Opening Up The Marriage, Surrogacy, and Raising Kids with Jess Esfandiary & Her Husband

Join Kelli and Conner as they tackle societal norms, from legacy admissions to the hot-button issue of gun control. They question the value of traditional degrees and advocate for practical skills. Listen in as they channel their fiery passion for representation, diversity, and grassroots change. It's a potent mix of introspection and bold assertions, as they call for the embracing of diverse perspectives and a rebellion against division and compliance. You’ll finish this episode with fresh perspectives, challenged assumptions, and the inspiration to make a difference.Today on OK, Babe.Challenging societal norms: addiction, v*cc1nes and RFK's stanceAddressing addiction and alternative paths to successRepresentation and diversity in universitiesThe importance of practical skills and blue-collar jobsGun control and practical solutions for safer communitiesFollow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowPodcasts: The Naked Mama / Conner WandersThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

This episode sees Kelli and Conner taking a fiery stand against societal and systemic norms that just don't add up. They voice their concern over the madness of the world, including censorship and the controversial topic of men competing in women's sports. With rising distrust in media and government, they call out the manipulations and lies proliferating from those in power. Their impassioned discussion also touches on the demonization of words and the difficult yet deep need for embracing diverse perspectives. In the face of these issues, they advocate for love, health, and understanding as an act of rebellion against the systems that thrive on division and compliance.Today on OK, Babe.Confronting global madness and rising censorshipControversy of gender inclusion in women's sportsThe detrimental effects of manipulation and exploitation by power structuresAccountability crises: from oil spills to Flint's water situationThe demonization of words and embracing diverse perspectivesHealth and love as forms of resistance against divisive societal systemsThis show is supported by:LMNT | Visit drinklmnt.com/kellimoore and get a free sample pack with your purchase.Cured Nutrition | Visit curednutrition.com and use the code KELLIT for 15% off.Follow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowPodcasts: The Naked Mama / Conner WandersThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Get ready for a saucy exploration of intimacy, postpartum, and parenthood in this candid episode with Kelli and Conner. They're flipping the script on the Madonna-Whore complex while spicing up their love life in new and creative ways - from fun fooling around sessions to intentional infusions of novelty. Balancing this hot and heavy banter is a no-bullsh*t talk about the importance of self-care and not losing oneself in parenting. Join K & C for a conversation that's equal parts introspection, naughty fun, and invaluable parenting advice.Today on OK, Babe.Postpartum intimacy: deeper, better sex after kidsConfronting and navigating the Madonna-Whore complexReigniting sex drive with creative, novel approachesNervous system regulation & self-care in parenthoodImpact of fatherhood on empathy and emotional resilienceThis show is supported by:Organifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Cured Nutrition | Visit curednutrition.com and use the code KELLIT for 15% off.Follow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowPodcasts: The Naked Mama / Conner WandersThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this heartfelt episode, Kelli and Conner share the intimate details of the birth of their daughter. From the excitement of starting a family to the challenges of Kelli's 5-week contractions and unexpected twists along the way, get ready to be taken on an emotional journey. Despite the stress and uncertainty, Kelli and Conner remained a strong team, advocating for themselves and each other. You’ll hear Kelli recount how Conner showed up for her, and the terrifying experience of Kelli’s emergency surgery. The episode ends with a listener Q&A, covering topics such as the cost of a home birth, their experiences with parenthood, and Kelli's transition into motherhood.Today on OK, Babe.Challenges K+C faced during Kelli's 5-week contractionsKelli’s near-death birth experience & emergency surgeryHow K+C remained a strong team & advocated for each otherScar tissue: how it affected Kelli's ability to dilate during childbirthChoosing a painful vs. traumatic BirthListener Q&A: cost of home birth, parenthood, breastfeeding This show is supported by:LMNT | Go to drinklmnt.com/kellimoore to get a free sample pack with any orderOrganifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Resources:Referenced Lactation Consultant: @kellyibclc Follow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Kelli and Conner are back with part 2 of their conversation on the hardest parts of marriage. They asked their community, “What did you wish was better, but feel you can’t say?” Get ready for Kelli’s yummy insight and Conner’s tough-love rants as they unpack how to navigate differences in libido, work drive, vulnerability, and even house chores! They also share the key components of productive fighting and address the tender topic of feeling unattracted to your partner, especially when they are out of integrity with their health and themselves.This week on OK, Babe:Emotionally unavailable: getting your partner to open upNavigating differences in work drive: how K+C operateTips for bringing novelty in & spicing up your sex lifeHouse chores as a point of contention: what to doWhat productive fighting looks like for K+CWeight gain & health conversations with your partnerThis