No Stupid Relationships Questions with Rabbi Bernath & Rochel Holtzkenner | Feat. Aleeza Ben Shalom

This episode  dances around the age-old question, "What is Love?", the exploration begins with a universal quandary: the reason we question love's essence often stems from feelings of deficiency—either doubting the love from someone special or facing accusations of insufficient love ourselves. It suggests a poignant truth: we are most inclined to philosophize about love when its presence is questioned or feels lacking, much like no one questions the nature of a pastrami sandwich whilst enjoying one. The narrative then divides the quest into two lanes: "Am I Loved?" and "Do I Love?", indicating that understanding love's impact on us can illuminate how we express love towards others. Love, as presented, is not an elusive sentiment detected by a mysterious heart's sensor but rather a series of tangible experiences perceived through our senses, validated by actions and expressions that signal to our brains and, consequently, to our hearts, the presence of love. King Solomon's words in Proverbs "As water reflects a man’s face back to him, so is the heart of one man to another" is invoked to underscore that love, at its core, is a reflection, a reciprocal action that one can feel and recognize through the treatment they receive. The episode emphasizes that love is fundamentally an action. It shifts the narrative from abstract conceptualization to practical expression, illustrating that love, akin to running or swimming, is defined by its enactment. The Hebrew word for love, "ahavah", rooted in the act of giving, encapsulates this ideology, positing that genuine love must manifest through tangible acts of kindness and care. The discussion culminates with a divine perspective on love, referencing the commandment to love G-d, not as an emotional imposition but as a directive towards actionable love. This divine instruction echoes the broader theme: love is verified and validated through actions rather than mere feelings or declarations. Takeaways: Love as Reflection and Recognition: We seek the essence of love most acutely when its presence is in doubt. True love, however, is recognized through the actions and treatment we receive and give. Love is Action, Not Just Emotion: The essence of love is captured not in abstract contemplation but in concrete actions and behaviors that convey care and affection. The Divine Instruction on Love: The command to love God highlights the action-oriented nature of love, pushing us towards deeds of kindness as the true measure of love. In essence, to question "What is Love?" is to embark on a journey from doubt to action, from introspection to expression, leading us to understand that the truest answer lies in how we act and respond to love in our lives. Love, therefore, is not just a state of being but a series of deliberate, loving actions that reflect our deepest commitments to others.

In this enlightening Instagram Live session, two renowned experts on love, dating, and marriage, Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath, come together for a heart-to-heart conversation on the intricacies of forming and maintaining successful relationships. With their unique blend of wisdom, experience, and humour, they dive into the challenges and joys of dating and marriage in the modern world, offering practical advice and insights that resonate with everyone, regardless of background. Whether you're single, dating, or married, this candid conversation will provide you with the tools and inspiration needed to navigate the complex world of relationships. What You'll Discover: The key ingredients to a successful and fulfilling relationship. Insights into the modern dating scene and how to navigate it with integrity and faith. Practical advice for singles seeking meaningful connections. Strategies for couples to deepen their relationship and overcome common obstacles. The importance of communication, understanding, and patience in building a lasting bond. About Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen: An international marriage and dating expert based in New York, Rabbi Dr. Jack Cohen has a rich background as an Orthopaedic Surgeon and a dedicated student of Rabbi Avigdor Miller Z’L. With years of expertise in human relations, mentoring singles in dating techniques, and counseling couples in marriage, he has facilitated over 500 matches worldwide. His global outreach, from the USA to Australia and beyond, through online platforms, reflects his deep commitment to guiding individuals in their quest for love and companionship. About Rabbi Yisroel Bernath: Known for his warmth and approachable style, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath stands out as a vibrant force in the world of Jewish matchmaking. As the founder of JMatchmaking International and a prolific dating coach, he has successfully made numerous matches. Beyond matchmaking, Rabbi Bernath is an accomplished author, voice-over artist, and media personality, contributing his unique perspective and expertise to the dialogue on love and relationships. Tune in to this Instagram Live session to explore the wisdom and insights of these two dynamic personalities, as they share their thoughts on love, relationships, and the pursuit of happiness. Donate Here | https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=36 Donate Here in US dollars https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=15

