Identisophia with Alex Moses

“If you’re feeling burned out or you’re feeling disconnected from your work, stop thinking about it.”Kirsten Breidenbruch is a coach and the founder of Wellth by Kirsten. She spent a decade in finance, mostly at BlackRock in New York, where she started as a 19-year-old intern, worked as a product strategist, became a vice president in ETF capital markets, and helped run the firm’s mindfulness group. She now coaches high performers who feel stuck at the height of their careers.We cover what a high-pressure culture rewards, why effort feels like safety, the cost of being the reliable one, what happens when structure takes over, and how people reconnect with their work.What we covered:Promotions on time or early, and growing more unhappy with each oneThe move to capital markets that exposed the misalignmentThe phone call with her dad: “Am I being ungrateful?”Odin, Yggdrasil and the safe path that isn’t your ownUp or out and the ever-ratcheting pay gradeWhether people want the promotion or just the moneyWork as identity, and effort as proof of worthWalking meditations at BlackRock and the mindfulness group’s shrinking budgetHow organizations love the reliable one to deathBoris Groysberg’s star fund managers who stopped performing after switching firmsGoing from A player to C player in a different team cultureWhen her own coaching business started to feel like a corporate jobMortgages, micromanagement and the $15 lunch expenseCharles Dickens refusing to work past lunchtimeBrooks, Andy Dufresne and freedom as a mindsetThe client who worked less, performed better, and still leftThree practices: a day for yourself, a daily walk or meditation, and clearing your cachePeople:Alex Moses, previous guest on this showArie Kruglanski, psychologist and previous guest on this showJessie Zwaan, author and previous guest on this showDart Lindsley, previous guest on this showBoris Groysberg, Harvard Business School professorAmy Wrzesniewski, organizational psychologistW. Edwards Deming, management thinkerJack Welch, former CEO of General ElectricJoost Minnaar and Pim de Morree, founders of Corporate RebelsBooks:Purpose and Work, Jessie ZwaanChasing Stars, Boris GroysbergArticles:Crafting a Job: Revisioning Employees as Active Crafters of Their Work, Amy Wrzesniewski and Jane E. Dutton, Academy of Management Review, 2001https://journals.aom.org/doi/10.5465/amr.2001.4378011Organizations:Wellth by Kirsten, BlackRock, Corporate Rebels, General ElectricFind Kirsten:Website: https://www.wellthbykirsten.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstenbreidenbruch/Substack: https://kirstenbreidenbruch.substack.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wellthbykirstenMusic licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

“Now he’s got the proof that nobody can think different, nobody can do anything better than he, because all they do is what he tells them to do.”Alex Moses has spent more than 40 years as an entrepreneur and writer, starting with a story published in a Soviet national newspaper when he was seven. He created Identisophia, a framework that explains why intelligent people repeat patterns that work against their own interests.We cover what Identisophia means, the gap between reality and threat, the fears that drive our decisions, the controlling boss who manufactures his own proof, and the six months Alex spent in silence in a Zen monastery.What we covered:Identisophia as the wisdom of identity, built on the Greek philosophiaThe butterfly effect of a single traffic light and how Alex met his wifeCharles Dickens and the long chain of iron, gold, thorns or flowersReality as perception: one person sees a six, the other a nineThe micromanaging owner whose fearful team proves him rightNapoleon Hill’s six fears and the two that occupy us every day: money and egoFear at work disguised as a war to protect our identitiesDan Kahan’s identity-protective cognition and why intelligence builds a better fortressWhy Atomic Habits treats every habit the same, and the conditioned reaction behind the behavior“Truth is a state of being”Six months of silence in a Zen monastery after two strokes, a heart attack and paralysisThe empty Manhattan restaurant that filled within three months on a signed card and a free drinkNeighbors who bring each other food, and saying good morning in North BeachCrocodile Dundee in New York and why Rocky loses the first fightA Soviet childhood and the cartoon of the man paid not to make breadSelflessness as the highest form of selfishnessPeople:Amy