S5E21: He Seemed Like a Nice Guy Until He Wasn’t

You planned the outfit. You picked the spot. You even texted your location to a friend. Because dating today isn’t just about finding a connection — it’s about staying safe.In this gripping episode, Andrea sits down with a Central Coast law enforcement investigator to get real about the hidden risks of modern dating. From chilling stats on sexual assault to the steps you must take to protect yourself, this conversation is your unofficial survival guide for dating in today’s world.They cover why most assaults are committed by someone the victim already knows, how alcohol clouds consent, what bystanders can do to prevent harm, and why reporting — even without prosecution — still matters.This isn’t just a podcast. It’s a wake-up call.Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault and may be difficult for some listeners.If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, you're not alone.You can call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org for 24/7 confidential support and resources.Follow the Date Smarter Sexier Podcast and for more tips:https://www.instagram.com/datesmartercoach/ https://www.tiktok.com/@datesmarter https://www.facebook.com/datesmartersexier www.datesmartermatchmaking.com Order your copy of: ⁠⁠Get the Girl: Dating the High Value Woman⁠

You’re vibing… and then suddenly, they chew too loudly, say “cool beans,” or text you one too many emojis — and BAM. The ick strikes. But what if it’s not just a silly turnoff? In this episode, we break down what the ick actually is (spoiler: it’s deeper than cringe), when it’s a legit warning sign, and when it might be self-sabotage in disguise. Get ready for some wild real-world ick stories, a little expert insight, and a whole lot of hmm, maybe it’s me moments.Follow the Date Smarter Sexier Podcast and for more tips:https://www.instagram.com/datesmartercoach/https://www.tiktok.com/@datesmarterhttps://www.facebook.com/datesmartersexierwww.datesmartermatchmaking.comOrder your copy of: ⁠Get the Girl: Dating the High Value Woman⁠

In this part 2 episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa (www.datesmartersexier.com) discusses the symptoms of a basic sex life with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaandewey.com).

In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa (www.datesmartersexier.com) discusses every man's favorite topic, his penis and the evolution of the penis, with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaandewey.com) and SPECIAL GUEST Dr. Nathan.

In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa (www.datesmartersexier.com) discusses the effects of hook-up culture on dating and relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaandewey.com) and SPECIAL GUEST Gabrielle Rivera Valdón.

In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discuss 'Valentines Day v.s Super Bowl LVII 2023' and which takes priority for couples this year with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.Follow:Andrea www.datesmartersexier.comCanaan www.canaandewey.comSend your questions to: [email protected] us on IG: @datesmartershowFacebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier-*Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company 

In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa (www.datesmartersexier.com) discusses the many, many sexual fetishes that exist with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey (www.canaandewey.com).

Forget chemistry — are you bringing financial baggage to your next first date?When is the right time to talk money with someone you're dating? And do you really need to have your financial life fully figured out before you start swiping right? In this episode, I sit down with Amy Spandau, financial strategist and founder of Ablaze, to explore the tricky (and often taboo) intersection of love and money. From cash flow to commitment, we tackle the real questions singles are asking — but the answers might surprise you. Tune in to find out why timing, transparency, and your true financial story could change everything... if you’re brave enough to have the conversation.About Amy Spandau:Amy is a financial strategist, founder’s ally, and the visionary behind Ablaze, a boutique financial services firm helping entrepreneurs master their cash flow and scale confidently. With 25 years in corporate finance across startups, Fortune 500s, and global enterprises, she’s seen the big wins, the tough pivots, and the hidden stories numbers reveal. In 2022, Amy left the corporate world to build a life focused on meaningful work, helping founders turn financials into roadmaps for growth. Based in Laguna Beach, she now spends her days advising entrepreneurs, raising her Doberman Rhea, and soaking up the ocean life.Follow Amy:Ablaze Website: https://www.ablazefinancial.com/https://www.instagram.com/amyjspandau/https://www.instagram.com/ablazefinancial/ Follow the Date Smarter Sexier Podcast and for more tips:https://www.instagram.com/datesmartercoach/https://www.tiktok.com/@datesmarterhttps://www.facebook.com/datesmartersexierwww.datesmartermatchmaking.comOrder your copy of: ⁠⁠Get the Girl: Dating the High Value Woman⁠

In this Season 4 Premiere episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses what she'll be covering this season with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.Follow:Andrea www.datesmartersexier.comCanaan www.canaandewey.comSend your questions to: [email protected] us on IG: @datesmartershowFacebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier-*Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company

In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa is answering your questions about relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan John Dewey.Follow:Andrea www.datesmartersexier.comCanaan www.canaandewey.comSend your questions to: [email protected] us on IG: @datesmartershowFacebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier-*Episode Sponsored by The GENTLEMN Company