Why You Keep Picking Men With Potential (And How To Stop!)

In this episode, we’re diving into the popular “black cat” theories that teach women to manipulate, lie, and play games to seem unattainable – and why these tactics don’t work with secure masculine men. Instead, I’ll show you what actually works: becoming a woman who challenges a man to have her through self-respect, high standards, and emotional connection.  We’ll break down why operating from fear and control puts you in a defensive and offensive position, making a man see you as a competitor rather than a partner. I’ll explain how a secure man needs to pursue, be challenged, and lead to fall in love – and how this process transforms him into the best version of himself.  If you’ve been feeling stuck in the dating world or frustrated by tactics that backfire, this episode will shift your perspective and give you the tools to create real, lasting connection with the right man.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:  - Why “playing hard to get” doesn’t work with a secure masculine man.  - The difference between being hard to get and being challenging to have – and why it matters.  - How fear and manipulation create a dynamic of competition, not connection.  - The key things a man needs to fall in love: pursuing, giving, leading, and being challenged.  - How high standards inspire a man to rise to meet you. Click here for the show notes. RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

If you feel like I did, tired of men going from hot and into you to cold and uninterested, this might just be why. If you want to learn how I went from believing I intimidated men or needed to be less successful in order to get pursued or taken care of. To now finally understand the truth about men and now experience feeling like the prize with him….him seeing you as the woman he would do anything and everything for....this episode is for you.  Click here for the full show notesWhat You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why men are internally motivated and how this affects relationships.  The subtle ways women unintentionally push men away by trying to make things easier for them.  How to inspire a man to feel strong, capable, and deeply connected to you.  The long-term effects of bringing out the worst in a man vs. the benefits of bringing out the winner in him.  CLICK HERE to register for The Winner Method LIVE Masterclass on Tuesday, December 17th @ 12:00 pm PST. CLICK HERE to get all the details. RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

If you're ready to be with a man that has you on his mind all day, is counting down the days till your next date and is EXCITED to commit, this episode is for you.Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the emotional heavy lifting in the relationship? Do relationships feel more like work than play? You know, he's on your mind all day but it's because you're not sure if he likes you or what his intentions are and you find yourself wondering if he feels the way you do and it's more of an anxious over-thinking. You're always waiting for the next time he reaches out because his current rate of connecting never really feels like enough. You feel like you have to hold back on expressing how you really feel about him whether it's with a fun text message to tell him he's on your mind or with a fun date idea, for fear of looking too needy and fearing pushing him away. Or do you feel like you're almost trying to prove that you're the best woman for him by changing who you are, being over accommodating or overlooking red flags? Then this episode is for you. In this episode, we explore why the selling approach, although it sounds helpful, actually pushes men away. I’m going to share how you can shift your mindset to create a dynamic where HE steps up and chooses you.  I break down the difference between “selling yourself” and “helping him buy.” You’ll learn how to stop over-functioning, release control, and embrace pacing and proximity to foster mutual respect, trust, and attraction.  If you’re tired of chasing and ready to become the kind of woman a man can’t wait to commit to, this episode is for you.  What You’ll Learn in This Episode:- Why “selling yourself” to a man backfires and makes him question your value.  - How to help a man buy by guiding him to naturally recognize your worth.  - The role of pace, proximity, and liberty in creating a healthy relationship dynamic.  - Common mistakes women make in dating, like doing all the work or over-proving themselves.  - Practical strategies to shift from “proving your worth” to inspiring him to step up.  RESOURCES:Go to the full show notes HERE. RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

f you needed a sign to let go of the wrong guy, this is it!In this week's episode I'm gonna share 10 ways to respectfully tell him you're not interested. I'm also going to let you in on 6 reasons why you're staying that you're probably not aware of . I'm also going to share the dangers of dating the wrong man too long and why you need to let him go asap! Listen to get all the details!  Want the free download? CLICK HERE! Watch the video episode on Youtube by CLICKING HERE. Get the full show notes by CLICKING HERE. RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

Dating can be tricky to navigate when you want to attract a Godly man and you want your love life to honor and glorify God. In this episode I'm sharing the 4 main ways I use the Bible to help me date according to The Word and NOT like the world. Why? So you can attract a Godly man instead of a worldly man. I share scripture, concepts and tips so make sure you listen all the way to the end!Click here for the full show notes.Click here to watch the video podcast on YouTube. RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

Ohhh I've been waiting to share some wisdom with you wonderful ladies and this week is the week. In this episode, I'm sharing the mindset strategy I created last year (and that I now teach my clients) in order to exude confidence, femininity and positivity. It quickly gets you out of negative thought patterns and sabotaging behaviors that keep you from attracting a great man. Listen to learn all about the With Or Without You vibe, what it is and exactly how to use it!Click here for the full show notes. Want to learn ALL the "with or without you" strategies in one great system? Click here to get the Feminine Attraction System and start transforming immediately!Interested in working with me privately for 1:1 coaching? Click here to schedule a free consult with me. RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

Society has been telling you how you to choose a partner and it's all wrong. As a woman of God, there are ways to date and choose a man and I believe the world, your flesh and the enemy have tainted the way you perceive men and how you choose a man and it's had you focused on the wrong things.  I'm going to share what these 3 common misconceptions are, what the truth is and how to apply them in order to finally choose the best man for you. Listen to the full episode to learn the TRUTHS and exactly how you can apply them. Click here for the full show notes.RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

This episode is going to change your life. I'm sharing exactly why the beautiful masculine energy of money and men feel difficult for you to attract. Yes...money and men have masculine energy. They each protect and provide for you, the feminine. And if you don't have either of them in abundance, in this episode I'm going to explain why this is happening.  Listen to learn exactly what all the symptoms are of someone who doesn't trust masculine energy, why this started, how to stop it and how trusting and loving masculine energy will transform your life forever!!!Click here to listen to the podcast mentioned in this episode on Attachment Styles.Click here for the full show notes. Click here for the full show transcript pdf. RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

Watch last week's podcast video episode on Youtube HERE. Join the waitlist to work with me HERE. Get the Feminine Attraction System now by clicking here!RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.

Welcome back to another episode of the Blooming Podcast!If you're a strong, successful, smart and independent woman and you find yourself always dating guys that only have potential.... you're dating guys that they're either have all their stuff together but they don't know how to love you or they know how to love you but they don't have their stuff together...or they have neither and you're just picking the guys that are just  completely unavailable in every way, this episode is for YOU.I'm gonna explain to you why you're picking guys with potential and you're NOTchoosing the guys that you really consciously super, super, very intentionally want, the guys that deliver on all their promises. You know these guys, healthy, secure, masculine. They can protect. They provide. They're loving, and they're loyal. I'm gonna explain exactly why this is happening, keep on listening.Watch the full video podcast episode on Youtube click HERE.Listen to the episode for all the details.QUICK HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS EPISODEWhy you choosing the men that can’t love youThe 3 different types of men with “potential”Why you subconsciously attach to men with potentialHow you stop subconsciously attaching to men2 ways to finally feel secure within yourself (a secure man or create it within yourself)RESOURCES FOR YOUWant his heart? Bring out the WINNER in him. Discover the proven process to attract a man that adores you, matches your effort and makes you a priority in his life because he knows your value. Because when he feels like a champion, YOU become the prize he'll do anything to have. Click here to save your free seat to The WINNER Method Masterclass. Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. Connect with me on Instagram HERE. Follow me on Tiktok HERE.Learn more about me and my coaching. Visit HERE.