4 Tips for Actually Healthy Validation

Really deep questions + pleas for encouragement are the soundtrack of my life!  AND... it's the vibe of this Q&A session.  "Whatchya think about climate collapse, grandchildren, fertility, water?" I have so many thoughts to share––many of them are OUT THERE. "I get a lot of anxiety when I have something good on the horizon. Tools to deal with that?" Let me explain why this is a natural (albeit annoying) human phenomenon. Eps 123 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is a shadow-light conversation. Might be comforting, might be provocative. May it be healing. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 123: Somaveda — we are an affiliate! Berkey Water Filters Sacred Weekends issue on FABRIC XXX

To be seen, heard, felt, understood is a HUMAN REQUIREMENT. But there are healthy, more conscious ways to go about getting these essential needs met.  Today’s episode is a highlight from our recent Life Workshop: ACTUALLY HEALTHY VALIDATION where we explore: When and why do you reach out for validation? What part of you is seeking validation? What part of you is giving validation? If you were more Heart Centered, how would that shift your relationship to validation? This episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (122) is for creating relationships that are resentment free…and healing. Approach your relationships with respect rather than… lashing out. Curiosity rather than… projection. Appreciation rather than…resentment. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 122 The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close TONIGHT, June 30 at midnight.

I started the Heart Centered Membership a bit begrudgingly and over-identified as an introvert 🤗. Now, it's the diamond of everything I do. I feel humbled, guided and honour-bound to our community. In love. Thursdays at 1pm are my favourite. I’ve made heaps of cringey career mistakes. And… the ONE thing that I’ve done right, that’s fuelled so much growth, got down to a specific kind of courage. The courage to change in front of people.  Episode 121 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is for Creatives, Leaders, Team Builders. Connectors. Teachers. Over-identified introverts and those of us who need to change up how we've been doing things. Most of us. And through my growth story, I’m weaving in an unabashed invitation to get into the Heart Centered Membership. Registration week ends, Sunday, June 30, at midnight. Then we get cozy and I keep the audiobooks flowing forever more. Crush your gimmicks. Let your heart lead. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 121 The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close Sunday, June 30 at midnight.  

It’s THE SUMMER OF LOVE in the Heart Centered Membership! Heart centered relating is the relief we’re looking for in therapy sessions, and from our friends-bosses-exes-families. It’s what every Soul in this hurting, beautiful world is meant to experience. Take this summer to learn about your gorgeous, loving nature… To let some relationsh*t go… To get your needs met… with Love. Today’s podcast episode is featuring my HEART OPENER: 4 Teachings for Courageous Intimacy––with Yourself and Pretty Much Everyone video series. I’ll get you thinking-feeling-healing about: Self Compassion Scripting Ego vs. Soul Relationships Accepting the Ebb + Flow The Side Effects of Manipulation WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 120) is ready for you… to open your heart! What people are saying about the 4-PART HEART OPENER SERIES: “This indeed helped me release deep pent up grief - what was surprising is that I could tap into compassion and what it would say to me and tears flowed and I cried…” – Dunja R. “Beautiful reminder of the need to be gentle with ourselves (as we are with others probably…need to turn that inward). Beautiful and timely . 🙏🏻💕” – Bobbi B. “I am definitely struggling with this exact thing for a while now. I have an event playing over-and-over in my mind but all I've been telling myself is that I "need to move on from it, just get over it," ect. I will find compassion and courage today to let myself feel it and feel through it. Be kinder.” – Lis M. “Brilliant! Thank you Danielle for this powerful 5 min. tincture of practicing active Love in relation to myself and everyone else. I’m gonna be listening to this over and over. The questions you pose here are exactly what I need. So much gratitude to you for being a way shower!!” – Margaret M. “Thanks for this powerful reminder. Fear vs love, wounded vs solutions - it is a journey that every time I think I am making some progress the universe checks me, lol. Growth...humbling growth. Thank you!!” – Bobbi B. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 120 The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close June 30 at midnight. Save your seat for TODAY’S Membership Open House — Wednesday, June 26 at 1pm PT | 4pm ET (and get the replay if you can’t attend live. Get instant access to the FREE Heart Opener Video Series: 4 Teachings for Courageous Intimacy––with Yourself and Pretty Much Everyone video series. You’ll receive 4 micro videos + questions to get you thinking-feeling-healing PLUS our bonus - a meditation for the Summer Solstice portal.

