wasn't the same guy who showed up on day one. Suddenly I was seeing him as an equal — as a man any woman could feel genuine attraction for. Not fake confidence. Not "techniques." A real, internal transformation that changed how women experienced him. In this conversation, Marcel walks you through exactly what shifted — the mindset changes, the inner work, and how he went from feeling small and unnoticed to believing in his core that he's a great catch. If you've ever wondered whether real confidence is something you can actually BUILD (not just fake), this episode will show you it's possible — and faster than you think. 🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr This is the same exercise I give to every man in my Inner Circle program. It's designed to help you identify and step into your most confident, authentic masculine energy — so you can show up with presence and power in every interaction with women. 📞 Ready for your own transformation? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod YouTube: youtube.com/marnikinrys IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: ✅ Why faking confidence never works — and what to do instead ✅ The internal shift that transforms how women experience you ✅ How Marcel went from feeling invisible to choosing the women he wants ✅ What actually changed in just 5 weeks (it's not what you think) ✅ The difference between surface-level techniques and real confidence ✅ How to believe in your core that you're a great catch Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Become A Man Women Want NOW (Go Here): https://becomeamanwomenwant.com/ Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game. Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of. Once you know this secret, you will be able to attract more women than ever before. You will instantly multiply your dating options and have women craving to be with you. And that’s a guarantee. In this episode, Marni reveals the biggest female turn on of all time — and how you can use that to attract the women you desire. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnKiL462Dng Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom with women ;) MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAA104g1ZVA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another? It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach. In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 personality types. You'll learn how to quickly identify which category a woman falls into, and exactly how to approach, flirt, and connect with her based on her type. Once you understand this framework, you'll never waste time using the wrong tactic on the wrong woman again. You'll know within minutes of meeting her exactly how to create attraction. If you've ever wondered why "being yourself" works sometimes but not others—this episode explains everything. 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/G4cXVFxabO4 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod 👋 Youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another? It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach. In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 personality types. You'll learn how to quickly identify which category a woman falls into, and exactly how to approach, flirt, and connect with her based on her type. Once you understand this framework, you'll never waste time using the wrong tactic on the wrong woman again. You'll know within minutes of meeting her exactly how to create attraction. If you've ever wondered why "being yourself" works sometimes but not others—this episode explains everything. 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/G4cXVFxabO4 👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod 👋 Youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices