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IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 04 - YOU HAVE WOUNDING AROUND MASCULINE AUTHORITYA woman's relationship to masculine authority is a crucial factor in how her energies run towards her man.If she thinks masculine power is benevolent, if she thinks masculine power renders her safer, she will logically be in support of men being in their power, of her own man being in his power.If she thinks masculine power is inherently threatening to women, then overtly or covertly she will try to sabotage men's power.The subtle methods a woman might apply to diminish or sabotage masculine power are many. Here is a short list:By intruding into his decisiveness and decision making.By having him constantly lose with her, because the more a man loses, the more his power diminishes.By sowing doubt into his certainty.By resenting him when he is in his ease and rest.By infantilizing him — often by employing some of the methods listed above.www.OmRupani.org

PODCAST - MODERN MASCULINITY AND MAN-WOMAN RELATINGCONVERSATION TOPICS:The Nice Guy PersonaIt’s expensive for women to get fooled by men and their masks.What is the nice guy trying to convince you of?The Nice Guy persona is a control mechanism.Wanting everybody’s approval makes cowards of men.Limitations with mothers and women teaching men how to be men.Most mothers and women in society are wounded in relation to the masculine.Women who fear men’s aggression cannot train men to wield that aggression.Missing fathers leave the burden of mentoring sons to mothers.Fathers who are domineering and bullying end up prompting their sons towards the nice guy persona.What is the example of a good, strong man?I’ve seen men of valor still stuck in the Nice Guy energy.Courage in life situations doesn’t always translate to courage in interpersonal relationships.Niceness doesn’t create Containment.Nice guys fail miserably at giving women Containment.Dom-sub dynamic is still the best modality I know for teaching people Containment.It’s crucial for men to learn to Contain their women.And it’s an unmitigated disaster when men seek Containment from their women.Tantrikas are some of the most difficult students for teaching Containment. The difference between Domineering and Dominance. The qualifications of leadership.If a man is to lead a woman, her life under his leadership should be better than without it.It should be in a woman’s self-interest to have her man leading her.The only good reason for a woman to surrender to a man is that doing so is a positive experience for her.There is only Spiritual Submission for everyone, men and women.www.OmRupani.org

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IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 03 - YOU ARE ADDICTED TO CORRECTING MENCorrections go down the hierarchy.  Parents are supposed to correct their children.  Teachers are supposed to correct their students.When you pay someone to take you yoga, you graciously receive their corrections.When you pay someone to teach you French Cooking, you receive their adjustments and suggestions.Corrections go down the hierarchy.When a woman corrects her man, she places herself higher in the hierarchy than her man.  This ends up making her STERN MOMMY!The only men who are going to be drawn to stern mommy are underdeveloped men who are still trying to work out the approval issues with their actual mothers.Men who are embodied, men who actually want to lead in their relationships with women are not interested in Stern Mommy.  The addiction in the Modern Woman towards giving corrections to men seems to be such a compulsion, that I am not sure how many women can receive this message.— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

Using the Leadership Polarity bars I use in my classes to explain people’s temperaments and desires and where the discrepancies might be in what people want and what they are able to create in their partnerships.OmRupani.orgwww.OmRupani.org

STUDENT TESTIMONIALS FOR PRIESTESS TRAININGStudent testimonials for my ProDomme Training.Next courses in Jersey City, NJLevel I - September 14 - 20Level II - November 30 - December 6COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/#/the-priestess-of-dark-eros/Please reach out if you have any questions.— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 02 : YOU ARE CONTAINING HIM.This is an unmitigated disaster.  A woman containing her man, or a man repeatedly reaching to his woman for containment is a severe breakdown in hierarchy and polarity.The bulk of the blame for this breakdown I would put squarely on the men.  If you have allowed this to happen in your relationship, the fault is yours.  If you have SOUGHT this out in your relationship with your woman, you have ushered in your own breakdown and misery.On women’s part, there are a few shadow pieces that cause them to seek this reversed polarity or at least say yes to it.  These shadow pieces are also worth examining.On the man’s part, if you are not offering your woman consistent, good Containment, your chances of LEADING her in your relationship are nil.If you are not Containing your woman, your chances of Dominating her erotically are also nil.Many men can’t connect these dots.  I hope this will be clearer to you after this video.— Om RupaniOn women’s part, there are 3 significant shadow pieces that cause them to end up in relationships with men who are not capable of Containing them, and whom they end up Containing instead: You don’t know any better.  You have never been Contained in your life.  You don’t even know that is something you should be seeking from your man.2.  You had a weak father who sought Containment from the women in his life, possibly even you.3.  Your Maternal Energies are misfiring and misplaced.COUPLES’ COURSE : https://omrupani.org/#/dscouples/www.OmRupani.org