This BONUS podcast episode is for all my Creative, Potentially Reluctant Marketer AND all the Gifted Writers and Project Managers: 🤔 Blocked? Do you feel stuck about what to post? 😴 Tired? Does it feel like it’s taking way too long to polish your copy? 🥴 Overwhelmed? It is tough to choose from ALL the options for creating? 🤨 Flustered? Are you working with people who don’t get your “voice?” 🤑 Wunnering? “Will this copy actually convert people?” Baby! I have some SYSTEMIZED CLARITY for you.  WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 119) is ready… with some guardrails for creating––courses, social media copy; books, even! Wooooo!. Here’s a highlight from our recent Creative Strategy Session—a monthly offering exclusive to the Business Track of the Heart Centered Membership. Bring your open mind, your ambitions, all of your confusion AND confidence. I’ve so got you! Word UP! What people are saying about the 14 GUIDELINES FOR CREATIVE INTEGRITY creative strategy session: “This is such freedom!!!! I love the idea of just being ok with a feed of substance that doesn't worry about all the fancy schmancy design!” - Stephanie W. “This is EXACTLY what i needed today/at this moment in my life/week/month/business. I’m relaxing and rejoycing inside.” - Beth C. “Thank you! This was incredibly valuable.” - Nancy D. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 119: The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close June 30 at midnight. NEW! Get instant access to our FREE Woo Woo Business That Works webinar, and resource guide.  Grab your FREE Heart Centered Business Bundle. MORE FLOW, LESS FORCE. This is the universe’s success blueprint—and now it can be yours too. The Heart Centered Business Bundle puts the same principals Team D uses into YOUR hands. Get instant access to the FREE Heart Opener Video Series: 4 Teachings for Courageous Intimacy––with Yourself and Pretty Much Everyone video series. You’ll receive 4 micro videos + questions to get you thinking-feeling-healing PLUS our bonus - a meditation for the Summer Solstice portal.

I make zero apologies for doing what others might call “woo woo” business. Our astro and seasonal orientation is wise and EFFECTIVE. And by “effective,” I mean that the nervous system of our business is HEALTHY––not much drama, team cohesion, and our bottom line is also healthy and happy. Why do I NOT have meetings on Mondays? Why do I launch my podcast on Wednesdays? When is the best day of the week for your dreaming and creative jamming? This episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (118) is a wise word on the woo that works in work and life. With Wuv, Danielle  MENTIONED IN EPISODE 118 NEW! Get instant access to our FREE Woo Woo Business That Works webinar, and resource guide.  Grab your FREE Heart Centered Business Bundle. MORE FLOW, LESS FORCE. This is the universe’s success blueprint—and now it can be yours too. The Heart Centered Business Bundle puts the same principals Team D uses into YOUR hands. Get instant access to the FREE Heart Opener Video Series: 4 Teachings for Courageous Intimacy––with Yourself and Pretty Much Everyone video series. You’ll receive a micro video + question every morning to get you thinking-feeling-healing and our free bonus - a LIVE Summer Solstice meditation. The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close June 30 at midnight.  

This is about as full range spirituality as I've ever gotten! I talk about… Eyebrow lamination and bikini waxing Learning how to be a more "Benevolent Queen Leader" in EVERY area of my life (not just work) The ALCHEMY OF VOWS: Intention + sound + community = VERY POWERFUL did you know that my wedding dress was actually a bathing suit cover up that I accidentally purchased online from Australia? Oopsie. But...it worked! And I'm sharing some of the rituals that we created that could be used for all kinds of important passages in life. Other keywords: "gluten free wedding," "no pre-nup" and "people gonna be people." This episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Ep 117) is the BTS of our wedding, but also the profound learnings that came from the planning and the actual crossing of a threshold. If you want the WEDDING ALBUM that accompanies this, mucho beautiful photos are all in my last SACRED WEEKENDS issue. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 117 🎧 Please subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. Upcoming episode is the BTS of the full range of highly unpleasant (eyebrows gone wrong) and ecstatic (vows ALCHEMIZE you) life learning compressed into the wedding-palooza 📖Get the WEDDING ALBUM in SACRED WEEKENDS 17. Subscribe here to access it. 📸Anastacia Chomlack, photographer. A session with her will set you UP. She travels, or come to Vancouver. @anastaciachomlack 🥰 Danielle + Will Love Story Playlist 🖇️They print everything: VistaPrint 🐼Jack Chow Insurance Agency—great Vancouver tourist spot AND you can get hitched! 🥑Nelson The Seagull fave cafe-workspot in Gastown 🙌 Smile Thai Massage on Robson Street 🦞Granville Island, The Sand Bar  🥕The Stanley Park Teahouse 🧘Conscious Lab, in Gastown, Vancouver available to rent for high-vibe groups 🧑‍🍳 Beyond Nourished beautiful meal delivery + catering in Vancouver. The founder, Rachelle also has an excellent Holistic Chef Certification program! 💃Ashley Turner, a depth psychotherapist is offering the Metamorphosis Midlife & Menopause Mentorship 💅Spirit Nails, on Robson Street in the West End 👩‍❤️‍👨 Sweetheart Events is best best best 🕊️ Rev. Thomas DeSchutter, Unity Minister, spiritual coach + director 🏨The Loft in Yaletown  😍Chela Davison, master coach and creatix  🎉Lee-Anne Ragan, master facilitator and corporate trainer 😀Digital photo booth! 🎂 gluten-free Lemonade Bakery 🍦Rain or Shine organic ice cream 💙Ally Global Foundation to help support survivors of human trafficking 💜The Downtown Eastside Women's Centre 💍Kingdom Jewelry  

After we have poured our love into the container of a relationship, we know that ebb and flow is life. We get really, really intentional about creating space for vulnerability because that's the sacred stuff. We have faith that we can repair pretty much anything. There are a lot of universal reasons that relationships thrive. V.S. (our resident energy healer) and I have collaborated to narrow this down to our take on the 10 key reasons. Today’s EPS 116 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE provides practical insights on thriving in your relationships.  Let's get into healing, expanding, communication, communion, intimacy, fulfillment, relief and some PLAY with all of the peoples in our lives… especially the key people, the core people, the significant others. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 116: NEW! Save your seat for our FREE Woo Woo Business That Works webinar, LIVE on Tuesday, June 11 at 1pm PT | 4pm ET.  The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Get on the wait list for when doors open later this month.  Sacred Weekends is my (always free) newsletter for devotion + lifestyl’ish. 220k subscribers are digging it! 2 Fridays a month.

Discernment is a power tool.  We can be loving and open hearted AND, have a keen listening if someone is trustworthy. We can give the benefit of the doubt and rely on the Divine…. AND… we can  hear from a place of wisdom––so we protect what’s precious, collab with people who can rock with us, and just generally have more grace in our lives. Today’s EPS 115 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is some discernment coaching.  We can love EVERYBODY. We should team with people we can trust––and the signs are all there. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 115 The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit… and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Get on the wait list for when doors open in June.

Metrics. Obsessive goal-setting. Hacking. “Disruption” for the sake of being disruptive. These tactics are the opposite of life-giving. How can we restore ourselves and work after these recent years of whackness? Curious how a multi- 7-figure business can thrive without perpetuating burnout culture?  LESS FORCE, MORE FLOW. When we say, “We're going with the flow,” what we're really declaring is that we’re in sync with The Divine Creative Principle. Life force. It’s ever-generative—there’s always more where that came from. Here’s a highlight from our LEAD LIKE A MOTHER Business Masterclass where we explore how to create a *self managing* team––for more excellence and less… managing. WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 114) is ready for you…to lead with integrity, kindness and big picture thinking––your mother would approve. What people are saying about the LEAD LIKE A MOTHER Business Masterclass: "What you said "radiance is the transformation of your suffering" has brought some healing to my heart and soul. Thank you for creating a safe space here that I felt strong coming to. Thank you everyone here for your authenticity." — Tara "So refreshing to have this type of information/ sharing/ real conversations.  Thank-you so much!! Leaving the call with lots of gratitude." — Margaret M. "This was a fantastic reminder of how to trust and keep iterating. I'm at a pivotal moment in my business... It now feels like going with flow." — Colleen K. MENTIONED IN EPISODE 114 Principles for optimizing + simplifying entrepreneurship… for EVERYONE. Get instant access to the LEAD LIKE A MOTHER business masterclass + audiobook—and learn to build a self-managing team by leading like a mother. NEW! Grab your FREE Heart Centered Business Bundle. MORE FLOW, LESS FORCE. This is the universe’s success blueprint—and now it can be yours too. The Heart Centered Business Bundle puts the same principals Team D uses into YOUR hands. LIMITED SEATS! The INNER CIRCLE Business Accelerator is open accepting applications until May 23. Mentorship for your quantum leaps—6 months to clarity + prosperity…with integrity. The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Get on the wait list for when doors open in June.  Sacred Weekends is my (always free) newsletter for devotion + lifestyl’ish. 220k subscribers are digging it! 2 Fridays a month.