Leadership Polarity

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 03 - YOU ARE ADDICTED TO CORRECTING MENCorrections go down the hierarchy.  Parents are supposed to correct their children.  Teachers are supposed to correct their students.When you pay someone to take you yoga, you graciously receive their corrections.When you pay someone to teach you French Cooking, you receive their adjustments and suggestions.Corrections go down the hierarchy.When a woman corrects her man, she places herself higher in the hierarchy than her man.  This ends up making her STERN MOMMY!The only men who are going to be drawn to stern mommy are underdeveloped men who are still trying to work out the approval issues with their actual mothers.Men who are embodied, men who actually want to lead in their relationships with women are not interested in Stern Mommy.  The addiction in the Modern Woman towards giving corrections to men seems to be such a compulsion, that I am not sure how many women can receive this message.— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

Using the Leadership Polarity bars I use in my classes to explain people’s temperaments and desires and where the discrepancies might be in what people want and what they are able to create in their partnerships.OmRupani.orgwww.OmRupani.org

STUDENT TESTIMONIALS FOR PRIESTESS TRAININGStudent testimonials for my ProDomme Training.Next courses in Jersey City, NJLevel I - September 14 - 20Level II - November 30 - December 6COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/#/the-priestess-of-dark-eros/Please reach out if you have any questions.— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 02 : YOU ARE CONTAINING HIM.This is an unmitigated disaster.  A woman containing her man, or a man repeatedly reaching to his woman for containment is a severe breakdown in hierarchy and polarity.The bulk of the blame for this breakdown I would put squarely on the men.  If you have allowed this to happen in your relationship, the fault is yours.  If you have SOUGHT this out in your relationship with your woman, you have ushered in your own breakdown and misery.On women’s part, there are a few shadow pieces that cause them to seek this reversed polarity or at least say yes to it.  These shadow pieces are also worth examining.On the man’s part, if you are not offering your woman consistent, good Containment, your chances of LEADING her in your relationship are nil.If you are not Containing your woman, your chances of Dominating her erotically are also nil.Many men can’t connect these dots.  I hope this will be clearer to you after this video.— Om RupaniOn women’s part, there are 3 significant shadow pieces that cause them to end up in relationships with men who are not capable of Containing them, and whom they end up Containing instead: You don’t know any better.  You have never been Contained in your life.  You don’t even know that is something you should be seeking from your man.2.  You had a weak father who sought Containment from the women in his life, possibly even you.3.  Your Maternal Energies are misfiring and misplaced.COUPLES’ COURSE : https://omrupani.org/#/dscouples/www.OmRupani.org

IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TURNED INTO YOUR CHILD 01 - AFFECTION minus RESPECTThis is the first video in this series.  This lament from women that their husband/partner has become like their child is far and wide these days.  I believe the lament is genuine.  That the problem and breakdown is genuine.I believe this problem is rooted in the collapse of male leadership, and the collapse of RESPECT from the feminine towards the masculine.  Unless we understand this phenomenon in its correct context, and acknowledge the need for healthy hierarchy between women and men, this problem will persist and will be impossible to solve.Modern culture shuns the idea of a hierarchical dynamic between men and women, and yet the collapse of this hierarchy is the root of so much of the misery and failure in man-woman relationships today.—  Om RupaniCOUPLES’ COURSE : https://omrupani.org/dscoupleswww.OmRupani.org

REDUCING FEES FOR D.R. RETREAT FROM $4400 TO $3200I’m reducing the course fee for BDSM FUNDAMENTALS in the Dominican Republic, June 4 - 10.Course fee was $4400.  I’m reducing it to $3200.The fee includes room and board (with a double room).There are some quad rooms also available for $2800.COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/bdsmfundamentals——————————————-Many people are feeling understandably stressed and contracted during this time of global upheaval and war.  I really empathize.  I too have felt the desire to just hunker down.  But, from past experiences, I can share that these times of stress and contraction sometimes also can offer us pathways towards having breakthrough and expansion.As annoying as the Covid period was, in retrospect, it turned out to be a very productive and prolific time for my work.I hope more of you will join for this very rich and tested exploration.  Hope the reduced cost will serve as an incentive.I’m listing below the benefits I have observed students have from taking the BDSM FUNDAMENTALS course.  Both singles and couples welcome.BENEFITS OF TAKING BDSM FUNDAMENTALS WITH OM RUPANIBoth men and women will get a proper sense of the Dominant and the Submissive archetypes.  They will also get a better sense of where on these 4 quadrants do each of them mainly falls.1.  Dominant Man.2.  Submissive Man.3.  Dominant Woman.4.  Submissive Woman.Knowing your constitution more clearly in this manner lays out the path for you to more fully accept who you are, and to also seek the correct partnerships that complement your energies.***************************You will learn to give and receive CONTAINMENT.  This skill alone can be a life-changer for many couples.  Men not giving good Containment to their women is one of the biggest breakdowns in relationships.  Fix this, and a ton of other problems you’ve been having may just disappear.***************************You will receive permission for your fuller erotic expression.  This course container is where you are allowed to pursue your desires and be who you really are.  Everyone is in the same boat in this course, so there is a shared vulnerability that we are all creating the permission field for each other’s erotic expression and the shedding of erotic shame.***************************You will get a SUPERLATIVE education in the BDSM arts in these 7 days!  You will learn body safety, impact play, spanking, flogging, sensation play, pain play, combining pain and pleasure.  And that will also bring us to the midpoint of our week.  From there we explore a variety of psychological play — Humiliation Play, Objectification Play, Exclusion Play.  You will move further into different forms of Role Play — Daddy/Little Girl, Master-Slave, and more playful invented erotic roles.In this one week, you will receive a thorough foundation in the BDSM arts.  You will be well on your way to creating effective and fun scenes with your partners.***************************THE 4 QUADRANTS:1.  DOMINANT MAN.  If you discover that your joy is in dominating your woman sexually and leading her in your romantic relationship, that gives you the clarity about which further skills you need to acquire to fully come into your Dominance.  For you, I highly recommend coming with your woman to the Couples’ Training.2.  SUBMISSIVE WOMAN.  Similarly, you will know that your joy is in picking the right kind of Dominant Man who www.OmRupani.org

