1104. Why Tying Your Happiness to Business Success Is Holding You Back

Most entrepreneurs believe that if they just work harder, push longer, and sacrifice more, success will finally bring peace, happiness, and fulfillment. But what if tying your happiness to your business success is the very thing preventing your business from growing? In today's episode of The Kelly Roach Show, Kelly breaks down the 3 B's that quietly derail entrepreneurs who emotionally attach their worth and happiness to business performance, and why learning to separate the two is essential for long term growth, health, and leadership. Drawing from over a decade of building multiple companies and leading through every season of business, Kelly explains why businesses naturally experience cycles of winter, spring, summer, and fall, and how your ability to remain mentally and emotionally steady determines whether you scale or stall. This episode is a powerful reminder that your worth is not measured by revenue, and that becoming a resilient, four-season CEO is the key to building a sustainable business and a meaningful life. In this episode, you'll learn: Why businesses naturally fluctuate (and why that's completely normal) Why being happy outside of business makes you a stronger CEO How to build the mental and emotional strength required to lead through every season TIMESTAMPS: 03:01 – 04:45 — The reality of business seasons (winter, spring, summer, fall) 04:46 – 06:30 — Why tying happiness to performance keeps you unhappy most of the time 06:31 – 08:10 — How stress, panic, and overwhelm shut down decision-making 08:11 – 09:40 — The first B: Burnout (and why it really ends businesses) 09:41 – 11:10 — The second B: Bad decisions driven by fear and scarcity 11:11 – 12:40 — The third B: Bigger life problems that spill into health and relationships 12:41 – 14:00 — Becoming a four-season CEO and separating worth from results RESOURCES For more faith leadership content, subscribe to Kelly's Substack: https://kellyroachofficial.substack.com/  Called to Lead: The Premier Women's Leadership Event happening in South Florida on October 1st, 2026: https://www.sandiglandt.com/called-to-lead  Subscribe to Kelly's weekly newsletter for tips and strategies delivered straight to your inbox: https://kellyroachinternational.kit.com/news  Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial/  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/   

Substack has quickly become one of the most talked-about platforms in our community, and for good reason. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly why I'm going all in on Substack in 2026, how we're monetizing it inside our business, and how it fits into a long-term strategy for freedom, thought leadership, and scalable income, all without ads, sales calls, or constant live content. You'll learn: How we're using archived thought leadership to build a paid ecosystem Why Substack is one of the most powerful tools for authors, deep thinkers, and established leaders The exact tier structure we're using (free, paid, founding member) and why How Substack supports book launches, passive income, and audience ownership in ways other platforms don't If you're a CEO, author, or thought leader looking to get paid for your ideas, build a high-intent audience, and reduce dependency on algorithms, this episode will give you the clarity you need to decide if Substack belongs in your 2026 strategy. And, Ii you missed Part 1, be sure to listen to that episode first: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/1098-why-im-betting-on-substack-for-the-future/id1052353755?i=1000741820357  TIMESTAMPS:  02:30 – 05:30: What Substack actually is 08:30 – 11:30: How we're using archived content to build a monetized ecosystem without creating new content 14:30 – 17:30: Our tier structure explained: free, paid, and founding members 17:30 – 20:30: Why in-app purchases and Apple Pay are game-changers for conversion and consumer behavior 20:30 – 23:30: Owning your audience: why Substack + books is the future: owning your audience 23:30 – 26:00: How Substack fits into a long-term ecosystem: book sales, email, trust-building offers, and passive income Resources & Links Subscribe to The Sacred Art of Selling on Substack: Free, Paid, and Founding Member tiers available {founding member subscriptions must be done through web browser or mobile browser and are not currently supported on the Substack app}: https://kellyroachofficial.substack.com/  Join The Sacred Art of Selling book waitlist: https://thekellyroach.com/bts Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial/  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/     