show is supported by:Cured | Cured | Use code OKBABE or follow this link to get 20% off your order!Organifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Resources:Referenced book: Mating in Captivity ; The Hard Thing About Hard ThingsReferenced podcast: That Sex ChickFollow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Kelli and Conner are coming at you with part 1 of a 2-part conversation on marriage! After polling their community on Instagram, they are unpacking how listeners feel about marriage, sharing what scares and excites them the most. From losing yourself in marriage, getting complacent, and feeling trapped — K&C break down how they navigate and overcome the most common fears in marriage.This week on OK, Babe:How to maintain independence in your relationshipVoicing your needs to avoid complacencyHow K+C create a dynamic to not feel trapped by marriageDeconstruct your beliefs & fears through self-questioningFears around sexual monogamySpeaking your uncomfortable truths to avoid resentmentThis show is supported by:Cured | Cured | Use code OKBABE or follow this link to get 20% off your order!Organifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Follow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, you get an intimate look at what it means to stay and heal after infidelity with couple Rainier Wilde and Kristi Borne. They talk about the intricacies of human connection, and why life is lived in the gray area, although religion teaches us that it’s black and white. This is a beautiful conversation on ways to uncover your own unmet needs, get curious about your partner, and strengthen the connection of your relationship.This week on OK, Babe:Choosing to stay after infidelityWhat led to infidelity and how Rainier & Kristi healed from itUnlearning religious programming to live in the gray areaUsing curiosity for self-understanding & relationship growthRemoving shame & being fully seen by your partnerThis show is supported by:Cured | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off your order!Organifi | Go to organifishop.com/okbabe Use code OKBABE to get 20% offConnect with Rainier & Kristi:Podcast: Love Like HellIG: @rainierwylde Follow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Kelli’s entered her second trimester and with that came her sex drive! Tune in to hear her embarrassing sex story and how K&C been getting creative with her pregnant belly. They also talk about the difficulties they have faced on going from being monogamish and having threesomes to Kelli’s desire for Conner and women completely vanishing. This week on OK, Babe:Kelli’s sex drive is back: stories from her 2nd trimesterDifficulties K+C have faced during pregnancyHow hormones affect your personality & decision-makingTeaching your kids to be free thinkersCreating a safe space for your kids to talk to youThis show is supported by:Cured | Use code OKBABE or follow this link to get 20% off your order!Organifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Mineralized | Visit mineralized.com and use the code KELLI10 for a discount!Resources:Listen: Opening Up The Marriage, Surrogacy, and Raising Kids with Jess Esfandiary & Her HusbandFollow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Open Late podcast host, Jessica Esfandiary, and her husband are on the show to talk about surrogacy, their polyamorous marriage, and parenting. You’ll hear Jessica’s journey of having a hysterectomy due to cervical cancer, and how her feelings about having children have changed throughout her life. As she and her husband are on the path to surrogacy, and Kelli and Conner with a baby on the way, the couples share thoughts on raising kids and the growth that comes when faced with adversity. Jess and her husband also talk about their polyamorous marriage, the challenges they’ve overcome, and the ways being open has strengthened their marriage. This week on OK, Babe:Seeking surrogacy after cervical cancerJess’s feelings about not being able to carry her own childPolyamorous parentingGrowing through adversityFriction in Jess & her husband’s early days of being openStrong communication & loving each other betterThis show is supported by:Cured | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off your order!Organifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Connect with Jessica:Podcast: Open LateFree Resource: Open Late DictionaryInstagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcastWebsite: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.comYoutube: Open Late PodcastFollow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

When Jordan and Alexa Bowditch join Kelli and Conner, you can expect a spicy and insightful episode... with a lot of banter nobody asked for. Today, they get into navigating conflict and conversations when your partner’s personality is completely different from your own. As both couples dabble in the realm of non-monogamy, they each share their feelings around it since being married. Alexa and Jordan also talk about hiring a sex worker, and how it was the perfect reintroduction into playing with others.This week on OK, Babe:Navigating personality differences in partnershipManaging interruptions when you’re workingIntentional conversations with relationship check-insSeasons of being monogamishChallenges Alexa & Jordan faced leading up to their weddingAlexa & Jordan’s decision to hire a sex workerThis show is supported by:Cured | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off your order!Organifi | Use code OKBABE to get 20% off at organifishop.com/okbabe Follow Alexa & Jordan:Instagram: @thatsexchick ; @conscious.bro Website: sexandlove.coPodcast: That Sex ChickFollow K+C: Kelli: @kellitmoore Conner: @connerwanders OK, Babe: @okbabeshowThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions