Podcast - Modern Masculinity & Man-Woman Relating

PODCAST - MODERN MASCULINITY AND MAN-WOMAN RELATING

CONVERSATION TOPICS:

The Nice Guy Persona

It’s expensive for women to get fooled by men and their masks.

What is the nice guy trying to convince you of?

The Nice Guy persona is a control mechanism.

Wanting everybody’s approval makes cowards of men.

Limitations with mothers and women teaching men how to be men.

Most mothers and women in society are wounded in relation to the masculine.

Women who fear men’s aggression cannot train men to wield that aggression.

Missing fathers leave the burden of mentoring sons to mothers.

Fathers who are domineering and bullying end up prompting their sons towards the nice guy persona.

What is the example of a good, strong man?

I’ve seen men of valor still stuck in the Nice Guy energy.

Courage in life situations doesn’t always translate to courage in interpersonal relationships.

Niceness doesn’t create Containment.

Nice guys fail miserably at giving women Containment.

Dom-sub dynamic is still the best modality I know for teaching people Containment.

It’s crucial for men to learn to Contain their women.

And it’s an unmitigated disaster when men seek Containment from their women.

Tantrikas are some of the most difficult students for teaching Containment. 

The difference between Domineering and Dominance. 

The qualifications of leadership.

If a man is to lead a woman, her life under his leadership should be better than without it.

It should be in a woman’s self-interest to have her man leading her.

The only good reason for a woman to surrender to a man is that doing so is a positive experience for her.

There is only Spiritual Submission for everyone, men and women.

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