In this powerful conversation, Kelly sits down with leadership teacher and author John Wang, author of Big Asian Energy, to unpack why so many successful leaders feel exhausted, disconnected, and stuck despite "doing everything right." John shares his deeply personal journey from achievement-driven success to near-collapse, and the inner leadership shift that changed how he builds businesses, leads people, and teaches others to do the same. This episode is for CEOs, founders, and business owners who know they've outgrown an old identity but feel uncertain about what's next. Together, Kelly and John explore how authentic leadership, embodied presence, and aligned decision-making are becoming the defining advantages for leaders in 2026 and beyond. TIMESTAMPS: 02:11 – 04:45 What Big Asian Energy is really about (and why this message actually applies to EVERY leader) 04:46 – 07:30 Achievement culture, "shoulds," and the hidden cost of self-abandonment 07:31 – 10:05 The moment everything broke: burnout, internal bleeding, and the body's warning signs 10:06 – 12:40 The real cause of burnout 12:41 – 14:55 Comparison, people-pleasing, and the "Frankenstein identity" many leaders build 14:56 – 17:10 The turning point: discovering purpose and leading from a single guiding word 17:11 – 19:30 Why leadership doesn't have to look loud, aggressive, or performative 19:31 – 21:35 The seven self-sabotage patterns leaders don't realize they're operating from 21:36 – 23:40 "There are no business relationships. Only relationships" (and why this matters) 23:41 – 25:20 Sitting in the puddle: how presence builds trust faster than problem-solving 25:21 – 27:10 How embodied leadership creates calmer teams, stronger cultures, and better results RESOURCES:  Get the Book Big Asian Energy: The UnapolageticGuide for Breaking Barriers to Leadership and Success by John Wang: https://a.co/d/fMNpdPE  Connect with John Wang on Instagram: @johnwangofficial Website: https://bigasianenergy.com Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial/  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/ 

In today's episode of The Kelly Roach Show, Kelly breaks down the six core offer layers and go-to-market strategies she's used across her business portfolio, sharing the good, the bad, and the ugly of each. From selling my time one-to-one, to physical products, to network models, digital products, coaching and consulting, community, and memberships, she walks through what worked, what didn't, and how her perspective has evolved heading into 2026. You'll hear: Why some "popular" business models are massively overrated Which models quietly outperform everything else long-term What she's doubling down on (and what she's officially done with) How to choose offers based on where the market is going, not where it's been If you're a business owner evaluating your offers, planning your next evolution, or questioning whether your current model can scale sustainably into the future, this episode will help you think more clearly, strategically, and honestly about what comes next. Timestamps 01:11 – 06:10: One-to-One Consulting 06:11 – 10:20: Physical Products 10:21 – 14:55: Network & Decentralized Community Models 14:56 – 17:45: Digital Products 17:46 – 20:20: Coaching & Consulting done right 20:21 – 22:50: Memberships 22:51 – 24:00: Final Rankings for 2026 + Brand Power Strategy Resources: Join The Virtual Business School membership: https://go.virtualbusinessschool.com/joinvbs  Learn more about our CEO Consulting: https://programs.thebusinessadvisory.com/consulting  Legacy Leaders Mastermind: https://join.thebusinessadvisory.com/join  Join our Called To Lead evenet happening October 1st, 2026 in Boca Raton: https://www.sandiglandt.com/called-to-lead  Grab your FREE copy of Kelly's Bestselling Book, Bigger Than You: The Entrepreneur's Guide to Building an Unstoppable Team: https://books.thebusinessadvisory.com/book-opt-in-org   Subscribe on Substack to learn more about how we're leveraging the platform for brand growth and monetization:  https://kellyroachofficial.substack.com/.  Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial/  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/ 

As 2025 comes to a close, many entrepreneurs are eager to "turn the page" and move on. But here's the truth: nothing actually changes unless you do. In today's episode of The Kelly Roach Show, Kelly introduces a powerful concept every leader needs to reflect on before stepping into 2026: your resilience resume. Kelly walks through how the biggest challenges she faced in 2025, including a massive business model reinvention, became the foundation for deeper authority, stronger IP, and greater impact. If you're wrapping up 2025 feeling stretched, tested, or exhausted, this episode will reframe everything you've walked through and help you step into 2026 with clarity, confidence, and conviction. In this episode, you'll learn: How your hardest seasons become your most valuable marketing and authority assets Why leaders must be willing to struggle publicly to create new solutions How to turn personal and business challenges into IP, positioning, and impact TIMESTAMPS: 01:11 – 02:30 — What is a "resilience resume" and why it matters 04:16 – 06:20 — How challenges increase authority and leadership capacity 06:21 – 08:45 — Kelly's biggest business reinvention and what it required 08:46 – 10:35 — Turning survival into solutions that serve thousands 10:36 – 12:30 — Why leaders must be willing to struggle publicly 12:31 – 14:00 — How your hardest season becomes your most powerful IP 14:01 – 15:40 — Building your resilience resume for 2026 RESOURCES: Join Kelly's weekly email newsletter for more strategies to turn 2026 into your best year in business: https://kellyroachinternational.kit.com/news Subscribe to Kelly's Substack, The Sacred Art of Selling: https://substack.com/@kellyroachofficial  Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/ 