LAURIE ELLINGTON PODCAST - THE DISASTER OF THE MODERN WOMAN FALSE ARCHETYPEPODCAST TOPICS:Om’s origin story.The failed experiment of women investigating masculinity.The Modern Woman False Archetype — The Karen archetype.Men have lost their radar while being across from masculine women.How women use their erotic power and energy in a second rate manner.When we use our Eros as a means to some secondary end, we misuse it.Women employing their Eros to prop up their self-esteem is a crucible the feminine has to pass through.Women’s Eros is so much bigger than what most women use their Eros for.The shift happens when a woman begins LISTENING to her Eros, instead of using her Eros as a bargaining chip.The difference is between staying in control and finding a place where you can surrender your control.When you start listening to Eros, Eros is in charge.  Neither partner, neither Dom nor sub, is in charge.When you truly allow Eros to move, often times catharsis happens.  Eros is not hot and sexy; eros is a firehose to our system.Eros is a mess.  It is not controllable.The Modern Woman dreads this chaos of her Eros.The longer a woman avoids her Eros, the greater her fear and aversion gets towards entering her Eros.Men today have become unimpressive.If the woman doesn’t respect the man, nothing else is going to happen.Today, most women don’t respect most men.  That’s why we are in a hole.Most men don’t have the wherewithal to take women into their Erotic chaos.Women seem to be fed up with couples’ work.Women seem tired of working on their relationships with their men.The skilled Dom knows how to listen to their submissive’s system.Women’s feminine embodiment is inspirational and course-correcting for men.Right now, men don’t know how to win with women.CALENDAR OF COURSES : https://omrupani.org/workshops-test/www.OmRupani.org

NEW COUPLES’ RETREAT!Hello Everyone.  I’m very excited to be offering a new week-long, couples’ retreat, especially for men and women who know that they want the man to be in the lead/dominant position in their dynamic, and they want the woman to move deeper into her feminine submission.For the first time, I will be teaching on the topic of RELATIONAL DOMINANCE-SUBMISSION, compared to only sharing about EROTIC DOMINANCE-SUBMISSION (BDSM).This couples’ retreat will be 50% RELATIONAL D/S, 50% EROTIC D/S (BDSM).These are charge-y topics.  There is a lot of misunderstanding and bad ideas around the notions of any hierarchical dynamic, particularly around the idea of a woman submitting to a man.  In this conversation I want to cover two foundation points that might help people clarify their thoughts and expectations around this matter — at least in the manner that I teach these topics.These are the two main cornerstones of how I conceive this exploration: SELF - INTEREST.GOOD LEADERSHIP / GOOD FOLLOWERSHIP.This video/podcast discusses these two cornerstones.One more important point worth touching on early, for all those who think they want to occupy the Dominant position.  These are my 3 basic criteria for what a good Dominant brings — into their Relationship and into the EROTIC field with their submissive: The Dom should deserve to lead their submissive.  Meaning, the Dom should have integrity, be self-contained, keep their word, be consistent, be reliable.  These are not soft prerequisites.The Dom must have the Mastery to Contain their submissive, as well as the Mastery to handle their submissive’s Eros, Under the Dom’s leadership, their submissive’s life and eros should thrive more fully than it would without the Dom’s leadership.COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/dscoupleswww.OmRupani.org

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WOMEN’S EROTIC RECEPTIVITY, RELATIONAL RECEPTIVITY & LIFE RECEPTIVITYLauren and I are prepping for our upcoming training for women : EROS IN HER HANDS.  This training is as much for female practitioners who want to raise their skill levels in handling the bodies of other women.Even more than that, this training is an invitation to ALL women to come into this immersive container for a week to create more erotic flow in their systems — and as a result to widen their Erotic Receptivity channels.Doing a training that expands one’s Eros is amazing enough, but we believe that opening the aperture on one’s Erotic Receptivity also has deep impact on one’s receptivity in other areas of life, including in one’s partnerships.Lauren and I discuss some of these topics in this video.We hope many of you will join us in this amazing training in a month, in Cyprus!Please reach out to us if you have any questions.Course Page : https://omrupani.org/eros-in-her-hands— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org