Edmondson, Harvard Business School professor and previous guest on this showArie Kruglanski, psychologist and previous guest on this showDan Kahan, Yale Law School professorNapoleon Hill, authorJames Clear, authorThomas Piketty, economistCharles Dickens, novelistO. Henry, short-story writerBooks:Identisophia, Alex MosesThink and Grow Rich, Napoleon HillAtomic Habits, James ClearGreat Expectations, Charles DickensCapital in the Twenty-First Century, Thomas PikettyArticles:The polarizing impact of science literacy and numeracy on perceived climate change risks, Dan Kahan and colleagues, Nature Climate Change, 2012https://www.nature.com/articles/nclimate1547Find Alex:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alex-moses-/Music licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

“I am yet to meet someone who wakes up in the morning and says, the main thing I am absolutely pumped to do today is to engage with HR products and services.”Chris Metcalfe is the founder of Red Oak and cofounder of PX as a Product, where he helps people teams think and work like product teams. Born in New Zealand and based in Dublin, he spent nine years building Workday’s core HCM product, led product and design at Docebo, and headed product for people and culture at Primark.We cover work as a literal product, the multi-sided business, engagement surveys, the four risks every product team manages, and where a people team can start.What we covered:Sourcing bathroom products in China at 23 for the family businessJoining Workday in Dublin among its first 100 peopleWhy Chris treats work as a product in the literal senseLabor as a negative good, and why machinery sits on the asset side of the ledger while people sit on the cost sideUber Eats and DoorDash as three-sided marketplacesThe company as a platform, with employees outside it in the same way as customersJames’s time as an Uber driver, from tier perks to drip-fed onboarding videosHappy deliveries as a leading indicator of customer and employee valueNike and durable problem spacesThe center of expertise as the least important thingThe four product risks: value, usability, feasibility, and viabilityEngagement surveys as “a total waste of time,” and the NPS score nobody can act onA Workday deployment for 40,000 people in nine months, and the job rec to paycheck journeyWorkforce planning hidden inside the job requisition processStarting with why the company existsThe manager who asked James six or seven questions about what he wanted from his workThe ski resort as a participatory productPeople:Dart Lindsley, previous guest on this showLuke O’Mahoney, of SapienX, previous guest on this showMegan Bernard-May, previous guest on this showJessica Zwaan, author and previous guest on this showGerry Murphy, previous guest on this showDave Ulrich, HR scholarNiccolò MachiavelliBooks:Built for People, Jessica ZwaanPurpose and Work, Jessica ZwaanThe Prince, Niccolò MachiavelliArticles:Reimagining Work as a Product, Eric Anicich and Dart Lindsley, Harvard Business Review, 2024https://hbr.org/2024/11/reimagining-work-as-a-productOrganizations:Red Oak, PX as a Product, SapienX, Workday, Docebo, Primark, SAP, Uber, Uber Eats, DoorDash, Nike, AppleFind Chris:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-metcalfe-red-oak/Website: https://red-oak.agencyCoaching program: https://pxasaproduct.comNewsletter: https://metcalfec.substack.comMusic licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

“When they say let’s take the emotion out of the decision, that’s even an emotional decision.”Louis Roden is the founder of Inspire Consulting Group, an international leadership development consultancy, and has spent more than two decades in organizational development and service culture across hospitality, logistics, and finance. His book Everything Is Personal: Embracing Stewardship in the Workplace and Everyplace argues that leaders who hide behind “it’s just business” erode the trust their people need.We cover the phrase “it’s business, not personal,” stewardship, why work feels neutral for so many people, how leaders build trust day to day, and why the golden rule gets it wrong.What we covered:The COVID lockdown and the nudge from his wife that got the book finishedMark Twain’s “Be good and you will be lonesome” and Following the Equator as the first travel blogWhy nobody says they loved a job because they were well managedWork as a gray, neutral 80 percent of waking lifeWhy Louis can’t stand the phrase work-life balanceStewardship of the people who hand a leader a big piece of