Sign Up for Aleeza & Rabbi's Upcoming Course: Kabbalah of Soulmates. Special OFFER just for YOU! https://go.aleezabenshalom.com/offers/BUFCWSsS/checkout In this mesmerizing episode, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath and Aleeza Ben Shalom take you by the hand and gently lead you down the enchanting paths of "The Kabbalah of Soulmates," where the mysteries of love intertwine with ancient wisdom. At a time when the world seems divided between skepticism and longing regarding the institution of marriage, our hosts illuminate the age-old question: What is love, really? With the grace of seasoned storytellers, they reveal the kabbalistic secret that every soul is split in two before descending into the world, setting the stage for a lifetime's quest not merely for compatibility, but for divine reunion. This episode isn't just about finding "The One"; it's about understanding that every step in your journey of love is a step closer to your ultimate reunion with your other half. Rabbi Bernath and Aleeza don't just talk at you; they invite you into a narrative, a conversation filled with laughter, wisdom, and perhaps a sprinkle of heavenly matchmaking. They debunk the myths of modern romance, replacing them with something far more magical: the truth that your soulmate isn't someone you find, but someone you recognize from a story written in the stars. For those married, questioning the serendipity of their union, our hosts offer solace and clarity. They weave the teachings of Kabbalah into the fabric of everyday life, illustrating how even the most mundane moments with your partner can be glimpses of the divine. Join us as we delve into "The Kabbalah of Soulmates," where Rabbi Bernath and Aleeza Ben Shalom serve not just as guides on this journey of discovery, but as companions in uncovering the profound joy and depth of soul-deep love. Whether you're single, searching, or settled, this episode promises a transformation in how you perceive love, marriage, and the invisible threads that draw us together. Tune in, and let's explore the wonders of love through the lens of Kabbalah together. After all, in the dance of the cosmos, every step, every turn, brings us closer to our other half.

Rabbi Yisroel and Sara Bernath share the essence of their 19-year-strong relationship, underlining that real-life experience is their most credible guide to discussing love and partnership. They advise looking beyond the preconceived notions of a perfect relationship, emphasizing the importance of embracing the journey's unexpected turns with an open heart. Sara's key to a lasting bond lies in adaptability and openness, suggesting that the magic of a relationship unfolds in the spontaneous moments rather than in meeting specific expectations. The Bernaths debunk the myth of a singular, ideal partner, advocating for the significance of effort and mutual growth within a relationship. Their wisdom encapsulates seeking guidance from those who have successfully navigated the complexities of love, highlighting that while relationships require work, they should enrich your life rather than feel like a chore. This candid conversation serves as a roadmap for building and maintaining a healthy, fulfilling relationship that thrives on flexibility, effort, and the joy of shared experiences. Donate Here | https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=36 Donate Here in US dollars https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=15 Upcoming Event in Edison, NJ https://edison-highland-park-singles-event.square.site/ Lots of events coming up. Check them out at www.theloverabbi.com

Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath answer questions from the IJSC students in Boston. Get ready for some serious truth bombs. Donate Here | ⁠⁠https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=36 ⁠⁠ Donate Here in US dollars ⁠⁠https://ndg.chabadsuite.net/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=15⁠⁠ Lots of events coming up. Check them out at ⁠⁠www.theloverabbi.com⁠

Rabbi Bernath & Rebbitzin Holtzkenner tackle some of your most difficult and pressing questions in this no-holds-barred evening that is sure to leave you with a lot to think about. Questions like... What is the best advice for singles to meet someone? How do you write a good dating profile? What does a healthy relationship look like? How do you build trust in a relationship? and your questions as well. Nothing will be off-limits. Are you in a relationship, looking to get into a relationship or wondering why you can’t find that special someone? It’s a fascinating blend of modern psychology and ancient Jewish wisdom. You will learn practical tips to getting into and maintaining your relationship. It’s fun, inspiring and a TAD bit controversial. Hosted by YJP Las Olas | YJP Montreal | JMontreal.com | JToronto.com | JMatchmaking.com Sponsored by Andrée & Selim Sasson, Beverley & Joseph Sasson, Nadia & Mark Sasson About Rebbitzin Rochel Holtzkenner Rochel is a mother of four children and the co-director of Chabad of Las Olas, FL, serving the community of young professionals. She is a high-school teacher and a freelance writer - and a frequent contributor to Chabad.org. She lectures extensively on topics of Kabbalah and feminism, and their application to everyday life. Rochel holds an MS in Brain Research from Nova SE University. About Rabbi Yisroel Bernath Cherished for his incredible warmth and non-judgmental personality, this hipster is not your typical rabbi. In 2012, Rabbi Bernath founded the smashing success JMatchmaking International, a network of Jewish dating sites. He has made several dozen matches to date! In addition to being a matchmaker and dating coach, Rabbi Bernath is also the author of three books, and continuously produces engaging content on his many social media & podcast platforms. As a professional voice-over artist, screen-writer, and actor, he has been a part of dozens of productions, including the hit CBC Documentary "Kosher Love". He has successfully helped hundreds of singles break through the "singles wall". His caring yet firm style has given singles the hope and clarity they need to navigate dating and long-term relationships. Find out more at http://www.theloverabbi.com ---- If you haven't made a profile yet, do so today. http://www.JMatchmaking.com Access Past Events and Recordings https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi5mua4-gkhiv7NdbJv_C7w Access Rabbi Bernath's Articles on Relationships https://medium.com/@loverabbi

A Special Discussion on Jewish Relationships for Singles and Young Adults with Rabbi Yisroel Bernath Rabbi Bernath will tackle some of your most difficult and pressing questions. In this no-holds-barred conversation that is sure to leave you with a lot to think about. Questions like... What is the best advice for singles to meet someone? How do you write a good dating profile? What does a healthy relationship look like? How do you build trust in a relationship? and your questions as well. Nothing will be off-limits. Are you in a relationship, looking to get into a relationship or wondering why you can’t find that special someone? It’s a fascinating blend of modern psychology and ancient Jewish wisdom. You will learn practical tips to getting into and maintaining your relationship. It’s fun, inspiring and a TAD bit controversial. If you haven't made a profile yet, do so today. http://www.JMatchmaking.com use marketing code: rabbisgift and it's FREE. Access Past Events and Recordings https://www.facebook.com/pg/TheLoveRabbi/videos/ Sign up for Rabbi Bernath's Relationships Podcast https://anchor.fm/the-love-rabbi/episodes/Love-Rabbi-QA-ecpnte Access my Articles on Relationships https://medium.com/@loverabbi

This event was recorded live at Neve Yerushalayim College in Jerusalem. A Special Discussion for curious minds in relationships or looking to get into one. Dating? Waiting to fall in love? Waiting until things simply feel “right?” Trying to figure out why it's not working? Join veteran matchmakers and dating coaches Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath for this lively and open discussion on Love and Relationships. This one is sure to be raw, real and a TAD bit controversial. Sponsored by Andrée & Selim Sasson, Beverley & Joseph Sasson, Nadia & Mark Sasson About Aleeza Ben ShalomAleeza Ben Shalom is the host of the widely acclaimed Netflix show, Jewish Matchmaking. She has inspired thousands of singles through her acclaimed relationship coaching and has captivated singles from all over the globe through her webinars and YouTube channel. Aleeza delivers lectures motivating and driving individuals to effect real change in their lives and has appeared on the BBC World News, NPR and many more. To learn more visit: http://MarriageMindedMentor.com  About Rabbi Yisroel BernathCherished for his incredible warmth and non-judgmental personality, this is not your typical rabbi. In 2012, Rabbi Bernath founded JMatchmaking International, a network of Jewish dating sites. He has made 106 matches (that he knows of) to date!  Find out more at http://www.theloverabbi.com Book a coaching session at: https://marriagemindedmentor.com/overyourhurdles/ Got your own question for Rabbi Bernath and Aleeza? He can be reached at [email protected] or http://www.theloverabbi.com Single? You can make a profile on www.JMatchmaking.com and Rabbi Bernath will help you find that special someone. Donate and support our work http://www.jewishndg.com/donate