The way consumers buy has fundamentally changed (and, the businesses that win in 2026 will be the ones that understand why). In this episode, Kelly breaks down the five most important consumer trends shaping buying behavior in 2026 and beyond, and explains how to build your offers, marketing, and sales systems to match where the market is actually going.  This episode will give you insight into long-term shifts in trust, spending habits, personalization, community, and brand values, and how to use them to create predictable, sustainable growth. If you want to scale without burnout, stop chasing trends, and position your business to thrive in the next era, this episode will give you the clarity and direction you need. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – 02:20: Why understanding consumer behavior is the real competitive advantage in 2026 02:20 – 06:55:  How subscriptions can attract high-ticket buyers when done right 06:55 – 12:10: How ease of use impacts retention, utilization, and upsells (and, what most businesses are getting wrong about automation).  12:10 – 17:35: How paid communities create faster results and deeper trust... and what's resurging in the new year 17:35 – 23:10: Why personal brand will dominate in 2026 23:10 – 29:40: How personalization increases conversion and lifetime value 29:40 – 34:20: Building systems your team can actually run with The Virtual Business School RESOURCES: Join The Virtual Business School and master predictable sales in 2026: www.go.virtualbusinessschool.com/joinvbs    Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/ 

After a decade of watching platforms rise and fall, trends come and go, and algorithms work against creators, Kelly is breaking down Substack, the platform she didn't expect to love. In this episode, Kelly shares why Substack has quickly become one of the most exciting platforms she's seen for thought leaders, authors, and entrepreneurs who want to monetize depth, not trends. You'll hear the numbers that caught her attention, why smaller audiences are outperforming massive followings, and how Substack creates a rare combination of trust, reach, and ownership that most platforms no longer offer. Kelly also explains how she's using Substack to: Create momentum for her upcoming book, The Sacred Art of Selling Build a passive income stream managed entirely by her team Repurpose years of intellectual property without adding more work Go deeper into thought leadership without diluting core programs If you create long-form content, have years of IP sitting unused, or want a platform that rewards trust over aesthetics, this episode will open your eyes to a different way forward. TIMESTAMPS: 01:11 – 03:15 — Substack stats that actually matter  03:16 – 05:10 — Why smaller audiences are outperforming massive followings 06:51 – 08:40 — Immediate monetization and passive income potential 08:41 – 10:20 — How Kelly is structuring her own free, paid, and founding memberships 10:21 – 12:05 — Using Substack to support a future book launch 12:06 – 13:45 — Repurposing years of unused IP without adding workload 13:46 – 15:40 — Who Substack is best for and how to get started RESOURCES Follow Kelly's newsletter, The Sacred Art of Selling, on Substack: https://kellyroachofficial.substack.com/.  Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial/  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/

In this BONUS live training, Kelly Roach walks you through a 5-pillar mind mapping framework for creating your most aligned, impactful, and profitable year yet. You'll learn why time, not talent, money, or hustle, is the ultimate differentiator between where you are now and where you want to go. This training challenges the two extremes entrepreneurs often fall into: over-planning without execution or over-executing without strategy,  and shows you how to bring both into alignment. Kelly explains why congruence with your calling, intentional life architecture, and clarity of vision must come before business goals if you want sustainable growth without burnout. You'll also hear how faith, family, fulfillment, and finances can coexist, and why your business should fuel your life, not compete with it. This episode is a foundational listen if you're ready to stop grinding and start designing a business that supports your purpose, priorities, and your next million-dollar breakthrough. Timestamps:  03:31 – 07:45: The real constraint in business 07:46 – 12:30: Over-Planning vs Over-Executing (and, finding the sweet spot)  12:31 – 18:45: 5 pillars of million-dollar breakthroughs (overview) 18:46 – 27:30: Aligning Your Business with God's Calling, Your Gifts, and Your Identity 27:31 – 35:15:  The Five Fs: Faith, Family, Fitness, Freedom, Fulfillment, Finances 35:16 – 41:45: Clarity, Purpose, Priorities, and Values  41:46 – 47:30: Why Fewer Goals Create Bigger Results (And, The Power of the Big Three) 47:31 – 52:15: Daily Reps, Metrics, and Sustainable Momentum 52:16 – 56:00:  Invitation to Strategic Planning Intensive Resources:  Join me on Friday, December 19th for my live Strategic Planning Session to map out your million-dollar game plan for 2026 (and get your 2026 Unstoppable Business Planning Tool included with your purchase): https://thekellyroach.com/2026planner  Can't swing the session? Grab your 2026 Unstoppable Planner here: https://unstoppableplanner.myshopify.com/products/2026-unstoppable-planner  Follow Kelly on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial/  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/  