their livesLayoffs, hard feedback, and the trite cover of “it’s not personal”Why no one can take the emotion out of a decisionFrederick Taylor, scientific management, and work as a negative goodRational and irrational anger, and empathy for joy as well as sadnessTrust built in small moments and eroded by paper cutsThe bartender whose smile disappears when the bar gets busyThirty authentic seconds over a scheduled one-hour one-on-oneThe weekly check-in as a box to tickFlipping the golden rule: treat people the way they want to be treatedThe Princess Bride, Inigo Montoya’s sword, and anyone selling a magic bulletPeople:Mark Twain, authorDaniel Goleman, psychologist and authorSimon Sinek, authorFrederick Taylor, father of scientific managementDart Lindsley, previous guest on this showRené Descartes, philosopherAntonio Damasio, neuroscientistErnest Hemingway, authorJohn Steinbeck, authorBooks:Everything Is Personal, Louis RodenFollowing the Equator, Mark TwainEmotional Intelligence, Daniel GolemanDescartes’ Error, Antonio DamasioOf Mice and Men, John SteinbeckThe Grapes of Wrath, John SteinbeckOrganizations:Inspire Consulting Group, Gallup, StarbucksFind Louis:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/louisroden/Website: https://inspirelsc.comBook: https://everythingispersonal.orgMusic licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

“In a novel context, a context like science or R&D or innovation or entrepreneurship, mediocrity would be no failures.”Amy Edmondson is the Novartis Professor of Leadership and Management at Harvard Business School. Her research made psychological safety a core idea in modern management, and she is the author of Teaming, The Fearless Organization and Right Kind of Wrong, which won the Financial Times and Schroders Business Book of the Year in 2023.We cover the failed hypothesis that launched her career, why bad is stronger than good, the three types of failure, Toyota’s Andon cord, near misses, whether failure is a privilege, and what leaders can do to build psychological safety.What we covered:The 1990s hospital study where the better teams seemed to make more medication errorsThe realization that those teams were reporting more of their errorsAwfulizing, then a looking-out-the-window moment in a 15th-floor PhD officeInterpersonal risk and why psychological safety matters most in knowledge workWhy we notice negatives faster than positivesGoing from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasmBasic, complex and intelligent failures, and the five criteria for an intelligent oneAstro Teller at X: if you’re not failing, you’re not taking the right risksRewarding teams for shutting down failing projectsThe fundamental attribution error, at work and at homeJames Reason’s Swiss cheese model in aviation and healthcareToyota’s Andon cord, from loom machines to a San Francisco trolley car, and why most pulls never stop the lineNear misses as good catches, and the case for a near miss dayWhy failure is a privilege, and how leaders can level the failure playing fieldWhether encouraging failure means celebrating mediocrityThree moves to build psychological safety: frame the work, ask questions, respond productivelyPeople:Arie Kruglanski, psychologist and previous guest on this showRoy Baumeister, social psychologistTeresa Amabile, Harvard Business School professorAstro Teller, head of X, Alphabet’s moonshot factoryJames Reason, British error psychologistBooks:Right Kind of Wrong, Amy EdmondsonThe Fearless Organization, Amy EdmondsonTeaming, Amy EdmondsonThe Progress Principle, Teresa Amabile and Steven KramerThe Hidden Brain, Shankar VedantamArticles:Bad Is Stronger Than Good, Roy Baumeister, Ellen Bratslavsky, Catrin Finkenauer and Kathleen Vohs, Review of General Psychology, 2001https://doi.org/10.1037/1089-2680.5.4.323Prospect Theory: An Analysis of Decision under Risk, Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky, Econometrica, 1979https://www.jstor.org/stable/1914185Organizations:Harvard Business School, X, Google, Toyota, MicrosoftFind Amy:Harvard Business School: https://www.hbs.edu/faculty/Pages/profile.aspx?facId=6451Website: https://amycedmondson.comMusic licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