A Special Discussion for curious minds in relationships or looking to get into one. Dating? Waiting to fall in love? Waiting until things simply feel “right?” Trying to figure out why it's not working? During this groundbreaking workshop you will learn five data proven methods that will allow you to reject your dates with poise and confidence. Join veteran matchmakers and dating coaches Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath for this lively and open discussion on Love and Relationships. This one is sure to be raw, real and a TAD bit controversial. Moderated by: Relationships Coach Laurie Young Hosted by Rohr Chabad NDG | Aleeza Ben Shalom | JMatchmaking.com | SawYouatSinai.com | MarriageMindedMentor.com | Seattle Shadchan Sponsored by Andrée & Selim Sasson, Beverley & Joseph Sasson, Nadia & Mark Sasson About Aleeza Ben Shalom Aleeza Ben Shalom has inspired thousands of singles through her acclaimed relationship coaching and has captivated singles from all over the globe through her webinars and YouTube channel. Aleeza delivers lectures motivating and driving individuals to effect real change in their lives and has appeared on the BBC World News, NPR and many more. She is the founder of the company Marriage Minded Mentor and author of Virtual Dating and Get Real Get Married (both of which are available on Amazon). Her mission and her passion is helping singles from around the world get over their hurdles and under the chuppah. Aleeza and her team of coaches guide singles through the steps to become engaged—regardless of age, location or background. Men and women worldwide work with Aleeza and her certified dating coaches to break through patterns and cultivate relationships that lead to marriage. She also offers online training programs for singles, dating coaches and matchmakers. With her empowering words and boundless energy she helps singles yearning for their life partner manifest their soulmate. Aleeza is a loving wife and mother of 5 children and one adorable dog! She and her family made Aliyah March 2021!!! To learn more visit: http://MarriageMindedMentor.com or www.matchmakermatchmaker.org About Rabbi Yisroel Bernath Cherished for his incredible warmth and non-judgmental personality, this is not your typical rabbi. In 2012, Rabbi Bernath founded JMatchmaking International, a network of Jewish dating sites. He has made 106 matches (that he knows of) to date! In addition to being a matchmaker and dating coach, Rabbi Bernath is also the author of three books, and continuously produces engaging content on his many social media & podcast platforms. As a professional voice-over artist, screen-writer, and actor, he has been a part of dozens of productions, including the hit CBC Documentary "Kosher Love". He has successfully helped hundreds of singles break through the "singles wall". His caring yet firm style has given singles the hope and clarity they need to navigate dating and long-term relationships. Rabbi Bernath lives in Montreal with his wife Sara and their 6 children. Find out more at http://www.theloverabbi.com About Laurie Young Laurie works across the U.S., Israel and Canada. She is passionate about helping marriage-minded observant Jewish singles find their "bashert." Her approach is personalized and focused on each client as a special and unique individual. Trained as a Wellness Coach, and subsequently as a Life Coach, then Dating Coach, Laurie brings her listening skills, insights and intuition to understand what your brain and heart desires. Book a coaching session at: https://marriagemindedmentor.com/overyourhurdles/

Matchmaker, Matchmaker...| An Online Workshop on Love and Relationships with World Renowned Aleeza Ben Shalom & Rabbi Yisroel Bernath for curious minds in relationships or looking to get into one. Waiting to fall in love? Waiting for the right one? Waiting until things simply feel “right?” What is LOVE? What is this thing that we are chasing after? Join veteran matchmakers and dating coaches Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath for a lively and open discussion on Love and Relationships. This one is sure to be raw, real and a TAD bit controversial. Plus… Aleeza and Rabbi Bernath will tackle some of your most difficult and pressing questions. In this no-holds-barred conversation that is sure to leave you with a lot to think about. Ask Your Questions or Download a FREE copy of Aleeza's Book "Get Real, Get Married". https://go.aleezabenshalom.com/matchmaker-matchmaker If you haven't made a profile yet, do so today on JMatchmaking & use marketing code: rabbisgift and it's FREE. http://www.JMatchmaking.com is open to all Jewish Singles. Our database of over 30,000 Singles We will ensure we can help you find your match. http://www.Jmatchmaking.com Book a Coaching Session with Aleeza Ben Shalom or Rabbi Bernath https://marriagemindedmentor.com/overyourhurdles/ About Aleeza Ben Shalom Aleeza Ben Shalom is a professional dating coach, in-demand speaker, expert, and author of Virtual Dating: Your guide to Relationships in a Socially Distanced World and Get Real, Get Married, your guide to “get over your hurdles and under the chuppah.” The founder of Marriage Minded Mentor, which connects singles from around the world with dating coaches, Aleeza and her team guide singles through the steps to become engaged – regardless of age, affiliation, or stage in life. A regularly featured expert in the media, Aleeza's relationship advice has appeared everywhere from BBC World News, to NPR to Aish.com. You may also recognize Aleeza from her appearance in the web series Soon By You or Eli Talks. Men and women worldwide work with Aleeza and her team to break through patterns and cultivate relationships that lead to marriage. She trains dating coaches and matchmakers and has helped hundreds of singles manifest their soulmate. Aleeza is a dedicated wife and loving mother of 5 children. To learn more visit: MarriageMindedMentor.com About Rabbi Yisroel Bernath Cherished for his incredible warmth and non-judgmental personality, this is not your typical rabbi. In 2012, Rabbi Bernath founded JMatchmaking International, a network of Jewish dating sites. He has made 104 matches (that he knows of) to date! In addition to being a matchmaker and dating coach, Rabbi Bernath is also the author of three books, and continuously produces engaging content on his many social media & podcast platforms. As a professional voice-over artist, screen-writer, and actor, he has been a part of dozens of productions, including the hit CBC Documentary "Kosher Love". He has successfully helped hundreds of singles break through the "singles wall". His caring yet firm style has given singles the hope and clarity they need to navigate dating and long-term relationships. Find out more at http://www.theloverabbi.com Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi5mua4-gkhiv7NdbJv_C7w/join