Keeping Quiet Keeps the Peace

I was taught that keeping quiet kept the peace until I realized whose peace is it keeping?After voicing my opinion in a video last week, I received a few comments that read, "I used to like you, but now I need to unfollow." My first reaction was to laugh it off, but as I sat with it, I felt as if I did something wrong. I knew I stood behind what I said in that video, I was proud of myself for voicing how I felt, but I still felt as if I made a mistake by posting it because it upset a few of my followers. This isn't the first time I've felt shame for speaking my mind and truth. There has been multiple times in my life where I have defended myself, stood up for others, or even just shared an opinion, just to be told that I was starting drama or fueling a fire. I have tried to bite my tongue and stay silent to avoid being called an instigator or drama queen but in doing that, it has also caused me pain.If you have to sacrifice your voice to keep the peace, it is no longer peaceful.....so let's talk about it. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit betterhelp.com/TNTC today to get 10% off your first monthTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Gatorade - If you have a lot on your to do list or you want to make your hot girl walk even better, put your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster! Use code BOOST20 for 20% off!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie -Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://ollie.com today for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThemSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: Google FormTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

ADVICE SESSION #10!!!!! ALL THINGS FALL 🍂🌲🧸☕️🧣 In today’s episode, I’m answering your seasonal questions to help you get through the next month.How to deal with seasonal depression, being alone during the holiday seasons, balancing work and festive activities, feeling guilty about food, stressing about money, skincare tips and how to dress cool but comfy this fall!!!!!WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: Google Form Trying Not to Care is sponsored by CUDDLY - Donate to CUDDLY today! Head to cuddly.com/TNTC and help make a difference!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Gatorade - If you have a lot on your to do list or you want to make your hot girl walk even better, put your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster! Use code BOOST20 for 20% off!SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's much easier to point out when someone else makes a mistake or is acting out of character than it is to check yourself. In today's episode, I talk about holding ourselves accountable and checking ourselves when we're not being the best that we can be. It's important to take a step back and look at how we're behaving and how we're treating others. It's not enough to talk about how good of a person you are; you also need to show up as her. Actions speak louder than words.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Hero Bread - Get 10% off your order at hero.co and use code TNTC at checkout!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://ollie.com today for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThemTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Gatorade - If you have a lot on your to do list or you want to make your hot girl walk even better, put your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Cora - Get 20% off Cora.Life/TNTC with promo code TNTCHurricane relief fundraisers and wishlists:https://www.volunteerflorida.org/donatefdf/https://www.gofundme.com/f/enxh8-hurricane-relief-fundhttps://www.gofundme.com/c/act/hurricane-relief/floridahttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38FGHB09I7GL4?ref_=wl_sharehttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38FGHB09I7GL4?ref_=wl_sharehttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3R45PD0O48IKE?ref_=wl_share&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa5VFSI-Tj1AqazONdNtdFatdaeRxevgGWT85IY4d2-ECHJs2ncPT5Dw-M_aem_m77LTniLRwBGsW7OAmyneQSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Thank you for leaving my life (I never would have walked away on my own)!!!!! In today’s episode, I talk about being grateful that relationships and friendships didn’t work out. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by CUDDLY - Donate to CUDDLY today! Head to cuddly.com/TNTC and help make a difference!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZocDoc - Find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today atzocdoc.com/TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by FÜM - To get a free gift with your Journey Pack, go to tryfum.com and use code TNTC!Hurricane relief fundraisers and wishlists:https://www.volunteerflorida.org/donatefdf/https://www.gofundme.com/f/enxh8-hurricane-relief-fundhttps://www.gofundme.com/c/act/hurricane-relief/floridahttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38FGHB09I7GL4?ref_=wl_sharehttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38FGHB09I7GL4?ref_=wl_sharehttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3R45PD0O48IKE?ref_=wl_share&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa5VFSI-Tj1AqazONdNtdFatdaeRxevgGWT85IY4d2-ECHJs2ncPT5Dw-M_aem_m77LTniLRwBGsW7OAmyneQSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you can’t stop overthinking, listen to this episode. Last week I went on my first brand trip, and it was INCREDIBLE. The days leading up to the trip, I was so nervous and was thinking about every possible thing that could go wrong. It got to a point where I almost backed out of the trip because I was overthinking and SPIRALING. Thankfully, I pulled it together and forced myself to go, and I’m so glad I did because it was a huge reminder that OUR THOUGHTS AREN’T ALWAYS CORRECT. Just because I tell myself that I’m going to have a bad time or that no one’s going to like me doesn’t mean that’s what’s going to happen. In today’s episode, I talk about why we overthink, how overthinking robs us of experiences, and letting go of control. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit betterhelp.com/TNTC today to get 10% off your first monthSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I COULD CRY TEARS OF JOY THAT FALLS FINALLY HERE!!!!! Today's episode is all about glowing up this new season. As the seasons change, so should you! Listen to this episode if you want to become a better version of you, change your mindset, switch up your routine, or just be more present this season. We're talking new priorities, being intentional, making changes, and things I'm doing this fall to make my life better. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by DIME Beauty - Go to DIMEBeautyco.com to try out some clean and affordable skincare!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by CUDDLY - Donate to CUDDLY today! Head to cuddly.com/TNTC and help make a difference!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Eharmony - Get who gets you, on Eharmony. Sign up today!SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you're a people pleaser, listen to this episode. We are stepping into a new era where we are saying no to other people so we can say yes to ourselves. Here are a few things that I am going to be doing less of for my own good.Not taking on more than you can handleNot being contactable 24/7Staying away from people who make you feel badNo longer being negative or meanNo longer allowing disrespectNo longer being mean to yourselfSaying no to others to say yes to yourselfTrying Not to Care is sponsored by ZocDoc - Find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today atzocdoc.com/TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Hero Bread - Get 10% off your order at hero.co and use code TNTC at checkoutTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Eharmony - Get who gets you, on Eharmony. Sign up today!SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected]\Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’ve ever felt like giving up because things aren’t working out the way you planned, listen to this episode. There’s been so many times where I felt discouraged because I saw others achieving things quicker than me. I would doubt myself and think that I was less deserving or even believe that things just weren’t going to work out for me. Today’s episode is a reminder that it doesn’t matter the speed in which you do things, but the direction you move in to achieve them.  ⭐️DREAMS DON’T WORK UNLESS YOU DO! SO DON’T GIVE UP⭐️Trying Not to Care is sponsored by DIME Beauty - Go to DIMEBeautyco.com and get 25% off site wide during their Anniversary Sale! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Babbel - Get up to 60% off at babbel.com/TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Eharmony - Get who gets you, on Eharmony. Sign up today!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Hero Bread - Get 10% off your order at hero.co and use code TNTC at checkoutSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This is your reminder that it's only a bad day, NOT A BAD LIFE. If you're feeling down or things just aren't going your way, listen to this episode. I talk about being consumed with negativity, feeling your emotions, taking things slow, doing more of what you enjoy, letting go of what you can't control, and having gratitude for the little things. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by FÜM - To get a free gift with your Journey Pack, go to tryfum.com and use code TNTC!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by CORA - For 20% off, use my promo code TNTC at cora.life/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - For 10% off your first month, visit betterhelp.com/TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Eharmony - Get who gets you, on Eharmony. Sign up today!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by DIME Beauty - Go to DIMEBeautyco.com and get 25% off site wide during their Anniversary Sale!SOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It can be tempting to make your life seem much more luxurious and interesting than it actually is. We think if we post videos at a cool party or photos of us in an expensive car, it will wow others and make them envy our lives. But what is more important? People thinking our lives are so cool, or us actually enjoying our lives? Instead of focusing so much on trying to curate this perfect image of what our life is supposed to look like, let's focus on trying to make our life something worth living. Stop focusing on what your life looks like and focus on what your life feels like.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by DIME Beauty - Go to DIMEBeautyco.com and get 25% off site wide during their Anniversary Sale!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZitSticka - Get 30% off the best-selling patches on Amazon with code PATCHES30Trying Not to Care is sponsored by AG1 - Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/TNTCSOCIALS AND LINKSInstagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care InstagramTikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTokYoutube: Subscribe hereRevolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTXTNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bfBusiness Inquiries - [email protected] / [email protected] by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.