"You kind of sell your soul, it's like blood money a little bit."Jessie Schofer is the founder of Stakkd, a database that helps HR teams find their way through a crowded technology market. She came to HR from projects and transformation work, led people strategy and change inside hyperscaling unicorns, and this year moderated two debates I took part in, and lost.We cover what she saw from the moderator's chair, why people arrive at a new job engaged and lose it within months, why HR keeps falling short, and why she has been saying HR is dead for years.What we covered:Why we still need managers in a world of AI, from the debate moderatorThe scale-ups where every team wrote its own operating manualPoor relationships at work as the root of Jessie's most disengaged yearsBeautiful mission statements at companies that are still hard to work forRicardo Semler's diseconomies of human scale, and Dunbar's numberZapier welcoming candidates who pull out of its hiring processNew hires who were sold a story and ask, "What did I sign up to?"Calibration meetings and the five-out-of-five ratingAI performance ratings as scientific management 2.0Tiny teams, the pizza rule, and splitting teams before they grow too bigWhy individual pay for performance discourages admitting mistakesThe director of comp Jessie told not to joinWhy HR is burnt out, and the growth playbooks she wants to throw outRenaming HR as organizational successMaslow, duty of care, and whether we will look back on disengagement as unfairStakkd, its HR tech database, and Stakkd 2.0People:Matt McFarlane, founder of FNDN and previous guest on this showRicardo Semler, former CEO of SemcoRobin Dunbar, evolutionary psychologistW. Edwards Deming, management scholarJack Welch, former CEO of General ElectricAmy Edmondson, Harvard Business School professorAbraham Maslow, psychologistBooks:Close the Gap, James Alexander SeechurnArticles:The HR Infrastructure Gap No One Is Talking About, FNDN Series with Matt McFarlane, 2026https://fndnseries.fndn.com.au/podcast/s/fndn_series/the_hr_infrastructure_gap_no_one_is_talking_about_with_jessie_schofer_founder_at_stakkdOrganizations:Stakkd, Semco, Zapier, General Electric, Haier, Mondragon, Handelsbanken, FNDNFind Jessie:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessieschofer/Stakkd: https://stakkd.techMusic licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

Is it possible to run a professional services company without individual goals, without billable hours, without performance ratings? Gerry Murphy and Nua Group certainly think so...Gerry Murphy is a co-founder and partner at Nua Group, the San Francisco firm that describes itself as the anti-consulting firm. He qualified as an actuary in Dublin, spent eight years in Europe, and was a senior partner at Mercer with earlier leadership roles at Watson Wyatt before he, Joe and Chris set Nua up ten years ago.We cover the anti-consulting model, what happens to accountability when you delete the machinery, managers who never wanted the job, job architecture as a system of control, and whether any of it survives at ten thousand people.What we covered:Anti-consulting as a playful poke at billable hours, sales goals and internal meetingsClients love their consultants, not the firms those consultants work forTwo internal meetings every two weeks, and what the rest of the week is forNua consultants asking the partners whether they could please track their hoursThe nickel and diming that comes with the hourly modelEveryone at Nua gets the same bonus, whatever their individual performanceThe bonus that moves from 20 percent to 21 and pleases nobodyFour job levels on paper, two in practice: partner and consultantMajors and minors in place of practice areasGerry's rules of management, starting with do nothing, ending with two blank rulesManagers who never wanted the job and took it for the payMercer's manager charter, and Jensen Huang's thirty direct reportsElecting your own manager, and where Gerry pushes back on the ideaThe client whose job architecture, bonuses and equity created an incredible amount of workWhether AI makes experience and education requirements irrelevantStock options, RSUs, dilution and growthThe Ryland Report, and why the team asked for more financial detail, not lessScaling to ten thousand people, and the naming of Uber NuaPeople:Joe Farris, co-founder of Nua GroupPaul Reiman, compensation consultant and previous guest on this showDan Walter, equity compensation specialist and the first guest on this showJack Stack, who led one of the most leveraged employee buyouts in US historyJensen Huang, CEO of NvidiaBooks:Close the Gap, James Alexander SeechurnArticles:Are CEOs Paid for Performance? Evaluating the Effectiveness of Equity Incentives, Ric Marshall and Linda-Eling Lee, MSCI ESG Research, 2016https://www.msci.com/research-and-insights/blog-post/are-ceos-paid-for-performanceOrganizations:Nua Group, Mercer, Watson Wyatt, Radford, Irish Pensions Trust, Morning Star, Nucor, Handelsbanken, Buurtzorg, Nvidia, Gallup, MSCI, StripeFind Gerry:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gerrymurphynuagroup/Website: https://www.nuahr.comEmail: [email protected] licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

"Best practice is either a product that somebody wants to sell and as a result it's common, but not necessarily proven as best."Paul Reiman is the founder and managing partner of Novo Insights, a Chicago-based compensation consulting firm, with nearly 30 years in compensation as a consultant and in-house leader. His book Pay Differently, out October 5, argues that pay transparency exposes the shortcuts compensation teams have relied on for decades.We cover the myth of best practice, the loyalty tax, job architecture as the office refrigerator, why the offer letter draws less scrutiny than the merit cycle, and whether sales commissions survive consumption-based selling.What we covered:Best practice as common practice with a better publicistThe telecom sales leader who asked a 22-year-old Paul, "Best practice according to whom?"The unproven rule of three measures in a sales plan, none under 20 percentWhy candidates who refuse to apply without a range move employers faster than legislationThe $100 toaster on sale for $50 the next dayThe fintech firm that turned down a star analyst asking for a $1 million salaryThe 75th percentile, and why a percentile is not a philosophyJob architecture as the office refrigerator and its 180 ketchup packetsThe manager who automates three roles and loses every direct reportThe loyalty tax, and why stayers earn less than leaversMerit budget benchmarking, and why to budget 9 percent next yearSame-store pay growth, borrowed from StarbucksLori the recruiter, her Coffee is for Closers mug, and fixing the front doorSelf-set pay at Semco and Smarkets, and crunchy or creamy peanut butterThe printing company that replaced commissions with salary and profit shareThe hand-drawn overhead transparency behind the 50/50 pay mix slidePeople:Alfie Kohn, author and previous guest on this showDan Ariely, behavioral economist and previous guest on this showAndrea LaRowe, 37signals, previous guest on this showStefan Gaertner, Syndio, previous guest on this showDaniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky, psychologistsTeresa Amabile and Steven Kramer, researchersBoris Groysberg, Harvard Business School professorLouis Kelso, economistPhilip Slater, sociologistJerry Colletti, sales compensation consultantBryan Briscoe, Paul's longtime co-presenterBooks:Pay Differently, Paul ReimanChasing Stars, Boris GroysbergThe Progress Principle, Teresa Amabile and Steven KramerArticles:Prospect Theory: An Analysis of Decision under Risk, Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky, Econometrica, 1979https://www.jstor.org/stable/1914185Organizations:Novo Insights, 37signals, Semco, Smarkets, Haier, Morning Star, Nucor, Handelsbanken, Spotify, Salesforce, StarbucksFind Paul:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulreiman/Website: https://www.novoinsights.comBook: https://paydifferently.comMusic licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

Dan Ariely is the James B. Duke Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Economics at Duke University and a founding member of the Center for Advanced Hindsight. He co-founded Irrational Capital and has written eight books, including Predictably Irrational and Misbelief, which he wrote after a COVID conspiracy theory cast him as one of its villains.We cover the vintage Swiss Army knife model of decision-making, the India experiments behind Large Stakes and Big Mistakes, what Fortune 500 satisfaction surveys predict about stock returns, fairness as a judgment no regression will settle, and the writing Dan is doing now about the end of life.What we covered:States that introduced fines for texting and driving and watched accidents riseThe brain as a vintage Swiss army knife, adequate at many tasks, built for a world we have leftCar engineers who design against human error, social media engineers who design for itPrepaid debit against credit, weekly loads against monthly, Monday against FridayThe India experiments, where a month of pay riding on a puzzle made people worse at solving itThe brain surgeon offered $100,000 and threatened with a hitman in parking spot 33Which survey questions predict alpha, and which predict nothingPerceived fairness outranking salary level, and the argument Dan could not win on Wall StreetThe company that spent a day celebrating failed projects and paid half a million dollars to the winnerBureaucracy as an engine whose definition of success is nothing happeningThe hospital janitor we want to stop doing their job, and what job descriptions cost usTheory X, Theory Y, and the ancient craftsmen who spent half their time on beautyTwo years spent interviewing the people who wanted him tried, imprisoned, or hangedWriting as a way to make sense of his mother's death, and the three books he has in progressPeople:Alfie Kohn, author and previous guest on this showSimon Jones, narrator of Dan's audiobooksEd Lazear, economist behind the Safelite windshield studySam Glucksberg, psychologist of the candle problem experimentsDouglas McGregor, originator of Theory X and Theory YBooks:Predictably Irrational, Dan ArielyMisbelief, Dan ArielyThe Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Douglas AdamsArticles:Large Stakes and Big Mistakes, Dan Ariely, Uri Gneezy, George Loewenstein and Nina Mazar, The Review of Economic Studies, 2009https://academic.oup.com/restud/article/76/2/451/1594205Organizations:Duke University, Center for Advanced Hindsight, Center for Advanced Bureaucracy, Irrational Capital, Harbor Capital, Alphabet's X, SafeliteFind Dan:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danariely/Website: https://danariely.comSubstack: https://danariely.substack.comBureaucracy: https://bureaucracy.danariely.comMusic licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.

Matt McFarlane and I met earlier this year on opposite sides of a debate about pay for performance. His team argued in favor and won the audience vote 62 to 38, and a week later he published a piece saying he had never been a fan of it. That opening carries the rest of the conversation: what pay for performance sets out to do, why the mechanism breaks at nearly every link in the chain, and what companies use instead once they stop treating an annual rating as the engine of everything.Matt runs FNDN, a compensation consultancy for startups based in Australia. He built the pay structures at Oyster that carried the company from 200 to 600 people across 70 countries, and he now hosts the FNDN Series podcast and newsletter and runs the Startup People Summit, a one-day APAC event for people leaders inside high-growth companies. We cover the companies that have taken negotiation out of pay entirely, the grip that benchmark data holds over compensation decisions, the tension between fairness and individual pay in collaborative work, what happens to the manager's role as AI absorbs more of the coordination, and the practical side of leaving a salaried job to consult.What we coveredWhy Matt argued for pay for performance in a debate and against it a week laterThe three percent merit budget, and what the annual salary survey roundups tell usRewarding a standout year with money, or using it to raise the standard across a teamWhy Matt left the job he enjoyed most in his career to build a compensation practiceHow his client window moved from 50 employees to 100 or 150, and what breaks at that sizeBenchmarking as a source of cognitive closure, and the living wage argument underneath itRunn's single rate per role, and the salary trajectory that made their people harder to poachCarta, 37signals, Buffer, and PayPal as models that remove the negotiationFairness as a relative judgment, and how quickly a good salary becomes an unfair oneWhy US companies resist narrow bands, and what wide bands say about trust in hiringThe bad hire label, the myth of the A player, and where responsibility for performance sitsThe player coach, the stretched leader, and ClickUp's million-dollar salary bandsWhat Matt tells anyone thinking about leaving a salaried role to consultPeopleMatt McFarlane, founder of FNDNRowan Savage, co-founder and CTO of RunnAndrea LaRowe of 37signals, a previous guest on this showBooksExtreme Ownership, Jocko Willink and Leif BabinArticles"How to Become a HR Consultant," Matt McFarlane, FNDN Series #7https://fndnseries.fndn.com.au/p/how-to-become-a-hr-consultantOrganizationsFNDN, Startup People Summit, Oyster, Runn, Carta, 37signals, Buffer, PayPal, Zappos, ClickUp, Buurtzorg, Gallup, RadfordFind MattLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewmcfarlane/FNDN: https://www.fndn.com.au/FNDN Series podcast and newsletter: https://fndnseries.fndn.com.au/Startup People Summit: https://startuppeoplesummit.com/Music licensed through Soundstripe. Code: DLQOKHPSWUMSTCMH.