Raising securely attached kids—how our brain chemistry impacts relationships, America's breakdown of the family structure over the past century, and how you can transform your parenting with just 10 minutes a day

In this episode, Liz and Joey introduce the concept of real food and the factors that influence food decisions such as budgeting and ethical considerations. The Real Food Framework is a comprehensive resource that provides guidance and education on adopting a real food lifestyle. It is a compilation of the hosts' personal experiences, interviews with experts, and lessons learned from their own real food journey. The framework serves as a starting point for those new to real food and offers a way to refresh and ignite fresh energy for those already on the journey. It aims to empower individuals to make confident decisions about their food choices and alleviate anxiety around real food dieting. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding the principles of real food and avoiding trendy diets that may not be sustainable or beneficial in the long run.Key TakeawaysReal food is about making informed choices based on individual needs and preferences, rather than following a one-size-fits-all diet.Understanding the historical context of food can help us make better decisions about what we eat.Mitigating toxic exposure in our modern society is important for our health and the health of our families.Leveraging ingredients allows us to maximize nutrition and get the most out of our food.Optimizing the family kitchen involves making informed choices about sourcing and understanding good, better, and best options. The Real Food Framework is a comprehensive resource that provides guidance and education on adopting a real food lifestyle.It serves as a starting point for those new to real food and offers a way to refresh and ignite fresh energy for those already on the journey.The framework aims to empower individuals to make confident decisions about their food choices and alleviate anxiety around real food dieting.It emphasizes the importance of understanding the principles of real food and avoiding trendy diets that may not be sustainable or beneficial in the long run.Find Homegrown resources like the Real Food Framework HERE.Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, Dr. Julie Dean Richards shares her personal experience navigating the mainstream medical system while understanding her legal rights and bodily autonomy. She discusses her son's sudden illness, their hospital stay, and the challenges she faced as a legal professional and researcher. Julie emphasizes the importance of establishing authority, building rapport with healthcare providers, and knowing how to effectively communicate and advocate for oneself. She also highlights the value of seeking support from one's tribe, conducting research, and utilizing resources such as university libraries and legal hotlines. Julie concludes by discussing the significance of informed decision-making and the importance of knowing when to transfer care or seek legal assistance. In this conversation, Julie also discusses the Missouri v. Biden (Murthy v. Missouri) case, which involves allegations of the government coercing social media platforms to censor speech. The Supreme Court ruled that the plaintiffs did not have standing in the case, but a separate case involving RFK Jr. and others suing Meta (formerly Facebook) for censorship is ongoing. Julie also touches on the topic of chemtrails and the Clean Water Act, highlighting the issue of non-point source pollution and the impact of cloud seeding on water and air quality.Key Takeaways:Establishing authority and mutual respect when interacting with healthcare providers is crucial for effective communication and advocacy.Seeking support from one's tribe and conducting research can provide valuable information and resources.Utilizing university libraries, research librarians, and legal hotlines can help navigate legal and medical issues.Knowing when to transfer care or seek legal assistance is important for ensuring the best possible outcomes.Informed decision-making and understanding one's rights and options are key in navigating the mainstream medical system. The Supreme Court ruled that the plaintiffs in the Missouri v. Biden case did not have standing, but a separate case involving RFK Jr. and others suing Meta for censorship is ongoing.The case raises concerns about the government's ability to coerce social media platforms to censor speech, potentially impacting free speech rights.Chemtrails, or cloud seeding, is acknowledged in the Clean Water Act as a form of non-point source pollution that can introduce toxins into the environment.Awareness and advocacy are important in addressing issues related to government coercion, censorship, and environmental pollution.Find Julie HERE. Find Julie on Instagram HERE. Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, we sat down with Annabella Daily, a Nordic mother living in the U.S. who shares her observations around parenthood, America's work/life balance, and daily life in the United States compared to her Finland homeland. Annabella is a wife, mother to three boys, and a journalist who left a bustling career in media after realizing the American promise to "have it all" was not possible. Tune in to hear Annabella's story and glean wisdom from her Nordic heritage. Key Takeaways:How motherhood is portrayed in the U.S. vs. FinlandWhy American mothers appear far more stressed out and anxious than Nordic mothersWhy kids are far more capable than we thinkWhy America's obsession with safety might actually be backfiring Small ways to build autonomy and independence in your childThe major differences between U.S. cities and European citiesWhy Nordic mothers don't argue over the decision to stay at home or be a working motherThe difference between the American public school system and Nordic schoolsWhy Nordic parents are so far ahead of American parents when it comes to teaching their children life skillsWhat American parents do well despite their many disadvantages Find Annabella on Instagram HERE. Find Annabella on Substack HERE. Find Annabella on TikTok HERE. Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, we sat down with Lauren Halcik, a mother of 7, a homesteader, homebirther, and homemaker in rural Utah. Lauren shares her journey of transitioning to a whole food diet to support her oldest daughter on the autism spectrum. She also discusses the importance of involving children in farm work and household chores, allowing them to develop life skills, and relinquishing control so they can grow in their autonomy. Key TakeawaysInvolving children in farm work and household chores helps them develop skills and contribute to the familySetting high standards for children while giving them autonomy creates a culture of servanthood in the familyManaging a farm and homemaking requires prioritization and letting go of unrealistic expectationsIdentifying core values and aligning actions with those values helps navigate the challenges of motherhood and homemaking. Prioritize tasks and let go of non-essential responsibilitiesInvolve children in household chores and teach them valuable life skillsSimplify meal planning by focusing on whole foods and local produceA whole food diet can have positive effects on health and well-beingFeeding therapy can help children with sensory issues or picky eatingEmbrace discomfort and be willing to do the hard work for positive outcomesFind Lauren on Instagram HERE. Find Lauren’s farm HERE.Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, we sat down with Adam Lane Smith to discuss attachment theory. Adam shares how to identify your attachment style, how to foster a secure attachment with your own children, and how to apply those learnings to all of your relationships. TakeawaysAttachment theory focuses on the formation of healthy, loving, and collaborative relationships.There are three main attachment styles: secure, avoidant, and anxious.Attachment issues can be formed in childhood due to various factors, such as lack of bonding with parents or traumatic experiences.Birth experiences may impact attachment formation, but it is possible to improve attachment styles through explicit love and nurturing.Bonding hormones, such as oxytocin, GABA, vasopressin, and serotonin, play a crucial role in attachment and can be influenced by positive experiences.Collaboration and asking questions are essential tools for parents to create secure attachment with their children.Divorce can have a significant impact on attachment styles, and it is crucial to provide context and foster oxytocin bonding with adopted children.Couples with different attachment styles can improve their relationship by being explicit about their needs, fostering collaboration, and building a marriage agreement.The breakdown of the family structure over the past century has led to challenges in attachment and relationship dynamics.Providing a safe and nurturing environment is key to developing secure attachment in both parent-child and couple relationships. Solving problems together in a relationship opens up oxytocin receptors and fosters intimacy and connection.Avoidant attachment style is characterized by a wall up, lack of trust, and an emphasis on survival. Anxious attachment style is characterized by a fear of abandonment and a focus on pleasing others.Enmeshment is a form of insecure attachment where boundaries are poor and caretaking becomes the responsibility of the child.Secure attachment involves open and explicit communication, clear boundaries, and a focus on generosity and adjusting for reality.Attachment styles can vary in different relationships and situations, but fostering secure attachment at home is crucial for healthy relationships outside the home.Nature and genetics may play a role in attachment, but it is the parent's job to nurture and guide their child towards secure attachment.Building a self-correcting family system where open communication and resolution of issues is encouraged is more important than striving for perfection as a parent.Find Adam Lane Smith HERE. Find Adam Lane Smith on Instagram HERE. Find Adam Lane Smith on YouTube HERE. Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, we sat down with Dr. Jack Wolfson of Natural Heart Doctor. As a traditionally trained cardiologist, Dr. Jack found himself following in his father's footsteps until he was awakened to the pitfalls of modern medicine. Tune in to hear why Dr. Jack transitioned to holistic heart care and what you can do to improve your heart health today. Key Takeaways:Dr. Jack Wolfson's journey from conventional cardiology to holistic careCritiquing the pharmaceutical industry's influence on medical guidelinesThe importance of whole, real foods in preventing heart diseaseChallenging the conventional view of cholesterol and statin drugsThe impact of dental health on heart health and the oral microbiomeThe benefits of adopting a paleo diet, which includes organic, grass-fed meats, wild seafood, fruits, vegetables, and healthy fatsWhy engaging in high-intensity interval training and outdoor activities is beneficial for cardiovascular fitnessWhy medications like Ozempic should be approached with caution, as they may have negative side effects and are not a long-term solution for weight lossWhy consuming seafood, which is rich in omega-3 fatty acids, is important for heart healthTaking a holistic approach to wellness, including addressing environmental factors and making informed choices, is key to maintaining heart healthFind Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, we sat down with Will Harris of White Oak Pastures for another conversation around sustainability and agriculture. Will's recent book, A Bold Return to Giving A Damn provides the foundation for today's podcast. Tune in to hear why Will believes consumers ought to start questioning the cheapness of their food and the true cost of modern agriculture.  Find Will Harris and White Oak Pastures HERE. Find White Oak Pastures on Instagram HERE. Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, we share a recap of our real food journey and dive into our objectives and goals as a family moving forward. Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, we sat down with Daniel Firth Griffith to discuss his latest book, Stagtine. Daniel shares how our view of regenerative agriculture can be stretched far beyond the conversation around soil health and animal welfare. He introduces us to the topic of field harvesting and shares why the way in which our animals are killed is as important as how it's raised.Tune in to our FIRST episode with Daniel Firth Griffith to hear more of his story HERE. Find Daniel Firth Griffith's book, Stagtine HERE. Find Timshel Wildland HERE. Find Daniel Firth Griffith on Instagram HERE. Find more of Daniel Firth Griffith HERE.Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

In this episode, we sat down with integrative pediatrician, Dr. Joel Gator, to discuss the importance of your child's first years. Dr. Joel shares how parents can take an active role in preventing chronic illness, society's obsession with avoiding shame when it comes to educating parents on healthier choices, reversing diagnoses like autism, and ways to utilize modern medicine and holistic health care as a team. Check out today’s sponsor, Nutrition Therapy Institute HERE.Find Dr. Joel Gator on Instagram HERE. Find Dr. Joel Gator's new book, Parenting at Your Child's Pace HERE. Find Dr. Joel Gator's parenting community HERE. Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.