After running the Legacy Leaders Mastermind for over a decade, Kelly is making one of her boldest strategic evolutions yet.  In today's episode, Kelly pulls back the curtain on what's changing inside Legacy Leaders for 2026 and why these shifts reveal powerful lessons every entrepreneur can apply to their own offers, teams, and growth strategy. You'll hear how feedback loops from elite clients sparked the creation of a team-level mastermind for COOs, CMOs, and senior leaders — a move designed to accelerate growth, increase profitability, and eliminate founder dependency at scale. This episode is a masterclass in: Scaling through people, not pressure Using pilot programs to test innovation responsibly Designing offers that align with mission, not just market demand Whether you lead a million-dollar business or are building toward that level, this conversation will challenge how you think about masterminds, mentorship, team development, and long-term legacy. TIMESTAMPS 01:31 – 03:45: Why evolution is non-negotiable 03:46 – 06:10: The biggest mastermind problem elite entrepreneurs face 06:11 – 08:40: Your most underused growth asset in business 08:41 – 11:15: The new Team Leaders Mastermind: COOs, CMOs & right-hand leaders 11:16 – 13:30:  Breaking founder dependency 13:31 – 15:40: Using pilot programs to innovate without overcommitting 15:41 – 17:20: Aligning new offers with mission (and when to say no) 17:21 – 18:50: What you can't see when you're inside your own business 18:51 – 21:00: How to apply these lessons to your offers + next steps RESOURCES Watch the 2–10 Million Dollar Roadmap Training: https://accelerator.virtualbusinessschool.com/info-session  Legacy Leaders Mastermind program overview & Application: https://join.thebusinessadvisory.com/join  Grab your ticket and join us at the Legacy Leaders In-Person Mstermind Retreat, happening March 10th and 11th in Boca Raton, Florida: https://advancesociety.org/2026rsvp  Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial/  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect with Kelly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/ 

In this episode, Kelly sits down with Maria Fontana, an integrative healing, mindset + lifestyle strategist and author who isdedicated to helping individuals elevate their lives, habits, and wellness. Maria has spent nearly four decades building businesses, reinventing herself, and helping others cultivate success while prioritizing faith, family, and personal fulfillment. In this episode, Kelly and Maria discuss:  How to stay grounded and aligned while scaling a business to 7-figures and beyond Lessons learned in 2025 to set yourself up for a successful 2026 The pitfalls of chasing shortcuts in business and the power of consistency The importance of faith, mindfulness, and soul-centered practices in leadership The Mindset and Alignment Collective, and how it's different from typical personal development programs This episode is for entrepreneurs, leaders, and high-achievers who want to grow their business without sacrificing purpose, wellness, or faith. Timestamps 01:09 – 02:40: Maria's faith-driven approach to entrepreneurship 02:40 – 05:30: Lessons from 2025: flexibility, grace, wellness, and self-care 05:30 – 08:13: Why longevity in business depends on mental, spiritual, and emotional health 15:15 – 18:16: The launch of Maria's new offer & community approach 18:16 – 21:46: Success with Virtual Business School & VBS Gold 21:46 – 26:14: Minimalism, freedom, and keeping the main thing the main thing 26:14 – 29:06: Maria's faith practices, connecting to God, and spiritual grounding Resources Claim your 7-day FREE trial of The Mindset and Alignment Collective at https://www.mariafontana.com. Learn Kelly's simple sales system inside The Virtual Business School Membership to build trust and close sales consistently and predictably, for just $97/month, no contract: https://go.virtualbusinessschool.com/joinvbs  For more business strategy directly to your inbox, oin Kelly's FREE weekly email newsletter: https://kellyroachinternational.kit.com/news  Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyroachofficial/  Follow Kelly on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.roach.520/  Connect with Kelly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyroachint/